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>have straight Bs in uni courses
>fail and have to withdraw two semesters in a row because of attendance policies
What the fuck? Why do courses I have to pay for do dumb shit like this? And more importantly where should I go from here?
>>16946211
Attend a school without babby-tier attendance policies.
>>16946218
The main reason I went there was because it was a community college and cheap, also no vehicle.
Shouldn't have said uni really
>Straight Bs
How do you deal with dating a hot cutie girl for 2 years, getting dumped, and knowing that she was miles above your level?
I feel like I'll litterally never be able to be with a girl that attractive and it makes me depressed as fuck. I'm pretty average and she was litterally a 9/10
>>16946201
>she was miles above your level?
Let me guess, you told her that a couple times?
>>16946201
If the only thing you care about in women is looks then buy a sex doll.
>>16946212
>because a sex doll looks remotely like a woman
I hope for your sake that's the dumbest thing you say today.
>female
>29
>always had fine hair
>got really fine when I was taking the pill
>stopped taking the pill for six months and started taking occasional supplements (iron and vitamin d)
>hair looked better, seemed ever so slightly thicker
>stopped taking supplements
>started mini pill again
>almost overnight, hair feels thinner again
>now I can see bald patches at the front of my scalp again
Last time this almost caused me to have a breakdown. I used to take photos of my hair day and night to see if it was thinner. I never wanted to leave the house and would spend conversations waiting for someone to look at my scalp.
What's more likely...that I'm imagining this, that it's an effect of the hormones in the mini pill or the fact I've stopped taking my b12 and vitamin d?
Seriously, my ponytail is less than an inch in diameter. I can already feel myself obsessing.
>>16946188
Go see a doctor
>>16946223
I've seen a doctor, all hormone levels are normal, no thyroid issues, had several blood tests. The only problems were low iron and vitamin d levels, which makes me thinks it's just a coincidence that my levels have dropped again since I've started the pill. There are just too many variables and I can't work out which is the one causing it.
Just looking for similar experiences I guess.
>>16946258
Is it pattern hair loss or just all over?
I pretty much never feel like socializing. I don't care about other peoples lives. I only put effort out for my oldest friends and I don't want to meet anyone new. Women are useless to me except for sex. I thought these feelings would pass but I'm getting older now.
What is wrong with me?
Nothing, you moron. You and 50 million other chadlets.
>>16946194
>chadlet
what does that even mean, go ahead, lay in to me
You're smart. Women aren't worth their trouble when it comes to relationships. They're fucking stupid. Trust me I'm married. I love my wife but I don't like her really or spending time with her. I guess I'm too selfish too. Bottom line people shouldn't be shoving other people into looking for relationships. You need to set your friends straight and tell them to back the fuck off and let you be you and accept you for who you are or try and hook you up with a girl that respects your personality.
How do I stop being jealous of my hot best friend? I feel like an idiot and a bitch. She is like a 10/10 and is also super confident and comfortable in her own skin, she loves everything about herself and lets the world know it. I could never be that way.
Yesterday we were trying on clothes and she looks in the mirror and goes: "Wow, I look soooo hot in this." And I'm thinking 'As if the rest of the world doesn't give you enough compliments, now you have to give them to yourself?' These little moments happen all the time and I feel really guilty for thinking them because even though she has a bit of an ego when it comes to our friendship she's really giving and selfless. Basically my question is how do I stop being a petty bitch?
>>16946162
Good on you for asking that question about yourself.
You just have to realize that your satisfaction in life should have nothing to do with a comparison with other people, (unless it's in circumstances where you are trying to determine what's reasonably achievable so not in this case).
The mature thing to do is to be happy for your friend's good fortune that she's a 10/10. You can start to accomplish this by acting that way and your brain will follow suit, i.e. sincerely compliment her on how beautiful she is.
