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i don't know what the fuck i want to do with my life i have to choose what i want to do and i really have no fucking clue
welcome to the boat.
grab a paddle and get to it.
I'm having issues thinking long-term for my life. About to get a gen-ed associates from college, and still don't know what to do as a career. My own major seems shit the more I learn and do it (IT).
I cant visualize a good job honestly. I work as a retail supervisor, and my lacking interpersonal skills is making me feel awful about doing it (coworkers mainly). That seems to transfer into most jobs I imagine, like my people skills would hinder me. I also detest deskwork and doing repetitive tasks, so IT is killing me.
How can I even go about finding a...
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Also I'm just turning 21, which is making me feel even more pressed for time
I keep having recurring dreams that my boyfriend of 4 years is gay.
Why...
>>16793839
Either you are guy and he is gay or you just want to see him suck dick, literally every girl has that fantasy and I have no clue why.
Where can I meet single Asian guys? I'm not meeting them in my current hobbies:
> gymnastics: all girls
> 18th-19th century book club: all girls
> German club: all white guys and girls
>>16793837
Chinks like to gather around video games, gyms, tabletop, art, and sports.
There's probably a lot that I'm missing.
Source : personal experience and bloodlines
chinatown
karate club
tae kwon do club
the gym
yu-gi-oh card club
asian restaurants
>>16793840
I'm into art and sports, and I don't see any Asians. What kind of art and sports?
I do go to the gym but it's also mostly white guys.
I'm debating studying a skilled trade. Which ones are the easiest to learn? Which ones pay the best? Which trades are the highest in demand? I have a little bit of experience in woodworking and cad. I'm also in Southern Ontario if that helps.
>>16793835
>southern ontario
Where? like brandtford? Waterloo?
>>16793866
Waterloo
Drywall
What do people who are in their mid to late 20s do for work? What do you guys do? What do you guys do for living a large city?
pic unrelated
>>16793825
im 23 living in a city working part time as a Software dev and study economics.
is pretty chill. i can even save some Money every month
I slept with my exes best friend. We have remained friends though our breakup but I am a bit worried about how to break this to her. Should I keep it a secret forever, or is this not as much of a problem as I am imagining it to be? I don't want to ruin our friendship.
We have both slept with other people, and that wasn't an issue.
>>16793809
You guys are broken up...treat her like any normal female friend. If that means you'd tell another female friend this, then tell her too.
>>16793809
Tell her. You guys are friends now.
And if she has any respect for herself she'll drop you both as 'friends'
>>16793809
Why would she possibly need to know that? Do you also notify her every time you take a shit?
Whats the best way to learn more about yourself?
No seriously.
I really dont know who I am.
I say one thing and do the other.
>end work
>18
>college 20-ish
>wait together for buss to come
>takes to long
>goes in a school smoke weed.
>was nice
>later on
>start thinking of my past...
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You won't learn anything or gain any useful experience by being alone in the woods.
Read books. Study philosophy and world religions. Meet new people and learn from their opinions, beliefs, worldviews and lives. Absorb everything, inhale the world, retain what you like, exhale what you don't.
Do things that you love. Love the things that you do.
You are the master of your fate and captain of your soul.
just continue your life dog, youll know yourself by the time you hit 30
Hindsight is always 20/20 so the best way to learn about yourself is to look at what you have done. Everyone does what they feel is best at the time. Even if they know they will come to regret it later. So look at why you have chosen to go against your better judgement, and remember if you can not learn from history you are doomed to repeat it.
>roommate and I get two kittens (one for her, one for me) despite it being against our lease.
>Cats live with us for five months.
>the other day the landlord gave me a notice saying that they knew we had a cat and we had to get rid of them in three days.
>only way they could have known would be seeing my cat in the window. They're not loud.
>Trying to figure out a way to move somewhere cheap where I can keep my kitten....
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>>16793741
You got kittens without notifying your landlord? Not the best move. I wouldn't try to sneak them back in, as you'll probably be breaking a term on your lease.
That said, I'd see if family could take them while you get the funds to move. Kind of not a great idea to adopt a cat into a no-pet place in the first place.
