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So all my life I've sort of hated the idea of smoking weed. Had a bad past with it since a friend sort of let it drive him away from me, so I've stayed away from it. I have a group of friends that smoke once in a while, and they've always never invited me to hang out just in case they were to start smoking. I've decided it wouldn't hurt to try it out.
What the hell can I expect? They're hooking me up with everything, and I trust they won't give me laced or bad shit. I've heard it makes you kind of dumb and hungry and stuff but wtf does it make you guys do? Any advice in smoking weed in general?
>>16780875
I've been a regular smoker for a few years.
Sativa will give you more of an energetic "head high", and indica will give you a lazy "body high" aka couch lock. Most strains will be a hybrid, some will be sativa dominant and others indica.
Sativa is nice. You'll feel happy, creative, you might reflect on your life a bit. I've had a lot of epiphanies when I'm high. Then when I sober up, I realize how fucking dumb those "epiphanies" actually were. Nevertheless, still a great feeling. Indica is great if you just want to chill and watch movies/eat.
After smoking for a while, you'll build up a bit of a tolerance. Pace yourself and try to not smoke every day. Unless you want to make your wallet weep.
There aren't any known adverse long-term side effects from weed consumption (yet). However, I've noticed I'm prone to "brain fog" if I smoke too often, which usually lasts for about a week after I stop.
Also, edibles are fucking awesome if you just want to get as high as possible.
Have fun, anon.
>>16780967
Jesus I didn't even know there was different types. Won't be smoking daily. I'll literally so it maybe once or twice a month. Thanks for the advice though
I suggest taking two puffs. Itll put you in a state of happiness and youll be able to settle yourself down and get a grip if you get a bit paranoid.
If you want to be Rambo and smoke the whole spliff youre going to just get paranoid as fuck and trip balls...which some people like, but that sint my bag personally. Just take two hits and relax. Youll enjoy it. Youll still be higher than camel pussy as a first timer. Hey...and dont hold it in for thouands of seconds. Just inhale, hold, 2-3 seconds and exhale. Do that two times...thats all you need bro trust me.
so my best friend's girlfriend is cheating on him and has been for week, should i post her name and number on 4chan?
I didn't realise 4chan was the cheating police.
>>16780870
That would make you a bigger faggot than the girlfriend.
1. You say it in present tense. Does your friend not know? Why haven't you told him?
2. The internet is not your personal army.
3. Consequences should be proportional. Cheating is awful, but emotionally damaging a single person isn't worth the wrath of being doxxed.
So I went out two months ago with my best friend and his girl, and his girl's two female friends ( one was with her boyfriend). I didnt think much of it, nor did I think it was meant to hook me up with the single one. Just a standard night out. We all had fun.
Im getting along very well with my buddys girlfriend very well this past two months and hanging out with her everyday without my buddy, and she mentioned yesterday that I should date her single friend.
Im interested. How do I get this going???
Plus, Id like stories on similar occurences with you anons and how it turned out, and especially how it all happened.
your best friend will hate you forever. sorry breh drama aint goin to work out goin into u necxt relationship. steer clear of friends friends bruu. just my opinion bro;) hope helps aha ;)
>>16780857
OK, clarify- you want to date a woman who is friends with your buddy's GF?
If so, go for it. I met my wife at a friend's wedding. The bride later asked me if I wanted to meet up with her hot foreign friend. I said yes. Fast forward a lot of years, she's no longer foreign, just has the accent, and our kids are almost teenagers.
Worked out pretty good.
>>16780921
Why would he? He's like my brother and thus, his girl is like my sister and I treat her as such and were both adults haha but okay, opinions can be valid thanks.
>>16780943
I apologize for the poor uncondensed situation, but yes, my friends girl is trying to hook me up with her friend.
Thants a nice story. I sincerely wish you and your senpai the best.
Eh, Im just not really proactive when it comes to dating. I enjoy the life I have now, solitary as it is. I just dont want to complicate it, ya know?
Okay Anons, hear me out. I own 12 David Bowie albums. I love each, done my research etc. But would it be too many if I owned 13? I fear owning too much filler/junk and start hoarding so are 13 albums too many? What do!
