How do u tell if someone is the one/ Love of your life? Also how do u deal with girlfriends exes even tho she is friends with them?
It doesn't exist. There is always someone better.
I don't deal with her friends/exes because that's fucking stupid. It's a red flag, she wants her cake and to eat it too. It's basically constant competition for you and constant ego tripping for her.
>>16858899
One, doesn't exist. There are potentially hundreds and hundreds of people you can grow old together with.
Two you don't, and them maintaining contact with exes while you're in the picture is disrespect and a large red flag.
>>16858899
define 'love of your life'.
I am feeling super depressed and isolated can you say how great I am and make me feel good with compliments please?
As many as there can be every one I read I think will help...
judging by your picture your not a bad looking guy
>>16858905
This
and stop trying to be everything, and just be yourself
That's nic cage
Hey. My teeth are pretty rotten. Not rotten like Nick Bate but enough to start affecting my self esteem a lot.
I'm planning on getting it fixed and might have to get a tooth or few removed.What would happen afterwards? Should I get bridges or implants? Are braces easy to take care of?
I seemed to have made a booboo. I meant dentures, not braces.
If you actually got a dentist, he'll give you all the instructions you need.
Also, what, should it be hard to maintain the braces, will you just quit and watch your ugly teeth get uglier?
That entirely depends on what the Dentist decides. Worst case scenario you might need reconstructive surgery.
What is 'success'?
What constitutes a 'good' life?
That's up to you. It seriously is
>>16858873
Spoilers they don't exist.
What really exists is personal satisfaction. Are you not satisfied? Do you face any hardships or looming threats?
If no, congratties, you're successful and have a good life.
If you really want a yardstick to measure yourself against other people, you insecure fuck, the phrase 'doing better than most, but maybe not as well as some' should be it.
>>16858873
generally speaking if someone asks us 'how do i be successful?" we say 'define success'.
because its subjective. every single person will have a different view of it. there are assholes who act like gods and think their way is the only way. there are people who live in a modest home and consider it a successful life cuz they have enough time to play soccer with their kids on the weekend.
but the most basic almost universal definition is
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Would you like advice about how to best spot and deal with people who have ASPD/sociopathy/psychopathy from someone who has that disorder?
Would you like cold analytical advice from a nihilistic asshole?
If you would like any questions answered about dealing with the mental health system in the United States, I have some experience with that as well.
Green text it
Did you know that you're a faggot
>>16858866
>be me
>working on homework
>girlfriend sitting next me reading
>we at home alone
>can't have sex because siblings are here
>can't kill myself because life is too good
>realize I'm just going to have sex
>posting on 4chan instead
>be...
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I'm so depressed its making it impossible to focus on my studies and I have an exam tomorrow.
How can I push my depression aside for a day and get my shit done? Anyone know? I feel like all the energy has been sapped from me...
Get the thing u are missing.
or ice cream and shit
>>16858854
drugs, or will power. your call bro
>>16858854
i've never seen modern life better described
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bU0YA3Okq-4
Lmao women are so far up their own ass. Any little chip on the pedestal their narcissistic minds have built for themselves need constant affirmation of their Goddess status to repair.
Women...fragile little things..
>>16858830
What is this turbo faggotry?
>Be me
>be 18
>crazy about this girl
>get guts ripped out
>couldn't handle the 'emotional cold turkey'
>go off the rails
>become destructive
>almost ruin my life
>4 years later
>things are getting better
>studying/pushing...
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i think you just gotta get outta there. you probably just need someone (or something, like your career) to reinforce you. don't need that girl
>>16858829
so your 22 and still in love with this girl?
how did she rip your guts out?
I'm not in love with her. I wish she could see me now and how much I've changed. Do you understand?
How can I stop feeling like a loser?
>23 years old
>no job
>still in college
>no friends
>no girlfriend since ever
>little money
>live with my parents pretty far from campus
>shit car
The only thing of value I have is that I'm not fat and that I make fairly good grades. But beyond that I feel awful....
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Finish university. Depending on your major the stress from that can bet massive. So here is the magical formula for getting over anxiety and depression issues, you have to continually make small progress in bettering your life and the environment around you. One of the oddities of the human mind is that even shit like house plants makes us feel more relaxed. I suggest getting a hobby and spending more time at university after your classes end each day. Most of my friends in university were made in labs, where you had to interact with people to accomplish things, its really good...
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How do you deal when you want to be a cool successful guy and you're not one to begin with?