Talk to your landlord. Maybe they'll give you more time to figure it out, or maybe you can work it out so that you can pay them a deposit for repairs if for some reason...
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You're risking being evicted by doing this. What's to stop your landlord coming and inspecting the property as is their right? Cats smell, and your landlord isn't stupid.
Just look for a new place. Your landlord cannot evict you in 3 days. That shit takes months to do because it has to go through the courts.
hey /adv/ need a little bit of help here. my friend found himself in this situation
>friend (we'll call him joe) met a girl online when he was 16 or 17, about 3 years ago
>girl (we'll call her beth) was 13 at the time
>joe and beth talked for about a day, they met via omegle and continued to talk on kik
>eventually joe convinced beth to sing to him over the phone before he went to bed
>joe jacked off while...
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bump
Was I CRINGE-WORTHY or what? Thoughts?
Basically me and my ex sort-of had a break up 2 weeks ago, due to arguments and bad feels. Nothing like cheating or whatever. Said he might call me, and I thought he would from previous experience but this time nada. Nothing. I wasn't sure if we were done or not. Well, yesterday I ended up seeing him at a bar we would go to a lot. I did not intend on meeting him (it was a city festival sort of thing), and was embarrassed if we saw each other he would think I was a stalker. Well, my friends kept saying he was looking at me and I...
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one thing he said that made me feel positive was he said "you're a beautiful girl you can get any of the guys here so why me" but then... I realized that's the same as the whole "you're a really great guy any girl would be happy to have you"
... kek
Expecting to go home with him was cringe-worthy, but also sort of understandable drunken behavior,
Sounds like it's over though. Move on. Or elaborate on the "attitude change" he expects.
>offers possible relationship renewal in exchange for you to stop being a cunt
>tells you that you should message him when he has a day off this weekend
What's the problem? You probably definitely came off as desperate staying after and asking to go to his house if that's what you're asking.
I really enjoy house music. I would love to go to a live venue but I am definitely not a dancer. I don't want to see out of place.or even downright awkward for not dancing. Do others who attend not dance and just kinda sit in the back and mingle while enjoying the music?
If you're talking about stuff like Tiesto, Gareth Emery, Above&Beyond, Chicane, Gabriel and Dresden, etc., then most people there are very inclusive. I've never felt out of place at a show like that, despite not dancing much and being a weirdo in general.
>>16793712
I listen to alot of no artificial colours , some disclosure, Duke Dumont ..tons of MK remixes..I wouldent know where they fall on the house spectrum. Im big in alot of the old school stuff as well as underground
>>16793727
Have you tried M? It goes hand in hand with the music and it definitely makes shows less awkward.
Do women suffer from severe masturbation and pornography addiction, or is it mostly a male problem?
Also, among men, what makes certain men more susceptible to it while others can masturbate and view porn casually without it interfering with normal functioning? Many people actually manage to learn skills, do work/school assignments and all manner of other productive things on the internet, others find endless ways of slacking off such as video games, anime, social media, chatting... yet don't have overwhelming urges to look at porn and masturbate every time they...
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Only once a week :o
Men continuously create semen and have a need for a release. Some women get extremely horny in their 30's, their swan song before going into menopause.
Been like that since 15 and I'm a girl; we're out here, but some hide better than others.
I met my boyfriend 4 years ago and I still love him like it was yesterday. It started like any normal relationship but as time went on it got harder. At first it was calling him master occasionally, then only during sex, then at the end of every sentence. It was kinky. After each disagreement it got harder to deal with him, I was scared I would lose him. Now he calls me a whore and doesn't call me his girlfriend anymore. He makes me drink pee and eat poo to satisfy his fantasies. Now he wants me to try and get my mom naked pictures of my mom and convince her to do a threesome...
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>>16793615
So much bait tonight
pic related (its me).
who here will be my friend? all i got is my cat.
post your email and we can chat regularly about whatever.
>>16793599
i play steam games too.
dude, i just had explosive diarrhea. you should have seen all the poop that came out of my butt. it felt like i was peeing out of my butthole.
>>16793606
that doesnt sound like explosive. that sounds like a faucet
explosive goes splat all at once the faucet is the runny hot liquid that pours out
