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Guys, do you think I should do a master on philosophy of science just because it's very interesting to me and simply forget all my previous educations which are not necessarily relevant?
>>16783138
what kind of previous educations?
>should do a master on philosophy of science
What are you going to do with that degree? Is your plan to teach?
Bachelor on Law and master on IT Law
/adv/
What is the difference between love and infatuation? I'd like to hear your thoughts.
I think that love is being unable to imagine what life would be like without this person being a part of it all, while infatuation is an obsession with the fantasy of how your life would be IF this person were a part of it all.
Need advice and to get this off my chest.
My parents are spending £100k on my older sisters wedding. Everyone has talked about this for years and how we want a simple, small wedding with around 150 guests max.
I have pointed out our previous talks and it seems all the spending is to wow the guy and his family. Hypocrisy, pretentiousness and stupid tradition means we foot the bill. The guy is also a fucking prick and is demanding more and more because he can.
Example, he asked for a larger reception hall (650 guests) instead of a wedding gift payment...
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I say that you attend out of your own sense of social propriety. You find this pretentiousness stupid but what about the simple idea of "one attends their sibling's wedding?" Irrespective of the circumstances I'm sure you find that to be a pretty simple case of good graces.
Go, do your duty as a sibling and then cut ties with these morons.
They have the right to do whatever they want.
Just attend to be polite
Tough shit OP. Its not your wedding and its not your money. You dont have a say in the matter. Even if 100k is a ridiculous amount to spend on a single day.
So question for girls but what features do you look for in a boyfriend? Like visual, personality wise, whatever, just when you look at a guy and decide if he is worth a relationship what are some checks you go through in your head?
Everything about him is great, or at least good. Everything.
>>16783104
Little more detail please, like define what you like
>>16783161
I'm not going to write a novel. If you want details then you tell me which qualities you care about and I'll tell you how much I care or what I look for. The point of my answer is just that everything matters. I look for everything I can notice.
How can i find a girl who is racist towards black, mexican and Arab people?
I am not a white supremacist as i admit that north east asians have the highest IQ on average i just hate ethnicities who are low IQ and violent.
I would have no issue dating an asian girl but i would perfer a caucasian female in case we get married and have children. Half asian kids are cute but i fear my child would not resemble me or my wife enough.
How many girls do you think would fit my criteria?
>>16783086
I'll give you a shot op
Her name is Ivanka Trump
>>16783131
But i don't know you and i live in europe.
I need some advice from femanons:
>work in an office complex
>a girl on the floor above mine enters my office two or three times a day to print shit out or make coffee
>one day she asks me a question about stationary and I really notice her for the first time
>develop a crush on her
>she asks two more questions since then about office stuff while I'm seated and the place is too quiet and busy to do anything but...
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please respond
>Hey, where's femanon? Haven't seen her around lately?
There, now stop overanalyzing everything.
>>16783166
I'm not the type of person to say "hey, how's..."
I haven't talked to her colleague before. I also have no reason to know this girl's name so I'll have to say "your colleague".
Let me just save you guys a little trouble: I'm a fucking sheltered retard who shouldn't drink.
Anyway, with that out of the way: I let an escort give me unprotected oral 4 months ago. Since last friday, I'm been feeling a burning sensation when I urinate and enduring pain for few minutes after - I think it's Gonorhea.
Thing is, I'm such a small-town mama boy that I need to confirm: Is making an appointment with an urologist the way to go here? Or is there another specialist better suited for that? How long does the treatment lasts if it...
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You should, but know it's a painful procedure to have your uretha cleaned out
>>16783078
You better go get that shot of penicillin. If you're having any kind of discharge from your penis that's a job for a urologist, unless you have std treatment clinics in your area.
>>16783088
Honestly don't care if I can get rid of it, if I actually got something.
>>16783091
No discharge, but every now and then I get this fucked up urgency to pee and the whole thing aches for minutes after. No dedicated STD clinics around here - guess I'll go to the Uro and see if I can get tested.
