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what do you do when a girl tells you she's been raped?
Depends on the relationship you have with the girl.
>>16793850
cool, so you've been through it before, that'll make this much easier
>>16793860
we met at a party, exchanged numbers, begin sexting, and we were planning on having sex so she thought she should tell me first about it
So I'm trying to decide if I should take up fencing. I have wanted to do it for a while but my issue is that the closest place to me is an hour away and I have a shitty car for gas. I can get my equipment no problem but classes seem expensive and also I don't want to be an adult surrounded by kids
Man, if it interests you, give it a shot.
I do historical fencing (basically, we use rapiers and daggers and whatnot instead of foils) and it's fun on a bun.
Expensive, but a neat hobby.
See if there's any closer options or if you've got any friends already involved, then take the plunge if you're curious and can afford it.
>>16789535
I live in piss shit nowhere so that's kinda my only option and I prefer modern fencing for its speed
>>16789599
Also
I feel like all the people (especially women) who make fun of the friendzone or "nice guys" really don't understand how dating or human relationships work.
Guys get shamed for ever trying to get with a girl at all. Women literally cannot comprehend this because there's literally no scenario where a woman could ever not get laid.
There's no girl equivalent to a neckbeard or a "nice guy" because women never have to try to begin with.
Honestly, do women genuinely believe that all the guys who talk about the friend zone wanted...
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>>16793752
>Women literally cannot comprehend this because there's literally no scenario where a woman could ever not get laid
Assuming this is not bait, are you really stupid enough to believe that.
>>16793774
Any girl could get laid if she cast a wide enough net.
I'm not talking about relationships, just having sex.
>>16793779
Any guy could get laid if he cast a wide enough net.
I'm not talking about relationships, just having sex.
I always read about neetbux on here, can someone point me in the right direction?
My job makes me want to kill myself
>>16789486
then get a new job. dont be a leech
I found out my friend has a bimbo fetish.
She likes to dress up in corseted outfits, stuff her bra and wear thigh and butt pads and look at herself in the mirror...
Is this behavior healthy? I don't know if its... right? I think its a case of massive amounts of internalized misogyny or just the media making her feel she needs to look and act a certain way to be appealing... but she says its what she wants and its a pipe dream but its her dream... I don't know if she has toxic ideals of what a woman should be or not, I'm just very... confused.
Who cares? I mean, people with rape fetishes by definition will never actually like to be raped, they like to keep it in their control zone. Probably the same with her, she likes how she looks even if it's forward and sexualized.
>>16793672
a lot of the thrill of sexual stuff is the taboo. I suspect a lot of women in authority positions would love to be used as fuck toys and degraded.
>>16793718
She doesn't normally look like that, she wants to though. She holds it as an ideal, like she would love to look like a giant breasted, giant assed bimbo... so she dresses up in a costume and just fantasizes about things. It all seems very unhealthy, as if she isn't happy with how she looks, but its not a healthy ideal to hold.
So let me explain something to you.
>Have very little happening in my life at this moment
>Go regularly to a certain fast food restaurant
>I have mild OCD
>Notice patterns everywhere
>Every ~4 weeks there is a certain personnel change
>It's a teen girl
>Every time
>Every single time
>From...
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If this indicates how you talk and act you aren't going to get a teenage girl to fuck you.
>>16789466
Man. You're on a whole other level.
Boss man wants me to have more conversations with the customer that's more than just "hi", "will this be eveything", and "have a nice day". What should I do?
Talk to the customers about politics or personal issues. Ask them about their genitals.
>>16789452
What is your Job OP?
>>16789452
Where do you work and what do you do there?
Let's say I've rung a potential employer three times now and each time the receptionists continue to tell me that the Employer is not in and they sound more and more irritated with me each time... Should I stop calling? Will the receptionists opinion matter to the employer?
>>16789387
Need more background info.
How far apart were the calls? Are you calling to ask about job openings, or waiting to hear back about an interview?
Not even 9 minutes into my 21st birthday and I am already ready to kill myself pretty much, I feel useless half the days and my girlfriend is neglectful of me so that doesn't help at all. I barely sleep anymore. I feel like a failure even though I have a degree, I don't know what's wrong with me, I just want to be happy. Yet at the same time I don't, it feels normal being this low, happiness seems like an outside thing, something that just doesn't belong in me.
