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Hello /adv/, first thread here for me.
I just coughed really hard, I have been coughing a lot for the past week, and it feels like something in my throat went up.
No idea what that is, and it's not really painful, but it feels like a part of me is permanently stuck in the wrong way in my throat.
I'm looking for insight about this, if I should do something or if it will fix itself.
Sorry if I'm in the wrong board for this. Pic unrelated.
>>16943056
>I'm looking for insight about this, if I should do something or if it will fix itself.
Doctor.
>>16943065
Ok, is it urgent or not so much? I have an oral exam tomorrow and will need to talk quite a bit too.
>>16943056
Never heard anything like that.
>is it urgent
Depends on if you want to risk suffocation in middle of oral exam or not.
Go see doctor.
Can you top that?
>be me
>19
>ugly as fuck
>already balding so my forehead looks like airport
>big jewish nose
>acne that wont go away after 3+years of treatment with all sorts of meds
>sweating like a waterfall
>really shitty build,not fat but cant get a v taper because my pelvics are fucking wide
>wide hips make my torso looks 1/4 the size of my legs
>dick isnt event 5 inches
>never loved
>was never loved, even my parents were just comparing me to others and telling how not good i am
>talentless, just average at everything
>no dreams and thinking about future is mostly what to do for breakfast
Why have i been born
>>16943037
I can easily top that, but what's the point?
>>16943052
To get it off your chest if you want, anon
I can, basically everything you said, but older, not balding, never had a dad, and was constantly abused by my mother because I was an "evil man" because I was born with a penis.
So I had a girlfriend for two years and she was as good to me as possible but I took her for granted and she left me. I cut contact with her for a little bit but now we're talking again as friends.
I still am not over her and want her back.We were texting last night and she sent me a bunch of hearts and this morning I asked if she meant to send them to me and she said yes and then I just brushed it off and changed the subject but she hasnt replied since.
Now I feel like if I call her and talk to her about it, she might want to get back together. This is great. But. The only thing is is that I met a really hot girl who wants to fuck my brains out tomorrow who I have no attachment to. It would just be a one-time thing.
If I go through with this girl then I'm going to have to explain it to my ex if we get back together and I can't put off asking my ex about how she feels because she 'll know somethings up even worse.
Do I have to choose between them? If we are still technically broken up is it wrong?
>>16943022
Sounds like you're not ready for a relationship at all
Don't do it just for a now thing, unless you're really not bothered about the gf you say you want back
>>16943036
I know I love my ex with all my heart and I know she hasnt fucked around since she left me but my dick keeps arguing with my brain. It really seems like a once-in-a-lifetime chance with this other chick but I know my gf is more valuable. I keep trying to rationalize it because we're not together anymore but I always though "if I had my ex then not even a hundred virgins could tempt me" but now I feel like God is testing me!
>>16943060
*thought
I kind of want to have a threesome with my GF. She's very sexual, she likes all kind of attention to her body. I think it would be incredibly hot to see her reacting to an extra set of hands touching her, two mouths on her tits, two cocks inside her at once, etc.
Am I just going to ruin our relationship if I ask? It's not a big deal to me if it never happens. Would it be a huge turnoff for you if your guy suggested that he wanted to share you with another guy?
Inb4 "cuckfag" I really don't care if you insult me.
>you'll never have a threesome with one of the best Doctors in the history
>>16943012
I'm female and this is my fetish. Ask her! I bet she'd love it!
I believe there has been made a few threads about this subject before, and I believe they all ended very poorly when OP went through with it (regardless of gender composition).
However I suppose it all depends on who you are, who your girlfriend is, and how you'll handle it together.
My girlfriend [F/18] have been dating for almost 4 months, we started dating around January 8th. Anyway I have been mostly happy with her despite us having a rough patch after I found out she had (what she told me) slept with around 26 guys in the 3 months before she met me. I somehow managed to get past this because after all she was a pretty good girlfriend.
Now here's the fuck up. Last night I was staying at hers and had to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, I took her phone to use her flashlight. While in the bathroom I got too curious and made a bad after-1pm decision; I went through her phone. I saw she still had contacts and convos of people she fucked, about 6 in total in her messages tab with nothing before November. The sexual parts of the convos (asking each other to come over) were mostly around december, but a couple were smack bang right around January 8th, when we started dating. Even more disturbing was this one message from her;
Her: Sorry I was late I couldn't find the place
This was on January 27th.
