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I don't understand my mind anymore.
My day was going perfectly. Suddenly, i get extremely tired, i almost give up at everything i'm doing in my life and just want to sit down and idk what should happen next.
The worst is knowing tomorrow i'll wake up with the same sensation and my day will be hell. I'll fall through this loop again for the next weeks, and i don't even know what the fuck causes this.
And it happens every 1-3 months and keep going during weeks. What would be this shit?
I can relate to your situation.
What's your diet like?
Do you drink enough water?
How often do you exercise?
How often do you lurk internet message boards?
Is there something deep down inside you feel you want??
>>16796590
>What's your diet like?
I usually eat enough, not as many healthy things but I always try to remember that.
>Do you drink enough water?
I don't think so. I drink a huge amount of liquids but water is less than half of them (Maybe 35% of the liquids i drink in a day is pure water)
>How often do you exercise?
I don't think if that counts, but i practice Cycling and Skateboarding almost every day that I have time.
I've got a severe sciatic nerve problem btw, so i can't go to the gym anymore and train my legs.
>How often do you lurk internet message boards?
Every time i feel like that actually. I don't find any reason to do something else so i get in 4chan to see if something happens. It never does.
However as i feel like shit if i go out in these times, i think there's nothing i can do.
>Is there something deep down inside you feel you want??
Deep inside my mind i feel that there's something, but i don't know what it can be. Maybe i'll punch myself later so i can discover it.
I'm already doing drum classes, skateboarding, so my mainly hobbies are already ok. I've had a relationship and broke up because it was too much bullshit and i don't think i need that. For the rest, i only want to find a way in my life.
>>16796543
Your mind needs rest. Find some refuge in yourself.
I felt this too.
I would give up, smoke up, and skip school for a week.
I've been dealing with mental health issues for the past year upon my leaving the army. I've been a miserable little butthead for most of that time. My parents recently discovered a bb pistol under the seat of my car along with bb's and co2 canisters and flipped shit. I honestly got it to let some "rounds" off whenever I'm feeling stressed as it gets me outside and makes me feel better. However dad was in my face screaming how I'm not in the army anymore and I need to man up. Regardless, I currently have the money I make from work monitored by them, they always know where I am and where I go, I'm not allowed to be alone (which ironically I want to), they continue to blame my shortcomings on being a lazy shit. All I hear is negativity from them. They're making me worse. So my question: Is this a good situation? If not, what should I do?
>>16796530
This isn't a supportive environment mayte. Best get away from them. You're ex military so you're probably self reliant enough to do it.
You can be honest about it and maybe get them to change or you're going to have to leave by force. If they hold your money or stuff go to the cops.
Good luck.
>>16796558
To be honest man, as much as I hate living with my parents, I need them. Not for money or anything (on disability and still work a job/go to school), but just in everyday functions that have become really hard. My memory has gone to shit, I drift in and out of focus, I have trouble getting to sleep, I lack a lot of "real world" knowledge. I believe that I would need to get "better" before I can make it on my own. I'm not close enough with any of the rest of my family to move in with them.
I'd like to be able to talk to them about this, but my dad isn't the person to go telling how I "feel" and mom is disappointed in me and doesn't want me to open a doorknob by myself. They've threatened to kick me out for little stuff like smoking in the bathroom, oversleeping, moving slow, being mopey all the time, etc. Mom would be my best chance to change things but using her as a proxy to dad never works. Dad is just dad, it's his way or no way. Fuck I just feel trapped again.
How the hell do you get your younger siblings or kids to behave?
>13 year old brother keeps stealing money from my mom
>keeps getting caught
>2 days later does it again
>mom goes way too easy on him
>came to me for help
Fuck do i do /adv/?
My eyes look different in mist lighting and commonly look green in photos. This is my eye under regukar natural light with no eye makeup. What colours do you see? Im not sure what colour my eyes are and it would be nice to see other peoples opinions.
Between hazel and blue.
>making a thread for this stupid ass shit
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eye_color
Mine are the same way. Green on the outside, brown on the inside.
Most people just say they're green and yours look mostly green to me.
>>16796516
>>16796516
>op's eyes confirm the one-drop rule
>one drop of shit in each eyeball
I got stump. Shit's below average length but thick as fucking tree trunk. I don't cum without stimulation and in fact it takes forever to finish from handjob and blowjob. But when I put this beast in my gf or a fleshlight, godamn horny little critter throws the towel after 2 or 4 minutes. I didn't have this problem with my ex in fact he (FTM trans) complained that i took too long to cum and shit was burning down south. Coulda been the condom tho. Btw I'm cut too, aint no skin beanie keep it warm and sensitive. So why the fuck is this happening now?
