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There's a wheelchair qt at my uni and I plan to hide a camera in the disabled bathroom to get some nice clips of her.
Is there anything I should know about what I'm about to do? How to get good clips, how to avoid getting caught and such.
Kill yourself
>>16758022
bruh, just follow her in, knock her to the ground, stuff her mouth with some clothing and have your way with you.
>>16758022
is this a fetish or you're just scared to approach?
Hi guys,
Basically one of my friends is really in love with her bf (both each others firsts), they've been together for about 7 months and they both plan to go to college in socal. Is it a good idea to go to the same college and stay together? I've told her its a bad idea and that they should go their seperate ways, but she's conflicted. Do you guys think they could/should go to the same school?
>>16757797
that's their choice you autist.
>>16757797
The fuck do you care?
>>16757797
>really in love with her bf
>7 months
kek, this is just the honeymoon fase, college will take this away really fast.
Hi /adv/, hope you're all having a nice day. I didn't really know where else to go, so I though I'd just make a thread here.
I am a 20 year old male virgin and I want to completely destroy my sex drive for the foreseeable future. I have already made my mind up about this and there's probably not much you can say that will convince me otherwise but you are welcome to try.
I have already found out that lowering testosterone is one of the best ways of reducing sex drive. This can be accomplished by cardiovascular exercise and avoiding meats such as beef, pork and chicken, which contain high protein levels. Another potential factor is to consume Vitex agnus-castus, also known as Chasteberry or monk's pepper. Apparently this herb has been used since the middle ages to make it easier for monks to remain celibate, something I wish to mimic. There is no "proper" scientific evidence to back this but it's been used for many centuries and has no known adverse effects,
I think accepting the fact that I'll never find love or have sex is an obstacle in the way toward more meaningful goals, and I think I can either eliminate or convert the sexual energy into something better.
If anyone else has had a similar experience then I would love to hear how things went for you, and I will also be happy to answer your questions.
>>16757050
what are your 'more meaningful goals'?
>>16757050
As long as you're lowering your test levels (and not doing some irreversible stupid stuff like balls surgery or something), you should be fine. If you ever feel the need to undo it, you should be able to do it without any major problems.
I admire your courage. I have gave a lot of thought to that idea, and it seems very appealing - but then again, I'm not a virgin and I love female body too much to leave it forever. It's like a drug of some kind for me.
>>16757056
Anything that excludes women.
If you think that women are a meaningful goal on their own, you're probably still 18.
>>16757083
>if you think that women are a meaningful goal on their own, you're probably still 18
>anything that excludes women
first off, gay here, so there's that. but even then, ive been single for 3 years and i frankly just dont date. all my major relationships end because they are not compatible with my life goals.
but with that being said, i actually have life goals. you dont. you make big talk like you're mature for realizing you're too ugly to get women (and there fore they must not be meaningful!!1!) yet you are trying ot base your entire world view around specifically avoiding them.
if you had some actual goals id be inclined to welcome you to the 'pack of one' but when your goals boil down to
>anything that excludes women
you arent actually trying to do anything meaningful. ur just being an edge-lord who DID base all of his life around women before realizing he cant get a cute one.
so good luck with that.
>in college
>roomie talking about this girl he likes
>invites her over
>she hates me immediately
>constantly tease her regardless
>starts hanging out with our friend group everyday
>roomie makes a move
>gets friend zoned
>gets used as an emotional sponge
>is caring and deeply concerned about her issues
>she comes and tells me the same thing
>I just point out that shes overreacting and start teasing her again
>now shes constantly sitting in my lap
How fucked up is this situation. She got drunk on day and was all over me. She apparently doesnt like me but feels comfortable enough around me to kiss me and let me touch her.
Now I dont like her romantically but Im not gay and shes hot. But I do feel bad that she isnt directing this level of comfort to my roomie since hes kinda crushed by it.
That being said I doubt he would have the balls to touch her.
Fuck her but secretly film it and give your roomate the vid so he can jack off to it.
>>16757039
sounds to me like she is just being tsundere. it happens. a surprisingly large amount. i thought it was just an animeme but ill often meet someone who seems totally not itno me and by the end of the night my penis has been in several of their orifices.
sounds to me like she had eyes for you from the start and when you started teasing her, it became a love hate relationship type deal
>>16757043
That's an option.
Is it possible to have meaningful sex with your partner and also fun, horny sex with them, where at the end of the day, after everything, they still see you in a respectful manner and treat you that way as well?
Umm, that's how sex in a relationship always should be.
I assume you want to try some more kinky stuff?
>>16756755
so you want to be treated like an animal in bed but still want to be respected afterwards
hmm thats hard
I don't see why the hell you couldn't.
If you can't separate someone's kinks or (less kinky) sexual interests from the actual person then you are an idiot.
