what exactly is your question?

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>Her ex approaches her in class the day after their split and asks her to talk at a cafe
>She agrees, tells me that she just wants to get a clean break because she just rushed her breakup
>Fuck yeah I know that's a lie, she still wants to be with him
>I tell her "You know that if you meet him, you'll just get back together with him"
>She says no no no, it's not gonna happen
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>telling her to spend time alone

nah nigga you hop in that pussy asap because either way she wont want you in the end. Shell go back to him. Get the pussy while its available.

Youll kick yourself in the ass later if you dont. Trust me. Never wait for women. and DONT EVER GIVE THEM THE OPPORITUNITY TO WAIT.

This is an opportune time to observe your mind. You will see flashbacks, memories, good times, bad times.

Just sit with it. Don't act on anything. Get calm and just observe.

Losing? You threw her away, you nimwit.

>>16759102

theres no actual way to speed the process of getting over it, at least one we can recommend. you might find your own way to make peace with things but thats kinda the thing abotu people, they really are retarded snow flakes.

all that being said, now would be a good time to start admitting she is no 'love of your life' or rather, that there is no love of your life. that would speed it up to get out of the mindset that you let go of something permanent

also you didnt lose her, you broke up with her

The sickness is inevitable. I send prayers for you when you get hooked. I say just smoke weed or use alcohol if the weed makes you more worse. I use booze personally because like you said, I see everything clear and can speak without worrying about my insecurities.

>>16759300
I already drink relatively heavily. But I've gotten to the point to where alcohol doesn't affect me as much any more and I need a large amount to get me really good feeling. Plus, I can't drink and drive and weed makes me have panic attacks.

You're supposed to feel less depressed. If you still experience depression symptoms, talk to your psychiatrist.

I've been on 14 drugs for depression (mine is treatment resistant), and what happened at first is they would up the dose of my existing drug or add a new drug; when those fail, you switch your current drug for a new drug, and check back in six weeks until something seems to work, in which case they up the dose until you hit the max. Repeat ad infinitum.

Most people who use antidepressants are only ever on one or two drugs, but my depression...
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finish shaving put on glasses and look down.

Get a decent haircut, stop dressing like a teenager.

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> take a shower
> get a hair cut
> put on glasses

pic related

OP here.
I said she sholdnt cut herself*
She wouldnt give me an answer anyways

She likes you, but you guys are too young for a very deep display of affection. Especially her. Especially with the cutting.

You cannot walk into this with any expectations. Pretend like she's incapable of giving you signs or signals. Until something hits you right in the face, don't read into it. Just keep your eyes on your target.

>>16759052
>She likes you, but you guys are too young for a very deep display of affection.
Could you elaborate with more "friendly" words please? Norwegian here, so my english is not tht advanced.
Should i not ask her about the cutting?

>>16759004
Racist fuck. So all asians look the same to you?

>>16759004
Perhaps they are real accounts, just run by the same person. It could explain why they all showed up for you, same guy answeres questions similarly for each profile. Or not, whos to say.

>>16759134
I think the top two are different people, but bottom two look identical to me.

>>16758968
Instead of seeing a job as an end, try seeing it as a means to achieve something. What do you want out of life? What do you value most? Is it independence and autonomy? Do you want a lot of free time? Do you want to travel? Do you want to make an impact on the world? Or do you just want a fancy three story home?

I would say start by finding out what you want in life, then find a bunch of careers that will put you on the path to achieving those things, then just pick the most interesting one you find and start...
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>>16759063
well that is a bit of a sticking point

All I want is money and power, I have no real interests or hobbies, no specific aspirations, I am content doing the same thing over and over again, eating the same meal seven days a week, given the choice I would live in a cement cube.

so from my point of view I just want to find something I'm good at, because I don't think I'l ever enjoy anything

it sounds a bit outlandish I grant, but it's true

>>16759083
You could be the next Warren Buffett. Make investments until you make it to the top 100 wealthiest men alive

how can you have a bf if you're a virgin?

