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This is an issue that has, all of a sudden, become very important to my life. I can't shake this feeling that I am now permanently unemployable.
what is your:
>Age:
>Crime or Charge:
>Education (high school, college, graduate, etc.):
>Field you work in:
>Has your past prevented you from getting jobs (offers rescinded after background check comes back)?:
no criminals awake yet?
are you that dude with the DUI again?
>>16948815
nah man they were all up late doing crime shit
How do you stop overthinking everything?
I dunno, lemme think.
I have no idea, that's why I drink and listen to the song Overkill. Totally made for overthinkers.
I can't get to sleep
I think about the implications
Of diving in too deep
And possibly the complications
Especially at night
I worry over situations
That I know I'll be alright
It's just overkill
>>16948640
I like Alban Berg more
No but really, in a room full of people I'm the only one panicking over everything? is it really just me, or does everyone else do this too?
So I had sex last night and had the guy pull out. I've read a lot of stuff online and everybody seems to disagree. Does anybody here have experience with the effectiveness of pulling out?
yes. ask my son
If he actually didn't cum in you at all, you're probably fine.
Some newer studies suggest there aren't actually viable sperm in pre-cum, but it's still up in the air, as you're finding out.
Where are you in your cycle?
Why not get plan B? Don't know where you're at, though. If you're a bigger girl I'd recommend ordering ella.
Can still happen, but it's obviously preferable to not have the full load in your puss.
But if you actually think it's a viable contraception strategy then you are crazy. You will get pregnant in the long run.
I'm a 21 year old bisexual dude, but as of about two weeks ago, I stopped being turned on by women almost completely, or at least significantly enough to notice. Is there any way to change this? I've tried weaning myself off gay porn for a while(femboy stuff, not into muscle dudes) but it's not helping.
I'm bi too and find my preferences can swing towards being almost fully les at one point but then fully straight at others. It appears to be at random too. Typically stays that way for a month or so then goes back.
If it doesn't switch over for you maybe you were just gay and repressing? Now no longer caring about females because dont need to
>>16948607
I did consider the repression thing, but I have know way of knowing for sure without just waiting it out(can't afford a psychiatrist). Really hoping that's not the case though.
>>16948662
There wouldn't be much point going to a psychiatrist anyway
Hey guys,
I recently turned 18 and many of my friends have asked me to get alcohol for them which I have done two days in a row at the same off licence. Just wondering if the off licence will give a shit about it or can I get banned?
No. but if someone gets beat up or picked up guess whos name the teens are gonna say got it for them. its best to not buy alcohol for anyone, although it does open up some doors to party with some of the hot chicks.
judging by the fact you said "off license" I'm guessing yourw from the uk, but i know in Australia bottle shops will only not supply to you if theyve got good reason to think that youre gonna supply it to underage people. so unless theyre being seen with you outside the shop so the people inside would be able to see you or some shit it should be fine
>>16948916
Thanks man
Anyone know how to get rid of a flu headache? It won't go away. I feel like dying
Drink a cup of coffee.
>>16948535
HELIUM
Wet heat. Try a hot shower, soaking in a hot bath, or using a damp washcloth with a heating pad over it. GL. Still coughing from my bout with flu.
maybe this is a weird board to post this but i don't know where else to put it.
for years now i've had this super dry curly hair and i hate it because it makes me look like a homeless person. i have no idea how to fix it though, and every time i ask the barber i come back out the same way.
can you suggest a hairstyle for me to look like a trustworthy person that looks after himself?
or a product/way to fix my curls so they don't look so fucking dry and awful?
i literally have no clue what to do with this. and it feels like it ruins...
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I use head and shoulders almond shampoo. It's one of the most moisturizing shampoos I've ever used. You can also try a conditioning/anti-frizz serum that girls use after they shower (yes, you use it after you shower). It makes your hair look sleek and shiny and not dry and not frizz so much, also smells good. I can't think of anything else. Putting oils in your hair to moisturize it is gross in my opinion. Good luck. Ask the women in your life for some tips.
Hairdresser reporting in. Firt off, if you qant to look more "stylish" i'd recommend a cut like pic related.
Then take good care of your hair. Meaning that you carefully brush your hair, then wash it with a shampoo that labels "restoring/nourishing/for damaged hair" stuff on it every 3-4 days. Then, the most important part: get a conditioner. One for damaged and so on hair. Put a decent amount in your hair and let it sit while washing your body and other stuff. Rinse. Gently squeeze out water and tap try with a towel. DON'T rub! Then you let...
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>>16948527
You Jewish?
I'm going to need to say goodbye to someone I cared a lot about and will never see again. I'm not good at goodbyes, normally I just fade out of people lives but this is gonna be a proper one.
How do I go about making it not too hard? I wanna spend the day with her, and then at some point I will have to actually leave, actually say last words and turn around and walk away. Is it good to set a defined time? Should I do it at my home, or in public?
This is difficult OP
I don't know the dynamic of your relationship or why you have to say goodbye
>>16948539
girl I just kinda hung out with in the beginning, but then got serious with. Have to say goodbye because I'm going to work 2000 miles away from her and will not come back in the foreseeable future.
>>16948547
This could guilt you forever if you've found love and would priorities anything else, in fact it should
Anybody else here have shit self esteem?
I just went out and bought new clothes, a nice watch, soon to be getting a new car, and have a very boring but good paying job. And I truly hate myself. I go to bed every night and look at my Glock 19 and just think how easy would it be to just end everything. But I can't because I have a cat I'm responsible for.
