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I'm dating a girl who is hot and rich but boring. I'm in love with a girl who is less hot, broke, but really fun. Less hot girl and I recently admitted we have feelings for each other. What do I do? I'm worried if I leave my current girl for the new one after the initial honeymoon period cools off I'll regret it. What to do?
>>16768358
Then you just find a third girl... Unless your goal is to settle down this year?
>>16768358
> I'm in love
> initial honeymoon period cools off I'll regret it
Are you sure your girl is actually boring? Because it sounds like you simply got tired of the usual and is looking for something different that - in time, will also bore you.
I mean, if you're calling the woman boring already, this decision should be pretty much made.
>>16768358
Choose one, Archie. Choose one.
Anyone tried deleting their Facebook? Did it make you happier?
I had to for my job. Anonymous services only. I lost basically nothing from my life.
How do people arrange social gatherings or meet up with friends without facebook?
Every other way I can think of takes a lot more effort, like actually calling people on the phone. God, fuck that.
>>16768383
Group SMS. It's not so bad when you stop fussing over logistics. Just ballpark how many people you expect to show up and run with that. Precise headcounts usually aren't necessary.
How do I tell this girl I've been seeing that I like her?
We had a couple of dates but I was too scared to make a move. Currently we're texting less and less and don't see each other that often anymore.
I kinda fucked up by not making a move, I should have kissed her the other night we went to a bar.
How do I do it? I am really bad at this.
How to I say it? I have literelly no clue. I have to be careful, since I didnt make a move so far and it might overwhelm her when I suddenly confess that I want her.
How would you act if you were me?
>>16768320
I would be scarred as you but you learn from your mistakes. Take a deep breath and promise to yourself that you will ask her out. Have a countdown and believe in yourself.
>>16768338
It's not about asking her out.
I already did. We had a couple dates.
The problem is that because I did nothing she thinks im either not interested or too cowardly.
My question is how do i go from here?
Also interested. Bump
Use vacuum cleaner for sucking off weenie? Will it feel good? Any idea on making the pipe bigger?
Use the vibrations of a belt sander, it's more manly.
>>16768307
No, it won't feel good.
>>16768310
wouldn't that hurt?
Last night my boyfriend and I where talking about bills. One of them was my car insurance which it turns out was unusually high. The thing is Ive been paying my dad to be on his plan since I was a teenager. Its never been a problem between us and he always told me it was cheaper to remain on his plan than to get my own. Today I went over to his house to look at the bill myself because I needed the policy numbers and I found out he has been stealing from me to the total of 200 every 6 months for about 5 years.
I talked to him about it and he claims I'm wrong even though...
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guys pls
You should get your own car insurance.
If he's wrong ask for a breakdown why he's wrong.
>1/3
There's a girl I've latterly taken quite a liking to. But she's puzzling at times. And I can't tell if she is interested, or very polite and nice, or absent-minded.
We've met about over a year ago on campus. I ignored her at first, but found her staring at me now-and-then before finally coming over and introducing herself. And we got along really well. Great conversations and bouncing off each other and all the jazz. But even then she would act weird. As in after we departed to head to our class, she would...
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>>16768264
>2/3
I've been seeing her around more often starting last month. At least twice a week. And whenever we're in the same room, hall, or library, she, every single time, will come over to talk and hang out; even if for a few minutes. And each time, she would smile at me from a distance and move right over to chat.
She's always nice, but mostly quiet when she speaks. Sometimes she isn't very talkative, while other times a lot more lively and intuitive. Or whenever...
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>>16768267
>3/3
However, there are some weird patterns I've noticed with her. As in one day she's pretty quiet, soft-spoken, and like she's off somewhere else in her head (as she would put it). The next day, more talkative, affectionate, happier. The next, back to quiet and distant. The next, back to being lively and chipper. And it constantly repeats like that.
Yet, I've been telling more jokes lately to get more of a reaction out of her. And she'll either laugh...
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>>16768264
>>16768267
>>16768272
Everything about this just SCREAMS that no - this girl doesn't wanna date you, or maybe anybody at the moment. This is based on your point of view of the situation, but she definitely looks like she appreciates you friendship, but isn't interested romantically.
She got happy when you said you were giving up because, cool, now she doesn't have to refuse your advances...
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So, my last gf hated headpats and and the girl i've been dating these last few months so far has been the same.
Why is is that i can get a girl to like greeting fucked in the ass or the rough play like choking and deepthroating and i can't do something so simple as having her enjoy a fucking headpat?
I've been wondering if there is some kind of way to make her enjoy them? Or it's just weaboo delusion and i will have accept the fact that 3DPS don't enjoy headpats?
>>16768195
Tell a girl you like to pet their heads man.
Then ask if they're okay with it.
It could be a weeaboo delusion but real girls are all different.
not all dogs likes headpats, also, not all persons like it. Most of the girls I know -mostly the shorty ones- don't like it because they feels like a child or something.
It doesn't have nothing to do if you like extreme/rough sex tho. Stop thinking like a weeb.
I don't mind having my head patted, as long as it's done in a genuinely affectionate way, and not a condescending/dickish way.
so I have changed my diet and for the past week been eating very healthy. though stuff I enjoy. lots of veggies, as little sugar as possible, not too much fat etc.
at first I felt significantly more energetic; but after a few days I ran out of energy (despite exercising and 8+ hours sleep) more quickly than ever. also my shit got near diarrhea. I have continued nonetheless but felt like something was missing.