Have you considered getting mental health treatment? As I said to someone else on the first page of /adv/, it doesn't have to stay this way, and it won't.
Also, drinking while depressed usually isn't a great idea, so I wouldn't if I were you.
Get help and get better, please. Killing yourself is a waste.
talk with your gf about your depression. if she doesn't help then break up with her
>>16793501
No, they'll take my guns, they are the only thing that I have control over anymore, I choose peaceful options above all else. I just need that sense of control, it's the only thing that keeps me going.
Got invited to my first one by some people I work with and I need advice on how to navigate them. I know from experience I am horrible at talking to people I don't know (think the person that follows the only people they know at the party the whole time). How should a turbo 4chan autist (literally 23 y/o virgin) handle this? No piece of advice is unwanted.
>>16789381
it's a frat party, you're overthinking it
just do shots until you dont remember anything
>>16789419
I agree with this. If you're a legit sperg then this is going to go badly for you no matter what.
If you're drunk you'll at least be entertaining.
Questions? Ask.
Time is money. You have 30 minutes of it- for free. Use it wisely.
if i invest in monkeys what would my returns look like?
got banned for botting in rs. first offense on the acc. haven't had an offense in years. This IS FUCKING BULLSHIT
how can i convince fagex to unban my acc. I paid 9.99 CAD for one month of membs and i still got 21 days of credit
>>16793441
File a lawsuit against Jagex. Call the cops too.
I'm an 18 year old who goes to highscool
I know how to speak to people and make good impressions, but I feel like almost everyone I consider a friend sees me as an acquaintance rather then friend.
Almost every time I'm the one saying hello and asking how are you doing and starting conversations. But never back at me
The people that have stuck closer I feel we are starting to slowly drift apart, we were a lot closer but I see my best friend more on his phone, and the lunch times we eat together there is lots of awkward silence
Whenever...
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I only have like 2 friends
yeah exactly 2 friends.
So don't feel bad, im sure you will find someone.
I have a similar 'issue' I guess. I'm friendly with a lot of people, have no trouble meeting with new people or talking to people, have lots of acquaintances and am genuinely liked by a lot of people from what I can tell...but I don't have a lot of people I can really call friend. Eventually I realized it was all on me. People would invite me places or offer me openings to join their conversations or interests and I just never took. I tried for a little while to be more proactive but then I realized something else: I really just don't want many friends....
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>>16789423
A woman must of wrote this
How do I become a nurse in California. I want to start in community first.
>>16789371
google 'how to become a nurse' and see waht comes up. from what i gather nursing school is its own separate thing and you may not need community college at all. they might require some basic courses for whatever reason. just google it. ur not hte first person curious.
nursing is the shit senpai
just be really serious about it, study your ass off in anatomy, physiology, and microbiology. these classes are what you need to get accepted in most cc nursing programs. these classes also weed out the shitters who aren't serious.
>>16789371
i love garlic dog
My ex has borderline personality disorder.
I feel very guilty about where I went wrong in our relationship, but sometimes I feel like they would've been upset and unhappy and unstable no matter how well I'd done.
Is that accurate?
i'm in the same boat, op. could you provide more details? if not that's your call
>>16793352
No, I think someone else's mental illness is 100% your fault, and you should feel bad.
>>16793356
They'd just end up mad about shit no matter what.
They'd bring up some issue in the relationship and have outbursts over it and once it'd finally been addressed they'd cycle onto something else.
They'd catastrophize everything. I'd never met someone who would drastically over-think things so intricately and for the sole purpose of making a huge depressing deal out of mole hills.
Their method of arguing boiled down to browbeating me into apologizing even if they were...
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So /adv/ I just got fired and im un sure on what my next steps are. im 19 so I could go back to school and study something, maybe get a trade. or I could sell all my shit and go traveling get some life experience that might be good. Maybe sell drugs? how would i go about that. Whats your advice whats the next best step to a fulfilling life?
>>16789359
What job did you get fired from, how long did you have it, and why?