I just really fucking hate everything about me. Literally everything, I'm starting to feel sick actually. Just from being so sad all the time
You realize that selfesteem and selfworth aren't the same. What you are doing is trying to up your selfesteem. Shit doesn't work. You can have every accomplishement ever and still feel like killing yourself. Google the difference and learn. Pic related
>>16948476
Sounds like you might have some issues. Definitely worth talking to a therapist to at least try and iron out some of these mental kinks.
Besides that, you should work on trying to find some sort of passion in your life. You say your job is well paying, this opens a shit load of doors for you. Invest in learning something new that interests you. There are endless lists of hobbies that you can pick up.
Also, go to the gym, or do some kind of exercise. That shit makes you feel like fucking god if you get...
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Wait, are you honestly considering the idea of ending your own life?
That's pretty fucked up man, I wouldn't do it unless my daughter died or some shit like that.
I don't know what to do anymore, I've dropped Uni, got banned from all online games I played (which made up a majority of my time) am jobless and just feel lethargic and without stuff to do.
As bleak as it sounds, what should I do with life?
Really all I want is large land in a cool (cold) country where I can farm or something.
You skin your neighbour and wear the skin as a suite. Then you just start to slowly steal parts of his life, like fuck his wife, go to his job and so on. Good luck and pic related
>>16948470
>got banned from all online games I played
lmao shouldnt have trashtalked and blamed other players in your team
>>16948470
That food looks delicious
Why is it when any advice around women pops up on here, men are so hostile when dispensing or receiving it?
They're especially belligerent and antagonistic towards other men on the site, as I've been noticing for a while now. The advice they give usually run along the lines "she doesn't like you. Get the fuck over it." Or "she isn't interested. Move the fuck on from the cunt." Despite there not being enough information to make that distinction.
Or the advice given tends to be some kind of misogynistic diatribe; sometimes...
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It's 4chan. What the fuck did you expect?
Because /r9k/ is trying to assimilate this board into its redpill clutches. It has met with resistance, which is good in the long run, but it means that threads involving advice for dealibg wkth women currently degenerate into fights between bitter self-inflicted virgins and the people who are trying to get them to geow the fuck up. Such is war, I'm afraid.
>>16948428
That's because robots come here too.
That's because the robot numbers are growing.
That's because society treats men like we're all sex crazed rapists, tells us how priveledged we are when they take away our rights to due process and take away our education without evidence of wrong-doing whilst then saying it is women who are discouraged from higher education.
It's because men are raised to respect women only to be labelled "nice guys".
It's because...
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What day do you usually give out chocolates? Growing my family never celebrated any holidays and this year I'm spending my Easter with a friends family. My friend said he and his family will get me chocolates but I want to give them some too. I would ask my friend but it's embarrassing for me.
>>16948394
Sunday bro
Google, faggot.
I have nothing to say to women I want to talk to. It's such a bogus situation. Like I want to say "I would like to get to know you better". But that sounds creepy to just randomly say.
I am 25 and never had a girlfriend because of this. Why has fate been this cruel? What does it feel like to have a girl like you back?
I am sure no girl has ever liked me more than a friend. What a horrendous feeling.
I don't think that's creepy. I do think it makes it clear you are romantically interested, but that's not a bad thing at all.
We fucking love to talk about ourselves, so you could always go that route. Don't compliment face/body/hair at first, that IS creepy. Compliment dress or shirt or whatever seems tactful (i.e. compliment a unique top, not a generic one or one that shows a mile of tiddy). Go from there. Ask her about herself. I love that shit. If I like you, I'll ask you about you, but if you want to break the ice, let me ramble about me.
>>16948352
>I have nothing to say to women I want to talk to. It's such a bogus situation.
You need to meet them in situations where there are things to talk about. This is what makes clubs -the kind whete you meet to practice and discuss common interests, not the kind you dance in- and conventions such good places to meet people. Same goes for classes, as long as they're not part of a school curriculum. Even museums and bookstores can work well.
The rule of thumb is this:...
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I hate going to clubs. Also, let me ask you guys some ethics questions. I work at a university as a research specialist. All I do really is gather data about university demographics in the area and analyze it. i have no impact on grades or anything.
Is it unethical for me to date women who are students here? Assuming the girl is close to my age and not like a freshman or something.
This is probably the wrong site to ask but here goes
What do you live for? I'm not particularly depressed, but I've recently finished university and without a structured feeling of progress, I feel lost. I'm not religious, I don't have much in the way of hobbies, I'm not close to anyone, I don't really want kids, I'm emotionally distant so relationships don't really work for me.
I don't really know what I'm doing. I feel like I just live so that I don't die. Work for money, buy food/pay rent/etc, repeat. What keeps...
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I feel this way all the time.
Medication helps.
>>16948353
I'm on Zoloft. I also drink. Been meaning to find a weed guy too.
>>16948350
Nothing anymore, but that's what happens when you invest in people.
>be me
>19 yo female
>in love with a friend even tho he has a girl
>keep fantasizing about him and feeling guilty for wanting him even tho he already has someone
>I've been feeling this way a whole year it doesn't wanna stop
what do i do
>>16948284
Get away from him.
>>16948289
I can't. He's my friend. We also are in all classes together
>>16948284
Find another guy.
Meeting other women and spending time with them has always helped me move on.
Sure the first guy you meet may be lame as fuck, but give him a chance and he'll either grow on you, or you just find another guy. Keep repeating until you meet your new Prince Charming.
Don't get sucked into the "I want him because I can't have him" logic
