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My best friend's roommate who she was very close to just got into a car accident and might be dying. Fingers crossed that he doesn't. She hasn't heard anything from him and visiting hours are over. How the fuck do I comfort her?
Bump cause she's freaking out over text and I dunno what to say
>>16764779
>>16764790
It's a guy? Ask her if she banged him and is feeling remorse?
Ok so night before last my boyfriend told me that he is intrested in 12 to 28 year old girls and told me that if an under aged girl said she wanted to do things with him that if the settings were right that he would accept, I really love him and don't want this to destroy our relationship. I'm just so conflicted and confused, what should I do?
>>16764697
uhh, so he wants to have sex with other girls? Why are you insecure about age, does it even matter? He'll proly do that without you anyhow, so either have threesome, dump him or talk it out.
He's essentially admitted to being a pedophile who, under the right circumstances, would break the law.
It all depends if this is OK with you.
>>16764697
So he's basically telling you outright that if he has the chance to cheat on you he'll do it. No point in talking to him about it, because he already has his mind made up, unless you're to tell him it's ok with you or it's not ok and you break up.
He's willing to have sex with someone underage is definitely something to be worried about. If it were me I'd break up with him.
My gf's birthday is today and I have no idea what to get her still. I see her in a couple hours and I must get something before then.
I need something personal. What do I get her?
>>16764591
>something personal
You know her, we do not. Dumbass
You should get her something personal
Take her out to dinner. Get a small gift extra. Done.
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Wife did an unnecessary breast exam with a male doctor this morning and it really pissed me off, and it's still bothering me now.
She has a history of benign breast lumps which she's had surgically removed (by another doctor who happens to be male; whatever). Recently she felt a new small lump in her breast. She made an appointment with a male GP (general practitioner) who had never seen or examined her breasts previously. I told her that I don't prefer a man to look at her breasts, but it would take longer (a week) to see a female. I decided to just accept...
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>>16764554
>objectively, my wife is about a 6/10
He didn't even want to touch her. That's why he said before and after to check with someone else.
My thought is your a controlling asshole who doesn't realize that a doctor sees so many boobs your wife's don't fucking matter. Stop being an insecure little bitch jesus christ.
>>16764554
>Wife did an unnecessary breast exam
>She has a history of benign breast lumps which she's had surgically removed
Troll harder, OPie. Also being jealous over doctors is both beta and pathetic. Also 6/10 isn't anything special so there's no need to get your knickers in twist
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On this
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>>16764540
Name? Source?
>>16764599
Answer my question and sauce is yours
Yes you could but i severely doubt that you know how to rebuild it. Also I don't know how much amperage that thing can handle. I'm guessing not much at all.
Just get a kanger tank with replaceable atomizer heads. If you want to learn how to rebuild you need to learn some basic electricity and preferable rebuild on a dripping atomizer.
I got diagnosed as antisocial a little while ago, and I'm not really sure where to go from here.
I didn't as for an evaluation or diagnosis, I just got one; my own research tells me that clinical outcomes are poor. there are no effective therapies aside from anger/impulse management and that nobody is invested in helping me; they just wait till I break the law and throw me in prison.
what I really want to know is where my place in the world is, I reason that if I don't find one for myself then it will end up being bad news for everyone
and if we could please avoid the thoughtless inflammatory comments, 4chan is not just an extension of /b/ and I am not the bad guy you saw on tv last night or a reincarnation of your ex
>>16764410
So you self diagnosed?
>>16764410
I don't normally suggest this, but you should look into religion. My boss is the same way and credits God with turning his life around.
The thread 404'd real fast
I work in retail as a cashier. Most customers appear inconvenienced by the new chip card technology. The most common thing I say at work is how to instruct a customer to use a chip card. Most people don't know how. Also, why do customers try to operate the pad so fast that they don't know what buttons they're even pressing? It's a LITTLE CONFUSING, but if you go slow and read the prompts carefully, you're golden.
So why are they inconvencied by something so little? All you have to do is leave the chip card...
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If you're going to rant about idiots, you should at least know that "advice" is not synonymous with "whining." Chips are a lot newer than the English language. What's your excuse with failing at the latter?
>>16764394
Of all of the first world problems I've heard of, this one takes the cake.
It's a reasonably new tech in something that consumers have been using for almost 40 years now in a different way. Honestly, I'd only ever seen it in the UK until late last year, and only one store I have been to since I got my chipped cards has bothered to have me use the chip.
Sounds like your store is one of those few places, therefore people don't use it much.
>>16764394
The technology has been in common use in Europe for a few years, but is just being introduced in the USA. People who only know the old way of using credit cards simply don't know what to do.
"Put the card in that slot in the reader - here, I'll help you - and then just follow the instructions on the screen"
>Be married for ten years, everything peachy.
>Have child, sex life with wife goes downhill, not due to child but due to her weightgain. (possibly both, no clue honestly.)
>Still very much attracted to her, show her that every day.
>All she does these days is shrug it off or tell me she's busy, etc.
>Same thing last night after a day of saying we'll go at it like rabbits.
