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>have an baddly paid, but stable and comfortable job as cashier in a supermarket
>live alone
>have several dakimakuras of the best girls who keep me company
>decorate my place with animu merchandise, flags, /k/ stuff, picture frames of my waifus, and a lot of other things i find pretty
>watch anime on couch with a warm blanket, chips and soda cola, lights always off
>have a 5/5 battlestation with countless vidya ready to play
>eat and drink greasy junk food - chocolate, cheese, pizza, chocolate with milk, soda, sandwhiches, etc.
>have a very comfortable bed
>have the best reaction pictures and porn on my 4chan folder
>laptop and cellphone to post without having to get on my computer
i think life cannot get any better.
is there anything i'm missing?
i'd like to know what things i should buy to make me even happier.
maybe i should get some AC but that thing's upkeep is too high.
I would love to be content with the life you have. Those are all my hobbies and passions and I love them, but I often feel that life is "passing me by" and that i'm not doing what my parents would have wanted.
Do you have any desire to find and experience love? I think that's the biggest thing fucking me up right now. It's not even the sex really, just some love and companionship would be nice.
Anyways anon you're living the dream. You have a job that's comfortable and you're surrounded by the things you love and you're happy. I wish you could teach me your ways.
>>16796695
Becareful.
Dont get too attached.
You've invested your happiness on ephemeral things. Great. You're just like any other person here.
>>16796729
>ephemeral
What isn't ephemeral?
Sleep lately has been terrifying to me for some reason (since Wednesday last week). Usually I fall asleep and immediately wake up, no dreams/nightmares. My body hurts during sleep but feels alright before and after sleep. Am I being paranoid, is that preventing me from sleeping? I took two small naps earlier today and they drained me emotionally but physically rested. I've gotten 5 hours these past 3 days and the thought of sleeping right now hurts my stomach even though my shoulders feel exhausted.
What do?
See a doctor. But in the mean time take your mind off things, reading helps me when I have trouble sleeping. Hope this helps.
hey /adv/.
I really need some advice about this.
To make it really short : I've been really depressed since I was 12. Single mom started driking when I was 10. Father is in prison. Mom manipulated me all my life to always have control over me. I dropped school. I Was studying visual communication to become an artistic director or charadesigner. I dont want to do this anymore.
Actually every jobs seems boring and non challenging for me. And the ones that i would "like" to do needs a lot of studies. I wouldnt mind desu, but i'm 19, it will...
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>>16790319
Yeah buddy doing the same thing.
Been jerking off aimlessly for years and finally decided enough is enough, gonna get fit and join the air force before the end of the year.
Only difference is you have a 6 year head start on me.
Big thing you need to think about is the army needs you to travel a lot. You can do one of two things, leave bf behind and come home to him every few months, or take him with you. Neither are fair to him. He will either miss you terribly or have to abandon his career.
So,...
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>>16790354
Glad to hear that you're going to make it
I've talked to him about this, he dosent mind coming with me as he dosent mind staying, i'm lucky to have a strong realtionship with him, we know that the distance will hurt but if it's the best choice that I have, he's in. (+our relationship was over the internet and we passed month whitout saying each other because our parents didint want us to meet for stupid reasons) and i think it will be good for him to have some time alone, he will...
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>>16790430
me* damn phone
i'll do somme research about what i can do. Thanks for your answer buddy.
Hey guys, it's my first post on this board.
I have some kind of problem right now.
I am in my first relationship right now. The thing is its a long distance relationship. We have texted each other and called a few times but nothing else.
We have also talked about a few future plans and here comes the problem. We kinda have different opinions about the ideal future.
She said she wants kids someday which is something I don't ever want.
I told her that I do not want children and she seems ok with that. Now I wonder if it's ok or not. I kinda...
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>>16790290
Reality check: You are not in a relationship. You have a Pen Pal.
At the very most, you have a friend you've never met. It is FAR too early to be talking about children. It is ridiculous to even imagine you are in love.
Get to know each other as friends. It would be nice if you could actually meet in real life. Maybe then you can begin to think of it as a relationship, and only then do you begin to try to define the future and shape of the relationship.
The decision of having kids is not something to play around with OP.
>I told her that I do not want children and she seems ok with that
If you plan living the rest of your life with this person then this is a big issue.
If no then its not a big deal.
If you do, we will need to know why you dont want kids.
>>16790290
What a god awful mess.
What are you like 17? You're gonna change your tune on the kids thing, sooner or later.
This long distance thing is dumb as well. You don't have a relationship, you have a potential relationship. Until you two can see eachother and act on your plans together you can't do a damn thing.
Honestly I don't think you know what you want yet and shouldn't take this seriously until you do.
Are their any tips or ways on how to lucid dream, I've done it before as a kid but for some reason I want to again but I'm having trouble I've tried a few methods but nothing ever pulls through. So I'm kinda at standstill.
There are entire books on this. The methods tend to be the same for most of them. Overall lucid dreaming is a skill, and like all skills you can get better with practice.
https://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Lucid_Dreaming
>>16790264
Alright, thank you.
