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Allright guys,
I was chosen to go to sweden for 4 weeks as internship (construction)
I get 1100 euros to live 4 weeks in sweden.
I will be driving there with my car, it is about 100km above stockholm.
Any swedes here who can tell me what to expect? things to be sure to take with me?
I will be arriving in sweden 9th of may.
Also would appreciate just some tips on how to do this shit, i am going with a classmate(who has been a good friend for 12 years)
bumpinnn
Bring a gun to defend against the polar bears.
>>16911948
Allright got it, Anything else?
My girlfriend broke up with me 1,5 years ago, because I was a all day weed smoking loser that raged at her because of jealousy since she started doing things while I sat at home smoking.
I thought about a lot of things since that, and since I consider her still as one outstanding gentele and lovely person I really wanna appologize to her and tell her that she didn't deserve the way I treated her during our last months. Since I'm really shitty at orally talking about this kind of stuff I would rather write a letter + she can decide wheather she wants to read it...
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i'd appreciate it if i were her
she'll appreciate it
>>16911896
She'll like it, especially at the fact that you're actually making an effort to go out and apologize instead of just showing up one day out of the blue and saying that you want to be back together.
> talking to qt on facebook
> she brings up her bf and how he turns thing against her and is being a piece of shit
> she finally brings up b& dance and how he wont go with her
> I get the balls and ask her out
> she logs off at 4am
> I get very tired and pass out
> wake up this morning
> get a message saying yes I will...
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keep going, and try to get her if that's what you want.
>>16911886
not really, sound like she is going to end it with her bf anyway.
I have literally no waiting experience except from what I picked up on a couple of trial shifts. I had a trial shift at a Michelin starred restaurant where it's quite formal and they said they want to hire me full time and train me from scratch. Is this something worth getting into for the experience/training? I think I might be able to make more money waiting at a casual restaurant where tips go into your pocket directly instead of being split, based on what I've calculated. Plus it'd be about 45-50 hours a week at the Michelin restaurant so it'd be a lot...
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>>16911850
If you've got the aptitude and they're willing to train you, go for it. You never know where this sort of thing will lead in a year.
anyone else?
You can make a good living in fine dining. You will not do as well at a casual restaurant.
When do you get to fuck your gf? Never been in a relationship. I have a gf (19) now at 20. I have a feeling she's shy about getting to that point or something else. The biggest reason I got a girlfriend was for sex, I need to know how to approach it. Been together 3 weeks
take her clothes off senpai
>>16911840
I honestly think this is my problem, I might waste too much time on foreplay, next time I have her here I'll take action
Usually, 3-5 weeks is the normal span. Also depending on things like:
>how long do you know each other
>how often do you see each other
>are you undisturbed
>is she feeling comfortable around you?
>and so on
progress slowly. What have you already done? Have you only kissed or really made out? Touched her boobs and stuff?
When do you feel the right age to have a child with a girl?
my dad was 46
>>16911824
depends on the person. most people are never really ready. i personally wouldn't have a kid until i was at least 30. having a kid is one of the biggest responsibilities in the world.
When you feel like you can afford one.
How do I get friends and become popular?
You have to kill yourself. People will say how much they liked you and say how close they were to you. You'll get pretty polpular and people will want to be the closest person to the incident for sympathy. It'll work.
>>16911832
I find it funny that they always 'never saw it coming' or 'they seemed like a happy person'/
Pretty sure a book called "how to win friends and influence people" will help you, I've never read it but people on here say it's good.
So I know I should be having a realization myself but I'm at a loss, I have been free for two days all day and I am so fucking bored, my friends are either working and the others don't want to do anything. Give me some hobby ideas I can try out and see if I actually like them
Cooking.
How about you get a job too?
>>16911844
That seems like a limited thing, What I had in mind was like a nice afternoon hobby when its nice out or something. I'll give a little background
>21
>Male
>Go to the gym nightly
>Play video games after the gym with friends
>Go to college
>Have part time job
>want something to do in between...
