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Tips to improve texting game?
>>16776045
Keep it to a minimum, be a bit of mystery, texting should be used to set up meeting in person.
>>16776045
In what way
Hold back until you got them locked down
You should interact with your new gf by just being urself since they obviously care for you at that point
My ex keeps messaging me from time to time and he always makes the conversation about how much sex he's having and all his fuckbuddies, etc. He also asks me to come over and have sex with him.
He knows it hurts me even though I don't show it. I also feel like shit knowing that I'm tempted to have sex with him just to get a chance to talk to him again (I gave in and did it once but I immediately regretted it)
He broke up with me 3 months ago and he never accepted my invitations for drinks, dinner, etc.
i blocked him on all social media and told him we...
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>>16776032
Delete his messages. Don't fuckin' read 'me. He's clearly an asshole.
Start going to shows or parties with friends, and just ignore him or say hi and go back to what you were doing.
He doesn't care about you, stop caring about him.
You identified the problem all ready. You needcto find some authentic self-worth and not shit thats like I got 50 messages on okcupid today.
He knows you are weak and is exploiting it. Do to really want to do anything with a person like this who disregard your feelings do much?
So i came here for the very first time thursday night and asked for some help about asking this one girl out. Now be in mind i'ver never talked to her untill this friday so i would think she never knew i existed untill this day. Im a shy guy i usally dont talk to people (I dont know) in my free time as i think its a waste,
Now friday cane and my 2 friends were hyping me up, i didnt known what to say i asked them, and they just said go talk to her, >get up
>walk to this girl while she doing hw
>ask her if i...
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>>16775920
I have no idea what you're trying to say.
If you're asking about what to do now, move on, you're clearly not getting her. And don't ask out people you've never even talked to, jesus fuck, that's creepy.
>>16775920
>tell her she pretty ask her out
i've laughed so hard when i read that part, holy fuck.
You feel better because the uncertainty is gone.
The next step is to corner her alone in a dark place and rape her. You'll feel fantastic.
Also underage b&, come on mods.
Long story short, my ex hasn't messaged me for like 11 days. We sort of were breaking up and arguing and shit, but when I was like maybe we should just give each other time rather than break up, hwt last words were "yeah maybe i'll call you". I definitely messaged after a few days of silence, saying "hey lets talk things out etc this is really hurtful" then waited a bit more than continued with similar messages and said I'm getting a little worried about, etc. I'm honestly pretty upset, for obvious reasons... and I know I should just "let...
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>>16775903
Don't beg, but if she left it open like that and then can't even reply to a genuine question then she is an asshole who obviously doesn't care about you.
When you get dumped, your exes true colours get exposes, who they really are, and how they really treat someone they said they cared about.
> or send one last message that says something like, "dang I should have assumed you were the childish one. have a good life, kid"
don't
you are the pathetic one and nothing you say will change that
>>16775909
No I know.. it's just that it worked in the past... I might have conditioned this behavior in the past, thinking he was mature and responding after a few days and finally getting a reply and everything being cool for a bit (previously)...
Anyone here take ecstasy? Considering taking some for the first time but not sure if the high outweighs the risks. Is it dangerous?
I've rolled at least five or six times. Got my MDMA from Finland, it was some of the best quality in the world at the time.
First of all, most MDMA in the US contains 0% MDMA. They tested over 200 samples of ecstasy at US music festivals and found that 90% of them contained 0% MDMA, and less than 2% of the samples were pure. The rest were cut with different chemicals or were different drugs all together like MDA or 2cb (2cb is the shit though)
It's dangerous if you don't know what you're doing. Follow these tips and you'll be fine.
KNOW...
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I used to take it all the time. It's fun, but maybe a little too fun. We used to roll at work overnight then roll all day and roll more the next night at work. When you come down it sucks, you're moody and irritable and just wanna be left alone. However you can't sleep so you take more ecstacy.
