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I'm 19 and I will turn 20 in about a month and I'm honestly not looking forward to it.
I feel like when my teen days are over it's pretty much the end of the best part of my life. Not like I was a popular quarterback fingering sluts left and right in HS or anything, but at least I'm still a careless teen, you know?

Anyways, what can I expect my 20s to be like? As a sort of heads up
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It's time to start getting serious about life and career goals, Anon. 20 is an ideal age to take up carpentry, and thus be set for life in a solid, high paying, and rewarding field.
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I'll be 25 soon. 21-24 went by in a blink of an eye and I'm still a massive loser. Dead end job and no college degree.
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>>16783337
stop with this shitty forced meme

>>16783330
you'll find that your age doesn't really matter, sure you'll have more responsibilities but it's not like you turn 20 and suddenly you're an adult. I know 26 year olds who still live like teenagers

But say I wanted a woman to keep in my life and give her the best loving and relationship ever: How would I let her know that I will continue to uck other women?
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>>16783322

>How do you get a female that's perfectly fine with you continuing to be Alpha as Fuck?
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>>16783322
>I'm having the same issues to man. I think the answer is never tell her that there is other woman and/or have a lot of money.
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>>16783333

I love you. This post truely won quads!!

Also this:
http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/letting-my-husband-sleep-with-other-women-makes-me-a-better-mens-rights-activist/

How can we change the world to make it a better place?
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One way in which an individual can make a difference in the world is by developing carpentry skills, creating beautiful and functional things from renewable, natural materials.
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>>16783332
>>16783332
>>16783332
>>16783332


This
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By bitching and complaining online.

>>16783332
I like this meme. I think I'll take it.

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What is the chance of me getting hired if I call a mom-and-pop roadside computer repair shop and ask for a job? I'm nineteen, never worked a day in my life, in college for an A.S. in Network Systems, and have an A+ and MTA cert.
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>>16783314
Massive chances of getting hired if you know how to fix woodwork, not computers. You're in the wrong business, anon - time to get out of network engineering, and into the fast paced world of carpentry.
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>>16783314
people usually hire with references
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>>16783314
High enough to be worth attempting it. You should definitely apply in person though.
>look in eyes firm handshake meme
In a roadside place run by boomers, it will actually be relevant

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Hi friends, just here looking for some legal advice, i'll try to make this long story as short as possible.

- I don't have car insurance because i'm a single 19 year old male with no parents to lean on for support or coverage via insurance

-I've been riding dirty ever since AAA upped my bill for bare minimum PLPD from 150~ a month to 375 once they discovered I had ObamaCare health insurance that doesn't cover auto accidents.

- I still have a AAA card that says i'm covered until March, good for pull overs but probably not good for actual looking into

- I got pulled over for a bullshit ticket I won't get into, but i attempted to pull out my information and apparently i was too slow and he wrote me up for no proof.

-This ticket is waivable, i just need to show proof

-Now i'm lost on what to do, I live in Michigan and i've been scrambling for money. I know if i try to get insurance they still might fine me for not having it when i was pulled over but it's probably better to go with nothing at all.

>TLDR; I'm looking for very cheap options for auto insurance, hopefully permanently. I'm 19 on my own, no points on my record. Where do i go?
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In the long run, on your own at 19 you need a lucrative career to make solid money fast with marketable skills, and not find yourself having to choose between food on the table and car insurance. Learn carpentry, and you'll never be strapped for that key $375 a month - that's a one-morning job!

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I want to learn to street fight, are there videos than can help me learn? keep in mind im hikikomori af.

after stupid bitch treats me like shit coz my cu.k ass helps her in all areas of life, i feel like kicking some ass.

pic related, this is how i believe this machine should be used.
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Did you never see the original Karate Kid? Mr. Miyagi had it right: you don't learn to fight by studying fighting. Wax on. Wax off. Paint fence. Sand deck.

Take up carpentry, and you're drilling your body in the movements you need to be a lethal streetfighting machine.
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>>16783307
i was not born when it came out :/ but i saw it when i was like 12. and i saw the new one! should i focus my future endeavors on building physical strength? i have nothing left here im down for whatever. also currently going to the gym.
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alrighty fuck the police heres this

I've gotten a scan and I have a testicular cyst. It started small and it now getting larger, along the same size as one of my testicales. I'm looking for a natural way of reducing it in size or removing it, without going to get it cut out.

My local doctor has suggested only to go down the road of having it cut out if it gets too large or painful.