>>16858784
>how do you deal
we get this question every fucking day. every fucking day. there is no step by step guide to dealing. dealing is dealing. its like asking how to think. you simply do it. DEALING WITH IT is the advice.
that being said
>be cool
>be successful
no more problem
> Don't watch Gundam SEED
>>16858803
>we get thisquestion every fucking day. every fucking day.
sorry, I haven't been here ina while
>be cool
>be successful
>no more problem
but I'm not a guy, that's where the downfall seems to start
Hi /adv/
Basically, I'm in a serious long-distance relationship with a 20 y.o Russian girl (I'm 19 from the UK) and we're both kissless virgins who act like autists and have similar interests, we absolutely love eachother and plan on meeting in a few months, I left her two months ago (because she's a Muslim so I felt really hesitant being with her as I'm not one) but after a few weeks away from her, I really missed her and just knew she is the one for me so I messaged her, she felt the same way and I'm certain I won't be leaving her...
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Block the fag, dumbass. Fwd the texts to her, tell her to tell her queer beard buddy to knock that shit off, and then block the cocksucker.
If she refuses to reel in her semen-farting friend, you're dealing with a drama queen, in which case, it's time to go.
Yeah, also? You're in the UK, she's in Russia. You're never going to end up together, and you know it. You're wasting perfectly good time when you could be seeking out someone who you can actually see and touch.
>>16858779
>LDR
dump her
>>16858792
>Block the fag, dumbass. Fwd the texts to her, tell her to tell her queer beard buddy to knock that shit off, and then block the cocksucker.
I already sent her screenshots of his insults, she's no longer friends with him but despite that, this batty boy is insisting that I leave her even though they're not best friends anymore, this cocksucker's a wacko.
>You're never going to end up together, and you know it.
She's...
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Graduating high school in a few months, want to make a lot of spending money for college. I hear you can make $20 or so an hour working construction, but that its pretty difficult. I'm fairly fit, but I'm also very white and middle class.
Should I do construction or keep working at shitty restaurants?
>>16858764
Yeah sure senpai.
Places will expect you to have tools but they're not hard to get.
If you're a nice guy and don't slack off no one's gonna have any reason to give you a hard time.
>>16858764
I've worked trades and no joke carpentry, plumbing and electricians are white dominated
Work in the trades. It will benefit you fiscally and mentally. You'll make more money and meet better people exactly because it's more difficult and challenging than working with a bunch of illiterate Mexicans.
What are your thoughts on investing in paintball as a hobby?
Is it common enough to be worth it?
Is it too expensive as a hobby?
>>16858763
these are some really weird quesions if oyu think about it.
as far as
>what are your thoughts
if its fun to you, and you can afford it, go for it
>is it common enough to be worth it
>worth it
worth what? what are we defining the worth of a hobby such as paintball? im so confused
>is it too expensive as a hobby
depends on your definition of expensive....
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>>16858763
Airsoft is a little bit more expensive to get in to than paintball, but that being said, it's cheaper in the long run and it offers more realism with milsim events,gear,guns etc. But do what events good for you
I've ben in a relationship with my current gf for about 2 years. She's bi and cool with threesomes where she makes out with girls and I get to watch. However she's very paranoid about me ever getting interested in one of those other girls and obviously I don't get to put my dick into any other holes but hers. For example when she's riding me and the other girls is licking her at the same time she makes sure to tell her to keep her tongue off my dick. Now I obviously want to put my dick into other chicks but I kinda enjoy the relationship because she's...
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>>16858757
I didn't really understand from your post why you want to cuck your girlfriend. It seems like it's a pretty sweet set up for you. If you want to put your dick in other chicks, leave her so that someone else can properly enjoy her.
>>16858757
You don't. And good fucking luck finding one who lets you.
>>16858757
>threesomes
>she makes sure to tell her to keep her tongue off my dick
Yeah sorry to break it to you mang but you've never had a thressome. If you don't directly interact with the second girl it's not a threesome.
I suggest finding a more mature gf who understands a man's need for sexual variety. There's plenty of them out there, so it's up to you to make a change and be happy.
Life's waaay to short...
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Should I do such a tattoo? :)
>>16858743
Yes. Who's gonna see it? Although good luck on not squirming when the porcupine-man comes to ink up your leg stomper.
>>16858743
What about this meme? It's almost as outdated as bacon.
>>16858743
yes if you want to be like the rest of the special snowflake faggots who get a tattoo.