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Wtf is with german girls? My town has a lot of german tourists. They look all right, you start talking and you can have a good conversation. As soon as it comes to, lets meet again or even do something now, I get 'no.' What is it? Why so stuck up?
>>16861064
>asks girls out
>gets no
>ermagerd Deutsche frauen are so stuck up
Nothing is with german girls, maybe it's with you? I've lived in many plances all over the world except for South America, and I've mostly gotten "yes", with a few "no"s every now and then.
You sound buttmad, maybe you shouldn't take it so personally? Anon I'm sure you aren't that bad of a...
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Have you googled German culture tips or courtship etiquette? You might be shooting yourself in the foot by being too flirtatious or giving empty icebreaker compliments.
Or maybe they don't want to get an American STD. Whatever.
>>16861064
Because you can't meet up with them again because they have to go back... to Germany???
Presuming you live in Europe and they have to take a several hour long train ride to go to wherever you live and back.
Going to Vegas soon, and I want to go on a firing range.
I'm 18 and not an American citizen, so would I be able to go?
Maybe,
if you at good.
Yes. You'll probably need to go with another person so they know you're not there to an hero.
A lot of ranges require you to either be 21 or have a 21 year old with you in order to rent firearms
When I fuck my boyfriend I think of this guy I have feelings for, otherwise it's not enjoyable.
Am I bad for doing this?
Don't lead him on. Unless you love him you shouldn't be with him.
>>16872665
if that other dude pursued you, would you drop your bf?
>>16872676
This. Don't be a shitty person.
I have been taking depression medication for over a year but it is not working for me.
I recently saw a psychiatrist and had a nice, long conversation with him. He told me that he doesn't think I'm "depressed" and he doesn't think any kind of medication would help me, it's just how my personality is. He said he could probably fit me into a "personality disorder" but he didn't think doing that would be too helpful, and that I should just work on improving the things that I don't like in my life with a counselor.
The...
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>>16872647
have you actually tried excercising more?
like 2 hours a day?
See another psychiatrist and see if you can get a second opinion.
>>16872652
I run, lift weights and play ddr.
I regret almost everything in my entire life. The choices I've made, the type of person I chose to be, what a huge asshole I was, the people I screwed over for the sake of screwing over. Basically I hated who I used to be, but now I am a better person and it's hard to push the past where it belongs because it haunts me and creeps up on me every day.
/adv/, how do you stop feeling regret? How do you get over it all? Also, how do you prove that you've changed to your friends and family?
Come on guys, it's not another "a girl looked at me what does it mean" thread
Don't be afraid of failure man. U need to be happy with who u are now. Life isn't all regular assholes crack it up to be. If they don't accept u u just have to move on. Don't let it destroy u. U seem like a good lad and I wish u the best man. Hope this helps.
I don't regret anything. Thermodynamically there is no way you could have been anything but what you were, and where you are now is the end result of what you've been.
In other words, you are a better person because you were a bad person. There's nothing to regret.
How come there are all these girls who can date guys all the time and they choose to date or not date depending on how they feel, but I can't even get one date with a guy?
What is it that they're doing apart from being prettier than me?
/troll
>>16872411
Why on earth do you think this is a troll? I just want to understand what they're doing.
Impossible to answer that.
Personality
Demeanor
Approachability
Style of dress
Hygiene
Racial/regional bias
Any other seemingly arbitrary thing.
Take your pick.
I am getting a crush on someone and I would very much like if I could slow the process for at least a couple of weeks.
I don't want to avoid this person or to remove him from my life I just wanna pipe the fuck down.
He is basically a 9/10 for me and I think things are going into a good direction but I would like to stop thinking about it/him so often. Any advice on this?
Unfortunately we can't control our emotions so I'm afraid there's not much you can do. Trying to repress it doesn't work. But you can change the circumstances. Maybe limit the amount of time you see them?
Also why do you want to slow the process down for a couple of weeks?
>>16861031
Don't force your feelings.
It's a rule that if you try to suppress an emotion, you'll only see it return with more power. Likewise, seeking an emotion will yield the opposite.
The best you can do if you're feeling things you don't want is try to change your circumstances so you can avoid the source of this feelings. In this case, spend less time around him, keep yourself busy, etc. If you have to be honest with him about how you feel, be honest.
In time you'll get the...
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>>16861060
Well it is just that I don't know how things are going to work out so I don't want to get ahead of myself
So this year was pretty fucked up /adv/,my dog died(I know it sounds stupid to someone who doesn't have a dog,but trust me it hurts),my girl abandoned because she said she got bored of being in a relationship,my sister's going through surgery and also I have final exams to deal with. I'm trying to all these things in order,here's how I've put them:
1) Sister's health
2) Finals
3)Grief
4) The pain that she gave to me.
Any advice on what I should do? Should I hang out with friends or give it some time? Help /adv/...
Dogs are stupid
Not only is surgery not usually that big of a deal (imo, med fag here.) unless it is something really fucked, but you worrying about your sister is something that is completely useless. It doesn't matter how much you worry, you can't change what may or may not happen.
Focus on the things that you can change as your first priority, your finals. Then, focus on things you can change a little, such as getting a new pet, or find new female companionship.
There's a girl I met. We've hit it off. She likes me; she likes me a lot. However, I cannot figure out why. Everything's great, but there's this niggling feeling in the back of my mind, I keep thinking "Why does she like me so much?" She's much more interesting + better looking than I am. How do I stop this inferiority complex? I know that it'll ruin the relationship long-term if I continue w/ this thinking. I haven't told her about how I feel inferior, of course, but maybe she can sense it.
I keep thinking she deserves someone...
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It's a honeytrap.
>>16861042
knowing my luck it probably is.
(nah, it's not).
