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I seriously never get any solid tinder matches all and it's the same shit on okcupid, too. I'm a bit introverted at first and given my shyness and confidence, my therapist keeps assuring me that online dating is my best bet. She even continues to mention how a lot of her patient in my generation find a lot of success and mentioned how their life turned around." When does the fucking loneliness end. I can't keep pretending that such a rare and serendipitous moment will happen. Am I ugly or is this normal, for a decent looking guy to have literally no interest...
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>start going to parties
>start smoking weed
>can smoke joints fine
>doing bong rips burns my throat and makes me cough for like 2 minutes straight and feel like puking
Am I doing something wrong here? I don't try taking the whole thing in one gulp. Just a little fucking kills my throat
>>16859570
Bongs are harsh man, you're still fairly new to the weed game too. They're really a sure fire way to get you fucked up on weed, besides dabbing.
Just start college or something?
>>16859573
>>16859570
And specifically, you're just getting more smoke in one hit, that's the point of a bong, everything filters through the water and stays at the bottom, slowing rising up until you pull the slide and get it all in one hit. It's like 3 hits from a joint all at once.
Try dabbing my man, then you'll know what harsh really means.
>>16859570
Exhale as much as you possibly can before a hit, and pull the slider out intermittently so you aren't take all the smoke at once.
For the past few weeks I've often been seeing persons in the corners of my eyes, who aren't there. Trice in this period I saw lights flashing for about 15 seconds, for no reason. What is this?
>>16859568
Ur a wizerd 'arry
Hey /adv/...Any suggestions for a laptop to play decent games? The price range is $350 to $500
>>16859551
1. Find a person who is able to steal credit card information for a reasonable price.
2. Give him the money that you have for a budget.
3. After you get the credit card information, order all of the parts to somebody's house when they are on vacation.
4. Track the packages and wait until the day that they arrive so that you can pick them up.
5. ???
6. Profit.
I'm obviously kidding, of course. You won't find a good laptop at this price. Hell, I can barely get a high-end monitor...
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>>16859551
The best specs you could get for that price is about 500GB-1TB HDD with 8 gigs of RAM, a ~1.8GHz dual-core processor and an ok video card with little to no VRAM
Are you looking to play just older games or what?
I've been friends with a person for over ten years. I don't wish to be friends anymore. How do I go about this? Is it really as simple as blocking them on social media/etc and leaving it at that?
provide some closure if they want to stay friends
tell them exactly how you feel about whats bothering you and then if theyre mature you both move on
Just be real with them...Tell him/her how you feel. Basically say "fuck off" in a polite manner
Yep. You say hey I'm done with this. Please don't contact me.
Did this. Because my emotional health is more important than maintaining an unhealthy friendship.
How do I write essays more quickly?
Get off 4chan and
Write an outline
Research
Write a draft
Write a final essay.
>>16859531
Why would you want to write essays faster? Just give yourself more time to do it or else they will probably end up being complete shit.
>>16859549
No no, I just finished one. I mean I take 3 or more hours to do a 3 page essay while my peers will do a 5 page in the same time.
I have dated every other race but they have eluded me
I live in a small town where the only Asians are imports to go to college or small families that run the import stores
How do i even break the community shield here?
>>16860517
if you're chasing a race instead of a specific girl you should probably go back to the drawing board
>>16860526
>>16860526
it's not wrong to have a preference
some communties are near impossible to meet people in unless you are those communities
India girls for example
I got put on antidepressants, and now I can't cum.
Well, I can, but it takes about 2 hours, and I don't have that time or stamina to keep trying.
What can I do? It's honestly driving me crazy.
There are lots of types of antidepressants. Try another one and hope for more satisfying side effects.
>>16859530
from what I read, most antidepressants have the same effects.
>>16859536
As someone who has been on multiple antidepressants, yes, they all have the same potential effects, but how each one will affect you personally will vary from medication to medication.
Sertraline made it so I couldn't cum at all, the next ones didn't cause this problem. You should know going into taking antidepressants that it will probably take a few tries to find the best one for you.
Hey, /adv/. I'm 22 with no friends or family and im about to be homeless and im panicking. What the fuck do i do? Im scared guys
>>16859501
More details plz.
>>16859501
Hate to be a downer, OP, but I would honestly commit suicide. That's just 'cause I'm depressed though. Give me memes or give me death.
people lived millions of years before houses were invented. aint nuthin wrong with being homeless.
How do I tell my girlfriend I have a fetish or two? I'm into some rough stuff, like painal and choking, etc. just borderline BDSM, and I'm kinda shy about it.
Well I don't think you're going to get away with choking your girlfriend unless she's seriously fucked in the head.
I write erotica for money, so I am pretty understanding about most fetishes, but violent shit is a really bad idea.
>>16859485
Fanks man. She does seem to have a daddy kink, so I'm unsure what would be too much. Until she does something, I'll keep it a secret.
Femanon
Why are people afraid to tell their fetishes to their SO? Aren't you together because you love each other. If you just say "choking is my fetish, what do you think? What are your fetishes? " she should be fine. Even if she's not into it it's not like you said "I'm going to start choking you from now on"
You have nothing to lose. Casually bring it up with her. She might like it
How do you find direction for your life?
Until recently my life-plans had only 1 absolute, and that too recently has dissolved. My plan is now a bunch of "could happen"s, and "maybe,"s.
"Oh, but anon, life's never certain."
Fuck that. It's scary as fuck to not know where you're going or what you're doing. My parents are out of the picture, my brother's moving off on his own, and my friends all either have a GF they're bunking with or are all seemingly content living with their parents for the foreseeable...
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>>16859480
fuck anon. i dont think i have advice to give. but heres a bump in hopes that someone who does sees this thread
>>16859480
You do it as you go along. Unless you are psychic, it is impossible to predict your future or where you are going to go. Things change, new opportunities arise, but the important thing is that you do everything you can to maximize your possibilities for when you really do find that one thing you absolutely love and want to do.
If you messed up in school, it's time to go back and as work as hard as you can in order to show employers and your universities what you are capable of it you apply yourself.....
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The meaning of life is, yet, unknown.
Which does not mean there aren't many ways to live it.
You think you need an absolute but some other people prefer to live everyday.
There is no right nor wrong, when It comes to how to live your life, and your dreams.
But sometimes, it's just a matter of perspective.
I can't tell you to see life through my eyes, or anyone else's. You must find the awnsers yourself.
Perhaps you are looking for a tangible goal? I've been like that once. I needed something to hold on to.
What...
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Hi /adv/ i have very rare phobia
Altocelarophobia - The fear of high ceilings. Does anybode here has it? You probably cant imagine how bad it is. I cant go to Tesco, churches, cathedrals gyms, please help me if you can
phobias aren't permanent you silly goose
it's not like fetishes that last a lifetime
face your fear, and get over it
>>16859929
Or better yet, masturbate to high ceilings and develop a fetish in the place where you had a phobia.
>>16859929
> phobias aren't permanent you silly
> goose
> it's not like fetishes that last
> a lifetime
>
> face your fear, and get over
i cant have opened eyes or look somewhere else than down. i also have fear of heights. Im always thinking that im fainting. have read forums and its going to be even worse
