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Is it possible for a guy and a girl who chats online every day but have never met irl to develop feelings for each other?
Pic unrelated
That's the gayest pic I've ever seen.
>>16794768
I just uploaded a random pic from my phone. Someone posted this in a Whatsapp group I am a part of.
>>16794767
Have you at least saw a picture of her?
I AM COMPLETELY LOST FOR IDEAS
>arrange date with girl to play Tennis in Regent's Park, London
>no courts available
>no ideas
>now she's prompting me to come up with ideas
It's our third date. She doesn't drink so no prolonged stays in bars or pubs. I'm terrible at date ideas, now my plans have fallen through, can anyone help me out?
Come chill in my flat
there is plenty to do in London.
>>16794733
Walk around town dumbass there is loads of shit to do in London
>source: I live in fucking london
I have a problem.
I am 25 and owner of my own company. I lucked the fuck out and now barely work (20 hour/week) for a ~200 000/year salary.
I save almost all of it, so I don't go around flaunting this. A lot of it goes into reinvesting, or as a future-venture-fund.
I do however own a Tesla.
My problem is this:
Whenever I am on a date, the topic will always at some point turn into jobs.
I don't want it to influence any decision they make about staying together, but I've had bad experience with "Oh yeah I own a company and got a six-figure...
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It wouldn't have worked out with those people anyway
Just keep trying
Keep the tesla.
When asked tell them what your job is (not that you own a business or anything, just say you manage an office or whatever)
Don't tell them your salary
>>16794735
this. you come off arrogant with "Oh yeah I own a company and got a six-figure salary at my current age."
just make it seem like a regular office job
How often is it okay to call out of work in fast food?
>>16794716
Bump
How do I stand my ground and hold my opinions in a world where everyone will always disagree with me for 50% of my opinions?
>>16794713
If everyone in the entire world disagrees with you then your opinion is clearly wrong.
If it isn't everyone in the entire world, hunt out like minded people and avoid having in depth conversation with those you realise will be ruffled by your views.
Avoid the conflict is the civilised thing to do.
>>16794721
No, only 50% of the time.
I believe that women, brown people and the transsexuals are human beings who deserve the same respect and same aknowledgement to the same efforts as everyone else.
50% of the people disagree with me, because they feel they should be treated more negatively.
The other 50% of the people I meet disagree with me, because they feel like they should be given positive extra treatment.
I have no like-minded people.
>>16794713
I am a pretty opinionated person
1) Know when to keep your mouth shut
2) Embrace (civilized) conflict through debates as it will either
A)Strengthen your views
B)Influence/change your views making you better at X field
3) Don't take it personally. If you can't handle people disagreeing with you you should keep your opinion to yourself
>>16794721
>>16794721
>If...
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Like 6 years ago, I started feeling depressed and anxiety. I always thought this is just a phase that will be over soon.
I drank and smoked weed alot to relief my anxiety, it was killing me inside.
At some point I thought I cant keep going like this, all the money I had I used to get shitfaced because I couldnt stand my depression and anxiety.
I started school about 1½ years ago, got a student loan for it, I barely went to school, just enought that they wont kick me out.
Now, about 2 months ago I started seeking help, I got myself to a very nice...
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:(
Try new things, new activities, meet new people, look into meditation, physical exercise (VERY important) and do what you enjoy
Does the average person wonder on a daily/semi-regular basis why anything exists?
I know some people do, obviously, but I've never heard anyone in real life really mention it out loud to the point it feels like taboo. I know it's probably not a productive thing to think about but it's just hard to accept existence of anything and my consciousness of it. It's just weird going to bed at night sometimes.
Maybe experiencing dying once will clear things up a bit.
>>16794671
I doubt daily and I doubt everyone.
Some people are like drones, they don't question the basics they do or why they do them.
Everyone has these thoughts, it's part of life. A lot of people just push them to the side to focus on more immediate issues.
>>16794671
Read the great philosophers or take an Intro To Philosophy course.
That is all that any of them think and write about.
Okay 4chan, I know we joke around with the collective aspergers and congregate on the most cancerous of boards, but let's do something productive for once:
What is the lesson that you learn from this song? Why don't you have a side chick?
https://youtu.be/LOtkH5amC7s
Also, post shit related to being a player.
>>16794636
Holy shit, people don't try to learn shit here, they only come to dwell in anxiety and sadfrog post.
They want to cry their way out of the friendzone instead of deliberately putting females into it from the start.
>>16794636
4chan? productive?
