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I'm 29 years old, have a job. I just moved to NYC. I speak Japanese, I'm inter-racial.
how do I pick up Asian women, where should I go, what should I do?
I don't really drink, and I'm ideally looking for a quiet nerdy GF.
>>16758491
Just hang out in a Pho noodle soup place that has bar seating and slurp noodles really loudly. I hear asian women are really attracted to that.
>>16758491
go to the park and play country songs on a guitar.
idk why but nips are in love with wild west stereotypes even though everything 100 miles away from an ocean is literal trash.
>>16758491
interacial as in white/japanese?
Im in the process of giving space and time to my ex so we can talk about us. Does the no contact rule really work? We had a long and pretty meaningful relationship so wont she be offended if cut her off completely? Also the time I have seen that it takes for the rule is absurd. One month of not even asking how she is seems excessive. A new album from a vand that she loves is coming out next week and i wanted to surprise her. Not give it to her in person just leave her at her house as a surprise.
she dumped you, or you dumped her?
>>16758495
She dumped me, but the way we talked after that and the way she held me kind of tell me she still loves me
>>16758496
it doesn't really matter if she loves you or not. She dumped you. Move on. You'll never get over her if you do stupid shit like text her or buy her shit.
Is there any sure/good way to establish with someone on Tinder that all I really want is to at least get and give head and possibly fuck?
I'm not interested in a relationship right now.
If there was a Tinder ONLY for sex (I think people who use it for dating are kinda silly anyway) I would jump on that like nobody's business
>a mobile app is going to suddenly make women only want sex from me
It's not going to change your chances, but just say "I'm only looking for something casual" or the like, that's pretty clear.
>>16758465
in your initial convo just make sure to casually mention that you're too good for her, and that your honestly a little embarassed to be doing this with her
Meet, fuck, dick pic. She'll get over you within seconds of step three
Say you were in publci at a playground or something, and you notice a guy in his late 20s staring at your kid what would you do? Or would you guys even notice it in the first place? If you noticed it would you probably just ignore said guy?
>anyone looking in the direction of my child is probably a rapist and/or kidnapper
If you have thoughts about other people raping and kidnapping your children, that's just a projection of your OWN subconscious desires to do so. Please check yourself into therapy and stay away from your kids until you get better.
>>16758452
Look but don't touch.
>>16758459
I don't have any kids anon . I'm just asking parents what seems suspicious to them .
I have jury duty tomorrow, I have no Idea what to expect.
You go, sit in a room, maybe get asked some questions to decide who they send home (if you don't care how you look, just be offensive and open about it and you'll get tossed) then you just listen to the case. Most cases are very straightforward and nobody wants to be there either, so you'll usually agree. This may take a couple days but usually not.
It's pretty much just a free ticket to a low-budget TV Law show
>>16758428
They are gonna turn off the lights and make you grab someone's dick. Then they will turn on the lights and make you guess whose dick you grabbed. I had a lot of fun, maybe you will too.
Wait and see.
Just act like a decent human being that loves everyone and they'll send you home brahh
Make this quick please. I took 216 ritilan At 11:50 am. After the high, my fingers on my right had are sorta numb. My lower left stomach hurts a bit and I feel so fucking weird, my senses are multiplied. I hear everything. It's currently 5:57 and my tomach still hurts. Still hyper and lil less numbness. Hospital is a last case scenario since I have pot in my system and my parents would kick me out. I'm 18 5"10 and weighmaybe 155. My heart rate is normal from my perspective. My stomach hurts a good 2-3/10 pain.
>>16758426
hospital isn't gonna ask you about pot in your system. You are the 1% of ritalin users who suffer those side effects. Bring it up with your doctor next time, for now just ride it out. ritalin goes through your system rather fast iirc.
>>16758426
drink orange juice and acidic foods to de alkalize your system to pee out the stimmys faster, get some magnesium in you to help ease the shakes and relieve stress hormones, take an eccedrin (asprin and caffine), and get some B12 complex supplements to get some nutrients (get one with vitamin C, need them nutrients brah), and drink a powerade with some rum to get your electrolytes up.
Maybe take some L-Tyrosine too if you feel shitty tommorow to help with regenerating your neurochemicals. Dont take any MAOIs...
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>>16758517
also youll crash by 12 AM and pass out. Its going to be a wild ride but you wont need to go to the hospital. Just sleep it off and stay in a place with good vibes to ward off the psychosis.
I have collected a bunch of stories like a university lecturer for almost 20 years, and I would like to make a book telling those stories. What do you suggest me to make my book more interesting? Should I aim to put each individual story in a chapter? considering that some of them are not related to each other. What to do?
>>16758418
You first sentence doesn't make any sense. And I'm really not trying to be a dick, but is English your first language?
I don't really understand wtf you're asking.
My brother just a day or 2 ago got dumped by his girlfriend, no idea why but he's been acting a lot more antisocial and disconnect from us, now i admit he's not fond of talking but he's clearly affected by his break-up and i want to keep him positive but i can't talk to him without him wanting me to get away
Anything i can do?
>>16758411
Do something social / fun. Even if he mopes around. A movie, whatev; something you guys would do normally. Wouldn't recommend booze.
