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Feel like maybe I don't like any I used so far. I want something very me but it's hard coming up with good ones. Ideas? Suggestions? There really should be a guide linked on homepage desu
It's not that hard to come up with a retarded tripname.
Fuck, I did it.
>>16761540
Tripfags are scum of the Earth.
See:Truckerfag. Probably a serial killer preying on hookers and hitchhikers.
>>16761548
Yeah but I don't want a retarded name. Want a nice one that clearly exemplifies my best characteristics? Or something.
>>16761561
Funny you should mention him. He suggested I trip up again, and is the reason for the thread existing.
Just getting out of a 2 year relationship (blah blah blah). Long story short- She's moving out and I have a 2 bedroom/ 2 bathroom apartment all to myself.
The only problem is that now everything still looks like a couples apartment. What are some staple bachelor pad items? This is my first time living 100% by myself with no roommates.
I've got a tv/ surround sound system, nice dinner table, futon (I don't like), queen sized bed, and a few computers. I need decoration and practical furniture.
I'm 24, done with college, with an "expendable" budget of ~$400/month. All the furniture I find around here is either way over budget or looks like a college dorm setup. I like simple, clean, and functional.
Any advice would be much appreciated.
>>16761116
congrats. the big thing here is that its kind of up to you. things may be overpriced but you can also save up or considering getting a credit card to buy it now and paying it off 300 bucks at a time.
one thing you can do is google 'cool things for bachelor pad' and look at all the lists that come up. another you can do is just go to craigslist and look at what cheap furniture they have there that fits your style. another thing you can do is go to pinterest and look at variations for things like...
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>>16761138
make sure to google things like 'cool' and 'decoration'. most of the list that come up are like
>HURR DURR GET SOME POTS AND PANS CUZ LUL XD MEN DONT KNOW HOW TO COOK BUT THEY NEED TO LEARN
is all thats coming up. one thing you can do is look for cool pictures of bedrooms nad living rooms and just remodel everything you can to look like it, one piece at a time
Why dont you go with minimalism for now until you find stuff that you really like and THEN buy it?
You dont have to blow your expendable income on shit you dont really want just to fill up your apartment.
>Be dorky girl who looks 8/10 AT BEST if I'm your type.
>Have major crush on guy couple years older than me very popular in college who's 9/10 on average day; never met him
>Now we're both graduated
Is there a way to ask him out in a non-creepy way through social media aka Facebook and not come off as a creepy random ass stranger, and not be rejected?
>>16761029
>8/10 at best
So you're more like a 4 or 5 by the real worlds standards. Adv standards are horribly low.
>8/10 at best
Thats actually pretty attractive and you should be turning heads if thats the case. Anyway you never met him so he probanly has no idea who you are. If you want to you can try hanging around places he goes to and strike up a convo there or ty and find him on okc, but dont fb him, that is weird.
>>16761029
if you just want to fuck him then yeah, be forward and be easy. you'll ride Chad's cock and he'll move on.
I am bored.
Ask a 33 year old kissless virgin anything
>>16760807
how often do you think of ending it?
Why are you a virgin?
>>16760807
do u have powers
Boyfriend said he's super uncomfortable with the fact of me being bi. Still dating but every day he brings it up and gets visibly saddened by it. Idk what to do /adv/, its really awkward and I can't change how I feel towards people. I never even mention girls around him but he's physically going out of the way to keep me from being around attractive girls. Any /adv/?
>>16760631
as long as we're monogamous i don't really give a fuck what your sexual preference is. just opens up the possibility of a MFF threesome if everyone is cool with it.
>>16760631
I wouldn't date a bi girl unless she's pretty much perfect and never been with a girl before me. It's just too fucking weird imo.
I'd date a bi girl, but then, I'm bi.
