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Do Jehovah's Witnesses have strict dating rules? I want to ask for this girls number (high school) but my friend said he saw her walking around the neighborhood with her family, talking about religion and whatnot a couple years ago.
>>16946562
If you have to ask they're not worth the trouble.
>>16946562
Those people are a nuisance and unless she's super rebellious and ready to be excommed from her family she won't give any pussy
>>16946562
>Do Jehovah's Witnesses have strict dating rules?
To a certain extend, it depends on the congregation and the family. That's not to say there are no commonalities -I hope you aren't expecting her to put out- but they can be a surprisingly diverse bunch. Some are quite strict, others, not so much.
>I want to ask for this girls number (high school) but my friend said he saw her walking around the neighborhood with her family, talking about...
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I need some /adv/... So there's this girl, she's pretty, she likes me and I know it... But, she's dating this asshole named Chase. And I feel there is something between us, I can feel it trust me. I'm a kind kid, I said I'd give anything for her. And that still wasn't enough. What do I do?
You're probably imagining that she likes you back unless she explicitly told you so, familia.
>>16946514
>I said I'd give anything for her
You fucked up. She wants to be treated like a human, not a charity.
She did, we were talking and I told her how I feel, and she said I she does feel the same way.
>downtown LA
>vacation with gf
>walking back to our hotel from little tokyo
>good evening so far
>notice she looks a little nervous and suddenly really close to me
>not a bad thing but it's weird for her
>ask what's up
>she says she gets nervous walking at night outside
>try and pry...
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Any normal person is wary walking around downtown LA at night. I live here and wouldn't do it if I didn't have to.
>>16946488
>I guess my question here is is there a way to help her not be scared?
Being scared of something like that is healthy. She should be cautious.
>>16946488
there's nothing you can do
Hey /adv/
Just recently I asked a girl out and she looked absolutely flattered but said she had to think about it and would get back to me. Am I completely fucked? Or is there still a chance?
You are fucked
Not completely, but nothing else at point you can do to increase your chances. She's thinking about dumping her current boyfriend or cheating on him. Can't rush these things.
>>16946482
She doesn't have a boyfriend. Wish me luck lads.
I fell in love with a friend since months. I just wanted to let it fade, but it doesn't. The more I see him the more I love him. I don't know what to do. We'll live in the same apartment in few months. I have few friend, and opening my heart may break our friendship, and i won't handle that. If not, it will make him to refuse to live in the same place as me. Please help me.
>inb4 Faggot
>inb4 Kill yourself
>Do it faggot
>>16946440
Tell him, get rejected, remain friends. Tell him, get accepted, start a relationship.
Or don't tell him and feel awful all the time.
>>16946539
I guess with time I'll be able to feel the moment when I can tell him what I feel for him without loosing his friendship, will I?
But not yet. I'm not ready neither is he.
Both of your proposition are what I dream. But for now i feel that he will flee me as soon as he will figure out that i actually love him.
Moreover, i don't know how to tell him. I have thought of many way to tell him. Gesture, suggestions, simply kiss him, abruptly tell him.
I'm not feeling totally...
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if something has a 48% chance of happening. whats the probability itll happen 8 times in a row. and how do i solve for this
>>16946362
Um like 4 lol
Do your own homework.
How do you ask someone to hang out?
If you can't even figure out something as basic as this, then there's no hope for you.
>>16946359
"Do you want to hang out?"
>>16946372
What the fuck?
Should the mentally ill and the self-loathing stay away from people/society? Are we just a burden?
No, you just need to get help so you can man up and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
mental illness and self loathing are not mutually exclusive with productivity and positive social interactions. yours might be, but plenty of sick, hateful people do just fine.
>>16946351
>Should the mentally ill and the self-loathing stay away from people/society?
No. In fact, for many of us, staying away played a big role in getting us to this state, and even for the others, it never helps.
>Are we just a burden?
To a certain extent we ARE a burden, but to a certain extent everyone is a burden. A person in society is like an engine in a car: it adds a lot of weight that has to be moved around, but if you take it out to save...
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I'm 25 this year and I'm feeling lost. I don't know what i am doing with my life and how do I gonna improve it. I had a shitty degree that won't lead me to anywhere. I'm not in any kind of relationship. The only thing i have is time and tim is flying real fast. I feel lonely and useless.
I'm working but not a stable job and didn't earn that much money (minimum wage),some days I got home really late. When I have free time most of people around me are busying with their work. I don't know for how long have I lived this way or how to escape from it.
I'm afraid of people seeing me like loser cause I'm old enough to have my own career or at least know what to do and how to make some businesses. But in the end,it's only because of money. If I have that much money.
