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What are these pills used for? The person who uses these says they hate them because their big and have constant nose bleeds. Anything will help . They are young too. Thanks!!!
>>16773643
What does it say on them? The letters
Sorry but its the only picture I have of it.
>>16773665
It looks kind of like zoloft
Something I had to deal with all my life is people talking over me. My parents do it, my siblings do it, my extended family does and my friends do it.
At first I thought my family did it because I am the youngest but strangers and friends do it too. I even stopped speaking to my mother for a week because she does it more than anyone else(still does it even though we talk)
It is very frustrating irritating and very fucking rude. I may be speaking or asking a question or even fucking answering a question when someone will cut straight across me.
I have no clue why...
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I've had the same problem a bit. One thing you can do is just keep talking when someone interrupts you. If you want to be blunt, say "wait" and signal that you're not done talking, but it must be done with tact so as not to be rude.
>>16773670
Thats difficult to do in most situations especially group when everyone's attention shifts to another.
haha yeah people used to do this shit to me too
here's the question list you have to answer first, in order. is what im saying not worth their attention? is what i do not worth their attention? is who i am not worth their attention? is what they're saying worth interrupting me for?
if you answer yes then solve the problem. fix what you say, fix what you do, fix who you are, or fix when you say things. if you answer no to all of these questions, and the problem persists, then it's time to confront them about it. best way is to wait for it to happen...
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What does it mean when a friend of the opposite sex drunk dials you?
>>16773626
it means they're drunk.
sometimes drunk people do things they'd like to do but are usually too inhibited to do while sober. sometimes they just do random shit. I would just chalk it up to booze and see if they say anything to you tomorrow.
>>16773626
What do you think it means?
>>16773626
Your friend had too much to drink
Should I cut my hair before I start applying for jobs? Im 17 and adore my long hair and would strongly prefer not to cut it. Would it be wise and do most places hire you even if you have long hair?
Forgot to mention I am able to put it up into a bun
>17
1. leave 4chan
2. work hard in school
3. go to college
4. work hard in college and intern frequently
5. line up work before you graduate
once you hit 5 then you can worry about hair, you have bigger things to worry about right now
Mods mods mods
Also it doesn't matter, no one wants to do the extra paperwork to hire someone under 18.
In one of my courses, the prof made random groups for a project, and my stroke of luck, I got put in a group with this qt I noticed earlier in the class.
What's the best way to proceed? I don't wanna come across as creepy, and it might creep her out if this guy she got assigned with is trying to flirt with her when she just wants to finish the work. I can't imagine what I'd say to her that would establish that I have interest but also not be creepy.
We worked on the project a bit today, and I found her really smart, confident, and articulate,...
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dont tell her straight up dude no
now's your chance to get to know both girls and get their numbers. since you already don't have a chance at the fast play you gotta play it slow and not let passiveness get the best of you. find an excuse to get their numbers for the project and if they deny that then forget the entire thing, they're not interested. if you do get the numbers then establish an outside-of-project relationship, wham bam kablam you're smart you can figure it out
>>16773639
I kind of don't know if asking her number straight-up would go over well. While we were working together, she started a Google Doc thing so that we could communicate through it and add to our mutual notes, and she mentioned "that way we don't have to do something annoying like Skype" or something to that effect. I'm not sure if it was just an innocuous comment indicating that Google Docs would be easier logistically than Skype, or her trying to say "that way, we don't need to exchange...
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>>16773598
Can I ask a similar question here instead of starting a new thread?
Currently dating someone that is pretty depressed right now.
Super inadequate life feeling stuff. School,job, money,aspirations,passions,etc. This is long distance too so my power is kinda limited but my words mean a lot to them. I've helped them a lot in the past but it's gottan pretty bad after some recent events.
What are some general resources for helping/supporting someone that is depressed? I really care for this person.
Skype with them
Involve some people
Moral support each day
Reassure everything will be fine
DONT RUN IF YOU FEEL ITS BOTHERSOME
Also need more info like ages, genders, hobbies, "recent events", etc
Early 20s.
dropped out since highschool, slow learner, no motive to self-study(adhd) artist. dfab.
I can cheer them up or get them into those little "re-invent myself" moments but it doesnt last.
bmep