I don't see it as a problem. It'll be a problem if like, you have stacks and stacks of David Bowie paraphanalia to the point you cant walk freely in your home
>>16780830
If you're gonna listen to it then go ahead and get it. If you want to be some pretentious fag that says "well, I have 13 Bowie albums" then go ahead and get it.
Either way just go ahead and get it you pretentious fag.
>>16780836
I mean my father owned every vinyl with the words "The Beatles" on it. So this isn't that odd you love who you love.
>>16780842
Oh 4chan, where would I love you too.
Guys, I think I'm slowly losing my sanity. I'm numb, I love my girlfriend but I feel I'm getting distance day by day. I have not my blood family, but my gf's family who love me and has done sooooo much for me. I feel like I'm slipping away and the only thing that makes me happy is video games and listening to people who have shared their deep web experience.
I'm getting more violent and feel myself getting happy when violence is involved. What do I do?
Pic related, it's the woman I love
Am I losing it?
How'd you guys meet?
>>16781088
On a movie set. But it's not about her
If anyone needs to talk, my skype is EchosOfAutumn. I leave it on 24/7. I'm here. Been a long time since i've posted on here but if you guys need to talk about anything at all, I won't judge. Sometimes you just need someone to vent to and whatnot
>>16780799
Would you listen to a Southern Italian with a shitty accent vent about how life gets harder and harder, love is complicated and you're parents are very old and soon you'll be alone?
Would you listen to all my regrets?
I have so many regrets.
I've missed so many trains, and disappointed everyone. I'm a piece of shit that needs to die.
I want to change, be a better person, be actually what I was before.
I feel so old and I've changed so much. All my dreams are dead. The only person I've ever loved lives 10 000 km away from me, and we can't be together anymore.
Why do I have to keep living like this? Why can't I be normal? Why do I fuck everything up?
My friends, my ex partner, my family, university.
Everything's fucked up.
Can I not use my voice? I don't want to use my voice but can't, for the moment find the vent thread, and I don't want to waste your time
what is catalog? Still I need it like right now it can't wait but I can't find it
all I've done the past year is "work on myself", and I still don't have a girlfriend. It's been a year, I'm tired of being single.
Why do you need another person to validate yourself?
Why?
>>16780794
I miss sex on a consistent basic, every FWB turns into wanting to be my partner. There's nothing wrong with this, except I don't see them that way.
>>16780793
I'm not sure yet. I would like some companionship and sex.
Which direction of the space/time oracle do I consult to obtain smokable DMT? I'm too nervous to blue light Austin and shake any hands. Looking to have shipped. I'm ready to embrace the other side without influence from a shotgun
Dark net is probably you're only choice if you're not going to go out and find a dealer. If you are wanting t, go to festivals and make friends with the right people
>mom is a bitch
>literally always pissed off and yelling
>slams shit when people are trying to get ready for bed while talking to herself
>mumbles mean shit as she walks by and slams doors
>freaks out 24/7
>acts sick/injured for attention
>every time me and my friends start laughing or I have a drink she goes on a rampage of slamming shit and screaming to herself
>she does nothing but sit inside her room getting more miserable by the second
>she has no friends or family at all no one can even stand being near her
>dad is too stupid/poor to divorce her
>she drinks every day and goes on a rampage of yelling at everyone and doing chores loud as fuck
The drunker she gets the meaner and she just lays in bed with a gallon of $10 vodka all day. She does everything she can to piss me off for no reason at all
>>>/r/RaisedByNarcissists
but no seriously that's textbook narcissism.
>>16780725
Your mom needs mental help.
Maybe you should seek professional help for her? Set up an intervention or check her into a mental health clinic? She sounds like a schizophrenic alcoholic narcissist.
If you're under the age of 18 I would maybe suggest looking into getting imancipated and getting out of there, if you're over 18 get out of there
hey /adv/,
I am an ok looking female and I found it hard to make friends my entire life, ever since my first social group environment, which was pre school at age 3 years old. I may have a mild case of Asbergers, or Autism, but I am able to cope with it well, and sort of teach myself to be normal.
Now that I am in my mid 20s, I have grown used to having few to no friends, but I get very surprised, and even freaked out when good looking, well balanced people are genuinely interested in being my friend. It sort of trips me out in a way.
