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I asked out a girl and got rejected. She explained to me that she's an aromantic person and apparently can't tell the difference between platonic and romantic feelings, and feels she shouldn't date because of it. We're friends but it's kind of weird now.
I've never honestly encountered this before, and I've only heard of the term once. I have really strong feelings for her, no lie, and I really want to keep trying because I figure she just might not have ever had a guy really mean anything to her. But at the same time I don't want to incase it would be disrespectful to her.
Am I dumb? Because I feel some kind of stupid. She was a really cool friend.
Dude , she probably said that just to not hurt your hurt you feelings , either way , its better to just let things go and find someone else .
need help? need answers? i'm totally here for you...
>>16796199
Good thing the masturbator will likely have enough forearm strength to pull himself up
>>16797078
And the sticky hands to keep his grip.
>>16797097
Cum to think of it, he is kinda dressed like Spider-Man, too.
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>>16796172
I have to keep going back and delete the ones. soo fucking annoying.
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>>16796172
anyone?
>plan since October to move put of the country
>full around on tinder not expecting a thing
>she appears
>we chat, she likes me a like her
>go out a few times
>she is special
>everything great
>i let my guard down and crush
>go out again
>she tells me she will be away on a trip with her class and probably won't make it to see me before i leave again
..not that i could take her with me or anything but it still hurts so bad.
i have a lump/knot in my throat right now and my eyes keep getting watery.
it hurts anons. even though i knew and also i know there are many girls out there..
i don't know if i need any advice.. too numb now..
tldr
>i have to move out of the country for work
>met incredible lady a month ago
>she likes me i like her
>yesterday i saw her for the last time
>it hurts..
i will go to r9k since the only thing you can tell me is time will heal me..
and it is the only correct answer..
maybe they can make me laugh with their replies.
>met a girl at poetry club last Thursday
>another meeting tonight
>slam poetry event tomorrow night (I think slam poetry is cringey but hey, common ground)
Should I ask her if she wants to go to it tomorrow night? If so, should I suggest meeting there or meeting somewhere else before going? Supposedly there will be coffee/tea/snacks at the slam so I dunno about getting food beforehand. Plus a meal and poetry slam would be a big commitment for a first date type of thing. The slam's at 8 IIRC.
>>16796157
You could just ask her to dinner.
Update: she didn't even show up despite asking me last week if she'd see me this week
My grandfather has terminal cancer and dementia. I've been his carer for the last 10 years, and I'll be completely honest, since about 3 months ago, I don't enjoy his company anymore; not because he does 'embarrassing stuff', but because I can't have a conversation with him. He just rambles. And he doesn't want to do anything except watch TV, despite my best efforts to get him to help me with baking cakes and whatnot.
I'm going slightly insane, and part of me really wants the nightmare to end. I feel both guilty for my feelings and completely helpless, and it doesn't help that he gets aggressive whenever we try to get doctors/nurses/social workers to help. And even I draw the line at putting him into a home (I'm based in the UK, where carehomes don't have the greatest of reputations)
How do I stop going insane
How do I stop disliking being around what was once my best friend
How do I stop feeling guilty
Advice/help/motivation please.
Help me, please
>>16796144
Op, you have a kind heart, won't be easily tainted. I'd suggest getting away from your usual surroundings, i.e gramps, might help you calm down a bit, you need to realise that your grandpa is going through a phase, everyone does, it's just like childhood, adolescence.
Once he is gone, you will realize that you will not see him again ever, then you will feel very guilty for not having done more for him. It is a heavy burden, ask for someone else to help you.
I’m fairly drunk, so please excuse anything that doesn’t make sense. Mild drunkardness was the only state in which I could do this. Whatever this is.
I have something to say, but saying it would mean that I’ve said it, which I’ve always said is ‘too chocked by finality’, or however the saying goes*
But here I am with the thing gathering steam on my tongue, and I gotta get it out before it burns my mouth.
I can no longer tell the difference between opinion and fact, between earnestness and sarcasm or an artwork and an ad. I’m not saying this is a bad thing, as, if history dictates, it could be a phenomenon confined to my mess of a mind, but I feel as if someone’s gotta take to the internet with a color coded binder system, separate the things from the other things and give every single thing a clear label.
Strangely, even though my relationship with the net is as tangled as a Guinness Book of World Records-acknowledged game of Twister, I relax into that mass of sweaty limbs and bad breath and laugh as if I’m having the best of times. It feels like home to meet the eyes of a bright screen, to press ‘refresh’ and ‘see comments’ and ‘back’ and ‘forward’ and back and forward and back and forward until oscillating URL’s rocking me to sleep.
Okay, so I’m avoiding the real reason for this rant, and being a bit of a wanker, sorry. The whole purpose of this is to explain an embarrassing truth to a particular woman. A woman who I will not name, but who needs to hear the following. Once I allude to the details, she’ll know this is addressed to her. I apologise to everyone else who has to suffer through this (that is, if anyone is nice enough to share it anywhere at all), but there’s no other way I can think to get it to her.