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>>16758956

>not sure how to address it.

open your mouth, take a deep breath, and as air escapes your lungs use that air to form words with your lips, tongue and throat.

talking is usually the best way of communicating between humans but i suppose if you're not good at that you could also try writing.

>>16758982
funny that you used a pic from Jerremiah Johnson, since it has that scene where the two mountain men randomly run into eachother and have basically forgotten how to talk

>>16758952
Have you been actively searching for a job?

>>16758952
If you can backpack it to Richmond VA, you can crash with me, meng.

you should have mad this thread when you weren't about to get kicked out, what can I do for you now?

anyway standard boilerplate advice: join the military

go to a used book store or a junk store and see if you can get a couple hundred for the lot.

You got good taste in socks senpai.

separate the comics by story arcs and then sell the groups on ebay. don't expect too much money, just get what you can.

>>16758937
Why do you feel like that's her only option?

Does she have a shrink?

>>16758937
antidepressants are a lot like birth control. You might have to go through a few different types before you find what works for you.

also its not artificial happiness.
Depression can be caused be inherit problems with our brain, and shit like that. Its not unnatural to have physical laments that lead to a decline in mental health.
She's taking medicine to make this ailment help her be at her 100% health.
Mental health is still part of your health. You can physically %100 healthy, but if you're...
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Single,

But hang out with my buddy here and there who lives with his gf.

You still have your interests and do your own things if you want.

Watch movies/shows etc.

>>16758884
I've been living with my boyfriend for 3 years.
First, you don't spend all your time with them. We spend 5-6 hours together at best.

We have sex every day. We clean the house and cook together a lot. which is kinda fun. We watch movies, listen to music, watch tv shows, play videogames. We talk about our day, or comment the news together. We also spend time on our own or with friends.
And even when we're silent, it's not awkward. I like being in silence with him. We often just lay...
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It's about your connection with her, OP.

You can only live with a woman with whom you're content doing taxes and watching TV. It's a lot like a really strong friendship.

you make 82 a week?

wtf get a real job then move out

>>16758936
Here in my country is like the normal thing. I have wanted to get another job, but it could be hard because I will have my degree until May, maybe

>>16758971
Well you better be applying for a job for when you have your degree then!

Can you work more / do more shifts at your current job?

>>16758869
OP here

anyway his alcoholism and the fact he's a poorfag with a lot of debt also fucks me up. He's trying his best to overcome the debt but I don't see it happening. Also the fact is I don't want to take it on, or worried about getting married then divorced because of financial problems.

also he sits home and drinks and sleeps all day. He's much different than the guy I started dating and he's hella boring now. He gets angry if I make plans for the weekend and I don't...
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are we allowed to bump? wasn't expecting /adv/ to move so fast off the first page.

Rip off the bandage and break up with him.

Yeah, it'll be hard at first. You'll lose so much security. Connections will be broken. Emotions will flare up. You'll regret your every step. But, in the end, it's what you want and need.

You're wasting the best years of your life as an unhappy slave. When you're 80 years old, would you rather look back on having a lot of stress for a few weeks and then relief, or look back on 60 years of commitment and slavery? And it would be 60 years, since your motivation to leave will only dwindle as...
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>>16758857
Do you have a comfy bed? Invest in an electric blanket. Blackout curtains. Sleep machine. Good smelling linen sprays. Qt SO to snuggle.

Probably the most important thing to do would be to do something relaxing for ~30 minutes before bed that doesn't involve staring at a screen, which tricks your mind into believing it to be daytime.

Sounds like anxiety. I take over the counter melonin to help with nights like that, but be warned it'll fuck with your dreams and leave you feeling groggy the next day.

>>16758880
No my bed is not that fancy.. Just normal. And I dont think its because my room is too light, because I can also sleep when my light is on.
But I will try to avoid screens next time. The thing is, I have been lying in bed for 3 hours and didnt look at my phone or anything, but my mind still is just too awake.