>>16636874
Food shelf?

Also:
>bumming off friends, maybe offering to do something for them in exchange
>dumpster diving
>drinking hot water to feel more full

Not that it's our business really, but what happened?

>>16636874
Food bank

>>16636872
yeah, and i think that you shouldn't think that you're "stooping down" or else your sense of superiority will cause you to alienate yourself and you wont make any real connections

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Just curious: what kind of old obscure things are you into? Can you give examples?

Beefheart, Zappa, Early Butthole Surfers (LAT), John Frusciante, Pink Floyd, The Beatles, Cake, Eric Satie, etc.

>>16636871
God dammit that faggot again

Am I missing something? What makes you think he came from here?

>>16636880

Because there's this guy that keeps on posting bullshit questions about people's job decisions.

And he apparently is plagued by large amounts of autism.

You shouldn't worry about this stuff. What you're describing just sounds really silly to me.

Just don't engage the whole thing any further.

>>16636852
I'm not planning on talking to her again, more worried about what she says about me to mutual friends and I'm not sure how it sounds to a 3rd party

I FEEL YOU

>>16636807
Match your syntax to the seriousness of the message. I do this on 4chan with my posts all the time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vn22q5xU_HQ

>>16636805
You're acting like a man, and your bf like a woman. Swap roles, you'll feel better. And you won't be insecure about it anymore.

>>16636821
But I don't want to be a man. I'm not transgender and neither is my boyfriend. My problem is that I am a very masculine girl that wants to be a cute and feminine girl.

Uh, okay. Apart from your "chiseled manjaw", which, frankly, I'm a little skeptical about -- not an insult, it just sounds like you have some self-image problems -- you just described yourself as a confident, nigh dominant, woman with a low voice (something plenty of people find attractive.) Are you quite sure these are problems?

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>>16636782
>I find my crush and we end up talking for what feels like hours as we walk around outside, share a cigarette, and sober up
>she tells me she isn't happy
>her bf puts his hands on her and says mean things to her to boss her around
>she feels distant from him and everyone else, and is now too embarrassed to rejoin the party
>we literally spend the next hour sitting under the stars talking about our relationships, our lives, and what we want
>she gets closer and I put my arm around her
>we end up just getting real quiet, holding each other
>she starts telling me that she knows this is "it" for us, that after tonight we probably won't see each other again because the office changed her position to a different department
>I feel my heart and stomach sink, tell her that that can't be true I will find a way to hang out with her
>she then tells me that she is happy with one thing
>says she knows what she wants now, and it's a relationship with a guy who supports her and makes her feel special, somebody who's stable and can always make her smile
>she then puts her hand in my lap and tells me it's me, and has always been me
>she knows the way I look at her, the way we talk and how we flirt
>she knows I want it too and wants me to say yes so bad
>but she knows I have a gf and although it's not my ideal relationship things seem okay and I shouldn't leave her just because some cute coworker told me to
>I start choking up a little
>I tell her I really like her too, that she's right about everything
>but I can't just leave my gf like that, I can't be "that guy" and what would her bf think?
>she gets serious and then says, "but why are you rubbing my back, anon? why are out here with me, listening and making me the most valuable person to you in this moment? why do you care so much about me if it isn't for this one moment you were hoping I might say I liked you back?"

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>>16636787

>I really start choking back tears now
>"I'm so sorry... I want to... I just don't know what the right thing to do is. You're everything I want. I really care about you. I mean it every day when I say you're wonderful or fantastic or hilarious or anything. But I've never done this and I can't just leave my gf like that."
>"Well... she didn't have a problem leaving you, anon....
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Why did you office throw a banger?

I mean really, beer pong at an office party?

>same name
>same code

who do you think you are fooling nigga?

You've clearly failed at failing, so you deserve what's coming to you.

Obviously, you can keep lying your ass off - and if you do that, I hope the consequences are terrible.

Well, assuming that he turned in his stuff as well she'll probably put them side by side and see how you pretty much copied it. And even if he didn't she would probably ask him what the fuck happened and then he'd for sure know you copied his shit.

I mean, wow. You really fucked up. You left the guys fucking NAME there!

>Separating at a party
>Not serving your girl drinks and keeping her in one place
It's like you want to get cheated on.

>>16636698

Definitely not. I will say that it's silly to ask any of these sorts of questions on /adv/ though, most people here will be willing to tell you ANY kind of suspicious or maybe out of the ordinary behaviour is 100% cheating.

However in this case that does seems weird as fuck and I would suggest you firmly press the issue until you get the truth.

>>16636698
If that really happened then the answer is obvious.

That is a really weird train of thought, dude.

If she was uncomfortable, she would've said so. You're not expected to be a mind-reader, and spontaneous make-outs are great if everyone is on board. It sounds like she was on board. Don't overthink it.

>>16636599
op

(a) stop being a faggot. women like it when you take charge. she enjoyed it. grow a pair of balls.

(b) after you break up she will say whatever kissing or sex you had together was rape anyway, so you might as well enjoy it.

this is the best advice you're ever going to get. sorry if that hurts someone's feelings, but not really.

I'm with you, OP. This one time I had sex with my girlfriend but there was nobody else at home so in a hypothetical situation I could have beaten her savagely. It's months later and our relationship is still running smooth, but the fear that it's only like that because I raped her so thoroughly she's been silenced into submission is slowly eating away at my mind.

>>16636530
A lot of times, places only hire because they legally have to, but... a lot of times, they already have a candidate pre-chosen.

>>16636538
insightful ...thanks

>>16636530

Qualification isn't the only reason you get hired. There are a lot of elements, like how you fit with the team. Sometimes that matters more than anything - and you sound a bit arrogant.

>>16636510

Just watched that today, and it was shit.

You chose a shitty gf

She thought you were clingy, and she might be right.

You are a real piece of shit, man

If you don't report him, someone else will. And when that happens, he'll come clean about you blackmailing him, which is equally illegal. It might even go further than blackmail, since you would have known about it and done nothing. Either report him, or don't, but don't try to use this situation to your advantage because you're not going to win.

>>16636439

what for? finding random public albums? Trust me, if i was a real piece of shit I would ask this on /b/.

>>16636440

makes sense. he's just taken the pics 15-16 days ago so eventually someone will discover them.

So, Where can I report it? Google would only remove the pics probably but would FBI be interested in this? Would they need my testimony and stuff? I'm asking because I don't know how these stuff work in USA.

>>16636430
You have gotten farther than most people without those conditions. You need to continue to stay the course as hard as it is, eventually the seas will calm down to were you can handle it better. Also, if the girl shows you interest, go for it, it might improve your outlook.

>>16636430
>your life story
And, what do you need advice on?

>>16636445
just how to deal with my shit. It's far from my life story. It's just an explanation of the darkness in my head

Dont really need to read the entire story OP, sounds like you think that she holds her dad in such high regard, and you look at him like a piece of shit...youre afraid hes going to start fucking with your relationship?

>>16636397
Tater sounds charming, wait 6 years.

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I ask her how she thinks it went. She says she thinks it went okay. Over the next few months I occasionally see her dad, and I always try to strike up a conversation with him and he still gives me the cold shoulder.

Eventually my girlfriend tells me that her dad thinks I'm an asshole, even though I've always been cordial with him in person.

One day I'm looking through her phone and read her conversation with her dad. He's been calling me a fag, a bitch, a loser, and a douche behind my back. I ask my girlfriend about it and she says that she...
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