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Okay so me and this girl talk a lot, after a while I got the guts to ask her out to see a movie, she accepts but I get a text form her later asking who's going. I don't respond for a while and I ask my friend. He acts like an ass so I tell her just me, then she responds saying he said he's going too. Then she tells me she'll take a 40 minute nap and she'll be back (it's fucking 11 o'clock at night, no one takes a nap this late, do they?) btw pic related. Is it to late to back out?
>>16905995
Dude its late. Do you really wanna go with this girl? She seems skeptical. Like you said, who takes naps at this time. Is it important to go to the movies at this time? Were you just trying to get some kind of date going? Give me your intentions and more info about the girls please.
>>16906007
Yeah, she's really cool, well except until now. We talk a lot, it seems like she's always flirting with me. She even looks at me a lot but turns away when I make eye contact. Yeah, I just wanted to go on a date ( also I don't like going to the movies by myself)
>>16906016
Dude find out what's going on. I would try asking her if she still wanted to go. If she doesn't then stop talking to her and wait until you see her again to have a conversation and do you thing. I feel like you really haven't done your part on making her like you.
Do this.
If she wants to go still, go with her and make her feel comfortable with you. Don't try anything, just try to get to know each other and make a great impression man.
If she hasn't responded or replies with a rejection. Don't make it too big of a deal and try to see her again later, the next day or the next and have a conversation other than the whole rejection of the date.
Then attempt to find out more of when she is free and when she has time to have fun and blow off steam. Take her out with just yourself. Make plans and be stoic and act like a guy with a plan and basically someone with a masculine vibe.
I got a cold sore for the first time ever at 28 years old a week and a half ago, I did the whole abreva thing and would pick at the scabs.... I read it was best to pop the ulcers to get the virus out and sterilize it. I did not have a needle so I popped it like a pimple and washed it with hand sanitizer. I also had some odd ingrown hairs there and could not shave so I took a tweezer and pulled out about 10 of them in the area.
I woke up today and my whole top lip was swollen as can be seen in the following photo. The area where the cold is fully numb like it has had a...
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Probably infected
My GF wants to lose virginity but her hymen is too fucking tight. So she proposed me to date rape drug her so she wouldn't feel a thing.
How I do this in a safe way? Also, where I can get some drug to put her in sleep?
No, I don't want to use alchool.
Choloroform, rag. Done. Also, MAKE HER SIGN A DAMN FORM BEFORE YOU DO THIS. RECORD HER SIGNING IT.
>>16905933
she gonna wake up feeling sore the next day anyway, would not recommend op. tell her to rip it herself.
Are you trying to put your dick up her urethra?
>It's a common mistake....
I want badly to be able to experience life in the present, as it's happening. So far, my life has been dictated by predictions and anxiety that I can sometimes escape from in order to act as I know I really want to, without thinking through every possibility beforehand.
I understand it's not possible to completely rid myself of, but I'd like to escape my mind at will. It ruins my creativity, sense of humor, and confidence.
Meditation is difficult and a bit confusing but I get the gist of it. Does anyone have experience with what I'm talking...
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Take this
not op, bumping for answers
>>16906533
Could you clarify a bit further what exactly it is you're trying to learn about? I'm willing to give advice, but OP's post left me a bit confounded.
Okay, so a while back my friend introduced me to his Girlfriend and I instantly could tell she was into me. Whenever we saw each other we flirted a little but I always stopped myself because I felt like an asshole. They broke up recently and she's been dropping tons of hints that it was because she wanted me. She's hot as fuck. I don't want to lose my friend but if I pass her up I'll definitely regret it.
Don't do it. Doesn't matter if she's hot. That's just like not cool.
We only regret what we didn't do
Don't break guy-code, bro. You'll regret it. Bro's before hoe's. There will be others and it sounds like she's a slut anyway.
I am freaking out, what do /adv/
>sex w gf(not on birth control)
>condom intact
>cum
>pullout
>condom broken, semen in vag
>inb4 "youre supposed to pullout even w a condom" i was dumb, it feels good man
so then i went to walgreens, got plan b, gave it to her, then started looking it up on the internet (never had to use it before). from what i read it seemed like...
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Get a pregnancy test
>be me, 19
>gf on birth control gets pregnant
>it happens i tell myself
>gf on birth control gets pregnant again
>"wtf!.gif"
>"now we have to get married"
>married getting divorce 10 yrs later
dont get married is she's preggers.
RIP dude, get a test. Keep testing watch her periods. If her periods stop it you get a positive test, prep for:
Option A: abortion
Option B: baby-daddy time
hello /adv/ don't come here often.
i'm so mad becuase i've been a neet for awhile had trouble getting work rejected, rejected, etc. finally some crporate chain hires me. turns out they're only giving me 4hrs for the entire month. i'll postat schedule in thread if it seems unbelievable but trust.
what should i do? also if they're just adding in shifts and it's not a 'set' schedule and tehy'll add more shifts that's fine. but if they're really going to play this hand against me how i can make them pay...
