>>16763821
Look up the effects of nicotine on the brain. Its a temporary stress reliever. For some people it feels good. Also for some people its very addictive. As for starting smoking your absolutely right. Trying something new peer pressure and fitting in/ looking cool. See vapes

I smoke only as an extra boost to a buzz, whether its cannabis or alcohol. That's when I find its effects are more noticeable and even enjoyable, otherwise for most of my friends its just a way of life so either you enjoy or don't.

I smoke for nine years now, but never more than Three cigarettes a day.
Sometimes i skip smoking for a week und when I go out to a Pub, or to take some Drinks with friends I smoke more than 15 cigs that evening.
Alcohol without cigs is a no go.
Well to answer your question: every brain reacts different to "drugs". My best female friend can't get along with less than 10 cigs a day O.o
But a pro Tip from me: Don't Start at all.
And why do I smoke? Your brain sends out endorphines, it's a Stress reliever, sometimes out of boredom (Stuck in...
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costume for what?

>>16763716

try cgl

>>16763716
>Lose weight
>Can wear any costume you want
>?????
>Profit

I'm not a playa.
When I like a girl, I just stick to her and try to make her happy, I'm not dependant or anything but I'm not into hook ups desu senpai.

I don't wanna fall in love with her when she probably using me just to take pictures at the beach with some boy.

Drop her. I bet she wanted sex m8

>>16763695
Why does she stop my advances then?
I was rdy to give her the dick m8, but she kind of slows me down everytime.

A little more info.
She is 16 from brazil
I'm 20 straya

>>16763307
If you asked them on the date, you pay.

>>16763307

It depends, usually I'll split with my girlfriend unless it's a really fancy place and I'm treating her. Sometimes I'll pay for a meal and she'll pay for the next one. My girlfriend lost her job recently so I paid when we went out earlier this week, and when I first started dating her I paid for dinner dates, however they were/are usually $30 or less. The most I've paid for both of us is $50 and we've been dating for a few months, we go out about 2 times a week.

It depends. My boyfriend and I usually go halves, or one of us will grab dinner and the other pays for dessert or drinks. Either that, or we take turns paying.

>>16763273

Was I too aggressive? I love her to death but fuck dude I want her to realize I am serious and she can't be a pos all the time. What would you guys have done? Thanks

>>16763273

First off, I had the same problem but mine is slightly worse. so I'll give the advice that I cant seam to take and apply.

Let her go and if she doesn't come back you will be better off.
If she comes back and hasn't had an attitude change in less than 2 weeks, dump her.
Its really important you don't let her drag you down.

I never kicked my girl out. Now we have been together 3 years and she hasn't paid a single cent on any bill anywhere whilst living off me.
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>>16763632
solid advice thanks

It doesn't matter where you are in life, what you're doing, or who you're with: treat the people around you with love and care no matter what the situation.

>>16763199
>It doesn't matter where you are in life, what you're doing, or who you're with: treat the people around you with love and care no matter what the situation.

I do. I'm very nice and treat her well (minus affection except during sex). I think that only contributes to her affinity towards me and compounds the problem. I don't want to start acting like a dick to her, so what options do I have?

OP here. I haven't been on /adv/ for a while. Has it been slow lately?

>>16763158
I'll bite. I have a decent amount of money languishing in a savings account.
$30k

I know it is doing me no good there. Where can I put it to make more money while exposing myself to minimal risk?

>>16763158
how are the jews responsible for the stock market?

why would i ever need a financial adviser to trade my money, take a cut, and risk nothing?

>>16763184

The lowest risk dividend yielding blue chips or indexes you can find.

Treasury Notes is another option- very small reward, very low risk.

When you have $30,000 to your name, trading isn't worth it- you need to just work and have MORE than 30k net worth- simple as that.

No. Religion is non-negotiable for me.

I wouldn't want to date anyone who would switch religions for me, either.

>>16763019
No

>>16763019

No. Religion isn't something to be taken lightly. I'm agnostic, but the entire point of religion is that you're committing your eternal existence to one thought, one ideal. For a span of time that we can't comprehend, you're picking your path.

If you don't really believe in it, you're just faking it for a piece of gash. Don't fake the rest of your fucking life.

If you believe in something, do it because it inspires you, and builds a strength in you that you...
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>>16763015
Pretty good man, made me feel a bit but its good.

I'll watch it and leave a comment with every criticism I can imagine there.

>Took Film I - III in high school
>kicked ass, won best short film in district (texasfag)

>red letters on black background
>thin and small letters
>thin red letters over moving video

>>16763001
Don't talk to him until you contact a lawyer who can advise you better on the legal situation itself.

Oh an his life is also ruined cause of stuff that went down before we were even together so yeah.. That kind of cunt

>>16763009
Thank you, I have an uncle who is a barrister(not sure how to spell, the law kind not the coffee kind lol) I will speak to him asap

>>16762971
>very to the date of mine
I meant very close to the date of mine. Theirs was a few weeks before mine.

You know that just because a close family member is a lawyer, doesn't mean you don't have to pay legal fees, right? Lawyers charge hundreds an hour, they're not going to suddenly say you don't have to pay them because they're a family member, and even if they give you a discount, it'll still be more than you can afford by the looks of it.

And if you know a lawyer, why not just ask them?

If they spread false information knowing with malicious intent it's slander and/or libel. If they directly harassed you that's... harassment. Might not be worth your time though.

Could you try some kind of counseling for your communication problems?

>>16762966
Basically, this.

It isn't going to get any better if you don't change what ruined your relationship before. Work on yourself, since your communication problems are the main issue.

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>>16762961

Understand that time is a natural accellerant. A has changed as have you, from the last time you dated. You need to stop letting the past define how you proceed in the future. Sure you had communication issues in the past, instead of fearing that may happen again, YOU NEED TO MAKE THE EFFORT TO MAKE SURE THAT IT DOESN'T HAPPEN AGAIN. You know the problem, you don't communicate your problems well, It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what you need to do in the future so you don't...
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Is she kicking you out because of your depression issues? Because if you were able to perhaps calmly discuss the issue with her, or bring her to see your therapist and discuss the realities of mental illness, that might keep you from being kicked out.

If you don't have a therapist you can always get one. Not like there's much to lose at this point.

>>16762945
I've been seeing a therapist and been on anti depressants for a few months
To be frank, my mom is a shitty person, and I hate living here anyway. But this chronic depression makes it hard to do anything, getting a job included

My mom is aware of the depression issue, she just doesn't care, in her mind mental illness isn't a "real"thing so much

>>16762938
You need money.
If i were you id start job hunting now.

>>16762932
Grow up, seriously it's just a name

>>16762932
Try calling her by her middle name instead.

Yeah sure, who cares?

I would not even keep contact with former fuck buddies when I'm in a relationship. Sorry to hear but your gf is disrespecting you OP. As for the butt thing I would have smacked him so hard if I had any respect for myself or my man. There is something wrong with her.

Also she should have been honest from the beginning about who she was hanging out with.

Tell her to either stop hanging out with the guy or it's over. You might as well be getting cucked. He shouldn't be touching her like that, no matter what they did in the past.

shes not your gf