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I become so obsessed with a guy if he shows me the slightest bit of attention.
A guy who i had a slight crush on started showing me signs he likes me too. Now i cant stop rereading our messages, stalking his instagram, and replaying the times we talked in my head. Ive stayed with my phone all day hoping he'd snapchat me today. Or posting a snapchat and then constantly checked if he'd seen it yet.
How fucked am i? Is this even the slightest bit normal?
You have a crush. It'll pass. Just don't act stupid or creepy and show signs to him that you're into him.
>>16909881
Ahh i guess thats comforting. Itll pass.
is 5 partners at 17 bad?
My gf told me this right when we first met and I know she's being honest. She's been honest about literally everything even if she knows I won't like it.
Anyways, is 5 sexual partners at 17 bad? 4 of those were just in 2015 alone. 1 was a somewhat long relationship. She has remorse over her past and opened up to me about it saying she should have protected herself and she went through a depressing stage in her life and that there was no excuse for what she did.
Should I worry about this?
>>16909828
Personally, I wouldn't be with someone like that.
Other people are going to say that wouldn't care, or even prefer it, though.
It's all up to you and your personal values, beliefs, and feelings. If you're here asking and unsure about it, that probably means something.
>>16909828
she had sex with 5 different people and she's 17?
red flag
>>16909837
It does bother me. Probably because I've only been with one other person and I'm 19.
May I ask why you wouldn't want?
Ideally, I wouldn't want to either because I was always under the assumption with someone who sleeps around has poor values and judgement but the thing with her is she knows this. She knows she screwed up and admits it. She said she went through a depressing stage of her life and wasn't happy all year until she got into our relationship. A month before she...
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Ya'll.. I've been playing a dating sim for the past few days and have fallen in love with the 2D.
For some reason I have a feeling nothing will truly compare to the feelings I have for this 2D man on the psp to a guy irl.
Please tell me there is hope.
Can I live my dating sim dream in real life?
Will I ever find a guy who can match Kyosuke-kun? or Soya-kun? Someone please assure me guys like this exist..
>>16909821
I am not familiar with the men you're referencing in these games but it is pretty common that these sorts of characters are written as pretty much perfect or their imperfections are not actually that serious and just quirky or cute.
You can't be seeking out a perfect guy but there should be standards.
No, they don't, but you're going to get over it in a month or two anyway.
>>16909821
I'll be your faceless protagonist any day of the week girl.
I want to be interesting and hip while i masturbate to Seinfeld so how can i have a North Korean flag because im lazy
I hear reevaluating your life is interesting and will get you that flag.
Gf broke up with me today, but the thing is I barely feel anything except meh. Other than having someone to be around, she didn't really make me feel happy at all. She was way different and a kinda stupid Bible humper- although a lousy one because I nailed her a good amount. What should I do?
Sounds like a good breakup. I mean, if you're not that upset, that's good right? Unless you're bottling it in. Which it doesn't seem like you are. Just get back on the horse and meet some new girl. You're free bro.
Or better yet, reconnect with your guy friends who you might haven't seen because of yo bitch.
>>16909794
Make a better partner choice next time.
>>16909800
Thanks, and I did that and went with a couple bros to our favorite place to eat to have something positive today. True I'm not really bottling it in, I just feel like I'm back I'm my prison of loneliness when I know i'm free to go do whatever I want.
>>16909802
Well, yeah, but it's not like my choices are readily available to me
my girlfriend who expelled me when i was in high school wants me back. Should i do it?
>>16909793
Was your girlfriend the principal?
I'm 18, a senior in high school, and my parents found out I smoke weed today.
My dad was worried it's going to take my IQ down and asked me kindly to just quit for now.
My mom was brought to tears and freaked the fuck out.
They took my $200 Pax 2 and I really want it back.
What do I do? My parents are the most unreasonable people out there, honestly. I have real good grades and shit and their also worried about the consequences if I get caught. What can/should I say?
>What can/should I say?
You're sorry and you won't smoke anymore. You feel bad you let them down and regret it. Whether it's a lie or not. Then don't get caught again.
Protip: Their house their rules.
Just stop smoking for a bit at least while you're still in high school and living with your parents. You're 18, if you're going to college then you can toke all you want there. Or if you're living with your parents just explain to them that you're an adult, and that it's your decision to make.
>>16909783
If you want to smoke, you have to move out.