Works the same on your friend's promotion, awesome car, etc.
just take solace in the fact it wont last
every hot girl ends up turning 28 and getting hit by the wall like a truck
it will destroy her
>>16946189
Ignore what this small-minded person has to say. Don't take comfort in someone else's misfortune, that's a dick move. Learn to be happy for the things that make your friends happy, because it costs you absolutely nothing and it makes you an excellent friend.
I have no friends, the only person I cared about stabbed me in the back and now I have no one
I know I'm ready to end it, I'd just prefer it to be painless.
Note: I have access to multiple firearms
We can only speculate since nobody has every actually confirmed what it was like to die in any way since they're already dead.
I think the most painless way to die is with the use of some nice potent chemical that would make you fall asleep and just never wake up but chances are you don't know Dr. Kevorkian or anyone with that level of medical expertise or access to that stuff.
I would think a halfway reasonably painless way to die is to bleed to death. Just lose consciousness slowly. Problem is you need to actually cut yourself somehow to bleed enough to die that way. Most likely it would hurt.
Gunshot to the head/mouth is probably agreeably the best quickest and least painful way to die. Problem is if you fuck it up SOMEHOW it might end up being the most painful way to die or not even kill you and leave you with a stump of a face.
That's about all the advice I can give you on how to kill yourself. My advice is that you at least enjoy yourself on your way out. If you're serious about killing yourself save one gun and one bullet, sell everything else and go buy some weed and hookers and live it up til you really have nothing left to spend and then do it.
If you own a shotgun the I would suggest high-power buckshot from a big enough distance that the spread covers all of your head. Just make sure that it's properly aimed. A much easier solution would be hanging yourself. But keep in mind that you need a big enough drop if you don't want to suffocate.
>>16946153
don't do it fäm, sell everything you have instead and start life in a new land. Restart instead of ending.
so last year i started university,and i was determined to get a gf/fuckbuddy by any means from the start
about the fourth week in, some of us had a class dinner to go out partying afterwards
well, there was this swedish girl i had started to talk to one day, since she struck me from the moment i first saw her: tall, blonde, and she had a beautiful face (by my standards); she looked (and actually acts) a lot like phoebe from the show friends
i had previously been texting her about going out one night together, but only got vague responses from her, so this dinner was my chance
once we were at the club, i directly chatted her up, danced with her, and ended up making out with her for several hours (yes, hours) and even went away from the club to finger her in a nearby lonely alleyway
what happened next is basically we agreed to stay as "special friends", but we kept making out from time to time, but nothing more
as time passed, we got more intimate though, and at the moment, we already have both given each other hjs and bjs
SO, my problem is that we're now basically a couple, BUT we haven't had actual sex yet
the thing is i sort of fabricated my whole past to make her think i was this huge player guy (i thought that would make her super attracted to me) when in reality she's one of the first women i've ever been with
i asked her if she'd like to have sex and she said she'd think about it, but she's worried that it's not gonna mean the same for me as it will for her or that it'll fuck everything up
we're going on an uni break soon, so she'll have time to think
my question is: do i wait and see what she says (suspense is fucking killing me) or do i come clean and tell her i lied about my past? will that actually make it better? how to convince her? what do you think she'll say?
any help appreciated! thank you very much in advance!!!
If the lie happened right at the beginning of you talking to her, come clean and tell her you were nervous and trying to impress her.
If you had been talking for a while already then admitting this might make her unable to trust you again.
Also, never tell this lie again. No woman, no matter how slutty, wants to be just another notch on your belt. They all want to feel special.
>>16946195
i totally understand, but that's precisely my doubt
i really think she'll stop trusting me if i tell her the truth, but i just don't know
what do you think she'll say?
and no, obviously i'll never do that shit again
>>16946146
>we gave each other bjs
wow are you sure it's actually a girl?
but really I think you are overthinking it
You're telling us you are meeting a girl a few times a month, making out, doing oral, and she won't have sex with you? In that case the issue is 100% on her side, she is just finding dumb excuses to not fuck IMO. Like, it would mean a lot for her to have sex with you, but blowing you is totally fine?