So, I didn't really crave pizza (bc I ate tasty stuff the last weak even though it was healthy) but I just had pizza just to figure it out - and I'm...
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apparently you weren't eating healthy.
Compromise yo, pizza can be made healthy, it's all in the ingredients.
>>16767967
Your body is used to the energy found in the simple sugars in the pizza. It may be bad for you in the long run, but your body is used to processing it, so it has become recognized by your brain as an ideal source of quick energy and your brain is being rewarded with dopamine for finding the reliable energy source leaving you feeling addicted.
How can i be the best of myself?I really want to devote myself to some subject but i cant choose which one and its killing me
Find out what your values are first
http://media.self-help.tools/worksheets/english_us/values_en-us.pdf
>>16767959
Obviously Education/Personal growth&development and Spirituality
>>16767978
good! now on to the next step:
http://media.self-help.tools/worksheets/english_us/activity_selection_en-us.pdf
>Be me
>BMI circa 30, 1.7m so quite short but not tragically so
>It's 5'8'' for those still living in middle ages
>Been this fat since preschool
>Studying at Uni now, living away from my parents about 90 minutes drive away
>Coming back every other weekend or so for money and homemade food
>I'm the only child, so my parents are wayyyy...
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>>16767908
P.S. They are fat as well, but not cause they eat a lot, but because they are couch potatoes that except for short walks with our dog have not exercise whatsoever. They don't eat sugary crap except for cakes and things like that with their afternoon coffee.
they may love you unconditionally, but to ask old people to change their lifestyle for you is kinda selfish, so you're gonna have to have more willpower.
If you can't restrain yourself from eating, go for a run 3 times a week and you'll lose weight in no time.
>>16767908
My parents always have a ton of snacks and candy in their house, and always have.
I'm just not a fat fuck like you.
I don't think you want to lose weight. If you did, you'd not over eat. Simple as that.
So I sucked this trans girls dick maybe six or seven years ago.
>be a few months ago, taking some girl to the movies when she clearly doesn't want to fuck me.
>drink at a bar before she arrives at the theatre, get shitty drunk then run into Tran friend.
>we hung out like twice just smoking, drinking or driving around. Nothing close really, when she would nudge me I would keep my distance.
Fast forward to last night, we go sledding. Lots of fun, acting like kids. She...
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>>16767837
You had sex with her, then denied her any further. This is a prime example of male privilege in patriarchys. She clearly has feelings for you which you just used for your own good, i.e. raping her. I hope she gets your sorry ass to court.
>>16767843
It was only oral sex and it was the better half of a decade ago. I see your sarcasm but I don't see how I lead her on in a legitimate way. I mean I complimented her appearance once or twice but that was to be nice. I'd do that for my sister you know?
What kind of b8 is this?
OP is a fag, sucked a transgirl's dick, does not want to go further with transgirl and is confused that the transgirl isn't following feminism correctly.
Ok so I got this cast member who, for our show, uses a small mirror and hands it to me.
so during our opening night I finish and rush out the door and got to work. I forget to return the mirror but it's in the bag with other props.
So week later on this night, she text me, "hey punk, you forgot to give me my mirror last week. please return it." I say I don't have it but it maybe in the bag. she says "dude that has sentlemental value, that better not be gone."
At first I wanted to go off on her. Tell her that you don't use something...
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If you don't find it put up a note in the green room asking whoever removed it to return it, as it has sentimental value to the cast member who graciously let you borrow it.
>>16767816
I'm worried she is going to turn voilent
>>16767817
Lol, actors. If that happens, call the police. Otherwise try to find her mirror.
What should one do when their girlfriend of 7 years satisfies them in absolutely every single way except sexually and this isn't looking to change any time soon... ?
you have to weight the pros and the cons.
If sex is reaaaally important to you : find someone who will satisfy you, if it's not important, keep enjoying her personality.
Don't worry bro, there are PLENTY of nice girls that would treat you the exact same way your current gf treat you + nice sex....
She's not as unique as you think she is.
Good luck
why is your sex not satisfying to you?
>>16767773
We don't have it
Does anyone have any experience with approaching a doctor about PE? I'm really fucking embarrassed to go and see someone...
>>16767708
>go to doctor.
>tell them "i blow it quickly"
>the end.
It's a doctor. They literally deal with dozens of cases 10x more embarrassing, or exactly the same, every single day. I've worked in the medical field. Nobody gives a shit.
>>16767720
what the hell could be more embarrassing?
>>16767723
>i can't get erect at all.
>it burns when i pee.
>check out these warts.
>check out this cock rash.
>there's a banana in my ass.
Don't sweat blasting your chowder early. It's much more common than you imagine.
>I try my very best to always smile and be kind and be selfless
>yet I feel nobody wants to be around me
>I feel so distant from my friends but I try really hard to be connected with them
I hate my life :( when will this end
iktf
You'll get used to it soon enough.
>>16767676
that makes me feel even worse :(
why does life do this to me? I'm trying so hard
Aw anon I'm sorry
You sound really lovely and genuine. You matter to me.
