>>16768970
>married
there is your problem right there.

Maybe a bit of background? How old are you? How long have you been married? How did you meet and what attracted you two in the first place? Do you have kids and/or have planned on some?

>>16769012
I'm late thirties. She's younger.
Married around ten years.
Met in an online chat room, ended up talking to each other all the time, met up for real to see if there was any chemistry, kinda went from there.
No kids.
She 100% doesn't want kids.

As a white guy with an extreme case of jungle fever, take it as a compliment.

There's a very fine line between attractive black women, and other black women.

And, if you're on the attractive side of that line, oh my god you're in for a world of dick whenever you'd like.

I slept with one black girl in my life, and it was while my girlfriend and I were split up, and I swear to god I've jerked off to Serena Williams highlights on sportcenter, and that black chicks ass in slow motion on those Gold Bond commercials than I'd like...
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>>16768841
Considering most black girls aren't pretty... Uh say thanks?

>As a white guy with an extreme case of jungle fever
>There's a very fine line between attractive black women, and other black women.
>PS need a side of white dick?
eat shit and die

>>16768602
There are men spas where you can get a massage or a facial. Hell there are even skin treatments for men that you can apply in your home while you relax yourself listening music or watching a movie.

>>16768609
I don't want to do girly shit, that's the point. I was asking if there was some kind of a male equalent for the whole gallery of "girly relaxation activities".

If I wanted to paint my nails while sitting in a strawberry-scented pink bath and drinking bubbly wine, I would. But I don't want to, the mere thought makes me feel gross.

>>16768609

I do not think she is referring to aesthetics exclusively

>>16768050

How about you stop torturing yourself and A: Actually talk to him like a grown adult or B: Look for someone else.

Why did you break up and were you the one who left?

more informations about the breakup reasons and his reaction and afterwards communication

First world?
They might struggle a little economically if they're not willing to go full whore with some beta.
But aside from that, not much, with tinder and the like they can fuck a stud whenever they want, they don't have to pay for shit and can remain in a comfortable economic position until some guy decides to marry her.

>>16767927
No they get everything handed to them in a silver platter

Girls that are just natural laid back beauties mifht not get a lot of hype and lead a comfy and normal life. Those girls that attentionwhore and put a lot of effort into their looks most likey have some serious issues. Mostly due to not having had the easiest childhood. Just read some interviews with models. Most have body issues and low selfesteem

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>>16767785
Congrats, you found one of the few chicks claiming bpd who is actually bpd. This is what it entails. Enjoy the ride.

DO NOT STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY!

>>16767785
you dun goofd bud. best to gtfo asap. this cannot get better, only worse.

Does the heightened chance of getting an STD and the money you're blowing do anything for you?

Well, that's a whopping 1600$ for something that's supposed to be free.
What do you think what it would take for you to stop? A gf won't solve this. I once got with a guy that had a think for hookers before us. At the beginning he was very good at hiding it. After a while the habit got the best of him. He started to masturbate to the task of almost ordering a hooker (choosing one, call her, write her). To this day i don't know if he ever truly followed true but it doesn't even matter. I was fucking disgusted and ended things after i found out.

>>16767450
>supposed to be free

LOL
unless you're a movie star it isn't actually free and "normal" women are always far more expensive than hookers

even if you are movie-star tier the women are only gambling that they can get more out of you because of it and are willing to not be paid upfront

>>16766793

its even out of her character to do this. I think she was talking to a friend and she mentioned it.

I think withholding sex is some shady girl shit

>>16766793
Isn't valentines day coming up? I'd wait till then. And just buy her a $60 necklace or ring.

dump the shallow bitch

Go on op chan

(CONT)
(sorry for late update but my shitty uni internet died.)

>Saturday comes round and her brother comes to visit for the day
>go to a club and have a fairly good night
>on the way to the club she asks me if i love her
>don't answer
>she keeps pestering me
>in the club we sit down and she asks again
>me"you don't get to ask me about...
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>she comes to my room
>i tell her that she's got me so fucked up
>can't think about other girls without feeling weird
>up all night thinking about her
>she asks me if i love her again
>me:"i love you, but i hate what you've turned me into"
>she says she's sorry for hurting me so much
>silence...
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She wants you to continue to desire her.

She wants to have her cake and eat it too.

>>16766577
>>16766584
>>16766577
OP here.

Even after making up, she still acts very passive aggressively if I so much as have a picture of me hanging out with another girl on facebook or snapchat story.

If there was some kind of romantic relationship; I would get it. We never even hooked up or kissed or anything, so I don't get it.

>no one replied back

not normal, he's objectively ugly

Well, just mentally prepare yourself for this to happen every time you guys have an argument if you stay with him.

Dump the fucker, that's some teenager level of bullshit

Drop hanging, if you get it right.
Heroin???

>>16765686
I've thought about hanging my self
But they say you have to get it right in order for it to be quick and painless

>>16765681
Helium asphyxiation

What made it so nasty? Was it a horrible smell/taste? If so, that's not normal and you shouldn't have put your mouth there because it probably means an infection of some kind.

>>16765497

1) The only thing I can think of is being horny as fuck so that offsets the whole nasty factor, it's all mind games, you have to kind of like getting down and dirty

2) Simultaneously lick the clit and do a "come here" motion with your middle and index finger inside her pussy. Also DO NOT wander the fuck off from the clit with your tongue. It's quite literally the only area where licking feels like anything at all.

You REALLY need to make the whole thing feel passionate and make...
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To be frank, Oral is nasty. However, if she maintains herself it is bearable if you really like a girl. Keep in mind there are many ways to please a lady, and you don't have to eat her out. Although, keep in mind sucking a dick for her is about the same as you eating her out so if she sucks your dick be grateful.

Oral takes a long time. You will be down there for 20-45 minutes. If you aren't prepared for that commitment, don't waste either of your time trying oral. Technique wise is case by case, but my main advice is to not switch up your style abruptly....
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Its probably since they don't see themselves as fat, at least some of them anyway.

>>16765473
He says its the whole "real women have curves" thing and the "all sizes are beautiful" bullshit. He says its made women who are fat think that they are just as attractive to everyone as a nice fit girl. He doesn't date or hook up with fat girls, he says its very very very rare him and his friends do, but it doesn't stop the fat girls from trying.

>>16765499
Its probably because they are arrogant af. I wish some guys would grow some balls and tell them explicitly why they aren't dating them, constructive criticism and all that.

>few months

Man youre dumb, if a chick doesnt like you move on and drop her. You buy a lizard and want it to fly and people tell you it doesnt "well maybe if im nice enough to it it will learn to fly". Thats you anon

>>16765410
No, the friend zone is not a thing. It's what bitter assholes confit themselves with when someone doesn't want to fuck them.

>she seems pretty unresponsive in wanting to touch me and it's starting to piss me off. She's also not seeing other guys

Why are you angry she doesn't seem responsive? It's not her job to want to fuck you. If she doesn't, she doesn't. Her being in a relationship has no bearing on that.

Dude, if you want...
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>>16765418
The friendzone is definitely a thing. It's where clueless guys end up who don't realize girls don't like guys just because they're nice to them.
To be fair, a lot of women like to lead naive and inexperienced guys on, so they're not innocent in all this either.