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What are some of the best places to buy generic brand ED pills online? i have looked at healthytablets and similar but don't want to have to pay $60 just for 10 pills my first time. Are there any places that sell individual pills?
>>16859852
Also, does anyone know if viagrabestbuy is legit with their trial of 10 pills?
>>16859852
>mfw I found some guy on craigslist that always has viagra and cialis for super cheap and been dealing with him for years now
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>>16859867
Oh thats actually an option I hadn't considered...
Hello,
Question is in the title, here's more context if you're brave enough to read through my venting:
I'm a recovering robot (rehab started about 9 months ago). Lost weight (still about 5kg to go), started to go out a little (mostly local bars or casual parties). I noticed women checking me out more and more, even teasing on some occasions. Guys more friendly too. I'm still kinda autistic, so I have no idea on how to escalate on women's reactions or how to get good and reliable friends.
About 3 weeks ago, I was staying late at the bar, and a woman (old enough to easily be my mom) came by, sat at the counter not too far from me and started talking to me. No flirting on either part. We exchanged contact and I followed up cause she was cool and, as said above, I don't really have so many friends.
We went out twice since then. Dinner. Both time she had invited her friend(s), so it wasn't so date-like and not too awkward. She's invited me to a home party next weekend, so I hope won't sperg out too much.
But last time we ended up being pretty drunk and while walking on our way back, she went close to me and I held her by the shoulder (when you are a pathetic loner, hugging another human body feels pretty good), she went even closer after that. now I think it was not such a good idea.
I think I'm starting to really like her as a friend, and would be a little bit sad if she cut contact now. So:
How can I keep this friendship that way?
How can I make sure she's not interested in me?
If it turns out she could be, how to let her know as smoothly as possible?
Thanks
More details available upon request
>>16859842
>If it turns out she could be, how to let her know as smoothly as possible?
You open your mouth and tell her the truth. Its what adults do.
Don't be a pussy.
Bumping for non retarded answers from people with actual insight on the matter
You could try that new invention called "talking." I hear it works wonders so people you associate with have a prayer of knowing what's going on in your head.
Been seeing a Japanese girl lately who just moved here for a few months studying. We've hung out at parties together quite a bit and went for dinner together last week. Our second date is on Wednesday.
The trouble is she seems to be anime-tier levels of shy. Her English speaking/listening skills aren't 100% so it's hard to have a natural conversation or tell jokes so there are quite a few awkward moments where we don't understand eachother. She blushed a lot at just being told she looked nice today so I have a feeling if I tried to kiss her already it would give her a heart attack.
My question is how to deal with dating ultra-shy girls and the slight language barrier. I'm worried if I give her too much space it'll end in being friendzoned but also worried that if I act as forward as one does with Western women it'll scare her off since Japanese chicks seem a lot more reserved.
>>16859838
The traditional way of dating in Japan goes through the friendzone where you basically go on dates with a girl while pretending you are just friends. After 1 or 2 month, you're good to go.
This is very old-style, young people are not like that anymore and sex usually happens within 2 weeks after meeting first.
Now, Japanese are also extremely xenophobic and they truly believe in all the cliché they have been fed since they were kids. So my guess is you could be even more straightforward than with a western girl, that's kind of what she expects from you. She probably sees you as a sex-driven maniac.
Unless she screams for rape, you can keep going.
>>16859876
Good advice, thanks. So I shouldn't worry about displays of affection like kissing until at least after a month? If they go through a 'friend' stage first, does her repeatedly agreeing to go out mean she's even interested or is it just a friendly gesture?
For more information she's also 26 years old (I'm 23) but somehow still single so I'm not sure what the story there is or if it would affect her outlook.
>>16859886
From my experience, if they don't want to hang out with you, they are just indefinitely busy (but they are very good at crafting excuses, so it was confusing for me at first).
One thing to know about Japanese though: in Japan, public displays of affection are kind of frowned upon (besides holding hands).