Anyway, it's fun to try a few times, but don't make it a habit. If you're gonna roll then you should do it with a ladyfriend who is down to fuck. Throw on some music and you won't even notice the time fly by.
Also drink water but not excessive amounts
>>16775895
>dark net market
I really want to give this a try, I want to try LSD and any local dealer I can find is just selling Chinese research chemicals on blotter paper and calling it LSD.
Is it actually safe and secure? I just can't imagine buying illegal drugs online and having them shipped to my house, but I'm an oldfag
Mormons Only Please
I am of the age to serve a Mission, but do not have the desire to serve a Mission. For whatever reason, I do not feel that it is something I am to do. I seem more focused on vidya's, 4chan Lurking, Music, and other shit. There are many people in many wards and States who see a Missionary in me, and many Missionaries who see a good Missionary in me, but I do not see it. I have discussed this with my Bishop, and he has declared that my lack of desire to serve a Mission is too subliminal to not serve. Under his command I have stopped playing vidya to...
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>>16775807
Your just lazy. Playing vidya and lurking 4chan are both meaningless do nothing activities.
>>16775807
Quit your cult.
If you believe in God it should be a personal relationship.
>>16776855
OP here
There is and has been other things I've been doing outside 4chan and vidya. like I said, it seems like the desire isn't there, as I find other tasks to do.
Ex: Exercising, Blacksmithing, Leatherwork, Engineering, Organising.
Really without Vidya I find other things to do. Not much laziness, just lack of desire. I was hoping for advice on what I should do in my situation
What do you think it takes for someone to accomplish something? What's the difference between successful people and people who are basically living out their miserable lives waiting to die?
Abstractly speaking, I follow the train of thought that delayed gratification is the big difference. The patience to wait for rewards is a pretty important aspect to what lot of people consider success. It's really at the heart of what discipline means. At a practical level I think it's also easier to get ahead when one isn't "living out a miserable life" by using every cent that enters their pocket to chase a moment's happiness. That joy is fleeting and on average they're still in the negative.
>>16775777
f a m, you accomplished those lucky trips tho
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On a real note, its mostly perspective.
My success will be different to your success and different to another persons.
Why do you ask, if you don't mind?
>>16775777
Motivation
how do you deal with getting your first gf at 27 years old. the whole ordeal is very overwhelming for me and i cant stop feeling like a loser/failure
its worse when she asks me about my hobbies because im a 27 year old weeaboo.. i've never really talked to people in real life about that kind of thing before and i cant stop being embarrassed by it even though she doesnt really seem to mind
thanks guys
You have a girl friend wtf, it doesn't matter now. Stop being sad about something good and be thankful.
>>16775842
Say
Your a weeb, in a funny way she will laugh and forget about it
gg ez
>transgender and gay but not buying into tumblr nonsense about nonbinary genders
>believes peaceful islam and educating brown people is possible, but still aware that middle-eastern culture has to be snuffed out or at least stopped from spreading
The world I live in has become polarized and you either have to accept literally absolutely everything, or hate everyone who is not a straight white cis man. I just want to live my life and do people things but the more I look at it the more it's starting to...
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Your own.
You're so close to breaking through the surface and getting a breath of air. All you have to do now is embrace your independence and have confidence in yourself. You can do it, no matter how bad it gets around you. You won't let yourself starve if the shelves start going empty. You won't freeze to death if the power goes out. You are not beholden to anyone or anything which doesn't sit well with you. You'll find good people, come together to pool your resources and do your own thing. Life will go on. I'm not talking about being...
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>>16775709
Those are all very warming and encouraging thoughts, but I don't think the lynch mob is going to care. I don't know if I have the chance to be on HRT for long enough to actually pass by the time these white pride dumbasses remember that the gays still exist.