Recently I got a nice hair cut and I have been complimented on it excessively in school, and people have been noticing me and acknowledging me more.
I also volunteered for this event last weekend, and I made an effort to introduce myself to everyone there. At the end, I made a good impression on this really pretty blonde girl who was interested in talking to me further. This really tripped me out because I am not used to it at all.
Another thing about me is that I was on Prozac for about a month to help with my social skills.
So../adv/, are people really this shallow? I am dressing a lot better now, showering etc, have a cute hair cut, and now all of a sudden people see me as a different person. This truly tripped me out and it took me a while to get used to it.It might also be the Prozac because I don't feel depressed or sad, ever. So this may increase my chances of making good impressions on people?
I feel like all of a sudden my life is changing pretty fast.
>>16780716
Not necessarily shallow, but I think most people are drawn to others by the way they carry themselves. It's much easier to approach someone who seems happy and we'll-adjusted. Also I think some people just tend to feel uncomfortable when dealing with someone who's depressed, especially if they've never been in that situation before. It might even be offputting for some.
But yeah, are you happy that this is happening to you? That's really all that matters. Maybe these people who acknowledge you now have noticed how much better you are in general, and this would make you seem much more approachable to them.
How did you find Prozac though, btw? I was on Zoloft for anxiety and it did not do me well haha
My long-distance boyfriend won't cam with me anymore.
We used to regularly. It was nice not only for sexual release but to be "intimate" with each other when distance made it not possible. Met up for the second time in September. Since then it declined, and stopped entirely a month later. He says ever since meeting up, camming has seemed inadequate, so he'd rather just use porn as it isn't worth the effort anymore to cam with me. I'll send him nudes, he'll compliment me but change the subject. Or I'll bring up something in conversation and it gets completely ignored. But he still finds me more attractive than when we first met. He's never sugarcoats anything, so I know he isn't lying about that.
I've been unable to visit him for medical/family reasons since September. It wasn't fair to him - I'd tell him I could go in a couple weeks, then it'd be prolonged again. But we went for 7 months not meeting the first time and everything was fine. I feel rejected and miserable having to wait months to have any kind of sexual relationship with him - currently, I can't see him now for at least another month.
What are you looking for advice on?
>>16780714
What to do about the situation, I guess. How to get him to be sexual with me when I keep trying and he constantly brushes me off because it's "too much work".
>>16780724
Well LDR aren't real relationships so it doesn't really matter
Have any of you beaten a drug addiction?
I haven't been able to stay sober for longer than 2 weeks since 6-7 years ago.
wat do
>>16780684
This is no small task. You'll need someone to keep you from relapsing, to see you through the withdrawal.
You can also alienate yourself from the people and places that enable your drug habit.
I was a meth addict for two years. I also did heroin regularly for a couple of months in those dark days.
I haven't done those in 5 years and the last hardest drug was ecstasy, and that was 6 months ago. I only smoke weed and drink beer occasionally( twice a week or less).
I also quit cigarettes and havent had one in 6 months (relapsed when rolling).
I dunno man. It certainly wasnt from having a strong will that I quit and being open minded and impulsive doesnt help.
I would say two things happened that turned my habits around: growing up and goals.
I took upon myself two goals: MMA training and getting a degree ( in chemistry). I realized that my partying habits were not conducive to a healthy life and it wasnt fun anymore. Those bad habits conflicted with the person I wanted to be and so I slowly got rid of those habits. If I relapsed, I tried again. I realized that my life didnt have much meaning partying all the time. I wanted to grow up and change. Change is possible. Have "faith" that you are capapble of change. Fuck, I'm just a normal guy with flaws and I changed completely to a guy with flaws still, but with goals and accomplisments under my belt.Best of luck.
i have been alcohol free for over 5 years. i drank daily for 5 years before that.
having a friend or a support network that isnt also drug addicts helps. sometimes AA/NA can help people but I personally do not recommend these things.