I should have stopped here but I kept on going, I re-downloaded tinder which she said she deleted about 2 weeks after we started dating. She had about 109 matches in a 3 month period, I started going through each convo and saw her organizing fucks, dates and dirty talk. What really stood out was the fact there were 10 convos after mine, and all were around the same november/decebember/early january dates. I counted up all of them and it was way more than 26 guys, at least 40, all within a 3 month period.
I put the phone down and left.
I really really regret this, I know I shouldn't have.
I just feel sick, I don't feel special or like she really values me. What should I do? I don't think I can even look at her right now.
Break up, move on.
so she was fucking other dudes before you?
grow up anon
you arent special, nobody fucking is but if she isnt sleeping with any other dudes but you whats the problem? if shes being loyal to you then she must think youre special
>>16943059
"nobodys special" wow, no shit? What is this shit site, you come here for advice and all you get are these cringy obese badasses hiding behind their keyboards. How about being mature about it? wow
Hey /adv/, tech newfag here. I have a PC with an fx-8370 @ 4.5 GHz, and a gtx 770. I'm hearing that dx12 will improve performance with amd processors and graphics, but I want to be able to play games like Arma 3 at above 35 fps, which probably won't see dx12 support. Should I try to sell my processor and motherboard for an i5, or try to sell my 770 for an amd card to match my processor?
>fx-8370 @ 4.5 GHz
AMD CPU's are cheaper than Intel, but that is the only advantage.
>gtx 770
That is solid GPU
>I'm hearing that dx12 will improve performance with amd processors
You are hearing business talk. That means nothing until proven otherwise.
http://www.techspot.com/review/712-arma-3-benchmarks/page4.html
it says here you should have (DX11 Ultra) 48 FPS which sounds good to me.
If you want to upgrade something, start with getting Intel CPU with highest frequency. (more cores doesn't mean better performance for games, frequency does).
Goto into launcher setting and check core usage. Also look into a program called cpucores. Its too convenient to let it reduce cpu priority through the OS and increase priority to the game specifically. There are other free programs but cpucores is just so much easier as a one click solution. Also I have a fx8350 with a R9 290x. I get 73fps. Sounds like you got a background process hogging resources.
>>16943702
Just generally though, it seems like the Intel processors can do shit like emulation better, and is significantly better at CPU intensive games, even at the same price point. I dunno, if I could sell my 8370 and the mobo, and get a 6600k and a mobo for $100-$150 more, is it worth the investment.
Any good 4Chan readers for Android? I tried clover, but it's pretty shitty
>>16942957
Clover for me is the best, are you using the one with the green layout?
>>16943073
Not sure, because I don't use it, prefer chrome browser. Which green layout one is this though?
It's the version 2.1.3
My friend met up with some fuckboi on Tinder, she picked him up from 25 minutes away, only to have him finger her 16 year old Sister, and then steal over ~$60 dollars in cash/weed while everyone was asleep. He was gone by 7am.
Stupidly, we all have the dumbfucks address. He has ignored everyones messages and claims to not have stolen anything, but he was the only one out of 3 other people we didnt have years of knowledge of.
I was thinking of just doing the Classic 'Egging' but I want something more annoying. I was thinking Goof-Off sprayed all over the front of the house, and maybe throwing birdseed every fucking crevice possible.
>>16942952
The police????
>>16942952
Seems it was deserved. Your friend and her sister sound like retarded sluts.
>>16942982
She fell asleep, and her sister is kind of a slut. She apparently told him no to fingering, but he eventually got his hands down there.
The 'guy' was 19.
Ive seen this stuff before, but I dont want anyone else to see this kind of stuff on the internet ever..
What do you usually do after youve seen something traumatic like that?
>traumatic
You need to toughen up. You're soft as hell.
Welcome to the real world, where bad things happen.
You basically do not watch things you don't want to see.
Pretty easy right?
>>16942934
And where people are so "toughen up" they don't react to anything at all.
Hey Guys, Last week i taught my cat how to use the computer. Now she is roaring away, earnestly looking up her own you-tubes & creating a whole deal of 'new' folders with titles such as ">///aah".... & "wasfffffffffffffffgggggg"...... So i want to buy her a new rig, something expensive, but one thats cat friendly. Bottomline tho, i eventually wanna hook us up to a lan so we can play multiplayer games together, as well as, mmo's and such. Anyone have any ideas?... The computer she is using now is an asus laptop, which is what i use currently. She is very proficient in surfing the net.
meow.
Meyaw
here lemme get her on.... >>//k;l;laaaaaaa ... .......That means she likes the advice, thank you.
I've been in a rut for the past two years or so. I am currently halfway through my graduate program, but I haven't been feeling as motivated as I would like to. Don't get me wrong, I was excited to start graduate school, but the timing of life events have made this an experience quite difficult to succeed in.