I don't think you understand
>tfw no thick light skin gf like Lauren London
Two years ago I cheated on my husband with his friend. He's also married but her wife encouraged him to cheat. So I became pregnant and decided to keep it. The only people who know it's not my husband's is me and his friend. He and his friend are still good friends and we met up a lot. Others however started pointing out how the baby looks more like his friend than him. We both tried to downplay it and luckily who mostly says these is a gossiping bitch so she's easy to discredit but still it may give the wrong idea.
Any tips on how to avoid suspicion?
Suicide?
ALSO THIS B8 IS SOO FUCKING OBVIOUS
Are you even trying ?
>>16794634
If bait, put your head in an active meat grinder.
If not, you should just get out of there and fess up. The truth will free you, but lies will open up possibilities for blackmail, harassment, drama and so on.
>>16794634
This has to be bait because nobody could possibly be this stupid, even on 4chan.
>be going on cruise with hot friend
>want to see her naked but has bf
Wat do? Spy? If so, how on a cruise?
Feed her drunk, spill wine onto her clothes as an "accident" (or other stuff that stains), then go back to your room and offer to clean it, then help her undress
From there you can take it several ways especially if she's drunk enough.
inb4 roastie moral whore trolls
CD or mirror under a doorway. you can see whats on the other side, and as long as you practice, they won't notice. Best for while they're in the shower
Bf and one other are in room with us.
Hey
i finally got to adress this. Im 20 years old and i never had anything with a girl, except some drunk making out. I really dont know what is up with that. Im pretty popular, often at parties etc. Very nice girls have told me i look real good. But i dont participate in their stupid smalltalk. Why should i talk about basically nothing. At a party, i stick to talking about things that intrest me, if they come up. If they dont, i just chill. Is that the fucking problem for real ?
>>16794618
Have you tried asking a girl out for coffee before?
>>16794679
Yeah, was nice, got home, didnt give one fuck, eventually forgot i even did it.
On multiple occassions.
>>16794618
having a gf is so 2008, go develop your passion and make it your job so that you have some meaning in your life, having a gf won't change a damn thing about your life true talk
I'm 22 years old and into shitty fast-food, plus I'm very hungry.
What should I order?
I'm very hungry /b/,
what should I order?
eck-grill.de/mediapool/111/1110479/data/28_eck_grill_2014_f_r_web.pdf
>>16794614
Soup.
Am I the only one who absolutely can't stand when people talk to me when I'm busy doing something?
I usually view everything I do as a task. That task could be getting ready in the morning to leave at a certain time to make it to work at a certain time, or watching a show or tv, or finishing my meal, or trying to clean my place, drawing an illustration, looking around for something, etc. I am not satisfied until that "task" is finished. So when someone comes in while I'm doing something like "want to hear what happened today?" or "can...
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I can sort of get where you're coming from. A friend and I planned on checking out phones since she was long due an upgrade. Somehow she changed it to a general window shopping day! It was irritating.
Usually I go buy my stuff by myself and not invite people out since I most of the time find the detours a bore. And the side trips I do are between after I finish my main business and getting home.
There's nothing I came advise you on, I just thought I could let out some steam.
>>16794611
Your thinking is a bit extreme but well within the bounds of normal.
But consider this - shouldn't sustaining friendships, relating to family and interacting socially also be important 'tasks' for you? Sometimes they can be more important than the task at hand, and worth putting it aside for.
Op you just have a hard time switching gears. My husband is the same way. He gets frustrated easily if you interrupt him. He is better now that I pointed it out to him and he is aware of it. In general; keeping his frustration level low helps, as does working on his temper. It's just going to take practice to get better and more tolerant.
How can I test a girl to know if she really likes me or is just faking it(for whatever reason lol)? I'm a 21yr KV and i'm texting a fatty for more than 2 months, never saw her personally, she is from my uni's city and i'm yet to return from vacation. The issue is, maybe i'm paranoid but the way she talks about how much he loves me seems kinda fake/pretending, I'm sure she is real(not a neckbeard scam) but i'm not very confident about her being honest... I have some "proofs" that she likes me, sometimes she post shit about being in...
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>>16794603
>21 KV
>whipped by a fatty
I think you can't get any lower.
>>16794689
Nah, we both respect each other, if she tries to be too dominant i'll just leave her.
Also shes fat but qt, and i'm a chubby chaser.
You go on a date with her and then have sex. If that happens, she likes you.
27 yo guy here.
I've always been dating virgins whom I was attracted to, but as I got older they are harder to find. Do you know any venue where I can find younger girls to date?
How about fuck off and leave some for the rest of us?
Did you try in the kindergarten ???
>>16794576
There are plenty, but it's not my fault they don't see you as a man.
>>16794583
Pedo leave.
19-23 was the age group I was thinking of.