>Family...
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You should start working out and get real sexy.
>>16764322
I'm working on that, but I feel like when she starts tripping over her tongue trying to touch my abs I'll just tell her I'm tired and don't feel like it. :^)
Read this in its entirety and come back later if you still need advice.
https://7chan.org/lit/src/Robert_Glover_-_No_More_Mr_Nice_Guy.pdf
I am an extreme radical feminist. I promote hating men, enjoy stories of men being killed by women or being castrated, but I am okay with other gender identities. I hope to one day see a mostly female world. I have more practical visions unlike the only known visions which are old sci-fi novels or Internet satires (Guru Rasa and the Femitheist). I hate all fetish material relating to matriarchy, gynarchy, gynecocracy and female supremacy because it makes a manual search for true believers nigh impossible.
The only real link to people who think like me is Valerie Solanas,...
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>>16764291
Nice meme
So you are willing to take advice from someone you absolutely despise? What a stand up thought process.
I'll tell you why there aren't more people like you; it would literally destroy society, a society that is working to peacably resolve the gender issues that have actual merit, not just some made up bullshit like pay gaps.
>>16764291
>It seems impossible to even find Forums and the IRCs
that's because most no one is like you. you should seriously try speaking with a professional, there is something seriously going on internal the be that extreme, and you should attempt to resolve it.
>>16764291
There are plenty in hell
Sometimes I think I don't care about her anymore. But then it hits and hurts again and I miss her so much. Is this gonna haunt me forever?
>>16764212
No, you're gonna have to die eventually.
>>16764219
That's what forever stands for.
>>16764212
Heh, just wait until she starts showing up in your dreams, not even in a sexual way but in a normal everyday interaction as your wife sort of way.
I am married, I love my husband and I want to be with him.
I feel attraction towards his brother, who is very similar to my husband, and is quite handsome.
Since I noticed such feelings, I try to avoid him, I try to be colder with him or be fake-basic with him, trying to just be kind and move on. As I would treat a random person. I also try to imagine he is evil or try to focus in his bad aspects. that worked for a while.
But since he broke up with his girlfriend, he tries to hang out with his brother and comes often home to visit. He is starting to be nicer...
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Picture Donald Trump every time you look at him.
>EntourageSceneWithTwinBrotherFuckingBrothersWife.mp4
You don't become neutral. Just practice self control and discipline. Having feelings for others is normal, that doesn't mean you have to cheat. You can't be a cold slab to everyone else just because you're married.
>>16764200
doesn't sound like ur sex life is fulfilling
Hey /adv/, Ive had this thing for a couple of months. Pliz help.
>inb4 cancer aid
>>16764065
Either cold sores herpes or both. Ask a doctor
>>16764065
I have no idea what body part I'm looking at.
>>16764065
look like cold sores but having them for months would be unusual. go to a doctor.
Long story short, several months back things ended with this guy I dated. The last time we talked was when we basically said goodbye. There where no drama or anything involved, but it was clear that that conversation was our last and we don't stay in touch, even casually as friends.
And now I got a short message from him. Nothing personal, just "well hi."
And ehmm, I don't know. I feel like, that by answering I'm swallowing my pride cause at one point in time I was a bit too excited and clingy I think, which probably turned him off. There...
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What reason do you actually have not to? You like him and you think about him, you are obviously still interested.
We're you happier without him?
Well he is interested in you again. Might as well reconnect but focus on what you need to improve about yourself
>>16763982
Well, obviously if you reply you'll ultimately end up marrying him and become trapped in a loveless marriage with a distant husband who barely seems to care about you.
But if you don't reply, you will miss your one chance for true happiness with a wonderful man who learned his lesson and would be perfect to you for the rest of your lives.
Is that about the size of it, dingbat?
My girlfriend has been crying over extremely small things that I say more often than normal lately, such as when I said that "I feel like you've been more sensitive lately to what I say to you, is something wrong?"
She's becoming way more sensitive out of nowhere when she's been normally relaxed and distant from what people say, and I can't get her to explain why because "she doesn't know". Then all she wants to do is have sex afterwards.
Can someone please explain what the fuck? I know she isn't pregnant, so that's...
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>>16763932
guilt? pressure at work?
>>16763932
>when I'm a loving and caring boyfriend
What the fuck does that have to do with anything? She won't tell you why, so you have no idea why. Your feelings probably have nothing to do with it.
>>16763932
Best advice I can give you is that /adv/ will not be able to accurately diagnose this. Sounds like a mental disorder of some kind to me, but I'd let a professional suss that out.
WTF is wrong with my tongue? I practice good oral hygiene and I don't have AIDS. I can scrape and brush it off with a bit of effort, but it comes back within a day, and my tongue feels dry the entire time until it comes back.
>>16763865
It's candida. Aka a yeast infection in your mouth. Stop eating/drinking sugar for a while.
>>16763865
Ask a dentist. Swallow less cum
>>16763865
Looks like an yeast fungus infection.
Go look it up on Wikipedia and then go see a doctor. This can get really worse, with your mouth being flocked yellow inside O.o