I was dumped one week prior to starting my grad program after being in the relationship for six years because I was too quiet and introverted. I have been amicable with my ex since then, who has been suffering from depression for a while. I still have feelings towards him, but he doesn't. I also still harbor resentment after he cheated on me during the relationship. I tried my best to help restore the relationship following the incident, but with no avail.
I've been feeling quite lonely for last year or so, trying to foster friends and relationships that I lost during the last seven years. I want deep connections with people, but it has been quite difficult.
Most days than not I feel like I'm dragging my feet to get my life together and try to be more financially and emotionally independent. I know I need to reconnect with who I am since most of my identity was lost during those six years in my past relationship. However, it's been quite difficult for me.
Any advice in helping me get out of a rut?
Smoke weed
>>16942873
schedule the 'fun' as well as the work. most people sit down and write out a schedule and do all they need to do, then they just crash and relax. which is nice. but at least 1/3 of that time should go to doing something you really want to do. wehther its hanging out with friends, or going out or what have you.
also no matter how long the relationship you shouldnt let it effect your real life. make that your life lesson. no one cares if you got dumped. you get a 'day' to be mopey in the outside world. after that you gotta get back into it without skipping a beat.
the outside world cant pander to everyone who had a break up
>>16942884
That scheduling bit might help. I just need to get my mind into being productive and actually do it. I'm easily distracted.
I want to learn how to drive a car, but my anxiety is holding me back from taking lessons, and my mom refuses to teach me.
How to overcome the anxiety of lessons? There would be 18.5 hours of classroom theory, as well as nine 90-minute road lessons.
I'm not so much anxious about driving on the road as I am about having appointments and driving with a stranger.
>>16942858
>How to overcome the anxiety
By stopping being a weak OP. You either want to or don't. Choose one. Stop being weak willed.
Learning to drive is pretty anxiety-inducing, I know. You just need to take it one step at a time. I can't speak for the driving experiences in other countries, as I live in the US, but if you can, try to get a friend or someone you trust that has a car to help out. Practicing in unoccupied parking lots could help, as that's what a lot of my friends did. Would anything along those lines be possible for you? The key is to become comfortable with handling a vehicle.
Anxiety about operating a vehicle with a instructor won't really go away, and is pretty normal for anyone of any age.
>>16942858
You have your anxieties all screwed up then senpai.
I got my license and car in November and I've already been in two close shaves that weren't my fault. First was a guy indicating when he had no intention of turning and almost slamming into my side. Second was a faggot with a trailer slamming his breaks infront of me while merging onto a freeway.
The road's a fuckin dangerous place. Full of idiots. Have to take every precaution you can or fall foul of them.
Anyway just go do it. No ones going to bite you.
Does anyone here know of any small UK-based oil and gas companies?
I've been applying for a Year In Industry as part of my uni degree but i'm having no luck :(
any help is appreciated :)
>>16942856
>Does anyone here know of any small UK-based oil and gas companies?
Oil and gas are dead right now. No need to train new people when you are laying people off.
>>16943398
I understand but do you not think its even worth for just a placement? Surely it'll get better again soon
can we get an infographic thread? Im mainly looking for things like lock-picking, breaking into a locked vehicle, hot-wiring, shit like that.
>>16942849
I don't think so, Jamal.
one thing my boyfriend wishes i could do is to "push" him to better his habits.
some things i know he wants:
>finding a better, less stressful job
>to be more fit, more healthy
>quitting his smoking/drug habits
>be more positive/happy
i guess he's asking this because he sees all these things in me. but i really don't know how to go about this. i'm afraid of looking like a nag or having him ending up resenting me. he has fairly low self-esteem and tends to be negative and get frustrated easily... but he's very hard working and seems like he genuinely wants change.
he's gotten much better with his attitude and overall positivity on his own, and he says it's because of me walking into his life. (i have literally done nothing though, except just try to be a good girlfriend)
should i just let him be and maybe he'll find his own way to his goals? maybe if he observes my habits a bit better, he might catch on? what are some things i can do to encourage him to get on the path to where he wants to be in life?
before anyone asks, yes, he is a wonderful boyfriend and all he ever does is encourage and support me. he's incredibly kind, honest, thoughtful and considerate, which is why i'm with him.
>>16942840
Is he asking you to help him?
>>16942861
yes, he's asked me twice now actually.
>>16942840
>life gets better because of a grill
you should teach him to be independent regardless of his goals, cuz as it is he sounds like one of those pathetic fags who falls apart cuz no gf
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