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Really apathetic these past eight months because of friends and (girlfriends) who have betrayed me. Living with a psychopath brother whose using my apathy to increase his position in the family. He's cut me off and alienated me from some friends, so here I am. All alone. Just turning up to school every now and then.
What the fuck do I do with my life... Already had a bunch of epiphanies to change but those were suppressed by my brother and some toxic friends I'm still with out of loneliness.
How do I get out of this mess?
bump :(
doublebump.
triplebump.
I'm 20, go to small shit uni. My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me in October, and I haven't even kissed a girl since.
I feel this immense pressure to get a girlfriend because I'm young and in college but I'm having trouble meeting new women. My parents even asked me if I was even interested in finding a girl still.
I've done a lot that I can. I've read a lot of seduction advice and a lot of self improvement books. I've been lifting weights for 3 months. I even tried NoFap, but I'm on day 6 and even though I feel slightly...
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It hasn't even been 6 months since you broke up with your long term girlfriend, don't worry about it for too much
>>16911795
>incel mode
Jesus Christ, another made-up bullshit term
You might need to learn how to relate to women. Just imagine if you asked a ditzy sort of girl about which qualities guys are after. You know she'll start listing off a million little things that you couldn't give two shits about, right? Well are you sure you're not the same way? Given that you've been focused solely on the needs of one particular girl for four years, are you sure that you really know what it is that girls care about?
I'm sure they admire weightlifting the same way that you admire makeup. But have you ever considered how much...
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>tfw i made out with some random girl at a bar
>tfw i told my gf
>tfw she wasnt even that mad once she realized i wasnt breaking up with her
>tfw she said she wants to get married and have children and she's sorry she hid that for so long
>tfw 28
what is this life
what? you cheated and she telly you SHE's sorry?
yeah you two got issues. pls don't reproduce
>>16911768
No it's perfect OP has the green light for future mistresses
she is not mad because she already cheated on you
she was feeling guilty, but since you cheated on her, now she felt relived since you two are on equal terms
can relatives be trusted to judge your aesthetics?
Only if they are younger than 8
hijacking your thread but it's a similar question:
where can i go to get a fair assessment of my looks (as in, a rating out of 10)?
Hey guys I have to attach some fans to a subsonic speed wind tunnel any idea of how to do that?
Here are the fans
>>16911727
This looks pretty cool. Does the base of the fans has some sort of mounts/screws?
>>16911727
Pic of where you want to mount them
Is it bad/creepy that at 23 I'll occasionally fap to the memories of making out and shit with my little girlfriends from middle school? Or is this something everyone does and we just don't talk about it?
OP people are going to see that picture and hide your thread.
And I didn't have a middle school gf so I don't know.
>>16911711
I never had a gf in middleschool, but if i had i would have fapped to them at some point.
Im 18 years old and graduating school within the next few months. After school im most probably going to uni in the same town. A friend of mine has asked me if we want to move in with each other we are in the same year and used to be in the same class. I was totally down for it in the beginning but now im kind of doubting having said yes. I wanna have more freedom, thats why im moving out of my parents house and i imagine living with a bro of mine would be chill as heck.
I thoght he thought the same too, but he doesnt know what he wants to do after school either apprenticeship...
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>>16911706
Is weed legal here you live? If not, then don't move in with him. You have observed that he has no goals, and smokes excessively. Even if you don't get in trouble for it, those are two major red flags. He's either not going to pay his part, or he'll be obnoxious to live with.
If you can afford a place by yourself, do that. If not, find roommates who share similar work ethic/lifestyle choices as you. You'll be a hell of a lot happier and less stressed out.
OP here,
well no it isnt legal but i smoke every now and then too, the thing ive also thought about is moving into a new town bc im just sick of the people ive befriended where i live and i just cant rely on any of my friends (Germany btw). I want to meet new people, i just dont know if going to the uni in the same town will do the trick
