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Handholdless virgin here. 23.
What do you do if you like a girl and want to tell them on Valentine's Day?
>>16797554
You don't. You don't tell people you like them on Valentine's day unless you've already had lots of chemistry or better yet have gone out a couple of times. You are not 12, you are a grown ass adult. Valentine's day is a shit holiday anyway.
Source: Am in a relationship and will be spending V-day on the couch eating popcorn and watching shitty movies with my partner.
I've been out of the loop for quite some time and there's this girl.
We'll be going out this Saturday afternoon until evening and I don't have any plans yet. We live in a big city that's heavily congested with traffic and we live quite far.
Will a simple dinner be enough? Is it better to be near her place though I am not familiar around her place?
What do?
Any help?
I'm thinking of picking her up near her place and driving to a dining place where I now and go for a walk around there after dinner. Then ice cream. I'm just going to take it casual so that we can talk and get to know each other.
>>16797551
Afternoon until evening...maybe go walk in a park, ice skating (may/may not be an option depending on climate where you are), just **do** something with her to give her a fun memory to associate with you. Then I would go get drinks before dinner, have dinner, maybe ice cream or another drink at a different place (quiet lounge/bar where you can talk maybe?) afterward.
Search for cool restaurant somewhat close to where she lives (~15 minute radius from her home). Don't pick her up and then drive 45 minutes...
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Miniature golf
/adv/, I've only ever dated older women. Granted I've only dated six women, but all of them have been at least five years older than me. I'm twenty one now, and in college. I kind of want to give a girl my own age a shot.
Problem is I don't really understand girls my age. I understand older women, and I can flirt with them pretty easily, but for some reason when it comes to girls my age I just lock up. I can't think of what to say and I can't conceive of how I might take a relationship beyond friendship.
So tl;dr, how does one establish...
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It's not them, it's you.
Shit man, I've only dated women younger than me but always wanted to date an older woman.
Just find some girls at a local community college and wow them with your STABLE JOB and COOL CAR
So /adv/, here's a thread for those of us in the working world.
There is this lazy bitch at my job who regularly takes 30 minute breaks ( we are only supposed to get a 10 ) . To make a long story short I called her out on it and now her breaks are being monitored by upper management.
For the past 2 weeks, she has been extremely butthurt and passive aggressive towards me for calling her out for being a lazy shit. I now come into work today and find out she has made a sexually harassment complaint against me that is pretty much 100% bullshit. Fortunately for me they haven't taken sides and I still have my job, but seriously this is fucked.
So now I come with a few basic questions:
1. I live in a right to work state. If they decide to fire me I am well aware there isn't much I can do, BUT how hard would it be for me to file a defamation charge against lazy bitch?
2. Part of it right now is just dealing with the anger. I knew she didn't like me and I was JUST thinking yesterday about how fucking annoying it would be if she decided to seek petty revenge by making false accusations. I'm just pissed at how disgustingly predictable her actions are. Like I am not even fucking surprised.
3. Seriously, what do?
>>16797535
>defamation charge
luckily, the parameters for a company firing you to cover their ass and getting a criminal charge are vastly different. if you can get a competent lawyer on retainer, you should be able to levy either a criminal or civil suit against her. if you get sue-happy, you could try to take your company on, but that's an uphill battle
>anger
as satisfying as it would be to retaliate against her, it would be the final nail in your...
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>>16797578
I'm probably too poor to afford a decent lawyer.
Well what was the details of the harrassment complaint?
