>>16942203
Ask yourself why he feels the need to rebel

smash his xbox

/pol/ needs to fuck off back to its containment board.

>community college
>taking it seriously
It's like high school 2.0, Anon. At some point you're going to have to be able to succeed at a big boy school.

>>16942177
I'm fully aware.

That's kinda the problem, I feel trapped here and I don't want to turn into one of those directionless community college people. I also have this fear that by being there I've reduced myself to doing nothing better than some dead end engineering job designing air conditioning units for the rest of my life just because of some bad choices I made in my late teens/early twenties.

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>>16942194
Quit crying like a bitch, OP.

Literally all you need to do is do well in CC and then transfer to a big boy school and do well there also. It's not rocket science.

>>16942161

That's real fuckin' neato, kid.

>>16942161
isn't this copy pasta, i forgot about this one.

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>>16942161
This why you dont get involved with minors

>pic related

Oh and thanks for any and all replys. Hope you guys have good weeks.

>>16942155
>I feel more and more angry
okay
>what my best friend did to me
okay
>Essentially she got a boyfriend
wait
>Essentially she
>she
>best friend

you have a good reason to be angry
you're angry at yourself for being deceived for so long
females cant be good friends m8
take it as a lesson - I can't...
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Stop crying like a bitch and move on with your life.

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bumping

I've read every article on gf recovery, get ex back etc

i don't want to look desperate or needy, but i can't stop beating myself up for not being able to control my emotions.

Are there any self help books or articles any of you can recommend?

Dude, it is over. You are being pathetic. Acknowledge this, talk about it with wise ppl you know irl or maybe even a therapist. You are not the first and also not the last to be in this situation but man up, accept the reality and leave her alone. Move on.

>>16942142
Except for the travel to Colombia, yours is a simple story. You fell for a girl, but a lot of time spent with her showed that the two of you were not as compatible as you hoped.

Exactly the same thing could have happened with a girl from your home town or school. And you would be unhappy that it didn't work out, but on one level grateful that you discovered that quickly and not after years of marriage.

The same is true here. There is nothing there to recapture. The romance is over. Regret it, learn...
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Fiverr.

>>16942103

postloop is great (although the pay isn't) I make about $7-8/day for about 90 minutes work. You get about $0.08-$0.11 per post depdning on the forum. Cashout is $5, and is always paid within 24 hours

I'd appreciate if you used ref link, but I'll include no-ref too

http://www.postloop.com/invite/Hedonologist
http://www.postloop.com

Oh so you want to do easy work and you dont think 3 billion ppl are looking for this kind of job too? All of my keks. Get a job lolol

Ask her out. Then when you're out together, flirt with her. If she flirts back then she likes you.

>>16942100
I'm in more of an observational state right now. I do plan on asking her out but I don't know what many of her interests are first so I don't want to ask her out then get stuck at "what do you want to do?" and in the meantime I want to get a better feel for her

Get your cock out. If she starts sucking it your in, if she screams and runs away there's a good chance she's not in to you.
Let me know how you get on.

I used to worry about it constantly in high school since I had no activities besides gaming and school. As time went on I realized it's not something my friends even think about, unless you're calling them like 5+ times in a row every day.

>>16942083
Most people are not in the charity business. If you were seriously boring or annoying they wouldn't spend any time with you. If they do spend time with you they must find your company enjoyable.

It really is that simple.

Not at all. People love having me around, and often seek me out to partake in my knowledge.

Full-stack software developer

You can't really just put "good with computers" on a resume. I'd advise going to school first and finding a field you're interested in.

>>16942078
Travelling computer guy

>>16942061
seems like all you have to do is smoke weed for a fun time and get easy pussy.

You should explore your curiosity if you've never tried it before. However I promise you right now that you're still going to not have a fun time and not get easy pussy. You know those people who act like their entire social lives are going to change when they get iPhones? That's exactly what you sound like. You're misattributing who your friends are to what their habits are. Don't do that.

Get comfortable around it, anyway. I don't see the problem, but I am a huge degenerate weed smoker. If you just wave it off and say it makes you uncomfortable and paranoid, no one will care.

That sounds like a bullshit degree. Major in CS and transfer out to get a bachelor's.

Go CS or straight IT for degree names. Netadmin sounds too constricting.

Look into CIS if you dont like math or programming.

>>16942087
>netadmin sounds too constricting
>literally every fucking place ever that uses computers requires net admins

>>16942054
>I don't know what to do with my life

end it, remember, you need to be above the 7th floor to guarantee death when you jump

I will remember that when I completely die on the inside.

>>16942054
If it was the other way around and your bf, who you love, had feelings for a close female friend - would you want him to leave you for her or stop talking to her altogether? Be honest.

Why do you have such a low interest?

>>16942031
Generally, I'm not all that sexually attracted to anyone. Some movies like Magic Mike have had an effect, and I do seem to get "the tingles" a bit when I look at nude women, but I've never "gushed" or anything like that over people in real life. Never wanted to ride the cock carousel, as /r9k/ would say, which definitely helped with my personal abstinence pledge.

But related to him, a good part of it is because of his appearance, I think. He's always been overweight (short...
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>>16942023
>See, I'm not sexually attracted to him. Like, at all.

That's weird, you know that right?

It suggests to me that you don't really see him as boyfriend material. When I read your story it sounds like you more see him as a cute needy kid than as husband material.

Are you older than him?

>>16942007

Adv is the polar opposite of /r9k/

Adv believes in dating single mothers and bringing up other men's children.

>>16942007
>>/adv/ considers the /r9k/ stereotype to be a universal truth.
Not quite. The /r9k/ stereotype only becomes universally true once the redpillers get their claws into a person and bitterness sets in.

People who suck at relationships, but have not yet become embittered, are a diverse lot. Their problems are still self-inflicted; that much IS universal. But there are lots of different problems one might have, and just as many ways to fix them.

But once bitterness sets...
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>>16942027
>Adv believes in dating single mothers and bringing up other men's children.
/adv/ sees nothing wrong with doing this, but it's quite a logical leap from seeing nothing wrong with the idea to "believing in it". To be the polar opposite of /r9k/ in this regard, we would have to actively encourage it. We do not, though we do not discourage it either. It's just another dating pool.

>>16942004
Well in my country the basic fire fighter test is 2km run pull ups and push ups .

>>16942004
pretty much, could you pick up someone with equal or more body weight than you?

but i would do a little research...

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>>16942353
If I had to.
I have done research but never found specifics, that's why I'm here.

>>16942081
>2km run pull ups and push ups.
You don't sound very coherent.

From this it
>implies
that the requirements are that you be able to do a pull up and a push up.

This is murica, I don't think it's that bad. I've heard from /fit/ there are volunteers who...
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