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I have aspergers syndrome and lately I've met a girl who, while normal, may actually like me. I have a really hard time knowing how to respond to things or hold normal conversation.
Anyways, I texted her today asking if she'd like to go to this park nearby we've talked about but she said she "i wish! I have work all day tomorrow " with a crying emoji at the end.
What's a normal lighthearted playful but kind response to this. Normally I would respond "okay" but I've been told it's robotic.
That sucks let me know when you got some time.
>>16795240
This sounds normal. Thank you.
>>16795236
"are you on the pill? just wondering if I need to bring condoms"
I'm 25 and can't grow a beard. Not even a pubic-hair lookin' one. I found two back hairs the other day, have plenty of nipple hair, a happy trail, and a full head of hair. The most I can grow is pic related, but it's dark blonde. The hair on my head and facial hair is dark blonde, eyebrows and body hair is black. Everyone in my family has black hair with brown eyes. I have blue eyes.
Should I be worried? My grandfather has blue eyes, but it's not until my great grandparents does anyone have dark blonde hair.
>>16795222
Beards are overrated.
S'all about the moustache
I've chosen to have a career in music, but I feel like I'm only doing it for attention. I catch myself approaching soundcloud like social media and mostly get inspired to write flavor-of-the-month meme music, most likely because that'll make me look so original and hip.
>tfw you discover you're a hipster
Also, it just feels I'm not cut-out for this as I really dislike playing any instruments and while I have a decent enough ear, I'm no prodigy even after slaving away for upwards of 4 years at this.
If you don't enjoy doing it, and you're not very good at it, why the fuck are you still doing it? Why are you posting this here? What do you expect people to tell you?
>>16795205
the op wasn't written that well
I do like it. I do like arranging all those notes and chords, etc. but I always have this sensation that it'd be much less appealing if nobody ever listened to my music. I think I'm just using it as a vehicle to get attention
I'm just conflicted, I always have this thing where I feel like I'm being a narcissist and that I should kill anything resembling an ego
Art is a bad career choice.
Most artists had real jobs. Michael Gira worked in construction even when his band was getting reviewed in the New York Times.
Get a real job and practice mysic in your spare time.
When you're not depending on music for money it will come from a better place and you'll be able to make better music.
Most music isn't even worth money until you get a caring fanbase. That's why piracy blew up.
Get a job, practice, and maybe eventually you'll record an amazing album.
Most artists who...
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So I want to buy this bad boy for 330 euros.It's a Jackson KVXT with a hard case and they look like this.
Is it worth the price? When I come to check it out, what should I look for apart good feel?
Also it's rare to find a Jackson guitar in my country so it might be a good chance to get it.
>>16795169
Depends on what you're using it for? Personally, I know jackshit about what makes a good guitar - still playing the busted Tagima I bought back in highschool, matter of fact.
Anyway, bumping the thread for interest. To throw my 2 cents, I've played a floating-bridge Jackson at a friend's house once - it was pretty cool guitar but it untuned quite a bit if you were too rough at the whammy.
>>16795169
Tremolo? Get something with a fixed bridge. Tremolos are just a pain in the ass.
Work out your price range and do some homework.
I bought a Vintage V100 like 7 years ago and recently had the heads replaced. Guy who did it said it sounded great, which is a strong compliment when you consider the guy has like $5k worth of guitars and I paid less than 300 for mine.
>>16795169
Honestly, Jackson guitars are shit. But if it's something you really want due to its rarity where you are, go for it. But don't expect the quality to be good.
I want to be a dad, but I hate women.
I mean, I can be comfortable around them (even if I'm not that good for seducing women, to be fair I never really tried) but I can't stand their mannerisms. I think every guy can pretty much feel the same way more or less.
Even though, sharing my life with someone I love and having kids symbolizes what I could do best in my life. How can I go past this problem of not being able to stand women's company?
>>16795158
>I think every guy can pretty much feel the same way more or less.
You're wrong. Way wrong.
>Admit you have a warped view of women at best, and are a misogynist at worst
>Find out why
>Treat it, maybe with therapy
And no, I'm not trolling.
>>16795180
Yeah, I think it has to do with me being 3 years in military school.
But how do I stop emphasizing every fault in women as something only found in women? And how can I get more comfortable around them (because I have to admit I'm not)
It's always about her happiness, not mine. That's why I never left. I don't know if that means I really care about her, sacrificing the solitude i always wanted.
>>16795156
you sound like a pussy
Ok
>>16795171
This
A giant juicy one waiting to be fucked by your mistress.
So i fell in love with this girl from my workplace and i couldn't do shit but think about her for 3 days straight which completely fucked my week.