I need massive change, anons
>32yo male artist
>painting, installation, relational aesthetics, writing
>somewhat successful, but not very productive in recent years
>been depressed
>apaphy, can spend whole day in bed
>massive amounts of dept
>will be losing art studio soon
>part time job of 3 years which I'm starting to hate
>job interferes with artistic practice
>drink away most of the money I earn anyway
>want to move to another city
>want to be financially independent
>got Avoidant Personality Disorder
>fear of being famous
>being famous would help me achieve most problems
How can /x/ help me self-hypnotise or inb4 law of attraction to get rid of my apathy and fear of success, and actually start living the life of a successful artist, when there's always been so much potential?
I was promised big things in life. I've seen very little adversity. Being fucked up in my head, I chose to self-sabotage and create struggle out of nothing for no reason, and now I can't go on any longer without fixing my past mistakes.
I'm dead serious, I need some I-Ching voodoo tier hacking into the matrix type of approach. Programming of the morphic field, re-writing my paradigm.
you sound like you need a gf
>being famous would help me achieve most problems
how do you know this
>>16756515
I've been suffering from oneitis with several women throughout my twenties. I've started embracing polyamory in the past years. Regularly sleeping with my lover of 5 1/2 years and another woman I recently got intimate with, atm. No intention of getting exclusive with anyone, but like to keep things long term with the women in my life.
>>16756519
Being a famous artist working in my primary medium would entail selling a lot of my work. My paintings go for about $1200 for meter squared, now. Moderately well-known artists (in my country) let their paintings go for up to around $30.000
You do the math
Is there anyone else here who doesn't drink or use other drugs? Seems like this entire site is full of drunks and stoners.
>>16756459
I'm clean.
I'm also the most boring person you will ever known.
>>16756459
I don't drink because it upsets my stomach.
However I smoke weed like a fucking degenerate in my 20s'.
>>16756476
That's not what I'm looking for.
In a LDR and she says this.
That's rough.. I know that feel. Me and my QT talk about kissing, and cuddling all the time. Well, I asked her the other day if we could go official. And she said that she doesn't want a relationship at all and all this shit. I was really hurt, then she said this
http://pastebin.com/jpDFJqT4
it's crazy how we can care so much for each other. But she doesn't want a actual relationship.
I forgave her, and accept we are just friends. But I still care a ton about her, and we plan to meet again soon
All this, over changing her Facebook status? Jesus Christ, OP. Grow up. You're lucky she sticks around
>>16756022
I read her message. Seems like she was the type that was indecisive. Many girls out there will take you for what you did with her. A woman wants to get pampered so it's good to have some cash for your dates to get a bite and drink and just walk and talk.
>>16756030
I feel as though in very lucky.
On average, how long should post-break up radio silence be? I'm losing feelings and getting over things much faster than I thought I would, but she hasn't responded to anything since I asked how she was doing last night. A few days ago she asked me to respect her request for silence but I thought I'd still ask since I'm the cause of some emotional distress.
We broke up a week ago and I was completely devestated. Flash forward to now and now it's like she's completely in the past. I even saw her today at work and didn't really feel anything towards her.
Should I just give it another week or so before trying any contact? She still looks at my Snap Story, if that matters.
I broke up with my girlfriend a ten days ago and I can't bring myself to talk with her yet even though we eventually need to (for better or worse, I haven't decided; I need more space still). it's been 100% radio silence on my part, too. I was guessing it was going to take me about three weeks, but I'm playing it by ear.
That info help you?
>>16755446
When the break up was happening, she insisted that she still enjoyed our friend dynamic and would like to continue that. Due to the reasons behind our break up, we couldn't try being a couple again for years so I'm not super interested in that. I just kinda want to be friends again.
>>16755446
Why would you talk to her again? She is your ex now.
How do i make man eat me out more
>ask him
He's just like "umm yeah maybe" and then doesn't do it
>withdraw sex
"Why you not horny?"
Should I withdraw blowjobs? I do it pretty much every time because all he wants to do is fuck and that's fucking boring. He's even kissing me less in bed. I cum after a minute so maybe I should just stop there and make him masturbate to finish.
>>16754367
Because of your pussy's smells?
>>16754367
Stop being childish. Dont make someone do something they dont want to do. I dont give my gf oral. She gives me oral. But even if she stopped I wouldnt do oral.
If you want oral express how important it is to you and ask his thoughts about it.
With holding sex is considered a form of abuse in a relationship and you shouldnt be surprised if he starts looking else where.
Wash between you're legs, don't be fat and keep the bush trim.
Two sides of the meme - teachings about how life, character-evolution, lifelessons, ancient teachings and all the stuff about knowledge is one side of the meme.
The other side (jakobs character traits) as critical thinking, news, structure behind things, show situations in reaife that teach you something or always happens (situation of 'dont go too far - or something will happens [for example, me playing computer games and I want this one chest, even if I dont have time or there are many guards around - 'dont be greedy') and everything that helps people to wake up.
Both are needed; one is the structure, the other is the information side.
