>starts lifting
>is considering self help

it IS a fucking gateway drug, next thing you know you'll want to "inspire" people with your generic bullshit.

It's just people writing stuff down that they think helped them on a personal level. Aslong as you don't see them as guides you have to follow religiously but instead take one or two things with you that peaked your interest you're good. Look at it like you see /adv/. Juat a bunch of other idiots that think they have the secret to everything. Everybody knows stuff about a topic that you don't know yet and that might be helpfull for your own happiness/success/wellbeing. Sometimes it's things you aready do/know, but seeing it written out and in order is...
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>>16944527
Helpful, thanks.

Helium

>>16944472
Pick some form of exercise, running or lifting or swimming or trecking or riding or something.

Do it untill you puke.

Everyday for a week.

It's less painful than killing yourself.

You will most likely feel slightly better, good enough to move on to fixing your shitty brain, which is causing you pain for no logical reason.

Dude, don't kill yourself. Life gets better I promise. I know I sound like one of those faggot liars that just says that, but seriously senpai, you can make it better. No one can help you but yourself. For realz tho, you'll get through this (:

Don't beat yourself up over it (figuratively or literally). Relapses happen. There really isn't anything quite like that endorphin rush and feeling of release from cutting, so even while you may know it's not cool, the urge to do it can be pretty powerful. Sounds like you have chronic stressors and then the acute stressor of your camera bag going missing was the straw that broke the camel's back. You're reverting to destructive ways of coping because your regular ways are insufficient, and in the past, the cutting seemed to get you through.

How...
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>>16944464
If you want a girlfriend, let me give you some advice and tell you there's nothing more unattractive in a man for a woman to know that he cuts himself either for attention or out of emasculation. My advice? Fucking. Stop. Now.

>>16944499
This.

Plus.... not just unattractive to women but unattractive to everyone.

No employer is going to consider a cutter or special snowflake for a real job that pays good money. They see you as unreliable and unstable.

Likewise friends see someone who cuts as weird and they avoid getting you involved in their normal activities, worried you'll flip out or hurt yourself over some minor meaningless drama.

Cut yoUr Nonsense ouT.

>>16944456
Just the one you're sticking in her. Godspeed OP.

Don't eat anything heavy.
Poop and pee everything out before.
Stretch!
Have water, towels and wipes ready.
It's lower than you think.
Bring condoms and wear them.

>>16944456
Never verbally ask her for anything, just do it. Never ask to change positions, and for the love of god do not let her take control in bed.

I have to take a shower before I go to bed here. I'll be back to check your replies in 15 or so.

You need help. Seek therapy or support groups in your area. Do you have a friend or family member that you trust that can hold on to your paychecks and your debit/credit cards?

You may feel that this is how your life will be forever, but it doesn't have to be. You are almost halfway in changing things around - knowing you have a problem. You don't have to wait until you hit your rock bottom to start to make a change in your life. The next steps will be hard, but you can fucking do it. You need support and not people in your life to enable your habit and take advantage of it.

>>16944452
It feels impossible but people obviously come through. Thanks for your encouragement.

I think part of the fear comes from having been laughed at and ridiculed to my face by these men and taking it politely and laughing along with them (which made it only funnier for them) because I was afraid they'd stop. I was afraid they'd stop taking my money. That is so humiliating I cannot describe it.

>>16944405
send them a cease and de-cyst order

or see a doctor and stop asking 4chan for advice that requires a medical license

>>16944413
Kek

But I've already seen a doctor for 3 years with no results and more treatments than I can count, I am asking if people have found anything through their own experiences.

>>16944405
in general, cysts come back if they've been drained but the sac remained in there. if you dermatologist wasn't properly removing them, you had a shit dermatologist.

I wonder the same. ;-;
>bump

>>16944400
Maybe if you had sex you'd know.

>>16944400
Lack of emotional attachment and/or high libido.

>>16944369
Do what you want. It seems this specific girl has lots of cons. You've already had 4 or 5 chances.
Another will come and then you will too.

>>16944390
Ayyy

>>16944369
your problem is that you re being too picky about what you see in a girl, I can honestly say that looks don't make the relationship.
you need to be accepting of other peoples intrests/personalitys and shit.

It's not strange in my opinion, especially if it's a fat woman who smells like a bag of SICK.

I'm sick of these fat moaning holes, they need razors stropped on their fucking blubber, they need their teeth hammered out, whores, voids.

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>>16944367
I usually smile and say hello, all cute and alpha like. Pic totes related.

>>16944355
Whoa chill, its just a car and money.

7.5 is heaps for a car anyway if you're talking dollars, just get a second hand one.

>>16944366
Without a car I can't keep going to my shit job. I've tried looking for a week solid and everything is marked up 10k and beyond so it literally doesn't matter where I look, that's the baseline. As of now I have 3k. I'm pretty sure my insurance will come through but the third party holding my car may be holding it hostage because they don't like that I took out my speakers from said wrecked car. They're after market so it shouldn't be any of their business.

>>16944376
shit happens. be glad you're not crippled from the accident.

>>16944296
Did you or your partner do it?

Probably they are bored in the relationship

Do more stuff together and make it exciting, if their attention is going to another person then you should try to put more effort into making your partner feel wanted, excited, ect ect.

I am a man in a relationship with the woman I am going to marry. We've bought a house together because of a particularly good deal coming up through family - it's that serious.

I've been away from her for a month, and she has been distant in terms of communication because she is very busy. I don't blame her. I love her and think she's perfect. But I struggle with depression, and it's never been as bad as it is right now.

I've started talking to another couple of girls to pierce through the loneliness and pain. If, in this situation,...
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>>16944384
Do I tell them I have a crush? It's stupid. I don't see this person and we only communicate through Facebook because they live on the other side of the country.

>>16944227
Aren't phones flash memory and thus unrecoverable?

I'd go to
>>>/g/

>>16944227
Bumping for OP.
Idk of any data recovery software for android phones, but the information most certainly should be recoverable. I'm pretty sure (I'm probably completely wrong) whatever data is deleted just gets marked as re-writable and only appears to be removed. As new data comes in it may begin to overwrite deleted data.

>>16944253
That seems to be the case, as long as you don't restart or update or install or do anything you can sometimes get it back. There are lots of services that claim to be able to recover them, for a pretty hefty fee.

>>16944208
If she's a friend she'll listen to you and do what she can to help. This has nothing to do with gender.

>>16944208
Not a girl, but dude, if she thinks any less of you because of that, that's a pretty shit fucking friend.

>>16944208
Cool if she's a friend.
Not cool if you're romantically interested in her (unless you're already partners)

>>16944176
You can decide your own reaction, man.

If you don't want to be with her, make the decision. It'll hurt, but you'll recover if you want to.

You can't get out of this with no damage, that's unrealistic.

You don't own your girl's body. get over that now.

How old are you?

>>16944181
too old to be doing something foolish like this.

I know I'm being manipulative and probably terrible. I just have to figure out a way out.

>>16944180
You're right. I think the sooner I remove myself the better. I'm living a fairy tale and it's totally unfair to both of us.

>>16944162
Stop acting like a shithead, they don't hate you for no reason.

>>16944202
Thank you

get people to try and physically abuse you. record it, and then file a restraining order on the people in the household. They won't be able to come back for two years.