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I'm an IV drug addict. I've been clean for 6 days now. Before that I'd been clean for about 6 months. I can't seem to stop going back to it, despite all the shitty things that happen to me.
Seriously, what should I do to stay away from this shit? It feels fucking impossible. I've done a number of recovery programs, and they've kept me away from shit longer than if I wasn't in a program, but I still slip back into it one way or another.
Ugh, I'm just so tired of this shit. I don't even enjoy it anymore, in fact I fucking...
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Hey, just because you relapsed doesn't mean you haven't made progress. Being clean for an extended period of time from one of the most addictive drugs in existence is something to be proud of.
Keep working with the recovery programs. Do you have a sponsor or anything like that? Do you have people you can call when you feel like you're going to relapse?
>>16791545
thats basically the life of an addict after they seek recovery. dont feel TOO bad. the hangover(even if just a spiritual one) always makes you realize you were on the right path.
remember that EVERYONE makes mistakes. not just drug addicts. no matter how good you are at losing weight, you'll binge on junk food at some point. no matter how great you are about exercise, you'll stay home and rest one day. no matter how many times you win employee of the month, you still check your facebook at the...
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I havent fapped since 3 days before 2016. Ive stopped looking at images of women in lingerie now or naked like 3 weeks ago. But last night I cheated. I watched 3 second clips of a my favorite blowjob scene.
Did I ruin no fap. Did I lose all the gains of no porn just from that. I was a little worried because I think I flatlined. Like before I was just really horny but now that horniness is gone and Im a little worried. Good news is that I wake up with boners again but I do feel like my libido decreased. Maybe its because without images I dont have access to looking at the opposite sex.
Fapping isn't bad. It's porn that kills people's sex drives and shit. Go ahead and beat your meat but quitting porn would be good for your mental health.
>>16791993
I know. I dont want to fap because my dick feels like its been revitalized barring the lower libido.
Like I no longer need to touch my dick to get a boner, and I get random erections again.
But yeah porn is the worst. But its was my favorite bj scene and I only watched 3 seconds of it. I didnt actually want to watch the scenes because it felt like watching porn again.
>>16792414
Yeah what the other guy said. Fapping is fine as long as you only do it when you need to, like if you can't stop thinking about sex and it's ruining your productivity.
Or if your blue balls are so painful that you can barely walk.
Otherwise save your energy. No need to fap everyday, I try to do it only once every week and only if I don't have sex that week.
So I went to look at a car at a dealership and asked about the condition of it, and if I could have it looked at so I have a realistic idea of what I'll be spending on repairs. The sales guy literally yelled that it's a cheap car and they'll tell me to replace everything. I asked if the price was negotiable and he said since its a cheap car he won't negotiate. Is this a normal occurrence? I've never bought a car before lol
>>16791513
I mean, it's normal.
The transmission is on it's last legs. The car costs 2 thousand bucks.
WIll cost 3 grand to repair it when the tranny breaks.
So the car is worth around $400-$500 for scrap metal.
He's trying to get you to buy it, fast, without asking questions, before that tranny dies,
So how cheap is it? Let's say KBB price is $3,000 and he's selling it for $1,000 then yeah, it will need everything.
But if he's selling it for $4,500, it better not even squeak.
>>16791541
If he's selling it for 4,500 then the KBB better be 5,000+ and it better not squeak
No one buys/sells at KBB prices.
Hey, so im in my second semester as a freshman at University. I'm majoring in mechanical and aerospace engineering. But I have been thinking about doing ROTC and go active duty in the Army.
If i go in the military as an officer i want to be commissioned as an infantry officer, armor officer, or join the corp of engineers.
Some of my concerns is that:
After i serve my years and i get out, what are the chances of me landing an engineering job although while in the military i never did anything related to engineering.
If i join what are the chances of...
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>>16791493
"chances" mean very little.e about once a day we get someone who posts 'i fucked my girlfriend without a condom. what are the chances she got pregnant?'
as if 'chances' will ease your mind or change anything. so in terms of what are your chances of being deployed... does it matter? you could be. you could not. its almost arbitrary. my brother went in and never got sent to the middle east. other people go straight there.
>>16791499
I honestly dont mind being deployed.
Im just concerned about it for the sake of my parents and other loved ones.
>>16791503
which still wont matter with 'chances'. you either will or you wont.
after 3 years of thinking about it, im pretty sure im gay. yeah, it's one of these threads again but i need to know what to say.
whilst im sure many people are ok with this, such as a few people ive already told, i dont know what to say to my parents or the church they force me over to. i feel as if i would have a lot of trouble explaining it to them.
after my recent history with girls, many people will be understanding hopefully. i just need something to say to people who aren't understanding.
p.s not telling anyone isn't an option as it...