here is what I did:
to quit, i had to come to the conclusion that I wanted to quit. i had tried before but it was only when I wanted to quit solely for myself that it "stuck"
what I mean by this is you cant be doing it for someone else. none of this "my gf hates it when i drink so i dont!" bullshit. you need to need it for YOURSELF. for me, there is no "higher power" or anything. I am the ultimate thing in charge of myself, and until I truly wanted to better myself and really understood WHY i had to quit drinking it was just not possible for me otherwise. if this doesn't make sense to you, i recommend meditating on it, or just thinking about it, or whatever you gotta do.
i don't know exactly how to describe it, because it really didn't "click" with me until I reached some sort of higher understanding of myself and what I needed to do, for ME. real personal growth comes from within. i'm not a spiritual person at all, and I don't believe there is necessarily a spiritual component to this, but I will say that people who are spiritual might have a better idea of what I'm trying to convey even though I'm so bad at explaining it.
I will say that if you're doing anything about it, even posting here about it, that's a good sign. it means that you cared enough to ask for help and that if you did this completely of your own volition and weren't compelled into thoughts about quitting by another person or told you needed to ask someone, that's a good sign that personal growth is truly possible for you. i'll check this thread again later if you want to ask me any more questions and hopefully I can help. best of luck anon!
Hey /Adv/
I'm a 20 year old introvert male who literally has no real life friends right now. In High School, I never really had problems making friends. I was always in the weird kid groups, but I had friends.
From Senior year of high school to the beginning of my Sophomore year of college, I even had a LDR with girl I really liked.
However, during this time (High School -> Sophomore year of college) I literally lost all my friends. My schedule started consisting of Wake up -> School -> Homework -> Shitpost -> Talk QT -> Smoke pot -> Bed.
When my LDR decided to break up with me, I realized I don't have any other friends. She wasn't just my Qt, she was my best friend. We broke up on Chirstmas day during a visit to her.
Anyways, here I am, in community college, no friends or anything.
How can I fix this. Should I wait until I transfer next fall?
I've also got two transfer options. UC Davis(2 year to degree) or Kings College London (3 year to degree). KCL is appealing because I start in year one and I can have the freshman experience I never had and I will be in a big city. This is for Neuroscience. What is better for both social and reputation?
>>16780656
If it's friends you want, they're everywhere. Go where you see opportunity. Friends will come if you at least make an effort, not just sit in the back waiting for someone to talk to you.
>>16780656
Making friends gets harder as you get older. It's hard to avoid making friends in high school since you have so much time spent around people your age with whom you have much in common. Now you've got to actually make an effort to find people and connect with them. Try joining clubs, starting a sport, or otherwise doing something that involves being around people.
>>16780677
My CC has no clubs. Like actualy none.
Hey /adv/, wondering were i can get something like pic related for my qt3.14 gf. I've looked around but the ones ive seen look shitty and cheap. Anyone know where I can get a really nice one thats over 5 ft? Preferably something I can order online please. just something that doesnt look like shit,
I don't know any girl who'd actually want to receive something that big.
Just search on Amazon, anything above $40 with lots of good reviews should be what you're looking for
>>16780664
>tfw am grill and would love a giant teddy
I'd cuddle with it all day and be the happiest bean.
OP, try this:
http://www.giantteddy.com/valentines-day-teddy-bears/
Or amazon. I dunno, you have a lot of options.
I think the panda is really cute.
Hey adv I need some, guess what, advice. I have been dating this girl for 3 years now. She treats me like shit though, constantly puts me down and makes me look like a bad guy to everyone. Tells people I beat her and I never even raised my voice to her. Even so, she still does show some affection sometimes and we've done a lot and been through a lot together. The problem is there is this other girl ive been talking to that is WAY more supportive, and treats me much better, and we have so many common interests its scary. So I guess what I'm trying to ask is should I break my old thing off and start new or maybe try to reignite the spark?
>girl treats me like shit
>what do.
WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU THINK?
Look, if someone is the kind of person to treat the people they supposedly love like shit even sometimes, that is not the kind of person you want to be with long term. That's bad character, that will never get better without self recognition and hard work.
If you're already in this deep with your other girl, you've already checked out.. Fuck it. Are you willing to tell your girlfriend she needs to change and sit there and see if she will even try. Fuck it..
>Tells people I beat her and I never even raised my voice to her.
If that's true she's either insane or sociopathic.
>>16780642
Leave her ASAP. Don't be such a spineless tool in the future.
