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> been hanging out w/ her on game
> we teamspeak
>listen to love songs together
>fgt anon likes her, but anon dun have guts
Turn off the game and go find a girl in real life, save yourself the time and effort, bud.
>>16942116
girl gamers are crazy weird #fact
how far is the distance between you?
>but i would pass
So...I'll try to make this quick. Not long ago I decided I was officially done with dating, fast forward, I end up getting myself into what is basically dating someone anyway
She is sweet and I like her, but that for me don't mean we need to suddenly act like a married couple right away, she seems to feel otherwise. I am a very self occupying person, like alone time, etc, she constantly (and I mean constantly) needs attention and likes to talk 24 7, and honestly I just can't do that
What do you do? If she was someone I didn't like, I'd...
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Since you like her, and it seems like you think you are in a relationship, the best course of action would be to make it official.
Sit her down, tell her about how much alone time you need/she should expect, etc. I hopefully don't have to tell you how all of that conversation should go and what topics that should include past this.
I've seen similar happen with a bunch of friends. While this is just anecdotal...
What usually happens is the relationship is rocky and chaotic and filled with exciting drama until she gets what she wants.
This is especially the case if she is the kind of girl who thrives on trying to convert what she sees as an essentially good guy who needs to *grow up* or *accept* something. I'd argue this is a personality flaw unless the guy is actively courting this situation.
Eventually this either ends due to him being sick of whining and realising that...
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So I got this girl's number on Thursday. I texted her that exact day and started talking about random shit. But I texted her again on Friday and she completely dodged me, so I'm like OK I won't text her the next day. I texted her yesterday and just said "hey :)" and she said hey back I told her I was chilling watching some Netflix and then I got no response the entire fucking day.
I understand that she might be busy and she may have forgotten about texting. I don't know what to do at this point I want to get to know her better before asking...
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Ask her out. That's what you want to do.
She's probably not into you, but take the shot you have nothing to lose.
>>16941740
The thing is that before I even asked for her number she was really friendly towards me and I always caught her staring at me and she is always happy when she is in my lab group so why would she not be interested? If I do ask her out and she rejects we still see each other 3 times a week for class it will be so awkward.
Hi /b/
30 year old male, with 18 year old international (German) girlfriend - looking to make serious long term relationship.
I've a stable, well paying job, industry experience, secondary sources of income - in short I can provide.
She loves my country (Australia), speaks English fluently, and is currently looking to study here to live and create a base for her life. We have an immigration lawyer on our side to assist with Visa and the logistics behind citizenship etc.
I've travelled, she has travelled too - of course I have more 'life experience' but she is open minded and wishes to travel in future with me if we so desire.
I've a long history (previous 8 years) of being single and enjoying it (prior to this, two girlfriends)- she has had a few boyfriends in the past, a few casual flings. She is vehement she loves me and wants us to really take this towards the possibility of a life together.
Im at a point where I'm through with messing around and want a strong and challenging relationship that is worth the effort - I've had the luck of landing a beautiful, intelligent, and challenging young woman, and I've enough experience to silence the nagging and unfounded doubts of fear and uncertainty to realise what an opportunity this is.
Has anyone been in the same situation?
Objective/subjective advice on the matter?
Pic related - it's not us, but I can seriously see it going this way in the next 2-6 years.
>>16941632
At 18 she has no idea what/when/how she sees her life unfolding. Plenty of partying to be done before settling down.
You change completely in your 20's. Thus is going to be extremely ugly. You will have kids and when she turns 30 she will start resent you because she missed out. She will feel trapped and as if you are holding her back. She will file a divorce and take the kids with her - back to germany.
The chances of this working out are extremely slim.
i had never a gf, what are the odds of it ending any time soon given my face? am i this ugly
You have to be 18+ to post on 4Chan
Also, this is /soc/'s problem, not ours.
>>16941522
see if you were better looking it wouldnt be deleted.
Heres the deal, don't expect much advice but I live with my parents almost smack dab in the center of this shitty neighborhood called Mars hill in indianapolis. I just recently became single after almost 2 years and I've been thinking about just up and moving to Florida, where I've got one friend I know online for a couple years now that would allow me to stay with them until I got a job and could support myself I've got almost a grand saved up to use for getting there and to have a little bit of spare money when I do get there, I guess the question is would...
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>>16941475
Well OP. I'm trying to leave FL because I've been out of work for months now. Gonna try PA.
Would be easy if you have experience in a desired field of work
>>16941475
Do drugs.
Make bad decisions.
Be the next Florida Man.
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I thought I finally got over him. It was clear that things cannot work out in the first place, specifically the fact that he's not able to like other men. But there are times when I still think of him, even getting into the dangerous territory of fantasizing everything about him. It seems pretty silly to be dreaming intimate scenarios of a person I never even shook hands with, but I guess imagination is a powerful thing. I haven't even spoken to him in a year and I still think of him every other day. I try to dull the pain by reminding myself that I chose the better...
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bamp
>>16941424
I cannot offer much advice OP, but I can offer a bamp
Every wonder what it's like to be the opposite sex? Lol ever try to live in someone elses life? I spent over 8 worthless months of my life doing pathedic social experiments online and live out in public. No no no... Not these stupid pranks you see on youtube. Serious shit. I have a small team i hired off craigslist 2 girls and 2 guys. I paid them on call for my experiments. I would love to tell you about the 25k i lost by employing theses people and go through every experiment. But... I'll just go down from the expirement that actually surprised me. #8 i paired the...
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>>16941398
Humanity sucks but we all knew that
>>16941398
ITT: shit that never happened
I live with my parents. Should I save up money or spend money on my gaming habit?
saving money is never a bad idea. Why not do both? Budget stuff, it's good practice for when you're not being a leach.
>>16941315
The two really don't go hand-in-hand.
Sincerely, a gambler.
I chose visual arts as a highschool subject but im kind of regretting it. The theory part seems easy but the things we have to make kinda suck. I don't really have any interests so choosing subjects is kinda hard. What subjects do you guys recommend i do instead of visual arts or should i just stick with it.
What year are you?
>>16941199
11, i have to make a choice soon because i wont be able to change subjects after term 2 starts.
