29 virgin here

its a pretty good feeling, i actually thought girls were kind of lame...she rejected me and it crushed me but i moved on the best i could...thought for sure she liked me

a few months later she was staring at me a lot and being very nervous around me, i guess the feelings simmered a bit and developed a crush...because she clearly is acting differently

she was staring a bunch, acting nervous, being shy and flustered, when a beautiful woman acts that way around you you cant help but feel great about the whole thing.

its not meant to be,...
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I really wish I could figure out whats wrong with me and why I can't really keep a womans attention yet other seemingly.. really shitty guys can.

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iktf

and yeah I don't know, I agree about the 'masculine spark', I'm actually a pretty good looking guy and I'm still a kissless virgin at 21 because I'm shy.
I think girls gravitate to guys who seems dangerous or 'an adventure', often to the point where they'll take someone mean over someone nice just because of that.

Please

I'll listen, and I won't shit on you.

What's up?

Start pissing all over your house to establish your dominance.

>>16951621
Don't stay in abusive relationships.

Get out now and take some time off and relax. You shouldn't dive into a new relationship until you are ready

>>16951635
I'm so broken because of this relationship. I don't know how to get better. I have marks on my body and have to act like they're accidental when I go to work and home. I love him. I know it sounds strange. I'm stuck.

Will God forgive me for my sins?

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>>16950830
Absolutely, repent of your sins and call upon the name of Jesus and you will be saved

>Therefore I say to you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven, for she loved much. But he who is forgiven little loves little.” (Luke 7:47)

>https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke+7%3A40-47&interface=print

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There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female—for all of you are one in Christ Jesus.

Galatians 3:28

>>16949009
what do you think would have been different if you had been in the same relationship 10 years ago?

Just because you "can" get a boyfriend doesn't mean you "should." Being in a relationship with someone you don't feel strongly about is very unfulfilling. I don't see how the hell you managed to go through your teenage years without ever finding anyone, but the fact that you did doesn't necessarily mean you won't be able to find passionate romance as an adult. Wasting time on someone you don't feel that way for certainly won't help.

>>16949021
We would both be teenagers with heightened emotions due to hormones, we could do all the teenage relationship shit, I would have happy memories of being a young girl.

>>16949024
Passionate romance as an adult is no substitute for what I missed out on as a young girl.

>>16954092
>taking advantage of other people will make you feel good

Have you considered you're a shit person?

>>16954175

I've also considered that I can make money being a shit person in a way that isn't illegal or so abhorrently immoral as to be a real future problem for me.

>>16954197
Making money from being a shit person doesn't make you any less of a shit person.

Kill yourself.

>>16950039
Find a hobby

You probably noticed you resort to masturbating when you're bored, almost out of habit. Keep yourself driven man- use the extra time and energy to pursue things you're passionate about. With your mind focused on bettering you and the people around you, fapping won't even cross your mind.

Look past it as just abstaining but redirecting your focus and energy. Best of luck my man

>>16950039
Day three is the hardest day of not eating. After that it gets easier.

Incidentally, the best success I've had when not fapping has been when I wasn't eating either, So maybe try not eating for a few days and watch your sex drive evaporate.

Bumpits

Maybe try singing lessons? They would teach you how to breath properly and how to project your voice, so that may help.

Fun fact:

Men are attracted to women with a higher pitched voice, less attracted to women with deeper voices.

Granted this isn't true for *everyone*, but in surveys and tests this was the preferences.

The opposite applied for what women liked in men's voices.

Guys/Girls

What's your experience with telling your partners about your weirder fetishes?

>Have gf love her very much
>Have fetish that I'm sure would repulse her
>Spend time together, have sexual encounters, love it
>Still not scratching that certain fetish's "itch" though
>Have girls on kik who I used to regularly chat with who'd scratch the itch in an instant
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>>16951264
What fetish is it?

Girls and guys

Have any of you ever watched porn with a significant other?

Me and my girlfriend do occasionally, and I swear she gets super crazy turned on when she sees me get turned on by something. I don't know why but it's hot as fuck.

Is that normal? Getting turned on by watching your boyfriend get a raging hard on because of another woman fingering her ass?

I wouldn't call this bizarre. It's just silly.

First off, wills get challenged all the time. If you die soon it'll be your parents contesting it. If this goes later into life, it could be your spouse. And would you really not end up amending it at that rate anyway? Don't you think that once you get on with life and put this episode behind you that you'll have a more tempered view of things?

It's also silly to give him a copy to keep. What kind of weird drama shit is this? Is it really so that someone you trust has it in the event of...
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Not at all, people often leave assets to their friends, our friendships help shape us in many different ways.

If a friend of mine all of a sudden gave me a copy of their will and I was on it my first thought would be that they're considering suicide. I wouldn't be surprised if that's what he thinks too but from the sounds of it you aren't considering that, right?

Aside from that it's probably one of the nicest things you could do for someone, It shows them that they're one of the people you truly care for. Just he careful anon.

If it's a very good friend, nothing bizarre about that. Me and my best friend go way back, if I had anything one could inherit I'd be sure to include him in my will, too.
But it's really something that should be reserved for top-notch honourable friends you've known for a long time.
The first anon has a point on you being dramatic though.

This is really weird. Whether it not be is trying to hook up with your girlfriend, I can't say, but he is certainly peddling something. Why the fuck would your girlfriend need 'counsel' from a peer? What are his professional accomplishments? Send like this guy had his head up his ass.

If he's cooking dinner for her and you're not invited then his girlfriend isn't going to be there either. Does he even know about you?

You're one meal away from getting cucked.

>>16952993
Tell your bitch she can meet him at a cafe or library but not a private place because you fear for her safety.


Because it is actually fucking dangerous for her to go to some random dudes house that she doesn't know.

You can either leave your gf because of something she has no control over, or you can suck it up and keep the relationship

I love her to death I don't want to leave her.

But if it was something like just sucking it up I would have, it was literally everyone we saw at the amusement park staring at us when we held hands, or when I had my hat off.

I just don't want to go to malaysia ever again, I don't want to leave her why would I, I just felt so dirty am I just being a pussy?

>>16952878
you arn't being a pussy, but you need to understand that there isnt a single chance that you will change an entire culture, its also not limited to malaysia, zurich is a pretty openly racist city, for example

Go to a therapist.

>>16951688
I feel like there are rape counselors to help you with your situation

if this is a bait thread I hope you get raped and murdered though

>>16951688
Oh boohoo, should have just put it out instead of said no bitch.

>>16953304
Why not just fuck him?

>>16953322
How about its illegal, its sick and disgusting.

>>16953304
>Female
>Kissless virgin
Pffffftt hahahahahahahaha yeah ok OP. Sure.

>>16953259
No, fuck her. When you're 50 and acomplished your dreams you will thank yourself.

Tell her that she's not your top priority and doesn't deserve to be.

Accomplish what you want and the women will come. Better women than this one.

Nobody who accomplished their dreams did it by giving up because a chick was needy. She's poison.
Dump her cunt ass.

>>16953303
Thanks for the reply. I always try to think my actions and my feelings throughtout. Thinking of just myself seems so selfish to me and when I love someone I want both of us to be happy but I know thinking of my future its the right think to do when it comes to this. I talk to her about it and whatever happens

>>16953259
If you give up a career for some girl you'll resent her for the rest of your life.

When the right girl comes along she won't ask you to make a sacrifice like that.