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I need to study, I have 6.6 hours of lecture videos + over 100 pages of reading to get done by Monday afternoon and I just can't fucking do it. I can't fucking concentrate. I'll get 15 minutes into a video and then compulsively click back over to 4chan or fire up an emulator.
How the fuck do I fix myself and just fucking study?
turn your computer off. i have the same problem. actually should be studying now. if i really want to get something done though, i will shut my computer down and move to another room
>>16908393
I appreciate this advice but my video lectures are on YouTube (lol hip teacher) so I must be logged onto the internet at my computer while I watch the videos. They've been queued up in a separate tab since this morning. I'm just fucking weak.
>>16908375
https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/stayfocusd/laankejkbhbdhmipfmgcngdelahlfoji?hl=en
This will help. Put the links to the videos you need to watch in the allowed section and then block everything else on YouTube, and use a firewall to block your emulators. The real issue is you yourself need to start doing your work on your own. You really against have even come here to ask for advice, you know what you need to do. You're just subconsciously creating excuses for waiting to do your work.
Never understood why people are so angry about abandoning friends. I mean, I feel that I don't fit in their tightly knit company anymore, so why should I pretend it to be fun?
Am I a dick after years of having self-esteem and trust issues, because of such treatment?
Nothing will change in my life or theirs, I can see it.
>>16908368
Please explain a bit more clearly.
Dude I spent all of middle and high school and a little afterwards with people who didn't give a shit about me.
I abandoned them all and made room for people who I actually enjoyed, though they were really really hard to find.
I've only had "real" friends for the past 3 years (I'm 23 years old). It came from wading through a bunch of shitty people and learning to avoid backstabbers, drama queens, and other selfish peeps.
Being around good friends has also helped me learn to be more trusting and generous myself.
Thats just...
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>>16908374
Thanks for reply, good to read a real life opinion, and not those sugar-coated "friendship is magic" ones (no offence to bronies)
When I ask middle-aged people, they reply pretty similar, so school friendships probably suck more often than not.
Dunno, my parents shared opinions on my classmates since the very beginning, and I started to see some patterns in behaviour. It left me biased and emotionally distant, but I don't really regret it. Every teacher claimed they've never seen such children...
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To keep it short, was a player fuck boy fag, but then I fell in love with a 10/10. Great personality for me, this is what makes her a 10 besides her sexy Latina body.
Sadly she's not interested in dating, we're just friends. Not only that, she insists she's not that crazy about sex. While this is a huge dissapountment, I'm still determined to date her. She has moved away, in the same state but far enough to be a problem.
While advice on getting her would be appreciated, the main problem is I find myself no longer able to pull bitches. I can...
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>>16908354
>While this is a huge dissapountment, I'm still determined to date her.
You need to see pic related. Stop wasting your own time fool.
>BUT I LOOOOOVE HEEEEERR
We know.
Tried, but it doesn't work. Just when I think I'm free, she calls to keep up in touch every once in awhile to keep in contact and I fall all over again.
Shit pisses me off
>>16908388
Girls do this on purpose to assuage their own loneliness by soliciting attention and making sure you're still in their pocket.
Developing strategies to ignore this now will help you later. BTW it's also one of the reasons she's not that into you. She knows she could get you easily. She wants to work for it, especially since she's hot and never had to work for anyone.
Long story short this fat fuck pretended to be a girl and we "exchanged" nudes for a few weeks. Last night he slipped up and sent me a pic of a screen that was a picture he already sent me. We were talking for a while. He's very gullible. He says he does this with a bunch of guys on kik friends. No doubt a lot of them are under aged. I turned on the charm and he told me his class schedule, his name, what he usually wears, his instagram, his dorm hall and what floor he's on, his. He seems genuinely sorry for the what he did and seems like a pretty nice guy....
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look at him. you knew op.
>>16908330
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>>16908337
He didn't send me pictures of him in drag, he used another girls screenshots and took a live pic of a screenshot to fool me.
What hair style should I get?
And yeah I know I'm fat but this is the quickest way I can think of to get advice
leave it as is, OP. Looks good as is
You look Mexican, so, high fade
>>16908322
Viper kill urself
>meet girl in Japan while studying
>she's in love with me, I find her slightly annoying
>currently here for a year exchange program
>literally never feel like hanging out with her, but she really wants to all the time
>she knows I don't see her as more than a friend
I flaked the last two times, I can't keep flaking but I just can't bring myself to hang out with her
>>16908313
You should just date her so we don't get a thread in 6 months about how you can't get a GF.