Again I'm looking for a natural way to reduce it or remove it. Does anyone know of any holistic methods that will do this?
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So your saying you got 3 testi's? Get that bitched slammed

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I've been kinda deppressed for some weeks, dont really remember how long its really been to be honest.
I am gonna go back to school tomorrow and just wonder how i should act. Kinda havent told anyone yet that i am deppressed not even my parents, so i was considering the school psychotrist. I just dont wanna have empathy from some people that i know dont care. I rather be seen more of a delinquint than a deppressed person. Any ideas how I should play the rest of the years?
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>>16783234
Year*

Not happy with my current life and would give everything to disappear with a new identity in a foreign country. No friends, family is dead, a lot of college debt. How do people do this?
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Sell all your stuff and apply for a carpentry apprenticeship in a foreign country
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>>16783226

most countries worth living in are hard to get into because they dont want trash. america has always been more open and as a result we've become the worlds dump for human trash. no, not all or even most people who come here are bad for us. but a LOT are, and it sucks.

other countries require you to prove you're a good addition. they want you to be 'above' them and prove you can contribute to their country. otherwise you're bringing them down.

that being said, why do you need to go to an entirely new country? debt sucks but it can be managed and even avoided. just start a new life here in america. frankly if you dont have the money to pay your debts back a little at a time, you dont have the money to get up and move to an entirely new country.

the best option for that is and will always be, marriage. easiest way to get to a new country.
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It's easy to start over in Latin America, particularly if you have a valuable skill such as carpentry, as >>16783270 rightly points out. Learn to work wood, and the world is your oyster.

Anyone have trouble being comfortable with bisexuals (relationship wise)?
I'm quite a jealous person as it is, but when I date a bisexual it's 10 times worse. It's that 'she's hanging out with a guy' feeling, but like, constant.
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My advice is to date for a much longer period of time before committing to relationships. Really get into your date's head and find out what they're looking for from a relationship. If physical intimacy is among their top priorities and they're bisexual, don't get into a relationship Go date someone else instead.

I think that will solve your problem.
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Have you considered NOT dating bisexuals?
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If you were dating a gay/straight person (check whatever applies), you're not scared that half-ish of the human race isn't enough temptation to cheat to worry you?

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Anons, what do you do when you miss someone a lot but they are no longer in your life?

How do you deal with humilitating need to reach out and apologise and beg them to take you back? Work, school, new hobbies, booze, drugs - it all doesn't work. I still miss my friend
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>>16783224
>How do you deal with humilitating need to reach out and apologise and beg them to take you back?

Block/unfriend them on all social media. Go running, play video games, watch tv, see other friends.

Then just wait
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>>16783252
How long do you reckon it lasts?
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Ask them to take you back. People always seem to suggest blocking, but that's just hurtful and unnecessary

Give me some good reasonable answer... Why Money is important for the people, and Whenever money come then they forget the relationship, Friends and other relatives...!!
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I can't give you a reasonable answer as you have expressed no clear question. Rephrase and be specific.

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Hey /adv/, I have a sex problem.
I'm a beta virgin, but I can get myself off to any porn pretty easily. But when I look at women, and I think of fucking them, I just get violently uncomfortable. I could easily have a one night stand, but it feels like I couldn't have sex with someone and ever look them in the eye again.
What does this even mean?
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>>16783182
it means you're a faggot
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>>16783182
tried cock yet?

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How do I stop feeling inadequate, small, and helpless all the time? It's hurting every part of my life. I'm at the point where I'm drinking all day to fix this but it's starting to do more harm than good.
Pic unrelated
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Carpentry
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>>16783175

By telling yourself that you are God's gift to humankind
By standing in front of the mirror and giving yourself thumbs ups and saying "you are the best!"
By forcing yourself to NOT think negative things about yourself, unless it's constructive self-critisism about stuff you NEED to change to become a better person
By forcing yourself to think about your positive sides.

STOP DRINKING; IT WILL RUIN YOU

I say it again

STOP DRINKING STOP DRINKING STOP DRINKING

You will NEVER EVER be a happier person by drinking. Alcohol can make a happy man happier, but it will never turn an unhappy person into smiles and flowers, quite the opposite.

And the addiction is harsh as hell to quit, and your body takes serious damage until you stop.
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>>16783197
CARPENTRY FAGS GO

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I'm 19, he is 27. Is that a too big of an age difference for us to work out long-term?
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>>16783167
Nah. It gets easier the longer you are together. The main thing is that at 19 you're still pretty immature. If he can put up with that for some time then the age difference will mean little.
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>>16783167
yes; it would be doable if you were 30 and he was 38, but now you are basically a little bit more than a wildly unstable teenager and he's a old loser who can't find girl closer to his age.
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>>16783187
>he's a old loser who can't find girl closer to his age
Way to jump to conclusions there.

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