I mean in my experience, if the girl is sexually active, there is never a big gap between making out, getting her excited as fuck and actually fucking, it just ends up happening naturally with well-adjusted girls. So I don't think that you lying about being a player has anything to do with that
If I get therapy and am diagnosed with depression, is that put on a health record or anything? Would this make it harder to buy a gun. Pic unrelated.
>>16946121
probably, which is why you should never talk to psych doctors, especially if you want to be a gun owner
what kind of guns are you looking to purchase?
>>16946121
In the US? Absolutely not. The only mental health disqualifiers are noted in question 11f on your 4473:
Have you ever been adjudicated mentally defective (which includes a determination by a court, board, commission, or other lawful authority that you are a danger to yourself or to others or are incompetent to manage your own affairs) OR have you ever been committed to a mental institution? (See Instructions for Question 11.f.)
Boom.
>>16946126
Fun fact: in Illinois I am civilly, criminally, and professionally immune from any claims arising from me NOT making a report. Gotta love the NRA being subtle.
>>16946121
No unless you try to harm yourself.
There is this girl who "goes" to the college I go to (she takes one class, but hangs out there a lot). Shes fucking annoying and is friends with a couple of my friends... those couple of friends always bring her a long when we hang out and the rest of us are annoyed by it... shes the worst person, human garbage who is just wasting her life away doing nothing, dating losers and going no where, all while having this laid back attitude, like shes fine with leeching off of other people. The teachers who know her are very friendly with her, and its annoying because I have had classes with her in them, she makes me wonder if college even means anything if people like her can skate through like its nothing and get praised for basically doing nothing.
I want to know how me and my friends can get her to fuck off, or get people to realize shes just a stoner loser, especially since I don't want her slutty ass at my friend's bacholorette party... What do I do?
Aww, are you jealous?
You're the reason for the phrase "haters gonna hate". It's college not high school, grow up.
>>16946140
shes a piece of shit though, shes lazy, untalented, has no sense of shame, spoiled, and literally cares about nothing nor other people, all she cares about is herself. Friends always pay for her even though she has money, she does nothing worthy of praise yet always gets it. Christ she had a group of people crowding around her, because she was playing with one of those finger skateboards trying to do tricks with it while baked. I have 3 guy friends who bug me to hook them up with her, even though she has a track record of just dumping guys when shes bored of being in a relationship and puts no effort into anything... how does a loser like her have so many people who like her.
Ok, so I have this relativily new gf, we've been together for almost 2 months now. Tonight, we had sex, and she came, intensively, and afterwards we went to shower together. Now, I thought it would be fun to try fooling around in the shower (we haven't done that yet before), so I slowly started kissing her under the shower, letting my fingers wander on her body...and eventually started fingering her. She started to enjoy it too, until suddenly she said that she wasn't feeling well, and she almost fainted too, and we had to sit down on bathroom floor. It took some time for her to feel ok again, and she seemed to be very embarrased about that, and apologized. I told her that no reason for that, really, but I dunno if she still believed me. Afterwards she left quite quickly (we were at my place), and seemed a bit strange to me. Should I be worried somehow?
Yes, you should be worried. Sounds like the relationship is over and she's no longer into you
>>16946092
No she's embarrassed that she fell ill, especially during sexy time with her relatively new boyfriend, and probably just wanted to go home and rest.
>>16946092
this is a tell tale sign of her cucking you with tons of other dudes
buy a gun, they will likely be coming for you soon
My breath stinks. I've been brushing my teeth and tongue, and I've used some Colgate mouthwash titled 'for bad breath'. It always starts stinking after about 3 hours, and I also haven't eaten any food since then. What do I do to make my breath better, anything I can use or make it smell like something really nice other than mint or a hospital?
>>16946072
Drink more water. You might be dehydrated.
Or maybe you suffer from tonsil stones, or chronic acid reflux.
>>16946074
None of those things. I drink a little water throughout the day so I'm not dehydrated but I'm not drinking tons of water either
Tongue scrapers. Check if eating something sugary reduces odor. Stop with the mouthwash. Try a different toothpaste. Ask a doctor.
