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What are these pills used for? The person who uses these says they hate them because their big and have constant nose bleeds. Anything will help . They are young too. Thanks!!!
>>16773643
What does it say on them? The letters
Sorry but its the only picture I have of it.
>>16773665
It looks kind of like zoloft
Something I had to deal with all my life is people talking over me. My parents do it, my siblings do it, my extended family does and my friends do it.
At first I thought my family did it because I am the youngest but strangers and friends do it too. I even stopped speaking to my mother for a week because she does it more than anyone else(still does it even though we talk)
It is very frustrating irritating and very fucking rude. I may be speaking or asking a question or even fucking answering a question when someone will cut straight across me.
I have no clue why this happens it just does. I have tried everything I tried talking louder when it happens, just going completely quiet, leaving the room and even saying it straight out.
I don't feel like a boring guy, people often tell me I always have interesting things to say and give good advice but even on one on one conversations it still happens, groups make me feel like I don't exist.
I suffer from severe social anxiety but rather than wallowing around and stuttering like a tard I try to combat it everyday but the older I get I feel I am losing the battle because of people talking over me.
It like everyone else is now on a different level, sometimes I can no longer hold a conversation for shit, sometimes I unintentionally shout when speaking and whats worse sometimes I get so anxious I stutter. .
All my life people have talked over me and dismissed me like some childish retard.
Is there something I am doing wrong?
Can I combat this?
do I give off some aura?
Sometimes I feel like just going mute like silent bob but I am will working soon and that is a no go.
I've had the same problem a bit. One thing you can do is just keep talking when someone interrupts you. If you want to be blunt, say "wait" and signal that you're not done talking, but it must be done with tact so as not to be rude.
>>16773670
Thats difficult to do in most situations especially group when everyone's attention shifts to another.
haha yeah people used to do this shit to me too
here's the question list you have to answer first, in order. is what im saying not worth their attention? is what i do not worth their attention? is who i am not worth their attention? is what they're saying worth interrupting me for?
if you answer yes then solve the problem. fix what you say, fix what you do, fix who you are, or fix when you say things. if you answer no to all of these questions, and the problem persists, then it's time to confront them about it. best way is to wait for it to happen then get mad. people who walk all over others arent able to comprehend the nature of their actions with a nonviolent approach
just fyi for me the problem was that i talked for too long, and the people i talked with had extremely short attention spans. gotta get what you want to say out quickly. communication is 2 directional.
What does it mean when a friend of the opposite sex drunk dials you?
>>16773626
it means they're drunk.
sometimes drunk people do things they'd like to do but are usually too inhibited to do while sober. sometimes they just do random shit. I would just chalk it up to booze and see if they say anything to you tomorrow.
>>16773626
What do you think it means?
>>16773626
Your friend had too much to drink
Should I cut my hair before I start applying for jobs? Im 17 and adore my long hair and would strongly prefer not to cut it. Would it be wise and do most places hire you even if you have long hair?
Forgot to mention I am able to put it up into a bun
>17
1. leave 4chan
2. work hard in school
3. go to college
4. work hard in college and intern frequently
5. line up work before you graduate
once you hit 5 then you can worry about hair, you have bigger things to worry about right now
Mods mods mods
Also it doesn't matter, no one wants to do the extra paperwork to hire someone under 18.
In one of my courses, the prof made random groups for a project, and my stroke of luck, I got put in a group with this qt I noticed earlier in the class.
What's the best way to proceed? I don't wanna come across as creepy, and it might creep her out if this guy she got assigned with is trying to flirt with her when she just wants to finish the work. I can't imagine what I'd say to her that would establish that I have interest but also not be creepy.
We worked on the project a bit today, and I found her really smart, confident, and articulate, and I wanted to mention to her that I'm glad I got paired with someone as sharp as she is. But there is a third person in the group, so I felt like it would be kind of rude to the other person and would make her feel bad if I complimented one but not the other. And just complimenting them both would probably dilute the compliment and would sound like I'm just being polite, and would obscure the fact that I'm actually interested in getting to know the qt better. I mean, the third girl is a fine group member, but she didn't really talk as much as the qt one, so I don't really know how smart she is.
