so I have had a shitshow for the past few weeks and wondering if anyone can give me advice on how to fix this shitfest
>gf has had chronic pain from endometriosis >been like this since I met her 2 years ago but she didn't know it was that until 5-6 months ago >gotten far worse over the past few months >basically in ungodly pain and uses weed to fix the pain >endo is causing her depression as it affects her life Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
How do you cope with change and the advance of time?
I just got a new job, On paper its much better for me. Its a good job, it's better hours, better pay, with better future prospects, but I miss all my friends from my old job. My old job was shit and boring, but also really comfy, I knew everyone and had fun with them.
Now I don't know anyone and I feel so cold and alone. Life scares me and I cant stop crying.
I want time to stop moving forward. I dont want to get older. I want everything to stay how it was forever.
>>16857278 Change is part of life, anon. No transition is easy, especially when you've built up so much at your last job.
Firstly, don't neglect your old friends. Keep in touch with them if you can (are they far from you?) and don't fall into the trap of 'cutting yourself off'. Building up new relationships will take time, but it's a great opportunity for you! You're the new guy/girl--that means you have an excuse to be weird around the new people. Ask about what they do, what their hobbies are, etc. You're the newbie so if you play your cards right you'll be laying foundation for new friendships really soon.
Change is pretty scary, but it's natural. Try to think of it as an opportunity for good, not a detachment from what you were originally comfortable with.
Hey /adv/ it's anon from a few dats ago I will give a run down of what I need help with
So me and my ex were supposed to take a break (i have trust issues, controlling, unsupportive) the break was supposed to be so she could get away from the stress of that and work on her self in therapy. During her telling me why she was very clingy and said emotionally she would stay but logically she can't. I asked her about our future plans and she said she still wanted to pursue those. Anyways I went home and tried to hang my self, couldn't do it and I told her, I... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Here's the cold truth. She doesn't love you anymore, she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Ever. Again. She wants to fuck this other guy and probably go on to fuck other guys after him. Get the fuck over her. You are supposed to be a man yet you are acting more emotional than a hormonal 14 year old girl. This girl wants to be with a real man, not some beta. Hit the gym, do your cardio, eat right, become big and strong, then go on and fuck better and hotter pussy. Or you can kill yourself and deprive yourself of all that fun you could have in this life. The choice is yours.
I'm pregnant with my bf's baby. Yesterday I had reduced fetal movements and was trying to reach him from the hospital since 11am. Eventually I messaged a few mutual friends (he studies abroad) whether they knew where he was. They had no idea, wasn't answering his phone for them either and wasn't in his form room.
After midnight he finally messages me saying he "feels unwell". Apparently he went to his parents place without his phone that he's usually glued to, popped sleeping pills (at 11am), then was out until after midnight.
Believable... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16857239 He lies to his parents about where he is when he visits me. He was also messaging another chick in another city that he's had a history with. Years ago he made out with yet another chick and then kept it from me until a mutual friend told me because he thought my bf was a pussy for not owning up to it. When I confronted him he cried and said he loved me and was sorry, saw me off to the airport as I was visiting my family, then invited her over later that day. He just has a rep as being a dodgy character.
How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be in a relationship? I just want to be a homebody, baking, pj wearing single person. I hate going out apart from shopping, he likes going out drinking with mates etc and I really don't like the nature of males anyway. Sex is good when we have it but even then I get more consistency from masturbation than I do with him. I also feel like I am better as a person when I am single; I am too anxious being with him. I would love to remain friends since I don't have many, but I know that is not possible... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Break up, just tell him it's not working. Be honest so he doesn't have to be left dangling. It's simple, it sucks, but in the long run, it's probably better for the both of you.
Ok, /adv/ I never post on here but today I come for you because I am truly in need, in love related matters.
This story starts like every other love story. There is this amazing girl [...]
And that is pretty much what it takes from every other love story.
She has studied in Stanford, Asia, and other places, and is an excellent student, and she is truly smart. I'm not talking here about a flipping burgers relationship.
She had had a boyfriend for about five years or so. The guy is dull as fuck, a total loser, antisocial, and beta. She was... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Everything was so nice for about four, five months. We had lots of sex, had lots of laughs, and stuff.
She decides to travel to Asia for a month or so see some of her old friends, and it was OK. We were romantic as fuck in the time, texted a lot, sent nudes to each other, and used to talk about all the things we were going to do when she came back.
Her relationship was already dwindling. It was shitty. She brought me tons of presents, plushies, and was overall great. I got more presents than anyone else, even his boyfriend.
It was great.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
After she comes back from Asia everything was getting better as well. She even decided to break up with her boyfriend for me. So that we could try something more serious in between us. She had already set a date. February was the limit in which she would break up with her boyfriend. Things got messy and complicated afterwards, because of several family meetings where the bf's parents had invited her mom over, and vice versa.
So, it was getting to the date. She had said "next week I'll speak to him". And she was so sure of it. Of course she was a little... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Hey guys, I need to start a debate on the topic "Is going to mars more logical than addressing global poverty". Can you guys judge my speech? It's in the pic. It's not too long, so pretty please?
You need to get into specifics about the whys its good, scientific research etc. Mention the potential for big discoveries.
I think it is fucking stupid to go to mars, its too far away and the fact that 40% of the world live in abject poverty should warrant a rethink of ridiculousness.
>>16857201 The speech as it is right now it's like 3 minutes long, I can still put 2 minutes on it, like 260 words. Big discoveries you mean minerals, or something like alien life?
a lot of your sentences have awkward structural problems.
on top of that, you waste half a paragraph on farming. it's tangential at best.
finally, you conclude your speech by talking about "the benefits" which you think you talked about but didn't. the benefits you did mention are moot in the context and just open you up for getting pushed into a corner you can't get out of.
it's... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I am 18 and my dad is threatening to kick me out. Doesn't matter for what reasons really, none of my own, just that he's probably mentally ill and abusive.
I have no money, no job, still in school and all my time is spent studying in the hope I can get into a good uni and gtfo his house, but that's not looking good and I probably won't be able to go.
I live in the UK if that helps.
Any advice is welcome, I just don't know what to do. He keeps blackmailing me and threatening me and I just don't even... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16857167 who knows, she agreed to a date right? thats something, maybe shes an autist, maybe shes a shutin i dont know. or shes just not that into you and agreed to see if maybe it could grow into something. i understand the feeling, always being the one who initiated conversations, like you care more about them than they do you. go on the date, if shes cold distant or disinterested move on, if shes interested maybe she introverted and is shy and needs you to take charge
>>16857175 i hope shes introverted, maybe that month long time was awful for her because you didnt start the conversation and she didnt want to bug you. its an annoying position to be put in, because you in a way come off as desperate always messaging them and wondering "am i annoying this person?"
So, i met a Girl. I visited her place a few times and we talked pretty much like 4 or 5 Hours straight. I started to like her and i decided to invite her to my place to watch a movie. We watched the movie, she laughed a lot, we talked a lot, she remained a few hour after the movie was finished. The second time was exactly the same. Do i have to make the first move ? ( i know, i fucking suck at this )
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