>>16792753
> Gets paid to make friends

Fuck if I were you I would chat up anyone and everyone and make some spending money, even though I'm a shy and not talkative person at all.

>>16792830
this

>>16792830
>>16792833
I wish I had that confidence and greater appreciation for even small amounts of cash. Sadly, I am not one wish such qualities. Might there be another method through which I could become motivated?

Are you on drugs or something?


>dats 1 weird mushroom trip

Go for it, make sure you get the vibrating model. I've been using it for years. would buy again.

>>16792781
My mistake. I mean a massage chair like one pictured in the OP.

More of a professional, forward leaning massage chair.

Shit, I meant to write

>need to buy a ton of things to be self sustainable like mattress, pots/pans, ironing board, etc.

sigh

Join the army.

Become a carpenter

>>16792715
Well what are you good at? To quote the Joker from The Dark Knight, "If you're good at something, never do it for free".

Prozac also took away the cravings to drink. I drink alot. While on Prozac hardly ever drank. Just didnt feel like it.

Bumpin. This is a legit topic rather than the 15 yr olds who cant talk to girls.

Step one Alprazolam
Step two antidepressants that let you have boners, like agomelatine and other, really expensive, good shit

>>16792690
Well, are you fat or retarded? Do you have poor fashion sense or looked like you walked into a wall? Post a pic.

>>16792890

I am not fat or retarded.

>>16792896
So poor fashion sense AND it looks like you walked into a wall?

Not all girls are turned on simply because a guy isn't fat or retarded.

Pic is unrelated. Just random pic.

>>16792658
>So I've been harassed by this asshole for weeks now
call the police

/thread

>>16792658
Put your big girl panties on and ignore his calls, or hang up if he calls. Walk by him if he gives you any talking.

>>16792640
>1.5 years go by
>go to new city for kind of shitty job
>job doesn't work out in the end
>career is a no go because of oil price
>basically unemployed and no prospects
>go on facebook. keeps asking if I know work girl
>finally give in and contact her
>talk a...
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>>16792641
>drive her to subway station
>just feels so casual
>she does ask me to let her know I drove back to my city okay
>I tell her she doesn't need to worry about a guy like me who can take care of himself
>get home and text her though

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>>16792640
>>16792641
>>16792657
No more self hate. That's step one. WAAAA your job isn't going so well. I had my life on track too, my controlling parents went apeshit, I did something to spite them, and I paid the consequences for it. Then I graduated into the Recession. Then I had to live with them for two years to survive. Then I moved cities with a friend to try at a better life. Now I'm stuck in a job...
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>>16792636
im in a similar situation.
unsure of how to hang out with people/what to do with them.
i usually just play videogames/browse the internet... i cant do that with other people :/

>>16792636
Usually I just find good places to sit down and think. For me, quieter, more isolated areas with pretty views are ideal.

>>16792636
Just going for a simple walk is always nice.
No real reason or destination, just walking around checking things out, clear your mind
Nature trails are always nice
A lot of rec centers have pick-up sports if you're so inclined
Go to a zoo, a museum or art gallery
Go see some live music or got to a carnival or fair or farmers market or some shit

It could be anything man. Getting outside is always a good idea

Yes, it definitely would. Best to start asap: the earlier the intervention, the better.

>>16792624
Thanks anon, I'll get on that so.

are you a grill

>>16792576
Chill out bro. She didn't she wants to have sex either. Sometimes girls say they want to watching movies and it's exactly they wanted it to be. Clearly as we heard it. Some girls do like cooking or eating or watching movies together,it's not the case. It's the way you feel about her. Is she a hore?

>>16792558
I'm thinking she might have just chalked it up to doing something crazy when she was drunk and maybe regretting it. Maybe not. But play it cool from here on out. 1 text is enough. 3 is on the line for desperate. You look best by seeming secure with yourself.

Honestly just understanding that there will be times when someone isn't into you and even vice versa goes a long way in life. If you go out there not concerning yourself with impressing other people and worrying about what they think, you'll act much more honest to who you can be at your best. Make the jokes you feel like even about girls you're interested in, go track down the bill that's taking forever to get delivered to your table, if you want to open a door for a girl just do it and smile and treat it like it was nothing. If you do that they will love you for not being an insecure kid. I mean the same with asking them out after that. Just ask, if they say no just understand it's fine. There's 3.5 billion women on the planet. You're bound to meet someone who will be into you if you just be true to who you want to be. Does that help?

i know this.

friend, drop it like it's an isis affiliate. don't even bother thinking about the whole thing for a second.

>>16792777
the other thing was it's good you followed up. I feel like if you are into someone you should at least make some effort to move it forward. I think were people go wrong is harping on it too much. Sometimes when you go fishing you know within a few casts the fish aren't there and so you move to another location and try again, not casting 100 times in the same spot where nothing is happening. The other thing is that even getting friendzoned can be a positive thing if you take it with the right attitude. Women...
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>>16792551
Tell your gf about your problems instead of randoming virgins on a chinese imageboard

>>16792551
No.

>>16792551
Don't be a fucking coward. Talk to your girlfriend about your sex life and what you need in the relationship. If that won't work out, break things off, and THEN go prowling for ass.

If you're 34 and you still unsure how to feel about basic trivial shit like this, I don't know what to say.

>>16792517

post a picture.

age itself means nothing. there are plenty of ugly young people. there are plenty of ugly old people

post a of you right now, a quick shot of yourself, and well tell you whether its insulting or not.

Sounds like they just wanted to randomly card 1 person and you were picked

communicate, like you said talking about what you want improves the sex.

Communicate to her what exactly you want her to do and if she loves you she'll do it

Talk to her about it and give her time. Don't have a mid-high expectation from someone with little experience. In my relationship, I fucking sucked having sex and making out for the first year. I'm her second boyfriend and she's my first, so she probably had someone way better than I at first. Took some time and now the sex is great after getting more comfortable and satisfying our fetishes. Speak to her about your fetishes, anything.

>>16792614
I did but she says she is not comfortable doing what I want and I allways do my best to let her feel that's okay to be nasty in between the sheets but she doesnt really feel comfortable doing so. The last girl I slept with was a total freak. Like slamming her ass in to me and saying things like I need your dick now and cum on me. And when she sucked that D she was sucking like there was no tomorrow. Now when I finally have somebody I want to go steady with I would like the sex to be like this as well. But she puts up this shy face and then stutters out f-f-fuck me tries it once or twice and kinda forgets about it. Now I do really love her but im getting kinda annoyed by it and it is seeping in to our daily lives and I was hoping I could avoid that