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hey guys i want to start growing shrooms but don't know how where should i start? what should i buy? ect thanks for any help
First, read a bit about mushrooms in general, not just Psylocibe. Then, search info about growing shrooms, there's a plethora of it in the net. I ain't telling you shit, slacker.
Job question:
I graduated from a cs program this last fall. I applied for a computer scientist position about two weeks ago that required unofficial transcripts which state the date your degree was conferred date if you were subbing college for experience.
My school has a really long year end process and I couldn't get my transcripts. Since all I had was my DPR which said that I completed all requirements of my program, that is what I submitted and I clicked the button that I wanted to qualify by experience since I felt that was safer due to me being qualified...
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another
bump for the evening crew
>>16757415
Did you get a degree? is comp sci worth it
Sup /adv/.
What is the best, non-bullshit way of getting rid of this problem (or at the very least improve)? Mine's pretty severe, and it's just so fucking frustrating that I'm not in control of my own body.
Advice preferred from someone who's been through it himself, yet managed to get better. The Internet just seems full of hogwash solutions. What actually works, brothers?
>>16757407
like, how severe?
>increase frequency of masturbation, edging specifically
you're essentially numbing your dick's sensitivity a bit
>foreplay to completion, focus on her during refractory period, proceed to PiV
pretty self explanatory. you last longer if you've cum before.
the tired and true method is to have more sex and be sure to control your breathing. when you get close, pull out/slow down. if you pull...
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how do i improve my wit and impromptu speaking? not looking for self-help books or any of that bullshit. i'm looking more for mental exercises and techniques to get my mind thinking differently
when i was a teen i was very quiet and never spoke to anyone outside my family. now that i'm 22 and have a job, i've completely dropped my social anxiety, however my social skills are way behind. there are many times when my mind goes blank during a conversation. i can barely hold my own when bantering, and i fail almost every shit-test a woman gives me.
ive...
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>>16757370
mental exercises wont do shit. you gotta set out to practice. that is literally the mental exercise.
go out and talk to strangers. talk to friends. think a little about what you want to say in advance and lead them to what you want when you prethink something witty. it sticks in time.,
Literally by talking more.
Neural plasticity allows any mental task to become easier the more it's done.
So the more you have to access a certain pathway when talking on the fly, the more your brain reinforces it.
Just do it now instead of later. That shit gets harder as time goes on.
Adv, my bf's out of the country a lot and i would like to send him some hot and suggestive pics. Problem is i have no idea what to do, i've never done this before. I don't want them to just be fat out naked pics. I want them to be a bit more teasing. Maybe even clothed. Atleast in the beginning. Specifically what kind of pics would you like to receive? Also, i'm only 5'1, chubby and have enormous titts. Maybe this will help find some neat ideas
> chubby and have enormous titts
I ain't given you any advice unless you post tits
>>16757359
Sharpie in pooper, timestamped
>>16757359
Do not include face or any other distinguish features.
If your best feature are your boobs, go with some underboob pics. Like the one showed in pic. Wear something really tight with no bra, show nipples and cleavage. Or send him pics with nice lingerie.
Im the type of guy that likes to make jokes and be a bit childish at times. I know I have to change but I just can't.
You know those guys that when they talk to women and they would stand and focus all their attention to him? I inspire to be like him, but being a 4chan user isn't helpful.
>>16757350
>i want to change
>but i just cant
good luck wieth that. can literally never give any useful advice to someone who 'just can't,
>>16757350
Hello Micheal Scott please just kill yourself.
>>16757428
I meant that I try but I end up back to the person Iam. Sorry about the wording. My english isn't that good.
Once you start using sex toys as an alternative to meeting women is there any return?
>havent had a freind in years either
>>16757337
by alternative do you mean you've turned down sex with a girl in anticipation for using the toy instead? or do you mean you just bought a toy to help masturbation
if ur not getting any, whats wrong with getting a toy? my issue was i was so invested in my porn that i was turning down sex claiming to be tired just so i could watch it after my date went home.
>havent had a friend in years either.
if you want one go make one.
>>16757337
Yes, but you probably wouldn't be willing to do what it takes, which is everything you know you should've been doing all these years: approaching people, challenging your fear, making mistakes, going out, and opening up to people
Enjoy your toys
Hi /adv/
I have a problem and I require some advice.
I feel like my mind is like running at 1000 mph, cant think straight most of the time, its really hard to concentrate and I daydream alot. Worst part is it affects me more and more. I used to be able to control myself, but whatever i have is making my life a living hell... ok let me explian better.
> Constantly have urges or impulses like for example the impulse to get up from a chair im sitting even if i dont want to or grabbing something i dont have to grab.
>...
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go to the doctor, they'll some ritalin, vyvanse or adderall
>>16757325
Yeah im going to a shitty doctor that ordered some fucking exams that take forever to do, im not looking to get medicine to get high i genuinely want to get better but i think the doctor wants to see if im not some junkey maybe thats why shes delaying my tratment
>>16757344
Anon said those meds because you probably are developing ADHD, and those are common treatments.
I know this isn't /fit/ but well
>23, male
>be roughly 5'3'' and almost reaching 200lbs soon, your typical fat manlet
>always felt horrible about my appearance, been bullied over it etc, but never dealt with it
So I thought I'd go here and ask for motivation, and because I'm an idiot that can't find shit with google.
Are there any real life Gimlis? I'm talking short but actually badass dudes. Something I could have as inspiration...
