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Is brother/sister incest really that bad?
Yes.
Not in my book. As long as people don't reproduce.
Anything else is just society being retarded and showing that most of them do not use their fucking brains at all.
Morally yes it's bad. Do I give a fuck? No as long as you don't have children with your sibling simply because that child is going to most likely have a lot of genetic problems and have a miserable life. I mean incest has been a thing throughout human history. Still though don't breed it really is unfair for the kid. Other than that by all means fuck each other to exhaustion, hell call in the parents have a party the house ain't gonna stank itself.
How much do I need to consume?
>>16790565
It's for a prank
>>16790566
witnEss these dubs
>>16790577
Don't know if /adv/ can help me but here goes..
Last year I was told I have Psoriatic arthritis, the Doctor told me if I don't take a drug called methotrexate I'll be in a wheelchair within 10 years.
The thing is my Dad had the same problem and took methotrexate. He ended up with liver failure and a host of other issues. Bare in mind I'm 28 and would be on the drug probably for the rest of my life.
I currently take Naproxen which will fuck my stomach with continued use
So here is my question, would you take a drug that could...
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>>16797077
I usually let the coin handle my booleans for me
>>16797117
My hands are too shitty to flip.. let alone catch a coin
Having endured both the effects of long-term naproxen usage and the specter of liver issues myself, I'd take the latter. I know it's a horrible way to go but the crippling pain of your stomach lining dissolving away is a horrible way to get there.
Any security contractos/PSD personnel?
Got a few questions to ask about the field
>>16790542
Currently on a 36 hour furlough in Qatar. Shoot.
>>16790550
Not op here, how does one join, and whats the pay
>>16790582
There is an initiation test where your team blind folds you and give a spoon full of warm slaty butter.
I want to learn how to talk like that (i.e. sound like a native speaker when I am not).
Pic related
>>16790534
>>16790611
>>16790795
Where are you from?
As you speak English, pay attention to where exactly your voice is resonating in your mouth. Visualize it, if that helps.
British received pronunciation -what many people outside the UK call a "British accent", though that's not really accurate- resonates far forward, in the front of the mouth. If you push your own voice forward, you'll get something that sounds very similar; it just sort of falls out naturally. If you pull it all the way toward the back of your mouth, you'll get something very like a Slavic accent. Obviously you're not going...
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>>16790534
Heidi Klum has an accent.
Best ways, I mean.
Things she told me to do:
>structure study time better as a motivator
>rewarding self for doing positive things, short-term and long
>being more aware of my emotions when feeling anxious
>having positive thoughts
Are you ready to advise??
>>16797015
Did you pay this therapist actual money?... I'm pretty sure I've read all of those on fortune cookies, or was it in my horoscope, I forget...
>How to do actions?
Are you literally telling us how to swallow the pill?
Fucking do it or don't.
Okay, lets go.
> If you keep a routine, studying gets easier and your mind gets concentrated on it. Raises your grade, keeps your mind occupied, avoiding bad thoughts.
How to? Buy a black board and find some hours to study trhough the week.
Reward yourself for positive things?
Thats behaviorism, and it works like hell... You do something good and reward yourself, so your body will say "HEY! If i do it, I'll be rewarded!" And suddenly, it's now a habit.
How to?
Buy yourself a tab of the chocolate you...
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A girl just stormed out of my house in tears because I broke up with her. She felt that it was completely random and that I wasn't being open with her and that frustrated her to the point of tears. The reason she feels that way is because I had to perform a whole array of linguistic gymnastics to try to let her down in all sorts of disingenuous ways in order to avoid telling her that "I'm simply no longer attracted to you."
This is a pattern I have. Every time I seek to end a relationship, my reasons for doing so seem too cruel to say out loud. So...
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The key to a good breakup is a matter of timing, not wording. Nobody ever really cared why they were getting broken up with so much as the fact that it was happening. You don't really need linguistic gymnastics so much as softening the blow. "I'm not attracted anymore" becomes "you're wonderful, but I've lost passion and it wouldn't be fair of me to continue"
Doing this immediately after the pregnancy scare is a bit of a rollercoaster for her I'm sure.
How to get over the fact that I'm no longer in her life? She broke up with me three months ago but I know she's having depressions right now. I cant help, I can't text her, I can't hug her...nothing.
I feel bad that I wasnt the one who'll free her from this. I always felt with her, even now...is it creepy?
Why the fuck we have these kind of thread every single fucking day? do you guys lost all the creativity for baits, try some diversity next time and please, elaborate more, this make this too fucking obvious
I don't see why it should be bait.
Look up the channel "school of life" on youtube, they have a nice series about relationships which has helped me a lot when I had a relapse on my ex girlfriend, a couple of months ago.
Am I a bad person for not caring about politics one single bit?
Not at all.
Politics is usually surrounded with corruption, robbery, violence and conflict.
None of them seems quality of the interest of good people.
