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So recently I've been really getting annoyed by my sister, so has my father too, I haven't talked to much to him about it but I'm pretty sure hes close to losing his shit. My sister does nothing useful in the house, doesn't clean or anything just stays on her laptop all day and occasionally goes to school, but we cant fucking argue with her because every time she instantly uses her pussy pass and denies both my dad and I a chance to even get through her thick fucking skull. We complain something to her and she says shes been helping out around the house constantly...
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Don't give into tantrums and deprive her off something that she wants.
You must be the oldest sibling? You respect your dad, your sister doesn't.
This is similar to how a bratty child/pet acts. They control the house essentially.
You and your dad make rules and give her chores, but your issues are that you don't enforce them.
Like a child, if she doesn't want to do them, she'll do what she can to get you both to back off: by shrieking.
She needs rules and enforcement. She misbehaves or doesn't do what she's told: no allowance, or no laptop, or no car, or no internet, or no phone. She shrieks? Let her....
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>>16782855
this
the screaming sucks but you can combat that too
How do I get the balls to ask a girl out when:
> I don't even feel mature even though Im only 20; Always cracking up jokes of self-deprecation and one crack liners despite feeling sad the majority of time? Despite the fact I try my best to see the beauty of life.
> People don't take me seriously or see me a proper person as a result.
> I can't handle 1 to 1 conversations unless the chemistry is very good. I used to be ok with those social skills, I have not the skills for...
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First you need to work on yourself. Your confidence in yourself is lacking big time. If you try to get a girl, you'll only attract the ones who see you as easy to manipulate.
Find something that will give you the back bone you need. Work out, take a gun shooting class, write poetry and share it at a coffee house, go to a karaoke bar and sing every night until you gain confidence. Read self help books that give you exercises to do, like trying to talk to a new person every day. Tell yourself in the mirror every morning that you matter and you believe in yourself. Learn...
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>>16782835
Buddy:
>You're 20, try to chill, try to get a part time job, you'll get some experience, and that might help you to mature.
>Try to explore other stuff, like music (Music will be ALWAYS a good conversation theme)
>Prove you're the kind of person worth spending time, like, take some pictures with some friends hanging, having fun, etc.
You need to do some excercise, you have some low self-esteem, you...
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Maybe this helps >>>16782866
I've got a crush on a girl. I know she's going to be at the same event as I do on Valentine's day (at least, according to Facebook). How retarded would it be to start a conversation with her about the subject (Like "Hey, are you coming to the X event on Valentine's day?")?
When she says yes, what should I say to her to keep the conversation going?
If you can't even think of one thing to say to her how do you expect the event to go. Talk to her like you would talk to a friend.
Ok I'm trying to gain some perspective from dog owners that always keep their dogs inside or in the backyard. Dog owners that allow their dogs to bark for hours, don't take their mutts for walks or even play with/train them. Why do you or why do people do this? What's the point of having a dog if you don't plan on playing with it or have it trained?
I'm a stay at home mom. It's hard enough trying to get sleep with a newborn around, but these barking dogs make it impossible for me to sleep/stay asleep. I have a dog, a breed that's known...
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I don't know, don't have a dog. But will bump the thread for ya.
I don't want a dog because of the commitment. I do love dogs though.
>>16782863
Thanks. I love em too, but I can't stand dumb owners. A neighbor nearby has a husky, a breed that's known for needing lots of exercise, but they keep him in their backyard and never take him for walks. I don't get why people do this shit. It's cruel.
>>16782886
Oh gee, thats not good for the dog. Are you going to consult with the people in charge of animal welfare or talk to the neighbors first perhaps?
>Dog owners that allow their dogs to bark for hours
Hmm strange
ever dated a muslim?
please share experiences bismillah
I did. It was magical but in the end it fucked me up. It was a very emotional relationship but always hid and no one could know. She was the most beautiful person I've met back then and there were many feels but the pressure of her family where too much. She is older now, more independent and knows that her family is full of shitheads.
So yeah. Depends on where you live and how modern her family is and even if they are modern, many many tell their girls that they have to get a Muslim boyfriend. You can try it but as always don't expect too much, so you don't...
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I have a question that might be a bit weird.
Do people actually strongly feel guilt, about all sorts of things, or is it an "overacted" emotion like most, that's portrayed much differently in fiction as opposed to how people actually feel?
Like this "heads over heels in love" stuff and some such things. Portrayed as much more intense than it actually is in real life, I mean.
Humans are emotional creatures, some humans are easily swayed by emotions while others not, but it is possible for humans to feel enormous amounts of feelings for different things. Movies try to represent those times but you'll not be able to comprehend certain feelings portrayed such as "head over heaps in love" in till you experience the feelings themselves.
Depends on the person, some people are more intense than others. Some people even feel more than other, some feel stronger. Some people don't feel much at all, more linear type of emotional life.
>>16782809
That's sort of what I mean, I've had romantic partners before but I never felt I was really "in love" as such. It was nice and all but not magical, or however you like to call it.
How do you become a director?
A lot of directors started out in other areas of the film industry, or in photography. Get your foot in the door by training to be a set carpenter, and you can quickly work your way up to a more creative role where your talents will be noticed.
>>16782797
>and be white
Make a fucking movie. Carpentry isn't going to teach you how to direct.
How do I sell more pot? Should I go to the local college and just ask blacks people? What should I do with the little bit of shake at the bottom? Mix in little bits of it with the bags I sell?