So I don't pre cum like not even a drop and it makes me feel weird as fuck that my gfs have been with other guys that do and probably had it in their mouth
What do
My boyfriend doesn't have precum either. I've never been with anyone but him, so I can't tell you how your girlfriends feel about that exactly, but I don't even think about it. When I do, I think it's something special and unique.
I didn't think I precummed but I learned how to edge myself and last longer during sex and now I do sometimes. But it's just little dribbles and it's like the consistency of water. It's not piss either
I've literally never precummed. Precame? Whatever. Point is, I've never done it.
I think it's because I masturbate too often. Truth is, I've never even had a wet dream because I jerk it too often.
Last week my girlfriend forgot her birth control, later in the week she was saying how her pussy smelt like cum. Now, two days ago. She woke up in the middle of the night vomiting, and today she was vomiting again, I'm worried she's pregnant. The first time she told me she ate some really disgusting chicken, and today I found out we had eaten an Omelet made out of eggs that expired March 7th, but the strange thing, is that I feel fine after eating them. maybe I'm just worrying myself. We both don't want kids and she knows that she'll get an abortion...
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Even if she was pregnant, it would be WAY too early for her to start experiencing symptoms like morning sickness/vomiting. If she only missed one pill, then she should be fine.
>>16909776
She missed two pills. Over the course of two weeks, but I only had sex with her once or twice in those two weeks. She missed her pill on the 1st, and the 4th, I'm pretty sure I had sex with her twice between the 2nd and the 5th. How long does it take for symptoms to show?
>>16909785
That's not too bad, at least she didn't miss them in a row. You are just worrying too much. Morning sickness doesn't start until week 6 of pregnancy I believe, so yeah, way too soon. You're definitely in the clear.
Hey /adv
Im too lazy for a girlfriend but need sex, so i`ve put up a casual request on craigslist
Have any of you had experience with craigslist?
Please share
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No, I've never had an STD.
I know an old friend's full name, town and I've got 1 picture of them. How can I get their phone number/address/workplace, anything to get back in contact with them?
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>>16909757
You go on Facebook and then you ask.
411.com
I lost my V-Card today. Her and I went on a date and we ended up boning. It felt pretty good. It was in the back of my car and was a little uncomfortable but what can I do about it. As much as I liked the sex, I just didn't feel THAT emotionally attached to her. I told her this and she said she expected it and throughout the time we were on the date she wanted to have sex. I was told not to feel guilty or bad about it at all, but I'm feeling some sort of remorse. Both of us wanted sex but I feel like I used her. I took some time to think about what I did and I realize that pussy isn't everything and that emotional connections are just as important as the carnal pleasures. What am I doing right, and what should I be doing to further improve myself?
meet someone for companionship not sex
have sex with yourself
I wanna do something with my friend but we don't know what. What should we do?
Suck each others cock.
Sex
Share a meal.
Whenever my buddies and I eat out at a restaurant or something, we end up talking for, like, three or four hours. About life, about girls, about God, about politics, about school, or just shoot the shit. Some of my favorite college memories so far involve going to some fast food place with a friend and having a simple (or deep) conversation.
Try it. You don't have to do anything crazy.
So, maybe I'm overthinking it, but I'm afraid I could be an aspie. I fit some of the criteria, but most concerning is my lack of regard for trying to fit in with the people I work with. I feel like I know social cues, and I can understand people's feelings and shit, but just don't care. I just want to get through the day and go home so I can be alone. I might hang out with someone once a month for vidya or drinking or something, but usually in small groups or 1 on 1.
I don't dislike people. In fact I want the best for everyone. I just really hate...
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>>16909706
>should I go for some more extensive testing or something?
depends. Usually only go the psychology route when you're utterly powerless to change any other tangible thing in your life - noises, relationships, unvoiced opinions, the things in your environments...
As for fitting in with people, we all tend to form niche interest groups these days- when you want someone to join yours, you always need to have a 'beginner's guide' session for that interest- and vice...
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There is this Asian girl at school she is cute and has a decent rack how do I get her to like me?
git a bigger dik you fukkin weeb hmu on pornhub, look up sis loves me, and black salami
>>16909704
are you sure you want her to like you though? you don't know anything about her except what she looks like. she might be yandere as fuck.
just talk to her like you'd talk to anybody else, and try not to make it too obvious that you're ogling her rack. if she's not overtly batshit, keep talking to her. either she'll like you or she won't.
I'm not gonna say "b urself lol" because people do lots of harmless social fakery when getting to know each other, like...
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