There isn't a single response to what you're, presumably, asking. I think most people are lost. I think the career by 22 is a meme that is a dead horse at this point. I think that people like you wallow in self pity because you refuse to accept that youre the leader in your own life not anyone else. I think that you're still immature for caring what people think about you. I think that you're blowing things out of proportion. I think a lot of things.
>>16946348
I was 3 years deep into my career at your age with loadsa money, and I'm still a fucking loser. Money doesn't fix anything.
I didn't even start on my degree until I was 26, and thank god for that. I know exactly what I'm doing and have a specific plan for my education and long-term goals.
This is why pressuring people to go to college too early is dumb.
How do I explain to someone that their mental illness isn't a "get out of responsibility free card" or pass to treat everyone around them like shit?
Pretty much just like that. Don't expect your words to change their behavior, though.
>>16946354
What should I do in that case then?
I'm stuck living with my sister for the next 2-3 years (when she moves out or I finish my undergrad).
She constantly bosses everyone around because "muh panic attacks" and expects everyone to cater to her and my parents are almost starting to tolerate it.
>>16946371
>I'm stuck living with my sister for the next 2-3 years when I finish my undergrad.
you're in college, you're an adult, move the fuck out if it bothers you so much.
Everyone's happy... What am I missing in life? What am I missing that everybody else has?
The ability to actually understand/relate to the people around you. Nobody's happy. You just think they are because you're looking at the things they have that you want. You're not seeing the problems they have that you don't
>>16946305
money
>>16946308
I'm happy (... not literally all the time, people have bad moods you know).
Hey /adv/,
The other day, my girlfriend admitted that she sexted another guy. That being said, it wasn't typical sexting. She didn't send any nudes and neither did he, and he lives several states away so I know there's nothing physical going on. It was simply dirty talk, almost sort of like a roleplay type of thing. At first I was super pissed off, and I got mad at her as if she actually physically cheated on me. But then, after I calmed down a bit and after she cried her eyes out and told me how bad she feels, I was able to forgive her. I was talking to...
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>>16946304
>nothing physical
>physically cheated
I think you might be a little confused OP
She will physically do all the things she said to another man in a few months
>>16946304
First of all this >>16946333
Second of all if you think she's worth keeping tell her not to talk to that guy anymore then fuck her brains out until you feel better
I want to start coding. /adv/ what should I start with?
First think of some kind of program you want to write, then do some research and figure out what language would be best for that program, then find a tutorial online and start going through it? Dunno, that's how I learned C++. Wanted to make a mod for a game that was in C++ so I learned it and that's that.
thanks for the help, I guess I want to write programs.
>>16946269
this is the pussy way.
compile linux from source and learn bash. then you'll be ready.
I'm gonna be blunt here: I'm addicted to porn and it's really fucking me up, man. I have no idea what to do. I have nobody to go to for help and no money for therapy, and to boot it's really fucking embarrassing so I want to remain anonymous. What are some things I can do do break the addiction on my own?
>pic unrelated
>>16946231
Find someone in real life who'll actually fuck you.
>>16946231
NoFap Rebooting 101
http://www.nofap.com/rebooting/
There are couple of sites, forums and a reddit group centered around it. None of these really cost you a penny.
>>16946234
Yeah a girlfriend can make the whole process a lot more bearable.
>>16946234
>virgin advice on sex
Having a sex partner does nothing for a porn addiction. Sex is like any other appetite, the more you feed it the more it grows. Having a partner can give you a reason to stop using porn (i.e. she'll bawwww if she sees your internet history) but it will do jack shit to take away the desire.
So after being turned down by yet another crush, I'm going to need to start looking elsewhere for hookups.
Any one tried online dating? Where is good? Do I have to pay to be on a good service or are there free ones?
UK based here.
Most people here tend to say it's awful. I'm hardly a reference but I had much more luck irl than online. Online dating is just a numbers game. Quite depressing. Plus it's the most superficial thing ever.
>>16946230
Online dating only works if you're the top 10% of attractiveness (as a man), and even then you'll be punching substantially below your weight.
Joining local clubs and societies is an excellent place to start; if you live near a university, many of their clubs will be open to non-students.
Volunteering is an excellent way to meet 18-25s and shop work (evenings, weekends) is an excellent way to meet 16-18s.
Good luck famalam
I'm tired of the free shit, I'm thinking maybe the pay ones are better but not sure. Maybe the UK is different but in the US it blows, it can seem like a part time job if you let it, there's a lot of false hope and canceled dates as well.