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Evie003
Does it make me an awful person if I can't respect Christianity and it's beliefs and those who believe them?
I used to believe them, but then I realized that it's a crock of shit. But I respected the beliefs and those who sincerely held to them.
My late girlfriend told me when we met that she was agnostic after I said I was somewhere on the agnostic-athiest spectrum (Not a special snowflake). She then refused to become more intimate with me and when I asked why, she told me that she had lied and that she was a christian. Not just one who went to church for friends and to placate parents for uni money. A believer.
She told me because she thought I wouldn't love her like I did if she told the truth. Almost as if she knows her beliefs are full of shit.
This level of betrayal and deception, added to the amount of things they've done to my country, my friends, my world and my own head is too much. I hate believers, every single one of them is a sinner and a liar.
>>16756431
>I hate believers, every single one of them is a sinner and a liar.
If you don't believe, how can you think anyone is a "sinner", since that only exists in a believers construct?
And if they believe, by definition, they are not lying.
Your argument doesn't make sense.
If you hate people for being less than perfect you will never be happy. God, the Nature of Reality - people are always in a constant understanding of what these thing mean, and what they mean to others and those who existed long before them. There will always be someone further behind and further ahead on the road to understanding and enlightenment. Do not fault them for their current place, as you are not at the end of that road either. Encourage them instead to look deeper yet.
>>16756436
Sin is a crime against yourself. They are sinners to their own faith by definition of humanity.
They are liars because they abuse and misuse their faith and disregard it at their own will.
>talking to girl I only met one time
>we say we like each other and she wants to be official
>we decide to be semi official until we actually hang out again and date
>every time I ask to hang out she says she can't just leave because of her parents
>she randomly has days where she acts like I don't exist
>I always ask her to hang out and shit and she just says her parents said maybe
>it's been 3 weeks
>I feel like she's slowly becoming less interested
>I always tell her shit like we can go to the movies or grab a bite to eat or I can come watch Netflix with her or whatever
>she just keeps saying she can't because of her parents and randomly leads me on and then acts cold and distant again
What's happening? How do I make it official?
>>16756218
>talking to girl I only met one time
>we say we like each other and she wants to be official
NOBODY MARRIES A DUDE(GAL) THEY MET FOR THE FIRST TIME!
But seriously, you are not ready for a relationship with this girl, there is no "official" at all, in any proximity, close to you.
You need to take a step back and evaluate what it is you want. Do you want sex? Then go get a sleezy girl. They do almost anything for attention.
If you want an intellectual relationship, then get a girl thatch at least independent enough to make her own choices.
If you want a wife-material girl, then look far and wide, because you wont see her on the first try, or the second. She will pop up when you least expect it and you will know that she is the one.
AND THIS GIRL CLEARLY DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU!
If its just built up hornieness, press the /d/ button and watch some freaky hentai. That always gets me going.
When you are done, reevaluate why you want this girl so badly, and then ditch her.
You deserve better.
>>16756225
If she doesn't want me why does she talk to me all the time? I don't just want sex and I don't want anyone else I just want to be with her.
Why should I just stop messaging her and find someone new? I probably can't even find someone new
>>16756227
Because you are desperate for affection.
You cant love someone you only met a handful of times. You need time to evolve your feelings of affection to love.
If she talks to you all the time is because she also looks for that affection, she gets it from you and its enough, for now. But soon it wont be enough, and if she cant even leave her house to meet you, what makes you think your relationship will be any easier?
You need to asses WHY you really want this girl. Not your feelings, not her good looks or personallity, What is the real reason you want to have her?
Its probably to fill a void inside you of loneliness.
And trust me it feels way lonlier being in love with someone who dont (or cant because of various reasons) love you back.
If you are deadset on this girl, take it slow. Dont look desperate. Telling her you wanna meet every 5 seconds is what shows as desperate.
If she acts cold towards you then it could be because she genuenly dont have time for you, or she is just testing how much she can push you around. I really dont know, you have to ask her yourself.
Nr 1. Rule of all Relationships
>COMMUNICATION IS KEY! THE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL LIFE!
Is it true women are often intensely jealous of each other? Jealous of girls with nicer faces, bigger boobs, hotter boyfriends, better jobs, cool friends and so on? Are you a jealous girl or have you been the victim of one? As a guy Ive never really experienced this so Id like to know what its all about
Really? You've never felt jealousy or envy? You've never looked at another man and felt jealous of his better looks, height, job, career, social standing? Are you Jesus?
>>16755748
Not really, its more like 'shit, I need to hit the gym more' or 'I should start learning about x', its more like I get an impetus to overtake the guy rather than just be angry about it
I guess I was jealous when I was kid, if some guy had a cooler toy than me or whatever, but not for a long time
>>16755748
Anyway, do you have any experiences to share?
Is 4'8" too short for a girl?
You have to be at least 18 to be on 4chan
Nah it's cute, just don't be fat.
>>16755600
There's no height limit for girls.
