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Is Tindering on Valentine's day weekend a good idea for easy pick'ins?
>>16779785
Lol. You think things will change for you because of a holiday?
I doubt it. You're likely to find lots of people who are disappointed about having no one to romance them. But how are you supposed to change that? It's not like you have reservations booked so that you can take out some stranger. I also doubt you're willing to drop hundreds on a rando. So what's left, drinking and fucking? All that's gonna do is remind them of how pathetically lonely they are, that they can't even get actual affection on Valentine's Day. Cue the sobbing as soon as the clothes start coming off or, worse yet, mid-fucking.
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I'm a 22 y/o kv and I've finally decided to fix that.
I have plenty of female friends and can hold a good conversation with them but no-one has ever thought of me in a sexual way.
I get that people judge on appearances and I'm a 4/10 by internet standards, I live in the UK though so I guess I'm at an advantage there. What I'm trying to do is look for ways to change how I speak, what to say, and some aspects of my appearance.
I plan to get going with tinder since it's the only way I can think of to meet girls, I've got a...
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>>16779768
Having a couple of decent pictures is no use if you look nothing like them in real life, you know.
>>16779776
I look like the good pictures, I'm just not that photogenic.
Bump
Get me a gf guys
On second thought, help me become able to get a gf
I've been working as a cashier for 2 months and I'm still making stupid mistakes
What do I do? I don't wanna get fired
>>16779743
If you encounter a situation where you don't know what to do. Ask for advice. Dont keep on going fucking things up. And when you're told you're fucking things up. Ask what you are doing wrong and how you should improve. It's a lesson the first time after that it's an mistake. Be pro-active
>>16779743
If it makes you feel any better, I never fucked up more at any job (before and after college) than I did working as a cashier at Wendy's. Not joking.
>>16779743
>>16779775
Oh and "adv" - be that retard who counts carefully and people get mad at, but with his ass covered basically.
Hey, /adv/. Me and my girlfriend are both virgins but went to the movies yesterday and I decided to finger her for the first time. It was my first time fingering her and a few inches inside her, I felt a pointy and roundish, fleshy object inside her. What exactly is that? Was it her clit or something else?
>>16779728
unless something is very messed up with her physiology, that was not her clit.
>>16779732
I did research it a little bit and a few answers I got was her cervix. I'm still not sure.
Are you 10?
How do you talk to women? How can I not appear so embarrassed and reluctant?
Talk to them as if they were another male. They are people just like men are, except slightly more boring.
I seriously don't understand how people have this much trouble talking to the opposite gender. Do you actually live in your mother's basement and never go outside or something?
>>16779722
Convince yourself that you wouldn't fuck her even if she threw herself at you.
This will remove any sexual tension coming from you and that is a great start.
Realizing that talking to a chic is the same as talking to a guy will get you a long way.
Besides this, maybe tell us about yourself..
It's hard to give advice when you don't know a person, at least just i general terms.
How do you handle things when the girl you meet through a dating website turns out to be a lot fatter than her pictures made her look online? What do you even say?
"It was nice meeting you but I'll have to get going. Take care."
You don't have to explain. Just think about it: she's the one who put the pictures up. She knows what she did. She knows exactly why you're leaving. Any last-minute pleas or questions are just as much of a lie as the photos and don't deserve your response.
>>16779674
If you're resorting to meeting girls through online dating, you're not in a position to be picky
>>16779674
This happed to me once.
>Sit down at a bar waiting for her
>She comes and sits next to me
>Her picture must be like 3-5 years old
>She is much fatter and uglier
>tell her she is fatter and doesn't look like the pics
>She gets upset and says i only care about looks
Tell her she's a hypocrite cause if she where...
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So I started taking anti depressants a week ago as instructed by doctor, i got some nausea which i got over fine, some twitching and im unable to orgasm thats fine whatever
but today i noticed some abnormal bleeding from the uterus, its 5 days too early for me, and it hasnt been bleeding all day, in fact it seems to have just burst out once and then stopped.
Should i be worried about this?
There has been some very mild pain in my uterus leading up to it and even now but it doesnt really feel like a period pain, its not continuous.
You call your doc asap. Sounds unhealthy
My girlfriend wants to go to Norway for a year to study the language. I don't really want her to because we used to live apart for years before she was finally able to move in with me, and it sucked. She's happy for me to go with her but I really don't want to. I wouldn't be able to find work there, so what would I do?
Should I let her go?
Probably. She doesn't sound very invested in the development of the relationship, whereas you do. I'm not sure if she knows that the relationship cannot really progress if she's in Norway and that you can't realistically follow her there. (Plus it would be foolish for you to take that risk for the sake of a relationship with a person who is not only lacking the same contribution of effort, but is in fact making decisions that work against its future.) But either way I just don't think she cares. That's unfortunate but people have different priorities...
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>>16779666
This is bullshit. The real answer:
B B C
What's the purpose of life: to live as long as your body will last under none chronically painful conditions both physically and mentally depending on your dealt set of cards ie genetics, where you grew up, class born into, friends you are able to meet, hobbies while trying to achieve dreams that are probably 1/2 narcissisticly motivated and trying to integrate into societal norms such as obtaining a career that will comfortably support a wife and kids?
>>16779606
Well, to me, the point of life is to explore and adventure. I know that because that's when I feel most satisfied.
>>16779614
OP here, i'd agree on some terms. I have felt most alive during my travels yet even then have felt a feeling of point. Like, even though I am seeing, exploring, venturing, and discovering I feel an empty emotional quality and a fear that I am wasting time....
You give life it's purpose.
If you don't there is no point in living.
Ok i smoked weed 4th time yestorday and had 1 shot of 47% and a beer. Now my body is numb. Ive never experienced this before, like i put my hands in my sleeves and i woukd get this numb tingly feeling. What is happening to me? I am fully conciois but my body just feel so weird.
>>16779569
Youre crunk. Im the same way rn too.
What should you do when you've lost all hope?
Realise that you're not viewing reality rationally. You don't know what the future holds for you. Nobody does.
>>16779573
You don't need to complete a chess game before you know you've lost.