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>>16905859
Yeah, go and get fired! That'll sure show him.
My gf commented on her exs pictures on social media while we were waiting to see each other to start dating and were serious about it.
She shares posts from her exs those stupid caption picture funny things. We had problems and I dumped her and she told people to like her status and she'll message you and her ex liked it. Should i just use her for sex?
>>16905854
Have you tried not being 16?
Just avoid the bitch holy shit.
>>16905854
Stop dating literal children.
How do I become a good person, how do I stop being selfish and living solely for myself, and thinking solely of myself,
Being honest this is just human nature. If you want to help with it, try just randomly giving out to people. Force yourself to help them. Can develop a sense of empathy.
>>16905841
Having a pet helps.
Read the Bible.
I met one girl few weeks ago, went out, talking almost everyday via text messages and stuff. Everything went well, I thought I could really be with her.
The thing is that my last few tries of taking her out failed because of different reasons. This made me think it was rejection, but everytime I would get over it she would text me again. The thing is that I am confused and I want to be done with this. How can I stop this fucking around and in short, if we can form a couple or finish this. Of course, I dont know any subtle way of putting this without making me look needy/desperate/cringy...
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Just get her drunk.
Relationships are pushme-pullyou. When you push her, she pulls away. When you pull away, she pushes you.
>>16905962
further explanation? I dont quite understand
I have a small strip of loose skin under my penis shaft that was left from my circumcision. Should I consult a professional or should I just ice it and cut the fucker?
For the love of god don't cut it yourself. That shit will get infected and look nasty. Consult a professional, they won't turn your dick into a swollen grape.
Just ice it and cut the fucker. Can you imagine how awful and awkward that doctor visit would be? You just wip it out and he'll just laugh and call you gay.
What a weird situation I'm in. I don't expect half of you to understand, but I just really want some advice.
I try my damnedest to not look at pornography for religious, moral, emotional, and physical reasons. I have an accountability partner with whom I share my struggles and victories with, and who does the same with me. We're pretty close friends with like-minded motivations, so I know I can trust him.
But I'm keeping one secret from him.
I look at gay porn about 50% of the time.
I'm not gay. I don't even think I'm...
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>>16905795
>I have an accountability partner with whom I share my struggles and victories with, and who does the same with me. We're pretty close friends with like-minded motivations, so I know I can trust him.
>I look at gay porn about 50% of the time.
You guys should just be a couple
Be honest with him, give it to him slowly on a good day. If he's truly your friend, he'll be understanding. Best to tell him and have him hear it from you than to find out another way.
>>16905827
Haha, because of gay right?
>>16905829
I have a good week to figure out what I want to say to him - he's out of town for a while. I just felt convicted for somewhat lying to him. I know he'll be understanding and non-judgmental, but I'm super afraid he'll think differently of me afterwards. Like I really am gay or something, and the worst possible thing - that I'm attracted to him or something along those lines.
Just as another...
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I might be about to lose my job over self-inflicted health problems.
What are my rights in something like this?
Laws are applicable to your state. Check the Internet. Assuming you're in the US, and annotated code of your states laws should be freely available. Look for things involving wrongful firing. Although if they were self inflicted and are preventing you from working, it'll be tough man. Good luck.
>>16905774
>right to work state
no rights
But really, depends on what you mean. Self-inflicted like you put yourself in the hospital cause you took pills or are an alcoholic? Probably fucked.
Although some places will allow you to stay if you seek treatment.
>>16905786
It doesn't really PREVENT me from working but I understand how the whole perpetual flu and randomly dripping blood is probably a health risk, considering I handle food packages.
>>16905796
Self-harm. I've got cuts on my ankles and legs that keep rubbing open under my clothes, and like 3-5 of them are always kind of inflamed.
I've been contemplating suicide or running away all week and i dont know what to do. I've lost all of my friends and have become a loner once again... I've delt with emotional abuse from my step dad for almost as long as my mother has been married to him. I go to a counselor but i get too afraid to speak up about a lot of things. I have one friend who kind of helps me but i feel like our friendship will end soon. I get stressed a lot in school and i have nervous breakdowns a lot. My mother always yells at me too because of school related things and makes the stress...
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>>16905759
>I go to a counselor but i get too afraid to speak up about a lot of things.
So you like wasting your money?
> I have one friend who kind of helps me but i feel like our friendship will end soon
With the information you provided, it seems this is all in your head. Talk to the counselor about this AND the abuse.
OP, seriously man.
>>16905772
My mom put me in it
I'll talk to him about it.
>>16905759
ask yourself what you're trying to escape from.
ask yourself why you're afraid to talk to a paid professional listener.
ask yourself why someone who doesn't give a shit about you would yell at you for underperforming and pay money for you to talk to someone other than them about problems you probably have with them instead of talking about it with them in the first place. Seems like alot of effort for someone to not give a shit about you.
I love the pussy and I fuck my girlfriend every time I see her. On the days I don't see her I pull dick to tranny porn at night.
Is this okay
>>16905755
It doesn't matter if it's okay to anons on /adv/.