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Tinytrip, nigga
Tinytrip
>>16757321
I'll check him out, thanks.
Discipline > Motivation
Motivation fades, just stop making excuses and putting it off. Keep a steady routine, eventually it'll become natural.
>Just broke up with GF a week ago
>GF was fucking nuts, broke up for the stupidest reason ever after 3 years
>She had all sorts of mental health issues, but loved her anyways
>Sort of relieved
>Started chatting with this black grill on tinder
>7/10 face probably mixed doesn't have black facial features, and 8/10 body
>She talked to me the entire day, then...
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>>16757308
Don't you think it's a little soon to be seeing other people? You guys only broke up a week ago.. People don't normally move on that quickly
>>16757324
She started seeing and fucking some dude the literal day after. I felt so fucking bad that day. But I'm essentially just trying to push this shit out of my head, so I started talking to girls.
>>16757324
>implying there's some sort of guideline for how soon you can start seeing other people
if he's ready to move on then it's his call.
just go with the flow OP. girl seems into you. that's a good thing.
I have such a hard time taking a piss in front of people. I'm going to be enlisting in the army so i will need to take a couple piss test in the beginning. i know i will get over it once im settled, its just these tests in the beginning that are freaking me out.
Trust me, half the men want to suck your cock while you're pissing
No reason to be shy friend
>>16757302
Realize that most everyone doesn't give a fuck about you when you're pissed in front of/next to them.
>>16757309
Maybe i don't want my cash & prizes touched by dudes. i know people do math in there head and that works for me very few times. shit sucks man
I am not a vengeful person, never been. However, someone i've lived my whole life with (not romanticly) fucked me over big time. I lost three figures money because of this person, lost friends, opportunities, bonds. I've also been humliated, all because i believed this person once, and wasted one and a half whole year because of it. Today i gave up on an opportunity to fuck this person over, like many times before, because i'm not sadistic, because i've never felt like having revenge in long term. I even thought, weeks before when i had similar oportunities,...
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>>16757283
three figures is a lot. this person intentionally fucked you over? or did you make a bad investment in something they honestly (Though retardedly) thought might work? if the former, its not revenge you're dolling out. its justice. if the latter, than you made a bad choice and becuase it went down wrong their being a dick. just vengance.
imo you don't sound weak. you sound like someone who is comfortable with who they are. you're having second thoughts about that comfort itself. but if you still have the money to support yourself well and CANT get the money back from this guy, its your call, its your life.
its too late with the rumors and no one important will entertain them for very long
>>16757312
I have money. It's more of the latter, they fucked me financially out of retardness and childishness. The rest, the humiliations and moral attacks were fully intentional. I'm just mad, but not so much, since i don't really feel strong emotions for long. But i don't know what to do, can't shake off this feeling i'm being a weak person for not punishing them. Not even the rumors itself i'm worried, it's their fucking behavior. Why the fuck do it? I've never done anything...
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>>16757327
you have lots of money, so get some instant revenge. pay some assholes to go beat him up. if ur not into it, dont.
but dont think your weak for having self control. an eye for an eye for an eye for an eye. whole world goes blind. just learn from the lesson and protect yourself in the future.
Basically, I got blocked by a user for trying to reason with her. Any advice? Should I explain myself, or should I leave her?
Take a step back from the argument, read that shit back to yourself, and ask yourself if this is really worth your time and energy
>>16757288
I agree that it is a waste of time. However, my intentions were to enhance understanding. The merit of my argument was very clear, I shared my idea, exposed myself to new potential viewpoints and provided counterparts. She thinks I'm trying to win the argument, or maybe troll I assume.
>>16757316
Well sounds like you know it's a waste of time, then.
I have been letting a fat ugly girl suck me off for the past month... we hang out, and whenever I whip my dick out she either jacks me off or sucks me off. All I have to do is act like her boyfriend except when her friends or family are around... so I have to let her hold my hand / arm, I have to be affectionate toward her, I have to cuddle her when we watch movies together.
She also buys me a lot of shit... like a lot... my friends say I am taking advantage of her, one friend went as far as saying hes going to actually ask her out and treat her right... Am I taking advantage...
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Hey - it's a living! The oldest profession.
Initials?
sounds like an equal trade to me as long as she knows your intentions
I'm a 29y/o male. I've had 14 sexual partners, most friends with benefits NSA type deals. I've never paid for sex but once got a happy ending at a massage parlor.
On a Tindr like app a local chick hit me up and we both showed mutual "likes" whatever but I told her I'm just looking for friends not trying to date or be a part of any kids lives, ya know, cause I'm an asshole. So she's like she just wants someone to get drunk with and fuck and have some money thrown her way. I mean I've heard of old guys buying girls drinks and...
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>>16757252
dont go for it then. in my experience (as a hooker) when i say 'a little cash thrown my way' i mean at least 100 dollars.
if you're settling dont pay, but keep in mind as you get older casual sex gets harder.
>>16757278
>but keep in mind as you get older casual sex gets harder.
Really? I didn't start really having sex until I turned 27.
>>16757278
Yes. I do appreciate your 1st hand knowledge. it has been a few years for me and she asked that aswell. I didn't think about her trying to hustle me because I e never been confronted by money before. Dinner, dates etc sure.
I think I'll take your advice and not go through with it. As much as I want to slap her big titties around with my cock I think after it's over I'd just feel as unsatisfied and out whatever untold bill is looming over the bed. I mean I've had a chick better looking...
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