So this is pretty damn random but, I have had a heavy few nights of drinking recently, I mean not exceeding twice a week but I am talking a lot of alcohol consumed.
After the last big night 2 nights ago, I had a numb big toe on my left foot that I noticed throughout the following day. This has now consisted and not died down for two days.
I consumed more alcohol tonight and can't decide if the numbness is worse or If I am just paranoid. Anyway, I have googled it obviously and found there are a lot of different causes but wanted to know if anyone here could...
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I'll just add, I don't remember sustaining any injuries on the night, nor do I have any pain now
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>>16758408
Did you recently get a new pair of shoes?
That happens to me when I wear boots or shoes that are way too tight.
>>16758413
This is going to sound like the obvious cause now but, At Christmas I got new Trainers, Early January I got new casual shoes and for the night it started I borrowed smart shoes off a friend.
My only problem with that solution is that I don't remember them being obviously too tight, they all felt like a nice fit and as for the smart shoes I was sober when first putting them on so I would of noticed if they were too tight
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I dont like the generic yo-yo music. anyone else have this music problem all my friends tries to be this pimp gangsta bullshit. I just want some relaxed music like this for example. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uYXhpW9b37M
If i share this music will I just be known for a pussy? or is this kinda good to listen too?
>>16758373
>caring what people think
I blast gangster music for mood tbqh right before going to club
>>16758373
nah dude.
Just be passionate about what you're into. Any emotionally mature individual will respect that, even if your tastes differ.
Seriously, once you become an adult people really quickly stop caring about what you do.
Why would you care what anybody else thinks about your tastes in anything?
Hey was thinking of doing some video reviews on some indie games, was hoping I could get a little advice, like what to call the clusterfuck that will be my videos, and what to focus on, i'm trying to do some shitty/good games, kind of sort through the pile.
>>16758355
You have a good voice? I find that to be one of the most important factors in being able to watch/listen to a youtube channel.
>>16758355
wow dude no one has ever thought of that before
>>16758375
This is 100% true
I absolutely hate hearing some 3 year Olds voice squeezing curse words on minecraft, some gay teenagers, or even worse braces.
If you sound like a bitch. Just dont. Learn to improve your voice before doing anything as stupid as this anyway.
How do I get rid of this mean bastard fish?
Put a mirror in front of it.
My friend hates me for my easy life. She has a hard one, and while we get along well I get the feeling she holds it against me.
I'm a guy in my early twenties and:
>"fulltime" education+study time is less than 10 hours a week, and even then I don't need it.
>expenses are near-zero and don't even cover a third of the welfare/loan I get monthly
>don't work because nobody wants my (lack of) job experience, and I'm only casually jobhunting because...
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>>16758340
>Humblebrag: the thread
Kindly fuck off.
>>16758385
Case in point. The only reason I'm "humblebragging" here is to illustrate my situation.
I normally don't brag at all. Sometimes people ask about my life. If I tell them, they see how "easy" it is and stop taking me seriously. If I avoid talking about it, they take the hint as me subtly telling them to piss off.
Hell, even when I want to know how to make my life less "humblebraggy" wothout destroying it, this asshole just tells me to fuck off.
>>16758436
You haven't fucked off yet. Please rectify that immediately.
>pic sliiiightly related
I've always been kind of depressed, it's been a part of my personality ever since I was I child, but for the last half a year I've been feeling numb. Last summer, the girl I loved to pieces got hooked on heroin so I had to leave her, and it hurt me a lot. Ever since I haven't been able to quite feel 'right', I feel like I just slide down the existence and watch my body do everything on autopilot (including writing this post).
For the last month or two, I've been feeling an...
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>>16758321
>well, because I'm a whiny bitch.
Sorry to hear about your gf anon. Cheer up, you cant get it right every time.
Depression really is a harsh mistress, youre not always aware its affecting you, and sometimes your mind tries to find logic in a place without logic.
I believe you should go see a therapist. The reason beeing is that you indeed seem to be depressed. If the problem was just that you whine a lot, you wouldnt really be aware of the problem. Being honest with yourself is hard, and your mind actively tries to find answers to a question that you dont want the answer to. Nobody wants to be depressed.
Now what can you do about it except going to se a therapist? Talk to friends. Your closest ones. The ones you can feel comfortable being yourself around. Tell them your having a rough patch. If theyre your friends they will sit down and listen. Many dont have that luxery, and come here instead.
Accepting that you have a problem is the first step of solving it. Saying it to a friend or therapist is all about opening the courtains and exposing your true self. I know it sounds scary but if you dont do it youll just beat yourself up more.
Is it wrong to not want to have children?
Is it wrong to not want to get married?
Pic semi related, though a lot of what he said is mostly PUA bullshit in disguise.
No. Realize as you age your opinions and outlook may change however.
>>16758310
>Is it wrong to not want to have children?
>Is it wrong to not want to get married?
No, but it IS wrong to expect others to be your enablers in this.
>>16758310
>Is it wrong to not want to have children?
>Is it wrong to not want to get married?
No. It's wrong to bring children into this world. Intelligent people realize this. But if intelligent people stop breeding, morons will breed intelligent people into oblivion.