Does he think it makes you more likely to cheat or something? I don't see the issue. :s
My girlfriend claims to love me yet she is always posting pictures of hunky, bearded men on her FB and commenting with other women on them. She tells me its just fun. I can't help but feel totally inferior and ashamed compared to the male model guys she seems to obsess over. I could never be those guys, I'm simply not attractive, well built or hirsute enough.
If I posted pictures of glamour girls or catwalk models on my social media, she's get all insecure I'm sure. Why do women do this? Why are unashamed in lusting after men that their boyfriends...
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Think of it this way, SHE'LL NEVER GET A MODEL TO GO OUT WITH HER.
>>16760525
she's trying to give you a hint to get to the gym and take care of yourself more.
shit ain't complicated nigga. she's too much of an aspie to communicate properly.
>>16760536
True, but she could do better than me. Even average girls can date very hot guys these days, I see it often enough
Hey, i'm attempting noporn/nofap, since i can't maintain a fully erect erection since a lot of time. I'm on day 2. I have this burning feeling of my chest that is hard to ignore, sometimes it's even hard to breath, and it would only go away with i masturbated. Everytime i think of porn or fantasy about it i immediatly distract myself, but this feeling in my chest still persists. How can i fare well in my noporn/nofap to regain my healthy erections? I have a high-as-fuck sex drive, and am single and not in a favorable situation for casual hookups at the moment(not...
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>>16760494
how long ago did you have sex and fail to maintain an erection?
cutting back on masturbation will help.
your "medical" issue makes no sense. having respiratory issues because of not ejaculating? it makes no fucking sense. it's just in your head or you're jumping to desperate conclusions.
nigga, go get laid.
>>16760516
>How long since last physical sex;
2 years.
I'm legitimately having symtoms of panic attacks. I've had those before for not masturbating once i got horny. I am addicted to porn. I've noticed i rarely, very rarely, get a full erection. I lose about 1 inch and half everytime because i never get fully erect, and once i did, i was like ''woah, i'm this big?'', i don't even remember the circumstances. Also all erections are so ''softly''...
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>I have this burning feeling of my chest that is hard to ignore, sometimes it's even hard to breath
Medfag reporting, this could well be an unrelated issue, and you're just mentally blaming the lack of fapping. Burning feeling in the chest is a 911 call buddy, no exceptions.
How do you stop wishing you had an interesting, worthwhile cultural identity?
Remind yourself that at least you're not a nigger
>>16760394
Nope. Not working.
A nigger with my advances and education would be massively popular where I'm from purely for being one.
>>16760405
Then use your fucking advances and education.
If you've had 8 hours of sleep and you're not hungry and you're not thirsty and you don't want sex, you've had enough exercise for the day and you've got entertaining things to do and you still keep craving something, what the hell do you want?
There's a vague craving and it won't go away and it's driving me off the goddamn walls.
>>16760324
you're craving happiness anon.
>>16760331
how do I make it stop.
>>16760338
you post sad frog memes on /adv/
How do I make a guy fall for me if I'm not physically attractive?
>>16760236
If the guy's history tells you that he doesn't like chubby/ugly girls then you should meditate wether he's worth the effort of losing weight or not.
Offer to suck dick or become attractive.
Find someone who actually wants to be with you and whom you have chemistry with.
If interest isn't requited, you move on.
>feel free to try to become more attractive I guess, if by that you mean like losing weight and getting better with makeup
What's that status quo on crushing on someone currently in a relationship? Drop it or try anyway?
>>16759595
Don't be a prick. Respect their relationship.
>>16759595
you get one shot at life, burn everything to the ground to get what you want
>>16759649
Don't do this. You'll poison your spoils if you get them by means you can't live with.
I'm confused and need some help working through it.
So, I'm getting married on Valentine's Day. Awesome! And I'm sitting in a resort hotel room, with the ocean lapping a stone's throw from my window. My fiancé is out getting a massage and I'm laying in bed thinking about my life. And I'm confused. Five years ago, this is all I would have hoped for, but now? Maybe I want out.