>>16775717
If there's trouble brewing, you'll just leave. You'll keep moving for a while until you get a better grasp on where to go and how to live peacefully there. It may not be easy but, among the other lessons you're soon to learn, life really isn't naturally easy anyway. The way you're used to living is unusually convenient. The keystone to these interconnected ideas is that so much of what ills our world grows in the fertility of that convenience. But it's okay if things go back to...
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My boyfriend says that he wants a lot of kids just in case he screws up with one of them and they get knocked up by a "Tyrone". I'm black, he's white. I've told him that the comment offends me a lot, yet he keeps bringing it up. He says he doesnt see me as "black" because im "only" a quarter and am lighter skinned and says he'd classify me as brazilian more than anything. And every time I try and fight it by saying "well, your daughter could get knocked up by a billy or a jack or a conner", he gives me this face that...
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>>16775689
But you are barely that race and the stereotype is right.
I would be more worried on the fact that he wants to make back up kids in case on of them turns out bad than his way of presenting statistical facts.
>>16775689
Him not even taking your feelings into consideration is pretty shitty.
>>16775697
What's wrong with a black man reproducing?
is it time to quit 4chan? I've been coming here since 2007* it seems, but only since last year I have been noticing a change in the humor or culture or whatever you call it. For example the YLYL threads on /gif/ are nothing but unfunny shit, I've had it up to here with the idiots at /tv/ yelling /pol/ everytime some one says a racial slur (won't have happened a couple years back) or calling you 'pervert' for posting cunny, in general noticing more and more newfags and when one of those poll threads comes up in whatever board I see a lot of 18-24 year...
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>>16775618
You're on the wrong boards for your age group. Of course you're having a shit time.
I never had to quit 4chan.
What are you an addict?
I literally come here on my breaks to shit post.
Why do you take things so seriously? Remember it's all "for the lulz"
>>16775626
what are some good boards for middle aged men then?
Hello 4chan, here's a life story for you, written in green text for you to enjoy. Gonna have to split it up into several posts. I'll put a TL;DR at the bottom.
Background:
>Be me, kid under 10 years old
>Love video games
>Scared shitless of school (have social anxiety disorder but don't find out until late teens)
>Mother works in a bar, Father works in medical science
>Mother is an alcoholic, gets...
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End of childhood:
>Be 11, about to start secondary school/high school (whatever it's called in your country)
>Drunk Mother pours volatile chemicals that my Father has from work down the sink, obsessed he is trying to poison her
>She inhales the chemicals which screws up her breathing
>Later that night, while I was asleep, Mother tries to attack my Father. He pushes a pillow against her face to keep her away.
>Late...
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School years:
>After summer, start school. Alone, scared, cry on the first day.
>Hate school, especially PE/Gym (No, I am NOT fat)
>Dad calls me once a day at my Grandmas, he finds it hard to cope. In truth I think I am the only reason he chooses to live
>Life is really difficult. I self harm and consider killing myself a lot.
>Discover I am gay but keep it secret, fall in love with straight boy, lots of drama and sad...
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Steam:
>Discover steam
>Play soooo much online games
>Currently have over 7000 hours of play time
>Meet many people over steam have a big group, consider them my closest friends
>Even voice chat with some of them
>tfw virtual life is better than real life
hey guys, aside from the obvious, what are the little things that your bf/gf/crush or whatever do that make you extra horny?
porn
i liek when gf suk my cok gud & the milk cum out
>>16775554
Existing.
What's the easiest way to get my dick sucked (and fucked if possible)? I don't have a lot of money and I can't talk to women very well.
>>16775545
Have no standards
Go to prison.
Fuckkk, why ruin that delicious stomach with a piercing?
hey /adv/ i seriously need to stop biting my nails and my skin got any tipps how i can stop this bullshit addiction?
>>16775439
Paint them. Paint tastes very bitter.
>>16775439
Dip your fingers in ipecac and let it dry. Every time you bite your nails you'll vomit. It's the same way they teach sheep to not eat crops while eating weeds.
>>16775452
dont think thats legal in my country germany
