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Does Ontario mental health law take precedence over other Canadian laws? I suffer from a mental illness and wish to use Canada's assisted dying law however if they do take me to a hospital under Ontario mental health law I can be locked up for having a suicide plan. Which law takes precedence?
In theory, national law usually trumps local laws. In practice, there could be peculiarities in the national law which mean it doesn't apply in your case, in which case there's nothing to trump the local law.
Honestly, your best bet would be to speak to a lawyer about this. I am not familiar with either of the laws in question, but you said you were suffering from a mental illness, and in most jurisdictions that have laws like this, mental illness complicates things.
- Are you sure that the assisted suicide law doesn't exclude people with mental...
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>>16771919
You know that the assisted dying laws are for people with terminal and debilitating diseases who want to go out on their terms, not those who are mentally imbalanced - right?
>>16771919
Just kill yourself yourself, faster and easier than this
>tfw can't stop laughing at the relationship questions and the "advice"
>can't stop laughing at people complaining about being lonely or a virgin or whatever the fuck
and why is this?
>>16771925
edgy teen living with his mum who's just bought a fleshlight or smth
If you can't get a gf by the end of uni you should just kill yourself to save the next 60 years.
Source: my life
guess its a real indicator that you're doing something wrong - you should change your clothes man it makes a huge difference, get a hair cut and even whiten your teeth.
Small things. Bit by bit, everyday, you will get better.
>>16771852
Have you tried to get a gf? How many times?
>>16771854
I highly doubt his clothes are the real issue. He probably never talks to girls, never does anything fun, never goes to social places, wouldn't DARE initiate a conversation with someone he doesn't already know, and yields to his fear in all things.
>source: the frog picture
My gf has never came. She's 19,and has had a lot of hook ups as well as two long term relationships but she's never been able to reach orgasm. Despite this she still enjoys sex a lot and is a very sexual person. She says she doesn't really mind because she doesn't know what exactly she's missing but I'd still love to be the guy that finally gets her there.
We've done a bit of research and most sources recommend "self exploration" but she insists that she's masturbated a lot and cannot reach orgasm by herself.
Any...
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Get a vibrator. Guaranteed.
Girls have to "learn to cum" apparently it takes a lot of mental effort. Maybe she should meditate under a waterfall and pretend it's her own pussy at the end of the Kali Yuga
>>16771780
Don't blame me if it replaces you.
So about a year and a half ago, I dumped my girlfriend, basically with no warning. I had a bunch of issues with the relationship I just wasn't going to be able to work through, but she had no idea it was coming. It went from A hundred miles per hour to zero, like we were spending every minute besides work together and then I just slammed the brakes and more or less cut contact.
I feel like I broke her, and I feel pretty bad about it. Her Facebook went down for a bit, came back up a few months later, and besides one picture, she hasn't posted on it in a year....
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>>16771778
Sorry, typing on a phone and didn't see that last line. Disregard it.
>>16771781
Don't be a dick in future relationships
>>16771792
Yeah, I'm aware of this, but how do I open up more to the idea of a relationship?
I think she's just mad at me, like I did this to her, she feels betrayed, like I didn't hide it from shame and guilt, and scared/powerless because she can't make me not have cravings and cave in. and she gets argumentative when she's scared and therefore mad. I've been sober for about six months before about 5 days ago. I stupidly came to her and admitted it because I felt very guilty and ashamed, and felt like it was the right thing to do. This has happened many times before (me relapsing and her finding out, though usually she just finds out on her...
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Anyway I feel like she's being very confrontational and overly argumentative, and doesn't understand what I'm trying to convey and saying. Jesus Christ she won't stfu so I gtg. I'm just venting I don't expect anyone to read this
Sounds like your mom is exactly the type of person to raise a mal-adjusted drug addict, not that that excuses you of responsibility, but keep that in mind when interacting with her.
She sounds like a retard and you should probably avoid her and seek professional help until you are through with your drug addiction.
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Long story short the latest studies into addiction come to show that the determining factor as to whether you get addicted to a substance or some kind of behaviour (gambling, shopping, etc) is whether or not you have a healthy emotional support system. A place where you are welcome and accepted, all parts of you without condition. Unfortunately this is pretty rare in the western world.
As for me, there were certain parts of me that were rejected and denied existed, such as my anger and my depression which are just as much a part of my as my happiness and joy. Whenever I brought that to the table I was being difficult and dismal and too sensitive and I was whining etc, etc. I was pretty much told I feel fine and any kind of behaviour that deviated from that idea was me being weird, crazy, something wrong with me, etc, according to them. I think had these feelings been at least validated at the time it wouldn't have grown to fester on my heart in the years after that and it would just have been a passing thing instead of a life defining struggle. It is impossible to express into words the frustration that comes with trying to explain yourself but being met with a stubborn brickwall again and again.
"Anon why you behave like this"
"Well I feel like crap most of the time, nobody likes me and I don't see a point in anything"
"AWW NAW THATS NOT TRUE YOURE JUST LAZY AND ENTITLED JUST GET A JOB. WRONG ANSWER"
"No really I'm trying but I can't help it"
"WTF DID I JUST SAY"
"Well maybe if you'd just listen to me..."
"OH SO NOW YOURE BLAMING ME FOR IT AS WELL HUH YOU DISPICABLE SHIT? GO TO YOUR ROOM"
I got high because I had nowhere to take my sadness/anger/depression and had nowhere to talk to about it, where it was accepted as something I didn't choose but as something normal and human that just happens. A place where it's okay to not be excited all the time and be joyful about everything. Where you can talk about the nature of your addiction, WHY you need it.