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How did you know you were gay?
Was there a time when you thought you were but was still more aroused by women?
>>16791483
>i just need somethign to say to people who aren't understanding.
literally the only thing you can say is
>sorry, its just the way the world is
id stay in the closet, its easier than you'd think in this day and age. but if you must come out just lead wtih 'turns out im gay'. and if they get mad, leave the room. give them time to cool off so you can talk about it calmly later.
You can come right out and say "Just thought I'd let you know. I'm gay" or you could assume they know:
you: "I'm going out tonight on a date."
parents:" nice. who are you going with?"
you: "this guy I met at work"
parents: "you're going out on a date with a GUY?"
you: "yeah. you knew I was gay, right?"
Having said that, I was thrown out of the house when I came out as lesbian. If you have any inkling that may happen to you, don't come out until you have a place you...
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Hey /adv/ I am looking for some help,
I am a HS Senior (18) and I am planning on attending my local college and possibly receive an AS or Certificate.
Problem is that I am stuck on deciding.
I used to be set on going into the medical field but I'm not sure if my heart is completely set on it.
I am already somewhat sure what seems to stand out from each field I made a basic list based on what the college offers but generally what field seems to be a better option?
Medical or Computer occupations.
Maybe some tips and gen advice....
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Self bumping
Trust me this isnt the time to ask about career advice I can already hear the carpentry faggots typing a long and descriptive reason of why you should do carpentry but the best advice I can tell you is
>Stem is meme
>liberal arts is meme
But medical cant be outsourced to Indianirnos so you should be ok with a career there
>In the middle of university
>need to study like a madman to pass this shit
>play Darkest Dungeon instead of studying
>skip lectures way to often
>masturbate ALOT, even tho I have a girl and she dtf on the regular
>seriously, I catch myself rubbing one out up to 4 times a day
What th
>>16791442
porn addiction. kinda have it myself. was turning down regular bareback sex with a really fucking hottie because i wanted to watch porn instead. not good for you.
the best you can do is just stop. dont masturbate for a week. then ur drive begins to come back. when it comes to ur qt try doing something a little kinky to get you motivated.
never masturbate before bed. it makes you lazy. i know when you were younger you could cum 8 times a day and still do your homework, clean the house, workout and...
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>wanting to get deathgrip this badly
And never reply after that? I swear I've gotten a handful of girls to give me their number right away only to never answer me after sending 'hey its jenny'.
Just hand out your number to people you don't really wanna talk to, are you that dumb? If I was a psychopath I could wreck someone with that.
Theyre looking for a strong and tall carpenter who knows how to use his hands come and wreck their vagina.
Best start learning now.
>>16791410
As a girl who used to do that, I dunno.
I can't speak for all women, but sometimes I'll get cold feet right after giving someone my number. It's not that I suddenly lose interest, I'm just too much of a social autist.
Don't take it personally. Just move on, mang.
>>16791517
Not taking it personal, its just kind of puzzling and a rather dumb thing to do.
Where would it be a good place to get a gofundme shared around?
One of my childhood friends, a father and a Marine suffered a devastating motorcycle accident and i'm looking for advice of where I can possibly spread the word I'm desperate.
Thank you for your time friends.
>>16791393
>>16791401
I have it circulating around facebook already.
Thank you for the reply.
I'm 18, I can get laid with relative ease but I still use escorts. What gives?
You're too lazy and prefer to use disposable income to pay for the company of women? That's my first impression.
I've always been successful with girls so I've never even considered the notion, even at my laziest I've had at least a couple of different girls who I could text or call and probably cop a root off pretty quick. Maybe you're not quite there yet young padawan.
>>16791415
What are some advanced things I should know?
>>16791542
Be yourself
I've been getting myself together and out there looking for working but with some finding help but I'm running into a bit of a concern not with them but in my options. I was wanting to start with part time and maybe move to full later as that would be the best way to adjust from never having a real job before. But then they currently do have a hard time finding me stuff that is part time and did mention lately a full time one (but i probably wouldn't take this exact one it's full time at night), but I do not think I am in a position yet to be able to handle...
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>>16791380
Cart before the horse anon.
Worry about finding a job before you worry about hours and let your financial need dictate how many hours you try to work.
Look at it this way: there's a lot of people out there that work part time and would kill for full time but can't find anything. I'd say go with full time. If you don't like it, stick with it for as long as you can while you look for something else. It depends obviously on what kind of job, but full time isn't that difficult to deal with. You might even like it, who knows