A qt just asked me me to be her bf. A bro of mine told me to say this to her and kiss her immediately afterwards. What do you think? Recommend any improvements?
>Listen Anonette. I love the time we spend together, we always have a great time. However you need to know that I am not the person jumps into relationships; I feel too many people do that and they end up ruining everything. That is the last thing I want to happen to us.
>The main reason I feel this way is because when I commit to a relationship; I go all...
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That is terrible. Rule one is never talk about the relationship.
>>16796654
>"sure"
>make out
That speech is fucking gay btw.
You full out type of guy huh? Prove it with your actions. Words are most of the time, temporary feel good things that don't actually matter unless tested.
>>16796654
Don't say lines retard.
What the god awful he'll are you trying to tell this poor girl?
I'm an organizer with a small union. We have a storefront which we open to the public four days a week. We unionize people who make their living on the street, like buskers, scrappers, pickers, panhandlers, and so on, so none of us have very much money. Because we understand what it's like not to have any place to hang out when you're broke, we make sure our union hall always has an urn of fresh, hot coffee and some snacks available so that people can come in, sit down, relax, and chill without having to pay anything.
We assumed that people would come in...
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>>16790243
That's what you get for trying to unionize, leftist scum.
Now remember, there is no such thing as a free lunch. Make it union members only.
>Twinkies, cookies, and potato chips.
lol
switch to crackers, the cheap kinds. If people are coming just for food I'm not sure if you want them to be apart of your organization.
If supplying food just becomes unsustainable then just stop doing it.
> if people are desperate
If you live in the west like the rest of us then those people are fine. Its absolutely unrealistic to think that those peoples only option for food are the twinkies youre paying for.
overall it sounds like youre...
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>>16790269
For the record, I'm a mutualist anarchist, which is generally considered slightly right of centre. This isn't /pol/ and I'm genuinely and magnificently uninterested in your O'Reilly Talking Points view of unions. (PS: You're welcome for weekends, sick days, and not dying of black lung at the age of 35.)
And we're not going to close the union hall to the public. We know what it's like to walk down the street with no money in your pocket and not be able to get a drink when...
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Is it healthy to you use the whitening strips after after each pack? After I finish the 12 I bought could I just use another 12 to perpetually whiten my teeth? Will it even work?
>>16790209
Consult a dentist.
>>16790209
I use the crest 5 minute touch up whitening strips daily. Those are meant for daily use, but I wouldn't use a full whitening kit everyday. Start with the daily strips for 25-30 minutes and once you use that pack start using the 5 minute touch up strips.
When I was in my young teens there was an older guy who sent me a lot of explicit messages and occasionally pictures. He's now a primary school teacher. I'm now over 18. Can he still get fucked up for the stuff he sent me when I was a minor?
If there is solid evidence yes.
>>16796461
Why you gonna be all Tom Petty? You stupid little cunt of a faggot of a bitch of a worthless human being who thinks fucking people over is gratifying.
You mad he's not fucking your boipussy now?
>>16796464
Text messages on my phone and images solid enough evidence? Lewd messages and stuff that proves that he was having phone sex with me.
im in collige and my crush said "today you dont smell like onion" and then hugged andsniff me. what did he mean? im embarassed
>>16790186
how you got in college without spelling college ill never understand. and stop wearing boots.
>>16790186
it's all ogre now
It means you smell like onion
>essay draft due in uni class
>completely forgot about it
>skip the class so I don't have to be the center of negative attention
Do I have autism?
You dont have autism but you are a pussy for not going to class over negative attention
>>16790184
You're just irresponsible.
And you don't have the first idea of what autism is. Look it up before you go on tossing the word around wrongly.
How do I make $400 last me 2 weeks?
Work minimum wage
>>16796459
I do, that's where this paycheck came from
>>16796455
Sounds easy to me champ go eat some ramen and discount meat/veg and do cheap shit for fun like running and reading books.
I hope you like walking or taking the bus everywhere.
>me
>be with a north african woman for 4 years (she muslim, me white).
>Living and travelling together.
>Go through a bunch of strong life obstacles together but in the end we always stay together.
>No vagina sex. Anal (rarely and slow) and blow job only.
>Get married recently.
>First time is painful and awkard for her. Condomless. She takes morning after pills...
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You'll be fine. Maybe not happy, or satisfied by the outcome. But whatever happens you'll live and grow
>>16796433
Man up and accept responsibility OP. A child is a blessing. The timing will never be perfect, you don't get to pick and choose these things. Man up and deal with it.
NO! It is too lame at this age and time.
I'm having phone sex for the first time and I'm really bad and he said he was gonna take some pics of his dick so I don't have a lot of time someone help me tell me what to say to make it less awkward
?
say what you think, at least the positive stuff
compliment his wang or something
>>16790150
Doesn't sound like you really want to do this, just don't answer the call.
>New Years
>lose wallet at hotel
>they claim to not have it
>call back last week and say they found t
>had ss card in it like dumbass
>someone ran a credit check on my name
What do?
I work at that same hotel. What's your ss number so if I run across your card, I'll know it's yours
>>16790222
clever
