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>moved into a co-op this semester
>one of my housemates is cute and has shown at least some interest in getting to know me
>she's cute and we have several overlapping interests
So I know that I'm playing with fire here, but how might I go about showing interest? Should I just ask her if she wants to go get a coffee somewhere or something? I feel like I might need to be a little more obvious just to avoid confusion.
You create the opportunity by inviting her to join in the things you enjoy, which may well be having coffee at your favorite place. The way you show interest is to flirt. You have to make sexually- and romantically-forward remarks.
What exactly is she doing to make you think she's into you? Because odds are she's just being friendly with her housemate.
Just hang out with her and let it happen naturally if you really, really want.
But I would strenuously recommend against actively pursuing it unless you're really sure.
>>16797159
Hmm, alright. It'll definitely have to be a slow moving relationship to mitigate the aftermath, assuming there is a relationship or aftermath at all.
>>16797173
I mean, she gets kind of shy around me and has talked to me a decent amount (at least in relation to the other people in the house). She hasn't been overtly flirtatious or anything like that. I'm mostly interested in figuring out how to handle it given the living situation. I feel like...
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Dear /adv/
I have a crush on my professor. I don't want to have a crush on them; nor do I want to make him uncomfortable. What things should I not do, to avoid creeping him out?
Don't interact with him privately. That's it.
Get yourself some sex.
Nothing takes away the need for someone you like than a real good fuck.
>>16797184
Not with the teacher though. Just to make it clearer.
Is it too late to do the ice bucket challenge?
>>16797139
leave
>>16797139
No. Post it here.
I want to find a person, /adv/. I have this information:
>age
>city lived before (maybe birth city)
>current city
>first name
>music he listens to, books he reads
How do I go from this?
Oh yeah, also political side. I could say I also know his birth year most likely.
If you're serious hire a private investigator.
No other way? I could do a lot with this too.
qt girl I have sex with ocasionally wants to bang
Ironically i lasted the first time (my first time) and the next time I saw her we went straight to banging and I busted too early few minutes, maybe its lack of experience? she was cool with it and is texting me again to see her tomorrow but I cant help but feel nervous and think about climaxing
what do?
>>16797118
reserve penetration
foreplay and eat her box
It is nerves/inexperience and you should just keep at it. Also play with her as much as you can. Drive her nuts before you even stick it in. If she's not begging, it's not time yet.
>>16797123
>>16797124
>tfw she is a lesbian and doesnt want that shit because she is tired of it with her gf
me being younger and her being in a relationship make it hotter
still nervous doe
Well /Adv/ Why do I suck at women?
I mean like I can talk to women, I can befriend women, I feel comfortable around women, and the entire thing. But when it comes to actually getting sexual with a women its almost impossible, and it seems that no girl really likes me. I don't know why, I'm confident, fit, good looking, just a normal dude.
Why do I absolutely suck ass at women /adv/
FUCK
>>16797084
What.
>>16797068
You forgot "no-homo," mang. Seriously though, you depressed or something? What do you mean by they don't like you? I'd venture to guess that are projecting, but ionno. Realistically, I've found that most inexperienced women just freeze up once you start getting sexual with them. It took my awhile to notice this trend and I thought it was me at first as well. Just sex them good, and play it cool in public.
>first time a watched porn i was 8 years old and basically brainwashed to thinking my pecker was not of any use so i avoided girls to save my self from humiliation.it grew to hunt haunt me for 13 years it was torture especially when i was sexually active.
>I could have lost it at least at 16 but i was still thinking my dick was small so i rejected them painfully.
>became socially awkward and introverted i plan to but some dick growing pills but my peers got in my way mostly my mother who...
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>>16797045
Jesus Christ let it go. You're average and if you weren't, you'd know it. Do what my family does and pretend the problem isn't there until it either goes away or goes nuclear. It has a surprising success rate.
Does anybody know about whether or not traffic tickets follow you across state borders? I got a stupid speeding ticket in NC, where I've been living for a few years, but I'm leaving in the next week to live in my home state where I'm still a legal resident. If I don't pay it, will it be able to follow me? The reason I'm against paying it is two fold; first it was a chickenshit ticket, sort of. Second is that in my move, I'm going to have a 4 week period between paychecks and paying the fine would make it way harder right now.
>>16797042
Yes. There's a database for these things. They won't arrest you, but you won't be able to renew your license.
It depends on if the states have "reciprocity". Most do, but far apart ones sometimes don't.
Be me, love doing drugs and partying (mainly cocaine, but my list of drugs used probably exceeds the amount of girls you have fucked), final year engineering student, biggest crush on my best friend (for 2 years now), she has a boyfriend, even if she breaks up with him I don't think I stand a chance... As I said "I DO COCAINE", but I quit for a week (longest break I have had in a year), but alas I relapsed, due to friends/normal life being fuck boring.
Basically I just want some motivation to finish my studies and get the girl.
>>16797000
How can you be addicted to cocaine and be in your final year of engineering, what kind of engineering ?
>>16797000
Stop doing fucking drugs, if you want the girl.
No girl wants to have a relationship with a druggie unless she is also doing drugs.
YOU CAN DO IT!
Is a fleshlight, pocket pussy or whatever they are called worth buying? Anyone have any experience using one?
Pic obviously unrelated
>>16796948
Yes, I have 2 of them. STU (stamina training unit) vagina and a ribbed interior asshole opening. You can use them to simply masturbate with or mount them up somewhere and fuck hands free which I highly recommend. Even if you are in a relationship they're good to have if you're away from your partner or have a problem with temptation or something of the sort. a bit of a pain to clean and need the right lube (or lots and lots and lots of spit).