How do I go about this?
dont tell her straight up dude no
now's your chance to get to know both girls and get their numbers. since you already don't have a chance at the fast play you gotta play it slow and not let passiveness get the best of you. find an excuse to get their numbers for the project and if they deny that then forget the entire thing, they're not interested. if you do get the numbers then establish an outside-of-project relationship, wham bam kablam you're smart you can figure it out
>>16773639
I kind of don't know if asking her number straight-up would go over well. While we were working together, she started a Google Doc thing so that we could communicate through it and add to our mutual notes, and she mentioned "that way we don't have to do something annoying like Skype" or something to that effect. I'm not sure if it was just an innocuous comment indicating that Google Docs would be easier logistically than Skype, or her trying to say "that way, we don't need to exchange any actual personal contact info [Facebook, numbers, etc] so that we don't have to associate with each other on an actually social level"
I dunno, not sure if I should get the number first, and use that to start the communication through which I'd start showing interest, or subtly flirt first, which would lead to asking for her number.
>>16773598
Can I ask a similar question here instead of starting a new thread?
Currently dating someone that is pretty depressed right now.
Super inadequate life feeling stuff. School,job, money,aspirations,passions,etc. This is long distance too so my power is kinda limited but my words mean a lot to them. I've helped them a lot in the past but it's gottan pretty bad after some recent events.
What are some general resources for helping/supporting someone that is depressed? I really care for this person.
Skype with them
Involve some people
Moral support each day
Reassure everything will be fine
DONT RUN IF YOU FEEL ITS BOTHERSOME
Also need more info like ages, genders, hobbies, "recent events", etc
Early 20s.
dropped out since highschool, slow learner, no motive to self-study(adhd) artist. dfab.
I can cheer them up or get them into those little "re-invent myself" moments but it doesnt last.
bmep
>got new job in november, webshop administrator and such
>my boss is a qt3.14 brunette, a year older than me, really kind, always smiling
>shortie, hot body, 11/10
>get to know her better, she's hardworking, loyal, really intelligent
>got to quit in order to have time for my own projects and start working on being an entrepreneur
>she's really sad, tells me how she'll miss me
>last day in work, i can see she holds back crying all day, in the end she starts crying
>i'm damn straight about getting my life together and fighting for my dreams and goals
>i talk to her, we kinda laugh it off, bit awkward but she understands the reason why i'm quitting
>i realized a month ago that i'm in love with her
>i held it all back, because future reasons
>she just wrote an email to me, it's basically a love letter
>my fucking heart is about to break, but i can't let my life get caught with this right now
I'm still going for my goals. Please just tell me how to bear with all this shit, until I get things done.
pic unrelated, but she's got the same perfect body.
You're going to regret not staying with her. You're afraid of committing to something that can quit on you for no fault of your own, but what you don't realize is that being an entrepreneur is much less likely to work out than a relationship with her, and not only that, it's less rewarding than being with her
Money is just a thing op
Fucking hit her up OP, you can date a hot chick while still working on your life bro.
>wanting to get life together
>not securing a qtpie GF on the way
u stoopid nigga?
>live in small rural town
>final semester of highschool
>male
>having some drama with this girl who spreads shit around
>she knows that i have a secret bdsm fetish
>one im extremely ashamed of
>could totally picture her sharing that
What should I do if it gets out? I have no idea how people will respond since I live in a small town and don't want to be labelled a freak or a potential rapist or something. Should I deny everything if it gets brought up?
Does she have pics? If not, then who gives a shit. Work on your poker face.
Or just own it.
>>16773380
Preemptive strike. She can't do shit if you release the info first.
Why do you care if they care? It's no big deal really, beside your sexual fetishes aren't their business. Why are you ashamed of it? Seriously it's no big deal.
Are small town people really that uneducated they might label you a rapist? I mean you can't rape the willing.
So this is that Anon posted a thread about "how to get a guy I like".
This is the update:
>Go out for an event together. Supposed to be only the two heading their but in the last moment there was a third wheel,other friend get lost so asked us for help. She needs to goes their as soon as possible but he didn't show up yet,he texted me to give her the direction and let her go first,told me to stay and waiting for him. But finally she still goes with us.
>On the bus,as we was chatting he asked if i can put his camera in my bag,then i asked if he can keep my key chain in his pocket. He said if he keeps it it's his property. I told him if so his camera will gonna be mine. Then he says "what if you was mine?" I didn't see it coming so i said jokingly "it's okay I don't mind". Finally he said "everything needs time,slow it down" and then three of us both laughed.