Second thing, how in the flying hell does one spurt a fucking missile ready to KO that egg into fetus submission on first shot. Every godamn fucking time the shit just dribbles out like it doesn't want to live. I tried that kegel crap and all that did was make problem #1 worse. Please enlighten me so that I may gloriously launch my gf into pregnancy bypassing her bithcontrol from the sheer strength of spurting her into the ceiling.
Thanks in advance
cmon ya'll help a brother out here. It ain't easy mustering the courage to ask this shit.
>>16796512
Sorry OP, your delivery is making it hard to take you seriously.
Summary basis-expanding knowlege through anal
Details- i'm a guy who has recently tried to stimulate my prostate through anal. For some reason if felt good in comparison to last time I tried cus I used lube. So when I put my gloved finger in my asshole I could understand and relate what sex for a girl is like, I mean my mouth gaped open cus that shit was like WOW!
But it itself felt a bit intruding and i'm wondering...
Girls does sex feel intruding, like an uncomfortable invasion of your privacy. Its one thing to litteretly "inside" another persons space, but to be have someone else "inside" you and inside your space.
Does that feel like a intrusion? Uncomfortable if you will?
It's not intrusive, at least for me; it feels like I'm being filled up
>>16796497
>for some reason
>because this reason
dont be dumb.
>intruding
i would imagine yes. just a dude but with my own ass it mostly feels intruding unless there is a sense of trust. i imagine females would have a similar reaction and this is why the yare less inclined to just hang then bang.
If I kissed a girl and she acts like nothing happened at all,what does it means?
We keep talking but she never mentioned about it.
>>16796489
that means she's not interested in fucking you/having a romantic relatiomship with you
>>16796502
Not because she likes it too?
>>16796489
Women are fucking cunts. And I say this from an objective point of view. I've never been "bullied" or rejected by any females so don't take my post to be some retarded fucking manchild male rights activist virgin angst who is mad at women. In fact I've been with enough to say that I will never bother with marriage. Women are cunts, ESPECIALLY to each other. My christ there was this one girl I actually remember from high school. She was real sweet and shy/quiet, literally every other girl in the fucking school would bully her. Everything from calling her names like retarded, to insulting her clothes, even teasing her that she was drinking urine when she had lemonade in a bottle. I'm 100% serious. Women for the most part are fucking crazy sluts. Fuck+chuck and forget about em. Not worth the time, effort, or anything. In college it's slightly more subtle than high school but the idea is still the same. Mad gossip about other girls in the group, ostracizing of others for arbitrary, materialistic reasons...christ. Half the time I wish I were gay!
>tldr
Women are stupid cunts. Don't waste your time. Fuck+chuck. Get a dog if you need emotional support and loyalty.
Picture related: My favourite female author who actually wasn't a stupid cunt and knew how fucking dumb other women could be.
Is Valentines just a thing for new couples ?
It seems everyone I know who is in a relationship over 2 years doesnt give a shit about it.
My GF is adament im not to even buy her a card for it.
Instead we are going for lunch like we normally do then going to see Deadpool.
>>16796477
It's a bullshit holiday, no matter who you are.
how do you weebs download anime? from what website? i've come to the conclusion i should use nyaa by reading some of the posts of /a/ but i'm quite clueless from what uploaders to download from.
also, is there a way to download entire animes without having to download episode by episode?
>>16796453
>>16796453
Nyaa and Tokyotoshokan are what I used to use when I still downloaded Anime. Nowadays most stuff is available on Crunchyroll and KissAnime.
For older stuff I use BakaBT but they're rather strict with their rules and allowed client software so be sure to check the rules first.
I'm looking to get a limited print run of a book, I'm in the UK and don't know where to start. Any tips?
You know what everyone else calls "self publishing"?
Vanity press.
If no publisher is interested in your book, it's because it's bad and you're a bad writer.
Take up a more constructive profession, like carpentry.
>>16796425
It's not for the public, it's for me and a few others.
Get a literary agent. There should be a national association for the UK -- I know the US version is called the American Association of Authors' Representatives.
So lately I've been saying this girl, we've had 4 dates I think as I started to know her more I started to like her less.
Anyway, after today's date I told her she was too good for me (as in her attitude and way of behaving) and then she replied this, which still I don't know how to feel about it:
>Noo listen
>You're a very nice guy and I enjoy spending time with you
>But i feel like it's too much and too fast and it made me realise that i just wanna be single
>I'd like to hang out with you but as friends
>And i'm honestly so sorry if i came out as mean but it's just my weird sense of humour
>feel free to hate on me as much as you want but i'm sorryy
Did I just get friendzoned after telling her I wasn't interested? Also we kissed and she didn't say anything like this before, is it just me or she's fucking weird?
Not saying, seeing. Fuck.
>>16796405
Sounds like it's mutual, time to find someone else.
'You're too good for me' is a bullshit breakup line, so she gave you a few back. Be more honest next time.