If you didn't do it already, start by holding her hand for your next date, they are usually pretty OK with that, even holding them by the hips is fine. Then go step by step once you are in a more intimate place, if she resists once, ignore it, if she resists twice, stop there.
I'm not really a player, so you might need to double-check, but that's what I've gathered from my experience in Japan. Also this is not Japan, so it may be different.
But be prepared for a super passive girl.
I'm bored and procrastinating. Ask a senior year math major anything. I'll give advice as best I can as well. Picture unrelated, but funny.
What kind of math?
>>16859832
what is the derivative of infinity
>>16859832
Have you taken physics classes and how did you do in them? I thought I was good at math (aced calc as a sophomore in highschool) but now that I'm in college, the physics class for engineering majors is kicking my ass and I don't understand how I am so bad at something that most people consider to be an offshoot of mathematics.
Also any advice for succeeding in a physics (mechanics) class?
ok so I need some advice, a couple hours ago I was eating dinner and I got some chicken stuck in my throat, I'd call it choking but I can still breathe fine for the most part, the main issue is I can't eat or drink anything without it coming right back up(not to mention I keep hacking up way too much mucus, which I think is something my body is doing to try and dislodge it), not to mention it is incredibly uncomfortable(feels like I have a tiny fist lodged in there), unfortunately going to the hospital isn't an option, I can't drive and no-one else in the house is willing to take me, so anyone got any suggestions for what to do?
pic related is how I'm feeling right now
>>16859800
>unfortunately going to the hospital isn't an option, I can't drive and no-one else in the house is willing to take me
You need to go to the hospital immediately. It could possibly be something called pulmonary aspiration, where the food has bypassed the part of your esophagus that leads to your stomach and gotten lodged in the part that goes to your lungs.
If it gets dislodged or finds its way into your lungs while you sleep you could develop arterial hypoxemia and die, you could develop pneumonia, get an infection.
You need to go. Now. You can't risk ignoring this. Doesn't matter if you call an ambulance, you have to get this checked out immediately.
>>16859800
OP here, still haven't been to the hospital, am still having these issues, now wishing for the sweet release of death(well not quite actually, but I am pretty miserable)
>be me
>19 years old
>go to mall with buds
>see really nice latina ass in tight jeans
>eyes on target.jpg
>girl notices
>fuck it
>smile
>girl blushes
>back to talk with my bros
>she passes by and looks at me
>I look at her and smile
>smiles back
>10 min go by I don't give it too much thought
>girl comes and gives me a napkin
>goes away
>name and number in napkin
>uwot.jpg
>send a voice message to girl later that evening
>"I saw you and I couldn't go without giving you my number anon"
>god seems to exist for a while
>we flirt back and forth for 3 days
>ask her age cuz reasons
>"I'm 15 anon"
>18 legal age
>FUCK
>she says age isn't a problem
>she wants to know me better and go on a date
>I joke about her age telling her: "our date would be so boring, we would go for ice cream and you'll have to be in bed before 8"
>hoping she'll get mad and tell me to fuck off
>"ice cream...that ain't so fun but I'm flexible, I'll get used to what ever you say anon"
>wut.jpg
>"lol you would be like my little sister it won't work out"
>"haha you will be like my big brother anon the difference is I'm attracted to you"
>my dick begins to cry
>still flirting with me
I've decided I'll go on a get-to-know her date seeing she had the balls to approach me. What's your opinion /adv/
eh just do it
She's a minor, stupid, uneducated and incapable making responsible decisions. The responsibility falls on you, because you're the adult. If you have any kind of morality, you'll leave this girl alone.
>>16863881
She is horny, you are horny. wrap it up and go have fun.
whats a good name for a magazine/news site?
>>16859794
About what?
>>16859798
more like some general type of thing
so it could be anything really .. thinking off some 1 syllable max 2 syllable name that seems to be the best
The daily blabbity
Hey guys, just need some quick input.
Does this guy look friendzoned? pic very related
Sorry for the small size.
>>16859762
Can't answer based on that picture alone
>>16859770
If you could answer on that picture alone
>>16859773
All I see is a guy and a girl seemingly happy to be with each other. Which makes me thing they're a couple. Which makes me thing he's not friendzoned.