>At the event i saw a thing for decorating really nice i like it. He said if i like it just buy it,I jokingly "buy it for me please" he took his money out and gave it to me,then gone to the centre to take some photos.
Cont.
>He bring his camera around the loby taking pictures. I stayed with friends. Sometimes he got back and asked me to go around don't stay still bla bla. He repeated several times. Sometimes go back asked if I'm hungry. Even when i went to the toilet he didn't see me,go looking for me around,asking me where did i go lol.
>I went to the restaurant to buy foods (he asked if i can get some for him) then ring him to join me.
>The feel like we are a couple or at least had something going on.
>In the end he couldn't go back home with me because his cousin wanted them to have dinner together. He wants me to go with him but I have some business tomorrow morning i have to get up early so I can't stay there with them.
>Leaving with other friends.
>He asked me if I remember the way to go to bus stop.
>Walk me to the door,asked me second time if i do remember. Say goodbye and leave.
>Feeling good and happy and all.
>Assumed he felt the same.
>But he didn't text me from then.
He also texting on our group chat with friends on Facebook. He sometimes chatting to another girl (was my friends as well). Yesterday he asked this girl if she is in love with anyone. And tell him if she needs some help with the whole "love" thing. What the heck is it?
TL;DR: crush shows his interested in me as well but never text me. Texted other female friends frequently. What now?
>>16773338
>What if you was mine
How black are you?
>>16773363
>how black are you?
What do you mean?
It's itchy and it hurts
A zit.
>>16773271
This.
Is this your first time ever having a zit? Are you under the age of 18?
They fight,
>They bite,
>They fight and bite,
>Bite, bite, bite,
>Fight, fight, fight,
>The it's Itchy and it Scratchy show
>wealthy
>own a house and a sportcar
>alone and bored after 5 months
>not motivated to see other people or do things
>dont care about job anymore
>thinking about putting an ar15 i bought to my mouth and pulling the trigger
how do i stop this please, pic unrelated
obviously wealth is not a man's purpose in life
go take a walk outside, get out of your faggy little comfort zone somehow
>>16773260
dark outside
i was thinking about going outside and drive at night but im not motivated anymore
>become a successful man
>be depressed
This is the American dream boys.
What are you hobbies or passions in life? Do you have friends?
I had sex and now there is a grey stain on my bed. I thought pussy stains where white when they dried.
Ladies are grey stains normal? Or did this girl shit in my bed.
Assuming you used a condom, it's likely the condom's lubricant. Got a shirt stained with that shit.
>>16773202
I did use lube but no condom
>>16773158
Could be the start of her period. Sometimes my guy ''activates'' it, because he is so damn deep in me.
If a guy recieves nudes from other girls when he has a girlfriend, it IS cheating right?
Only if he fucks them afterwards. No sex no cheating.
>>16773155
Not really... well, it depends...
Did he try to get the nudes or she just send them out of the blue or what?
Because if she's just sendin' them out creeper style, that'd be like some dude showing you pictures of his wang then you gettin' blamed for it.
But if the guys actually tryin' to get nudes... it's a grey area. On one hand... it's pretty much porn... on the other, there is a little more interaction with the person involved and it could be a risk that progressively gets worse.
So, I guess I'd say that you need to assess the situation OP... is the dude involved actually making an effort with this girl or she tryin' to seduce him?
Relationships all have their own individual boundaries. The receipt of nudes isn't necessarily cheating, but I would say it's a norm that asking for them is.
He can't help it if bitches are thirsty and send shit unbidden - if that's what happened.
My masturbation sessions last for about 1-2 minutes.
Sometimes less than a minute. Like 30 seconds.
Is this unhealthy?
>>16773131
bruh, how long do you last during sex then
yes you should get that checked out
If I'm seeing a good porn and masturbate pretty fast I can do the same too.
Maybe try slowing down a little bit?
'don't change for anyone', they say
'be yourself', they say
'the right person will love you for who you are', they say
35 yr old single guy here... i must be that one exception that proves the rule right for everyone else. - you're welcome, world!
>>16773121
>Actually believing any of that shit
OP please.
30y old here
world is hypocrite so as the persons who live in it
we came to realize it too late
how do i get wife kids love?