Not that the people who care are bad, no, but, well, not caring doesn't mean you are.
Just for the lols: I don't give a fuck about politics since I was born. I'm 25, major philosopher and I think anarchy is the thing.
FUCK POLITICS, HAIL LIFE =)
>>16796946
No. Caring about politics these days is a hobby, not an citizen's obligation.
>>16796946
I take it you don't pay any significant amount of taxes?
I cannot graduate community college, never mind university, without passing/and or showing proficiency in intermediate algebra. I took pre-algebra, failed it in 7th grade, took algebra 1 in 8th -- failed it too, and took algebra 1 again in high school and got passed on a C after having a math tutor do all my homework in class, and letting me cheat on the exam (this is a charter school, only way that could've happened). I start taking community college classes. Had an accident one year into CC; mild brain injury, migraines, tremors, anxiety. Took me 4 years, taking classes...
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How much time do you spend by yourself trying to learn math?
>>16790442
Not as much as I should, maybe 4-6 hours a week. I went to the tutoring center at the college and trying getting one on one with the tutors. One dedicated me like 2 hours cause his table was empty. As soon as another student showed up, he started ignoring my questions. The student like after 30 mins and I just pretended to be busy in the meantime. After she left, the tutor told me that he thinks I have a learning disability because I wasn't getting very basic concepts and I kept asking the same stuff over and over. I stopped going to the tutoring center after that. I think 2 weeks later, I withdrew from the algebra class.
>>16790454
Oh shit, i thought you were studying for less than 2 a week. Thats almost always the problem with math-dummies.
I think you should maybe increase the time you spend up to maybe 7-8 hours a week, I know it sounds a bit crazy but at that point most people start getting it.
If it doesn't work and your seeing tutors along with it you might actually have a learning disability. You really are unlucky if that's the case.
I got a fraudulent discharge from the military almost a year ago now. How badly is this going to effect my career/ life?
I said career but I actually meant job searching.
Why were you fraudulently discharged?
>>16790391
What is a fraudulent discharge? Do you mean you got a legitimate discharge fraudulently, by faking illness or something?
TIf the discharge is a legitimate one, no one need ever know how you got it. That's between you and your conscience (and maybe the military, if they ever find out).
Incidentally, it might be useful to learn the difference between EFFECT and AFFECT.
Hey /adv/, Femanon here, need some help.
Have a male friend, been friends for 4 years, really close. The kind of friend you tell all your secrets to, and who tells you theirs. The two of us have always supported each other and been there for one another.
Yesterday I received a message from him, and then noticed that shortly after I read the message, he blocked my phones, my email, unfriended and ignored me on all social media, ect. He suddenly just cut me out of his life entirely.
I have no idea why. I don't understand, and can't get any real...
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>>16796835
He likes you but he knows he will be friendzoned so he thinks it's better off to cut contact in order to move on.
Might have been something traumatic that he has no idea how to deal with? I for example cut ties with freaking everything when my depression worsened, because I didn't consider myself to be worthy enough.
But that's just my assumption.
>>16796839
more than likely this.
OP, did you ever get ANY sign at any point that your male friend might like you more than you like him?
k guys this is a suicide drugs thread online. which drugs can i order online to kill myself, yours truly op.
>>16790380
Vitamin D.
Od on the D.
lets talk about tramadol you guys. if the proper amount that's a lethal dose is taken, would it be painless? how much is a lethal dose?
>>16790390
Just take the D man, take lots of D.
a friend i have been crushing over for a LONG ass time asked if i wanna watch a show with them and i said yes
for almost a year we have been just talking as friend but i feel that recently we have been getting more and more "flirty" i guess is the word
i d'ont know if i'm reading too much into this but i am going to explode with excitement plus IF this is a date it'll be my first
so what im asking is does anybody have any tips on how not to spill all my spaghetti while not seeming cold towards them?
>pic...
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>>16790370
you're kida cute.
go full spaghetti, spaghetti here. if spaghetti is you then be you.
Escalating flirtation, and they ask you to do something alone with them. That is absolutely a date. I would make subtle moves, and then move in for something that shows you know what's what, like grab their private area and make deep eye contact.
This will work, surely, it is a date and it's what normal people do on dates.
>>16790438
>grab their private
Holy shit don't do this
pic unrelated, though the subject of my advice is toxic
So I'm at university studying theatre and I'm a huge autist. But that, strangely, is not the problem. There's this gay guy in the class who's even fucking worse. Overweight, sadistic, mildly weeaboo, the kind of guy who takes a sword prop from Romeo and uses it to perform some lightsaber-style dance shit.
And this motherfucker is obsessed with me.
For reference, I'm asexual, but have long, well-maintained hair, and being a slightly-flamboyant theatre student a lot of people assume I'm...
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>>16790335
how bout saying
'Listen, Mr. McGee, I'm not gay and i dont want anything to do with you, now fuck off and stop harassing me or else ill kill/hit/file a complain or w/e'