(And I thought I said I couldn't answer based on that pic alone ..., oh well, guess I was wrong)
>Officio dormiens numquam titalandus"
What does this mean? I've already tried google translate, and it seems to be Latin.
>>16859755
As an add-on, Google translate gave me this, "office sleeping never titalandus"
>>16859755
"Draco dormiens numquam titalandus"
It's from Harry Potter, what does adding "office" to if signify?
In HP it's taken to mean "never tickle a sleeping dragon"
Why would someone tell me to "never tickle a sleeping office?"
>>16859755
"Don't ever tickle the office".
It doesn't make sense, don't worry.
I was wondering if any of you picked a major for the money or because you enjoyed it.
My one true love is art, and my dream is to be a portrait artist.
I'm currently finishing my math sequence in order to major in math, physics, or computer science.
I can transfer out of my community college in a year or so, but I have a feeling I'm doing something I'll regret.
>but I have a feeling I'm doing something I'll regret.
Welcome to real life
>>16859753
Why go for extremes? Do something that stands in between: not making you completely misserable, but still making a decent ammount of money. The world is not black and white.
You can still do art on your free time, or do some freelance art jobs whenever the opportunity arises. Choosing a major does not equal stopping to do all other things.
>>16859764
What do you think would be a good major that stands in between? I'm mostly choosing a major because I know I'll have to take care of my parents when they're older, and they didn't save anything for retirement. That's pretty much the only reason. The other reason is because I want to challenge someone who said I couldn't do math one day, and prove to myself that I'm capable.
Anyway, as for art, I think I should continue to do it either way. I don't want to die (I know; melodramatic) not doing what I enjoyed in the first place.
As for age reference, I'm 23, and will be graduating when I'm 25 or 26. I'm okay with this, since I'll be the first person to go to finish college in my family.
There is some guilt I have as well, since when I used to be in a group home and homeless shelters, they (staff/psychologists) told me that when I'm older, I would give back. I really hate the way the mental health system is, but I will leave that topic out of discussion.
My main concern is also my mental health. I'm pretty much a little too miserable choosing a major, for it was difficult for me to begin college in the first place. I'm getting a version of "cold feet" when choosing a major.
Thanks for reading. I know I'm sounding pretty jumbled right now. :/ This is such a petty thing to think about. There are worse things in the world but choosing is really bothering me.
Have you any experience with this situation and how did you come out of it?
I have been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Unfortunately, pancreatic cancer is the hardest to cure. The doctors said I will not live through it. They don't have a specified amount of time for when I will die, but they estimate within 2016.
What should I do?
>>16859745
- Take care of your body.
- Enjoy the time you spend with the people you love.
- Tell them how much you love and how much they mean to you.
- Continue doing the same things you used to do before (except unhealthy things of course).
Travel
Fuck bitches get money
>be antisocial shut-in for years
>start a new job ~1 year ago
>eventually build up courage to chat with coworkers
>thought I was getting to know them, they laugh and joke around and stuff like I imagined people who knew each other well do
>thought that maybe I was actually making friends
>fast forward to today
>found out they get together outside of work and go do things together just for fun
>never contacted or directly told about this, only found out from a really fast offhand comment
>realize the only time they contact me is when they need help troubleshooting software or with schoolwork
Welp, I gave it a shot but I'm done with normies now. How do I get them out of my life? I share classes with two of them, and if I just cold stopped talked to any of them, I think they might question it, so I need some strategy to never see them again.
Join clubs, go outside. Learn new skills or languages. Find people who have the same interests as you.
Pretend to be super busy, OR actually BE busy. That way you're too preoccupied top talk to them. Focus on your own shit. Develop some hobbies, learn a skill and learn it GOOD.
Why do you want to drop them from your life? I thought u were trying to make friends...
maybe if u would open up instead of closing off instantly you might be more successful.
So I bought a fitbit like 2 months ago, and I've worn it pretty consistently. I have some concerns regarding the data it's given me though...