Guys I think I might be in love with my girlfriend.
I don't know what to do.
It's going to destroy me if we break up.
Do you normally enter relationship when you are not in love? That's quite strange.
Also being in a relationship means risking getting hurt, fucked over in multiple awful ways. It's still worth it in my opinion.
>>16783068
People usually get in relationships with people they *like*, yes, but saying you're "in love" is deeper and more intense. Is English not your first language?
>>16783105
i'm not the guy who wrote the post
but some people only get in a relationship with another one when they love them, not because they kinda like the person
Anyone else here hate when people drop vague hints around you instead of just being honest and direct? Anyone else deliberately ignore said hints the second someone emits them, and either act dumb or that what they're saying at face value is their actual intent (until they come out with what they actually mean)?
For me, I LITERALLY cannot think of more insincere, dishonest, untrustworthy, condescending, cruel, and insulting way to communicate to a person. I'd honestly prefer having death threats sent to me and my family (and maybe those threats genuinely being...
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Hate to be /r9k/ here, but I find the "constantly drop hints until they get it" moda to be the normalfag version of social ineptitude.
You call it cruel, but surely they have your best interests in mind and are trying not to embarrass you? I've always seen it as people trying to let you save face. I can see why you might think it's passive-aggressive bullshit though.
100% guaranteed autist who translates discomfort with social habits into a criticism of what s/he can't understand.
Less anger, more practice.
>tfw obsessed with manletism
I always feel like I have a low self-esteem because I'm 5'7". Is it really so bad to get that leg lengthening surgery if you had the money and felt it would actually make you happier?
>>16783029
it won't, don't do it and get over it.
You're acting like a woman.
>>16783029
When you imagine yourself two inches taller, are things really that different for you?
>>16783032
>>16783034
The problem is I know too much. I've read too much. I've heard women in public openly discussing it, I know it directly influences your quality of life. In every aspect. Our developed society has for the most part gotten past racial differences and sexism, but it's still pretty discriminatory against short people.
Pretty much all of the richest people in the world are over 6' tall (which makes the majority of them statistical...
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I'm planning on moving in with my girlfriend soon, but she lives in a town without a lot of great job opportunities. If I have to bail before the lease ends because I can't find a good job, what's the best way I can protect myself from getting financially fucked/sued by her? I don't want to leave her in shitty situation if it happens
Don't move in with girlfriend if you haven't saved up at least two months of rent first. Especially not if you don't have a job?
>>16783027
I have almost enough for 6 month's rent in savings so I'm not too worried about that part of it. If I break my lease by moving early I know I'll have to forfeit things like my security deposit but I'm worried she might have grounds to sue me or something since she'd suddenly be burdened with the full cost of rent
>>16783022
You can't not leave her in a shitty situation if you don't pay but since you're talking about how to protect yourself in the situation, you clearly don't give a shit about that.
>21
>GF broke up with me after 3 years out of the blue, then ran off with another guy the same day
>That was a month ago
>Been depressed since
>Some girl took an interest in me anyways, pretty fucking cute
>We've been hanging out as friends, but then went on a date
I really like this girl, but I'm still hung up on my ex, don't know why, but I am. I think she can...
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>>16783019
Make a decision. If i were you i would just do it. See if she adds anything to your life and See tgat you add anything to her life.
Im crafting a brand and I need some advice with the name I've choosen. What do you feel or understand when you see the word "Palcum"?
It makes sense in Spanish, but I don't know if it could work in other countries.
pal-cum
get it?
so.. It's as obvious as I thought... Thanks for your quick reply, my Pal :D
How can I enjoy life sober?
Try sucking cocks, OP
Feels amazing
>>16783003
I'll fuck your mother instead.
>>16783004
O-okay....
How do I stop having my life feel like something off of this album?
>>16782990
You just need to Start to look around for love.
>>16782990
Stop falling for lesbians
Stop living in Edo period Japan.
