>>16944861
It was always a thought in the back of my mind with the others i have met, but i never felt a connection like this with any of them.

cant exactly give you advice if i dont know what went wrong in the first relationship..

>>16944869
Long story short, it turned into a entirely physical relationship on her end, only wanting the D, then she claimed rape when we went south, and fucked my friends and then started humping the neighbor, who turned out to be her ex, and i just never knew, and no one ever said anything. If you desire more ill go into it, but I honestly just dont feel like typing it all out.
I lost my screen caps of it when i went to a new comp or i would post them and make life easy for you and i.

>>16944831
>should i tell his therapist?
what are you 12, secondly like his therapist would actually listen to you, if anything that sort of behavior may even cause a therapist with a sense of humor to inception him out of being your friend. But who am i kidding you are just some nosy asshole up in someone elses business so why the hell would you listen to me ?

>>16944852
Thanks for the warning, friend. I have a diagnosis of my own. I didn't feel comfortable doing that in my imagination.

I just hate to see him think he has aspergers and not know what to do with himself. That's not me being an asshole.

>>16944852
>>16944855
I guess I should try bring it to him next time he's asking me for help with it.

>>16944824

>>16944847

1,260 lesbian vs 1,147 according to good reads & good reads has most every book
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>>16944810
Go to uni

I'm not very smart and last time I was too depressed to get out of bed. I never made it to class in the morning. And I had no friends, no purpose.

>>16944828
I can't actually help you but this is where I am now. I miss classes even with plenty of sleep because I just don't get out of bed. No motivation. No friends.

>>16944748
Prostitution

>>16944748
>dosh
>apartment

You mean flat.

male:
> making apps

female:
> making apps
> camwhoring

I suppose it would be too much to ask, for you to go outside

You try to find out why you obsess over somebody that clearly doesn't think you are bf material. You try to find out why she thinks you aren't. Then you ponder hard over this and make APPROPRIATE changes. Usually it boils down to low self-worth.

>>16944740
Don't get involved.

>>16944780
Deep. Not OP but I appreciate this comment. Having a hard time moving past a casual fuck that didn't want more, and this made things slot into place. Thanks

You're still in an ok position, just follow up with a call and explain you're interested in her but seriously, and not in a way where you might take advantage of her depression

You cried yourself to sleep over a chick? You need to get mentally tougher and not give a fuck.

>>16944744
It's an exaggeration/figure of speech. I felt like an absolute fucking retard though, that part is true.

I'm at a similar place in life and I'm considering becoming a CNC operator/programmer. I was great at programming in high school and I like to build things. Apparently those jobs are in pretty huge demand and they pay well. Same goes for OTR truckers, but that comes with a specific lifestyle. I've also considered welding and locksmithing.

Also how much more am I limited if I only have 2k saved up and can't drive?

>>16944766
A lot. 2k is okay for backup savings but having a reliable vehicle and the ability to drive is pretty important, unless you happen to find a job on a quick bus route. Are you currently working full time? I'm at a dead end restaurant job working 40-60 hours per week and I can afford my own apartment. If you're with your parents still, try saving something like $400 a month and once you have a comfortable cushion, buy a craigslist beater car.

>>16944704
keep yourself busy with other things
don't let yourself be alone

>>16944704

Exercise. Find something to do other than masturbate. Most men masturbate before bed cause it gets them tired enough to fall asleep, replace that with push-ups, or read a book till you doze off. That's how I got off it.

You're just being a prude. You don't have any drive or motivation anyway.

Just let it go. It's like you're trying to bring up drama where there doesn't need to be any.

Let it rest. Does it affect your relationship in any way? What would the benefit be of telling her?
I know the feel. I'm all for honesty and not keeping secrets. I know how it van make you feel separated from one another. But those things have a place and a time. You don't seem to be ready to tell her, so don't force it. Maybe one day you will tell her and you both laugh over it. But now doesn't seem to be the right time. She want's to spend the rest of her life with you. If you hooked up with a milf once should NOT have that much of an impact. There...
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>>16944682
What happened before you met does not count. Don't ask her about her past and don't tell her about yours.

>>16944660
he was acting more normal today. i didn't see him in person, but through text.

lately he has been yelling at me more, that's why i feel lke he might break up wih me and ive been expecting the worse. on our anniversary, he seemed really unhappy andi kept asking him why, he said he wasjust tired. then eventualy on the car ride home he snapped and screamed at me in a way that was scary.

he said he wouldn't let it affect us the night before after i finally got him to talk to me, but im scared...
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>>16944664
you both sound completely toxic.

even in your clearly edited version of these events, i can see how crazy and jealous you are.

and i can also see that he's the same way.

get one of your friends to kiss him or something. an eye for an eye. you guys sound just petty enough for something like that to work.

>>16944672
i am pretty jealous over him, its true. im trying to not be like that anymore, you know?

i mean i wouldn't call how he feels about what happened jealousy. he probably feels betrayed. but i think hes overreacting because i broke up with him, i could have done a lot worse, most girls wouldn't tell him-part of me wishes i never told him...

and no that would never work ha. mybe he is jealous. idk. he seems mad/jealous when i was ordering my food from the waitor wen we went out to eat and stuff...
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leave a note telling somebody where you're going in case you get shanked or whatever. seriously.

>>16944561
You could ask to meet at a public location. Maybe bring a friend. Make sure the device turns on before you pay for it.

>>16944561
It's probably stolen. Much more likely someone stole it and wants a quick dollar than someone using a psp as bait for their blood lust vampire rituals, you're not lucky enough to find anything that interesting.

I hope this is bait. Really dude?
I love my bf to bits, but when i'm horny and he's not around i watch all sorts of stuff. Get over it. It's just her (weird) fetish.

>>16944522
What would make you more comfortable about her fetish?

>>16944539
Oh, and to add:
You could make vids like that for her too. I tend to get turned on the most when something about a guy reminds me of my bf cause it's more "relatable".

>>16944492
one in the hand is worth 2 in the bush.

>>16944492
What type of future do you forsee with the long distance girl?

Bruh, stick with the long distance. Don't simply jump because of a new chick pops up.

Think anon. What exactly does that say about the worth of your long distance relationship if you just leave?

>>16944476
It's an AAS yeah I know. I'm doing something similar but desu I already was working in it when I went to get something more formal.

What I mean is, at least the way I see it, is that college and education are really only there to reinforce what you're already interested in and are doing on your own.

It's why the people who succeed are usually the ones that are already doing shit beforehand(self taught programmers, tinkerers, artists, etc)

I dunno, in the end your success is...
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>>16944485
and don't give me that "MUH DEPRESSION" bullshit because we can pull out all the people who attribute their musical success to it.

>>16944489
What do they teach you?