From here on out, I’m going to call her ‘you’, purely so my mind doesn’t run off track.
Hey you.
(Continued in file - sorry, too big)
Spaghetti
I'm renting a room in my house to this girl. She hasn't paid the rent in 2 months. I let it go last month but I told her if she didn't pay the next then she'd have to pack her things and go.
No money has come my way. I feel guilty because she has nowhere else to go but what else can I do? Should I give her more chances?
Perhaps you could make alternative arrangements...
This sounds like the set up of a porn film
Is she working or any form of income
Would it help showing a girl I deeply care about her by taking a shit at her doorstep every morning?
No. To impress a girl, make her something beautiful out of wood.
Or play a good tune on an instrument.
I got trolled and swet my iPhone to 1970 and now it won't even turn on. Is it completey fucked some people said letting it die works but other people said it'd bricked. How the fuck CA changing the date brick my phone
Yes I know I should have got android
Apple's OS breaks with the epoch time
Go to the Genius bar
>>16796127
>>16796127
Will the warranty that came with the phone replacxe it
I'm calling apple support should i tell them I tried changing the date
>Ex and I break up because we're both assholes.
>I make advances after, stop when she tells me to.
>Chick flirts with me every time I see her.
>Tell her to stop leading me on, because I ain't no scrub.
>Then she comes over and we fuck a week later.
>She starts gushing about how much I've matured and whatnot.
>We make plans to meet the week after. Day of scheduled plans, she tells me she has a boyfriend and feels super guilty for what she did. She cancels.
>proceeds to tell me she loves me, then sends me random luls and pictures of herself a few days later.
This is a retarded situation, senpai. Part of me feels like there's a good chance she's just toying with my emotions. However, my heart and dick are steering my brain right now, and I want you to criticize my plan going forward.
We're meeting alone at my place next week to cook and chillax all day, and I figure it's an opportune to figure out where the fuck we're going from here.
Plan A: Make romantic advance, succeed, discuss future in post-coital victory bed.
Plan B: Advance fails. I confront her firmly but kindly. "Why would you say you love me, send me pics, and continue to see me if you didn't want me? I want to see you, and work through our bullshit and enjoy each other."
If she refuses, then I'll tell her to stop fucking with my emotions and let me move on with my life.
What do you think?
>>16796110
Hopefully your dick doesn't touch all that jizz her boyfriend unloaded in her that morning.
>>16796110
Been there, done that. Bitch will lead you on for some time, then some random unimportant shit happens and she'll be "sorry i can't do it anymore" Be happy you got ur dick wet, and don't make the same mistake mistake i did.
Well, I've found the perfect gf for me, except that I don't find her sexually attractive anymore.
Would I regret ending a relationship with someone so good to me for sex?
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me for the same reason.
I hope he's having good sex now ;____;
>>16796098
how exactly can you fail at lying down and spreading your legs?
did you get fat?
Ok so I've just received a job offer and they have sent me a bunch of paperwork to fill out. Including an employment application. They havent asked about my last employer. I was fired for reasons I'm not entirely sure of. The application asks for reasons for leaving and if they can contact. Do you think at this point they will bother to contact and/or how should I address this so I don't get screwed?
Call your last employer right now to find out why you got fired. Then take it from there. (Wow, this board is really slow)
/ADV/ I need your help with my neighbor. This neighbor is causing a lot of ruckus and my current fence is not keeping him now his pooping dog out of my yard.
I am worried that this guy will start weeding my garden, and shingling my roof. I already have a gardener and a roofer. I do not want them to lose their jobs.
I am thinking about replacing the fence with a wall. The total wall will be just shy of 2000 miles in length. As you can imagine, the surface geology, bedrock, and groundwater conditions vary considerably along this length. I am going to need something that will work for the entire length. Hopefully >>>/DIY/ can help me on that front.
What will be the best approach to construct this wall to keep my neighbor and his dog out of my yard?
What I need help with is that my neighbor will be paying for it. He thinks he won't be, but he WILL BE. So, how do I get my neighbor to pay for the wall?
My other neighbor is cool. We don't even have a fence separating our yards. He does have some weird hobbies and interests, but still a pretty good neighbor. So I only need one wall.
Thanks
>>16796033
Are you sure that you don't need a fence at least for your other neighbour?
>>16796033
Time to start thinking about carpentry.
Why do guys date below their league. My friend is a very hot guy, he can have any woman at all, but instead he's with a fat girl who is spaghetti as fuck... Like honestly she could be autistic... Why would he settle like that?
>>16796027
I convinced that /adv/ is a just a troll board or just full of retards at this point.
Was /adv/ always this useless and baiting?
>>16796027
Do you orbit him? If he didnt chose you, you must have some glaring faults as well.
>>16796036
I want to know if I am missing something... If hes hurting himself by settling.
