dilemma
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So I had a girlfriend for two years and she was as good to me as possible but I took her for granted and she left me. I cut contact with her for a little bit but now we're talking again as friends.
I still am not over her and want her back.We were texting last night and she sent me a bunch of hearts and this morning I asked if she meant to send them to me and she said yes and then I just brushed it off and changed the subject but she hasnt replied since.
Now I feel like if I call her and talk to her about it, she might want to get back together. This is great. But. The only thing is is that I met a really hot girl who wants to fuck my brains out tomorrow who I have no attachment to. It would just be a one-time thing.
If I go through with this girl then I'm going to have to explain it to my ex if we get back together and I can't put off asking my ex about how she feels because she 'll know somethings up even worse.
Do I have to choose between them? If we are still technically broken up is it wrong?
>>16943022
Sounds like you're not ready for a relationship at all
Don't do it just for a now thing, unless you're really not bothered about the gf you say you want back
>>16943036
I know I love my ex with all my heart and I know she hasnt fucked around since she left me but my dick keeps arguing with my brain. It really seems like a once-in-a-lifetime chance with this other chick but I know my gf is more valuable. I keep trying to rationalize it because we're not together anymore but I always though "if I had my ex then not even a hundred virgins could tempt me" but now I feel like God is testing me!
>>16943060
*thought
Can I get some more peoples thoughts on this? Or is the first anon right?