Are you from Frankfurt by any chance?
Can anyone to relate?
I've always been very gentle -natured since my childhood, almost docile, but not in a sense that I would let people use me for their own benefit, I usually cut all contact at that point before I let that happen.
I don't held grudges or talk shit about my coworkers behind their back, or criticize my friends behind their back, or even just gossip around about anyone's business.
I had really drastic ego-death experiences during my 20s with LSD and MDMA and it made me feel almost universal love towards almost every living being. Sadly, those experiences just made me feel more alienated around my peers.
People like to talk shit all the time about everyone. Coworkers talk shit about other coworkers, about my boss. Friends talk shit about friends etc and gossip about their (private) business.
Usually those people who criticize and talk shit about people behind their backs to you, will probably do so about you when you are not around. This cycle depresses me more and more and has alienated me from my social circle in general through the years.
Most of my coworkers almost hate me for this thing. They think probably that I have some "holier than thou" -attitude that I don't generally banter (friendly or unfriendly) about anyone and tend to keep to myself.
I fried my brain with acid and eastern mysticism too long ago and everyday I get up and leave my house it's like entering some utopian Reptilian world where everyone is in a hurry to not care about hurting feelings and rights of others. It's make you just more nihilistic in the long run, even though you find may some absolute gems on your journey, that is, my closest friends.
Generally, from my experience, people who think they are "too nice" are anything but. Have you considered that you might actually just be insufferable and holier-than-thou like you said?
>>16946042
You know people talk shit all the time about other people BUT they don't take it as serious as you do. People fight and make up. People like sone things about you just as they don't like some things about you.
It's human nature to gossip and talk behind the back of other people while not thinking much about it.
Because even when talking shit most people don't take it seriously and will still like their friend/coworker etc as much as they did before.
You just take things to serious and are hurt by the imagination about people talking shit about you. That's the only reason that made you lose your friends and social contacts.
find a new career perhaps? These people sound like they hate their jobs. It does kind of suck knowing most people arn't real and honest beings. Makes you trust less and less but if you're not such a prick then surely there must be others like yourself. Or like the other mentioned maybe you're one of those narcissists who wont stfu about how kind they are to others hope not
So I have quite a few mental problems and I have this theory that I have them because my spine is crooked as fuck (especially on my neck) which causes irregular blood flow in my head. Is it possible this is true? If it is, can seeing a chiropractor help? Is there anything else I can do to straighten my spine?
>>16945998
Blood does not enter your brain through the spinal column (at least not primarily) it could be an issue draining waste products from but that also seems unlikely. If you're hung up on your pet theory see a neurologist and ask them about it before you ask a chiropractor to unfuck your spine.
>>16946025
Well he should get his spine unfucked either way.
>>16945998
The neck does contain arteries that supply blood to the brain. So it's possible. I've heard that tight neck muscles can actually reduce blood flow to the brain no joke. It happened to me my neck is fucked.
Answering questions about dandruff, skin care, foot fungus, UTI's, ingrown toenails, tattoos, periods, anal sex, etc sex, contraceptives, and relationships. Can't help you with piercings, pregnancy or STDs.
1.How to have a good skin?
2.How to have a good relationship?
>>16945981
Why does my face look better when I drink alcohol the night before? It looks significantly, significantly better. And how can I make it look like that all the time without being an alcoholic?
>>16945981
Good skin please
For the next 6 weeks i won't have any electricity and i'm not sure how to cook and how to keep my apartment warm. It's just one big room + bathroom and the isolation is pretty bad.
Not quite sure how safe it would be to use a camping cooker inside and i don't want to get in trouble with my neighbours.
Any advice would be welcome
>>16945859
Why won't you have electricity?
>>16945862
I didn't pay my bills, they piled up and now it's too late. If i change my provider it will take at least 6 weeks
>>16945882
Is that even legal? The 6 weeks part, I mean