Like every single fucking business, you need a network of clients. For fucks sake, it's not that hard, pick up a business book.
Find a highschool stoner and hook him up for free and sells to his clique, or he picks up and drops off
If you have to ask how, you shouldn't be selling weed.
When I unplug and replug it back in it works for like 2 seconds, I've tried to reset my PC. Plugging the keyboard into different USB ports, still not working, And it was working fine about 30 minutes ago. Does anybody know how to fix this?
Sounds like hardware failure in the keyboard. Try another computer, see if the keyboards has the same behavior there.
How about you tell us what is exactly malfunctioning in the first place?
>>16782802
USB keyboard? U no read?
I've posted threads here before about help with depression and received some great replies. I'm currently seeking help, but I want to ask a question that many will react against strongly. I want to know what is the least messy and least painful method of suicide? I feel that this is an inevitability in my case, whether it happens in 10 or 40 years time. I know some of the preparations methods such as using the toilet before hand. I'm thinking of ODing may be the best option at the moment. I don't want to be too much of an inconvenience to whoever has to clean up after me.
>>16782785
I seen this thread, I don't want to tell people how to do that. Very unethical, I don't want to be partially responsible for another persons potential demise. That's awful.
>>16782785
Hanging while hopped up on drugs, I would guess?
>>16783608
That is your right.
Are you essentially fucked if you haven't made friends by this point in sophomore year of college?
Not in the least - but when all else fails, try new tactics! For instance: if you haven't made friends in class and in your dorm, try joining a college society or learning a new skill. Get into woodwork, and you'll pick up valuable knowledge of carpentry while also expanding your social circles.
Not OP, but in a similar situation. The thing is I don't dorm and I go part time while working most days. Not sure if that's useful info, but figured I'd put it out there.
Opinions on this girl?
Looks like a slut
Lil starbucks brownie.
That beam and joist in the upper right hand corner are not shown very clearly, but at first glance look like some very nice carpentry.
Greetings, /adv/, I am living throught a difficult stage of my life and I am feeling like everything is gettings out of my grasp. I am at the border of depression. Here is my story.
A year ago, I met a girl who I felt the best connection of my life. I have been a succesful year discovering tons of new experiences with her. Everything was fine until last November. All of a sudden, she was loosing her sex drive with me. At first, she was just telling me it was some hormonal issues but, during Christmas, she told me she wanted me to be more dom in bed.
I tried the...
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Not all problems in the bedroom have their roots directly in your sex life. Maybe your girlfriend is interested in exploring a more traditional masculine-feminine dynamic in your relationship. Try taking the reins, but not in terms of your sex life but rather taking on traditional and wholesome manly roles in the day to day.
Think about calmly informing her that you're going to convert the spare room to a workshop, and take up carpentry.
Even if this doesn't fully resolve your sexual issues, you've got a fun new hobby and potentially lucrative extra...
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>>16782732
Nowadays, there is no sex drive in her. It looks like she has problem with sleeping too now. Every advance I make toward her only gets her enclose herself even more. Yesterday, I pet her (she loves when I pet her like a kitten when we cuddle). Instinctively, she grabbed something hard and hitted me with that in the face. My glasses got broken for that. She was like terribly sorry but I didn't care and kicked out of my house immediately.
I don't know what the hell is happening with her. I am...
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No you're not a upset for breaking up with a crazy bitch but you're acting very passive. She should know not to Fuck with you, you need to be in charge on your relationships because women aren't good at leading (generally). Which is why you need to put her in her place, get her to massage you, make dinner etc then after that just take her clothes off and Fuck her. Literally don't listen to her, do it enjoyable and not rough but Fuck her.
She'll know who's in charge, I did that to my girlfriend a couple of times when I was sick of her shut....
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I've given up on my sexual self. I forsake dating and relationships. These things hold no importance for me now. I failed to become sexually awakened. It feels like I failed to even become a man. I've made up my mind that I will never have sex. If that really means that there is something wrong with me, I don't care. I've come to terms with it.
What are some good alternative lifestyles?
If you want to be a real man, you need to get back to your primal roots. Instead of wasting time every day as an online keyboard warrior, set up a woodwork shop in your garage or shed and learn the skills of carpentry. You'll soon find your masculine self awakening as you work with magnificent natural materials to make the things you need in your home and office.
>>16782711
I'll have nothing to do with the carnal. But thanks for the suggestion.
Killing yourself desu
So I had been dating this girl for over a year. Things were great. I was going through a tough time in my life and took her for granted. I broke up with her and immediately regretted it.
We are slowly patching things up now, a few months down the line. Things aren't the same as they were just yet, she's obviously scared I might hurt her again.
How do I show her how much I care without coming across as clingy or desperate?
Last few days have been good, reminded her how beautiful she is and surprised her with some small gifts. I'd like to carry...
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You should be willing to show your nurturing but masculine side. Try taking up a manly but creative hobby and making her something nice. I recommend carpentry - chicks dig woodwork! Best of luck.
>>16782658
What you're doing for your girlfriend is great.
I like when my boyfriend brings me my favourite chocolates for no reason. Or when he brings me coffee to bed or makes me breakfast. I like when he tells me "You're cute dressed like that". Or when he buys me flower for no reason, he usually does that once or twice a week since we moved in together and it always makes me happy. I like when he texts me "I am thinking of you" during the day. Or when he hugs me at night if he wakes up.