Yesterday , her best friend hits me up for a coffe just to tell me she has a huge crush on some dude i know and asks me to hook them up . I was on spot mortified .
So yesterday went to hell and i need to know how to get back on track and forget about all this shit because i will have to see her at work every day ..
>Never mind it wasn't meant to be.
Just tell yourself that, its the truth.
>>16795153
you sure you are actually in love and this is not infatuation? do you even know her really?
>>16795157
I guess time will heal it .
>>16795159
We've actually went out couple of times and we clicked great , i had no idea she was into that dude .. It's a great letdown and even today i feel like shit .
So I got pretty close with this girl a couple of months ago, way out of my league so I Chickened out of making a move.
We "stopped" (not 100%) talkin and meeting.
Anyways recently I've been thinkin' maybe I should ask her out??
>How do you do that again?
Why the fuck are you asking 4chins cucks whether or not you should ask her out? Just fucking do it already faggot.
>>16795193
Im asking how though..
Talk to me!
my wife of 6 years poorly tried to an hero a few nights ago while i was workin night shift. found her in the morning. called ambulance. they took her to mental health ward. i love her but lost all trust. she blames me. she IS by polar. this is not the first time. she says i i end the relationship she will do it again. i feel so trapped. what to do? anyone have the same xp? can someone please give me some insight? she may be getting out today and i will have to pick her up but i am so mad right now. help?
Run, she's not your responsibility.
Tell all her family.
File divorce, you deserve a woman with a better bill of mental health.
>>16795142
>my wife of 6 years
>Not responsibility
>>16795140
Have you talked to her family about this OP? You need to get them involved in her recovery process if they are not part of the problem. You can't do this alone.
How do I stop being so love blind? My girlfriend is constantly fucking my life over. She says one thing and does the opposite. She's the main reason why my life is such a mess, everything would be so much easier without her.
Then she tells me how much she loves me and I just can't dump her. Every promise she does just contradicts itself because she always promises to change her ways but it never happens, she ends up fucking me over a few days later anyways.
I just love her too much to let go of her though...
How do I fix myself?
>Inb4...
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Tell us what you're trying to change.
>>16795128
how does she fuck you over?
If she's toxic, you need to cut her off. Simple as that
>>16795128
>I just love her too much to let go of her though...
what do you love about her, op?
i mean, what about her (as an individual... not as a woman or a partner) do you love?
what about her personality, her life, her opinions or behaviors do you love?
perhaps you just love her because she is your partner. she's "the one you're with" and so you love her. when you describe what you love about her, could you take that and apply it to someone else?...
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My mom is questioning why I need Bronkaid if I don't have asthma or congestion, but I don't know what to tell her. I need it because the appetite suppressant really helps with not binging on food, but that wouldn't go over with her. I don't know what to say.
It's a stimulant and can be addictive. You'd really just be adding to your problems. And if you aren't old enough to buy it yourself all the more reason not to have it.
As long as you're still eating a healthy amount, just tell her your sinuses hurt without it or something.
>>16795127
tell her about carpentry. working with your hands trains patience, physical strenght, calm, etc. carpentry can make you healthy and you'll earn money for it.
Met a hot young girl on craigslist
She sends me this
Is this legit?
No.
>>16795098
Dude...
>>16795098
lol no it isn't
why should she need your credit card informations to meet with you?
I have a date set up with a girl from OKC...but I was browsing her questions and saw she answered "No" to the question "Would you date someone who is really quiet?". I wouldn't say I'm /really/ quiet, but I am a man of few words. Should I still go for it?
Any advice or should I just expect failure? When my ex broke up with me, she said that one of the things she didn't like about me was how quiet I was, so I'm a bit insecure about being quiet.
>>16795099
Listen, my ex told the same thing, but later I understood that is just rationalision. In fact, she liked my introversion, at the beginning of my relationship.
So, don't let you get scared from that.
You just need to relax, and help her relaxing too.
Often, speaking few words is better, because you don't give away yourself easily.
Just don't be frightened and don't be insecure. Drink a beer if it makes you more confident. If the two of you click together, you'll talk a lot...
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>>16795053
Nothing ventured, nothing gained, anon. Go for it! And don't bring up OKC questions on the date.
How do I get over wanting to fuck my aunt and cousin, guys??? Like, every family get-together I pop boners like mad.
Pic somewhat related.
Bump, please help, guys.
You should roofie them.
I always get rated a 6/10 in /soc/
What does that mean IRL?
>>16795004
that youre insecure about yourself and need approval from others for things that matter less than you think.
Means you'll have to settle for an ugly girl.
>>16795004
6/10 doesn't seem that bad to me from my experience on /soc/. That's pretty much an average rating. Don't worry to much about that stuff.