>>16796948
Nah, they feel alright but they require a lot of care and maintenance or else it'll grow mold. Lube also gets everywhere.
>>16797231
>Lube also gets everywhere
The fucking hentai rape shit are you doing to the fleshlight? I been using it all wrong
/r9k/ please I need your thoughtful advice, I'm 21 and got no one else to mentor or advice me, things have gone from "I wish I was dead" to "I should start buying my exit bag next week".
You know the drill, shitty childhood, physically abusive mom, distant dad, depression, chronic skin disease, blah blah.
Now, I actually managed to get some friends I can trust, we might not be best closest friends but I can trust them.
Now this shit happened yesterday:
>holiday, no work
>friends'...
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>>16796934
I don't know what the fuck to do, you don't have to answer everything, just give me your fucking advice or thoughts. Also I already have a fuckton of hobbies (gym, handegg, instruments, producing, reading, vidya), getting more hobbies won't help.
1. I got nothing else besides alcohol to cope with the depression, sudoku realistically looks nice.
2. I push away the few friends I have with my idiocy, this is like the 5th or 6th time that I blackout with them, I know they'll eventually get...
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>>16796934
I think the obvious advice here is to quit alcohol.
If you can't control your shit, you don't need it.
I'd rather you be a pacifist pothead than uncontrollable retarded alcohol which literally kills your braincells, (and thus any development or progress in your brain).
1: This isn't /r9k/. Those dudes are toxic, steer clear.
2: You know you need to deal with the drinking problem
3: Get your life on track career wise. Pick a field that's rewarding and has good job prospects, and stick with it. A skilled trade such as carpentry would probably be ideal for you.
I make the same thread every month.
Rarely get replies.
Subject says it all and, since all the time I use Steam to occasionally play games and talk to people, would be nice if I could add you there.
Drop in on the #/adv/ channel on rizon.net IRC chat: https://www.rizon.net/chat.
>>16796932
Will do even tho I kind of always disliked IRC.
Still if anybody here would like to befriend an autist on steam to play some games or talk well, just tell me.
I don't have problem talking one on one, I don't have problems talking with a group of people that I don't know, but when it come to my "friends" I don't feel well around them, I feel anxious after we hang out I don't feel happy but just that bad feeling of anxiety. Does that mean I don't see them as my friends? Should I talk with them or seek counselling?
You feel nervous when you're with the group? Or after?...
In the first case, you should seek counselling. It could be social anxiety, although I'm saying with little to no information on it.
In the second case, it could be you don't see them as close friends, yes. But it could also be that you are now alone, and their company gave you safety, and now its gone...
Either case, you can experiment with it. Hang out with other people, how do you feel?...
Counselling is not a bad idea, either way, but I say that to everyone! Shit done wonders to me.
>>16796943
I don't feel really nervous when I'm with them, just a bit, but after is like that feeling when the drug is starting to kick in and you are all like "well, shit", I'm now feeling like shit, for hangin out with my friends.
I don't have another group of friends to put this matter in perspective, but as I said, any other group of colleagues I feel okay.
I might have a psychological impression of my friends that I have gone beyond some limits for them and that they don't...
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>>16796985
You could be right, yes. But just because they haven't done wonder for you doesn't mean they won't, or they don't want to.
But I don't want to send you down that road. You should be responsible for your own well-being. You shouldn't expect people to throw themselves at danger for you, you should be grateful to those who do.
Maybe you are expecting too much from them or from yourself.
I've been drinking a 16 oz coffee almost every day for a while now, and I think I'm developing a tolerance. I had my daily a few hours ago and I'm already tired, and I have a bunch of work to do tonight (this is my break). I also recently went back on my SSRI, but only on a very low dose. I don't want to drink more for my health and the whiteness of my teeth. Should I give it up for a while and then go back? Should I upgrade to something more caffeinated?
>>16796900
Why did you ask this? wtf was the point, either drink more or don't. If you think you want to get the high back then drink more, and if you don't want to drink more then don't drink more... It isn't like caffeine is a real drug. Start doing coke, or something you pansy.
>>16796937
>Why did you ask this? wtf was the point
My thoughts exactly.
I mean, don't get me wrong, people posting questions on /adv/ keeps the board going, but Jesus, some of the shit people come here for advice on... how do you even choose which socks to wear in the morning?
>>16796954
>>16796937
I don't know anything about brain chemistry or coffee. Suck my dick.
>If you think you want to get the high back then drink more
That'll lower my tolerance even more.
Ask a recruiter that works daily with new grads and places them at companies.
About me:
>Manufacturing, chemical, automotive, logistics companies are my primary clients
>Engineering/Chemistry/Sales/All forms of business are the general fields I work with. But I still know quite a bit about other degrees.
>No experience in medical fields, research, or anything that's scientific and not corporate.
>Knowledgeable of teaching abroad companies and...
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>>16796899
Just how much of a boost does being former active-duty military aid job placement? Is it only evident in government jobs?
>>16796899
MY DECISION FROM COLLEGE COMES IN TOMORROW AFTERNOON
IM FREAKING OUT OP
WILL I GET IT IN?
WHAT AM I GOING TO DO IF I DON'T?
>>16796899
How much do companies care about GPA, compared to internships or prior experience? Does having a 3.7 instead of "just" a 3 give you any meaningful advantage?