>>16796414
I mean it is not a breakup line since we weren't going out but I get what you're saying.
Anyway that's honestly what I felt, she says like a really good girl and I needed someone more like me, a bit more miserable.
Could somebody help me understand what's going on with me? Maybe some of you saw my other post, but i'll explain the story again. I've broken up with my ex a month ago. She wanted me to come and live with her in uk, and 1 week before the flight she realised that "it's not so good of an idea", and that she wants to break. I've told her what i think i got a phonecall from her friend who threatened me. Month of no contact - we have a conversation. She tries to water my ear with "i know i can't change the way view me, and i don't want to because i don't deserve it. But i really didn't sent her intentionally, it just got out of control" Then when i told her i don't buy it, and i've been suspecting that she cheated on me she went full agressive on me. She questioned my sanity for that etc.
Now the thing is, i am 100% sure i have no romantic feelings towards her anymore. But for some reason i feel like i'm the one who suffers more than he should be, since it wasn't me who betrayed other person's trust. I'm mindfucking myself with "how the hell can you move on without problem after pulling a shit like that on somebody" Whenever i think she could be going around with other guys after what she did i get disgusted. All the time i beat myself with question "why?" and "will i be able to get my shit together? What if i won't?" I'm really scared, because i never had a problem with moving on. When my best friend died in a carcrash i was the one who kept everyone together. But right now i have no idea why i cracked and how to fix that.
You are in between conflicted emotions...
It seems like it.
Stick to the facts and accept them as they are. What are the facts? Well, you and your gf broke up. Thats one. This feeling you describe, it's a fact you feel it - it helps to give it a name. Is it anger? Pain? Sorrow?... You know it. You name it, even if it doesn't fit quite well.
Tell yourself that you accept those facts. Allow the feeling to be there, instead of fighting it away by fleeing to the 'why?' question. You don't need motive to feel stuff, at least not a logical one.
Now, back to the facts, there's this one: You will move on. It's not a choice, friend... There's night, and there's day. There's pain, and there's pleasure, and they all cicle up and down. Feelings also abide to that rule, meaning that you WILL feel better. Time heals it up.
Another fact is: you don't have to fix anything. From what I read, you broke up because you don't feel more romantic feelings. You are feeling bad because you think /heshe cheated on you, what's more normal than that? hahahaha.
That's why my advice is this: Whenever the bad feelings rise, and you feel like you need to do something, close your eyes and feel it in your body. Speak in your own mind what you feel like "I feel like I will never be ok again, that I'll never fix this emotion" and then you move in to the acceptance part "After all that's happened, it's perfectly fine to feel this way. I accept that I feel hate/anger/pain towards what's happened. I'm not that emotion, I'm more than it and by accepting it, I learn from it, and move on".
It's pretty much it... acceptance. You don't dwell in the emotion, but you don't push it away by looking for a reason, or imaginating a dark future. You just feel it in the NOW, accept it and continue your day.
Keep in mind i'm using examples up there. You should talk to yourself on your own words.
I know you'll pass through this bad emotion, friend!
Have a good night.
Just want to point out a fact here:
You are not sure she cheated on you, you think she did, but that ain't confirmed. "I accept that she might have cheated on me, if she did, or did not, it doesn't matter. I accept it."
Feel the emotion, let it roll.
Hi all so I've been talking to this guy for a week. Just on the phone last night we meet for the first time we had dinner and went dancing.then walked in the park we both had a good time and he told me he wants ro get to know each other as friends to see if gose anywhere. Would it be weird of I got him something for v day we are both guys incase it somehow matters
>>16796394
If you're straight, yes.
If you're both gay, not really.
Should I respond to one-word texts?
Yes, with zero word texts.
>>16796364
Is this true?
>>16796361
no, you shouldn't. Sometime I do anyway, though
It's a long story.. I'kl try to get the jiffy in this short version.
>I left my home town about about a year ago and moved here.
>I had my own apt, tons of stuff over there but I left it all behind. Came here with a single bag of clothes pretty much.
Well anyways:
>At first when I came here I had this awesome job!
I loved doing it but it didn't really pay well since I was on this "light version-contract".
>plan was to get promoted onto the regular full-time contract.
>didn't work out though.
>So now I work at this shitty place.. pays well as shit though!
>Enough to get myself an apt of my own here and start getting proper possessions.
>at the same time my old awesome employer has asked me to return to work for them.
>same contract..
>I moved here for that job, I still want that full time contract, but living in a room with minimal possessions are getting on my nerves and going back over there will set that back atleast another year!
What do I do here?
>I want more stuff wahhh
Dude...what? Atleast it's a nice change from >no gf
>>16796353
It's not about more stuff really...
It's more about "life progressing" wich it really can't when living in a room..
>>16796347
Sorry I don't understand. Is this job you've been offered back in your hometown? So you would have to move back there?