I'm 22, very good shape, body fat is less than 10%, resting heart rate is below 60, 6' and 140lbs. But I constantly feel fatigued or tired, and I just sort of assumed this is normal after a long time of not being able to find a cause for it; I assumed it was my diet, so I changed it, ate more, then I thought it was my sleep, got a good rhythm going and everything - but nothing really changed this feeling of tiredness.
After looking through the data over the last couple of months, my calorie burn is ridiculously high. I'm a student, so my days are either sedentary with me almost not leaving the house, or doing a lot.
When I play sports, I'm burning 300-400 calories an hour casually. I calculate it at around 750 when I'm working hard (hr consistently over the 135 marker).
On my sedentary days I'm apparently burning around 2300 calories, and my active days up to around 4,000.
I've had a shit load of blood tests done already based on the feelings of fatigue, but haven't taken any of this data to a doctor. Is it worthless information? Is it something to be concerned about?
>>16859729
I've never used a fitbit, but there's no way something on your wrist can give you an actual, valid account of how many calories you are burning. Regardless, TDEE of 2300 is pretty normal for being sedentary. I'd honestly say your active calorie burn count is probably off.
>>16859729
>but haven't taken any of this data to a doctor.
"Hi, I'm anon, I have been experiencing a medical ailment lately and I thought it would be wise to try every single thing except go to a doctor, who is trained in diagnosing and treating medical ailments."
That sound about right?
>>16859759
I've had something like 10 vials of blood tested. They've found absolutely nothing so far. There are only so many times you can go to the doctor with the same complaint, especially if they find nothing; I got the fitness tracker after my last visit to get data on my sleep.
Overcoming breakup books? Do you know any?
It is almost two years now and I am still awake at 5 AM just thinking about it and feeling like shit. She was the one who dumped me after 7 years, there was probably some cheating involved, she allegedly started fucking someone else within 48 hours. Yet, I can't bring myself to despise her and move on. I self destroy myself with videogames to not think. I even scored another loving cute girlfriend , but I feel terribly underwhelmed by her compared to my ex. I really need help, I'm 28 holy shit.
>>16859722
It's been two years man.You've got another girl that wants to be with you. I say give her more attention and just try and move on. Find some more hobbies. Learn some new skills. You've got this man.
>>16859722
Recovering from such a long relationship takes time, don't rush it.
You already are in another relationship despite feeling this way? I'd say you are still not ready for it, it could lead to many problems with your new girlfriend.
Try to do different activities during the day to keep you busy (sports, hobies, etc). Make short and long term plans for yourself and work on them.
If you really need to let all about your previous relationship out, write a book about, just so you can reflect upon it and move on.
Good luck.
>>16859731
To be honest the whole new girlfriend thing is dragging me down. After the breakup I didn't actively pursue any girl but I sure fantasized about how I would have felt and all. But even if this girl has no apparent fault, she is such
a letdown. I felt so involved with my ex, we had amazing connection ( not that amazing maybe since she dumped my ass ) .I compare her to my ex all the time and she loses hard. Such a harsh bullshit thing to do, yet I can't help it.
>>16859737
I don't know if I rushed this, could be. It was less than a year after the breakup. But the girl pursued me and I felt lonely and I was craving the idea that I could love again. Right now, it's a failure on all fronts. Thanks for the advices. I hit the gym regularly but other than that I have to focus on my studies and end university, which is hard because of my poor focusing skills.
So my grillfriend of two years went 'Genderfluid check your privilege stop oppressing me' a few months ago, so I broke up with her. She got offended by everything, and she was a huge buzzkill, etc. Now she/he/it has bounced back and started talking to me again and I want nothing to do with that individual. Wat do?
>>16859689
Well you have could just slowly stop answering her texts til she stops, or say that you've been busy and dont have time to hangout
>>16859702
nice bait
>>16859689
Just tell her how you feel. Chances are, even if you tell it to her nicely, if she's still full on tumblrina, she'd still get offended either way.
But yeah, no use sticking with people who behave in a toxic way.
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