'sup OP.
I've got all my ducks in a row relatively speaking. I've got a house of my own, a job that pays well, and the world at my fingertips.

The problem I'm having is I feel entirely disconnected from the people around me. I enjoy the company of good friends and family. I have nothing to bond with them over. I don't have any hobbies worth talking about nor do I have interest in things others take interest in. It's starting to wear me down being the odd man out and makes me feel entirely undatable.

What do you see as the best solution to this issue?

>>16857186
Make up your mind about who you want to befriend/have a relationship with. Let's call first grill Anna and the second one Julie.
So if Anna wants a relationship, being real friends is out of discussion. You either hook up or friendzone her and keep your distance.
If you hook up with Julie, Anna is gonna be affected no matter the circumstances but it is up to you.

>>16857119

my problem is that you're not sucking my dick right now

you think you, a female that has probably never had a hard day in your life can give people help, fuck off

>>16857113
Relax dude. You won't be able to go to every gig they go to. You have a life too. Your life shouldn't revolve around your friends. If they were your true friends they would understand this.

>>16857112
>wouldn't have time this weekend
You can't guess what she's really up to?

>>16857117
She had family coming over that next Saturday and I guess shes either working (she sometimes works Sundays) or free today.
A mutual friend who knows her for a little longer than me told me that she tends to avoid problems so I cant tell if she is genuinely busy or is trying to avoid me

>>16857112
Dude... Do not fucking message her, and do not expect a message back from her.
You can either pretend that she still wants you, and pine and whinge and look all pathetic begging for her, which will drive her away even more, or you can just let it go and move on.
>Girlfriend of a month
This is a super short amount of time so it should be really easy for you detach from her.
>she has always had a fear of commitment
so she was upfront with you...
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He gets more out of the sex than he does the relationship. He's keeping you around (barely) for easy access. If you have that little of a connection that you can't talk unless you're both off your face, I think you know how this is going to end.

Don't force your feelings and don't force feelings onto him. Leave and try again with someone else, it's early days and you'll get over it. Maybe get one last shag if the sex is so good.

>>16857090
Stop hanging out with him.
Limit it to sex only if you must.
Come to terms with your Daddy issues.

>>16857089
>Is this normal?

yes

I think we'll need to see this video to be certain whether it's normal or not

My god women disgust me

end your pathetic life you filthy fucking succubus

>>16857087

well, who do you love more? you answered that question.

>>16857087
>but she never liked the fact that I was still friends with my best friend who was on the trip.

The fact that she stayed with you at all after this was a miracle. If you're expecting sympathy, you don't deserve it, because anybody that intends to keep the person they cheated with around them while in a relationship, goes beyond being selfish or an idiot.

>>16857087
>>>/f/acebook
git out

>>16857081
Why would you want to prevent it?
I think it looks good on most males.

>>16857081
Embrace it. Dunno what your natural hair colour is but if it's darker I think it'll look pretty good. Gives a bit of character, grizzles you up a bit. Bonus points if they're on your face too.

I knew this lad a few years ago who had a thick white moustache when he was about 17. No-one could ever take their eyes off it and he was always flanked with poon. I'd love a few grey hairs.

I stared getting some gray hairs at 23. I have friends at 18-20 that have a few. Get used to it. It adds character and makes you look older while retaining your more youthful face. Girls like it.

>>16857062

care for your appearance instead of caring about your appearance.

>>16857062
Do you go to gym? If not you should try it, often when I feel upset with myself I just go, even have to force myself to, but as soon as I start I feel a lot better.

>>16857083
I do go to the gym, I care more about my face aesthetics though

>>16857041

get facebook, moron

it's like saying you love talking but you hate the sound that comes out of people's mouths'

>>16857047
And have Zuckerberg's thick, warm, throbbing dick all the way up my ass?
No, thank you!

>>16857041
I was literally the only one without facebook but made one when I was 18 because of a girl I liked and she kept dropping hints that I should make one '(21 now).

Def helped and increased my social life a lot. It's not like a magic pill but if you've got a good friend circle already it makes everyhing easier.

If you're already isolated then it won't do much

what advice do you want, kid? you want to share with us your you are a retard? thanks, kid.

>>16857015
Fucking amusing post cheer OP! How the fuck do you not feel the stiff patches on the fabric?

>>16857068
Because i'm an oblivious dingus :(

>>16857014
Man try it out. If you're feeling good about it when it's on that's cool. If your not then give it a good go for a bit and see if your OK with it. What have you got to lose? It's obviously an issue for you so give it a go! Peace

Yeah they will notice at first but they will get over it. If it helps you feel better do it.

>>16856960

Did you need advice? We really don't care if you're gay or not.

>>16856951

>going more than 35 miles over the speed limit

Are you trying to kill someone?

He cut you a break because 20 over and up is an automatic go to jail speed in most areas.

Look for a traffic lawyer and get that shit taken care of. Costs a little more, but it's worth it not to have that on your record.

If you see that cop again, thank him. He really should have arrested you.

>>16856951
Pay the money, thank the cop and learn your lesson.

>>16856945

Spanish probably, given how it's more accessible for you.

Spanish. French is a bit fucked up at some points, spanish is straight-foreard. Not as simple as english but whaddoyouwant, its an roman language>>16856945

Spanish. Once you figure out grammar properly, french might not that hard to learn also, but pronounciation is a whole different thing.

>>16856936
It looks like hair.