My fiancé is well off, to say the least. I am extremely not well off. I have never been able to afford a car and have taken public transportation most of my life. We flew here in her father's private jet. I am still uncomfortable about the money she has, but she has made it clear that the money means nothing, and that's that. I still feel insecure. We are both late twenties. She is a little bit away from finishing medical school, and I'm a (so far) failed writer. There's more to it than that, but I want to make it clear: our circumstances are very different. To top it off, she is a knockout; she is a literal 9.5/10. I'm 100 pounds overweight. I have given up on sharing in the outdoorsy activities she enjoys. Despite all this, I love her and she loves me.
I have crippling anxiety that it just can't work out. We have been together for three years, and over the past two years I've been cheating on her constantly. I developed gonorrhea about six months back but managed to treat it before she became aware (of course, we were traveling; I pretended I was sick for three days and couldn't do anything). She wants children immediately and I do not. And my weaknesses overshadow hers... My infidelity, that I sometimes slip into mild abuse, that she gives in too easily, and that she doesn't really consider her own feelings... We both have our issues.
I am afraid to be with her, but Im afraid to not be with her, too. Life with her is a guarantee at all my dreams coming true and, if we have kids, that my progeny will have wonderful lives. But I don't know if I'm ready. I don't know. That's about it.
You're the same guy that posted a thread a week ago, you used the same picture. It sounds like to me you realise how dishonest you're being, what are you going to do if she ever finds out?! Also, how can you say that you truly love her, if she did the same thing you were doing behind your back?! YOU'D BE FURIOUS.
>>16759399
She deserves better.
So, either become the man she deserves, or leave her and let her find someone else.
I suggest the first option. Use her as an inspiration to improve your own life. Start with getting fit. A healthy body and mind are a good place to start when looking for motivation
>>16759399
Cold feet is normal, go be with her. Otherwise you will regret it
Is there any guys in here who have been successful on completely giving up on girls? Likewise for girls giving up on guys?
It's just frustrating. It's a emotional roller coaster every fucking time. It's a ride I don't want to get on anymore yet because I'm a human being, my mind still thinks of girls. I just want this to end. How can I stay focused off girls so I don't have to deal with this emotion anymore?
>>16758219
>Is there any guys in here who have been successful on completely giving up on girls?
Cut your dick off and move to the woods.
If that seems like too much work then suck it the fuck up.
Dealing with women and relationships fucking sucks, we all have to do it, you're not special.
>>16758231
>we all have to deal with it
Why should we all have to?
>>16758219
>Is there any guys in here who have been successful on completely giving up on girls? Likewise for girls giving up on guys?
Yep.
Just find a passion and pursue that. Don't seriouslt talk to any girls. Dont compliment them, dont go out to eat or hang out with them, d
Is it normal for a sister to do this?
>My older sister moved in with me a few months ago.
>She walks around my apartment in a thong sometimes , like I'm not even there or something.
Does anyone else's sister do that? I'd assume this is relatively normal , or at least not horribly weird. I haven't said anything to her about it.
it's normal "alone in the house" behavior. Either she wants to fuck, she wants you to *want* to fuck her. or she doesn't even really think about it.
My money's on the middle option. Bitches love attention.
>>16757182
What the fuck is this incest shit? The last option is by far the most likely one. She also might just be lazy as fuck.
My sister mostly walks around the house in a bathrobe, but I live with my parents.
>>16757182
I'm afraid you diddn't read the OP right.
but I'm way more afraid that you did.
My best female friend had an abortion. Shes been trying to play it off as no big deal but I can tell shes upset by it. She tries to talk about it but I immediately change the subject and run away.
I do this because I disapprove enough to consider breaking off our friendship but I dont want to face that reality yet so Im just running.
What should I be prepared for when we talk about this?
You should probably be prepared to learn why she got an abortion.
>>16773364
What are some good reasons too?
>>16773405
Ask her.
